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Disadvantages Of Being Handsome by Nobody: 10:33am On Mar 12, 2015
1.) People take you to be soft.

It's no lie that handsome guys are really cute and tender, which makes girls find them attractive cos they believe a soft appearance-especially soft eyes- can appeal to their emotions. This tenderness, which ladies see as one of the elements of TLC, is actually a shortcoming when such guys relate with other guys. A rough looking dude will always feel he stands the advantage over a handsome one when it comes to a fight, even when the handsome dude looks physically fit for the fight. It's usually because he believes the handsome dude has a lot to lose in the fight, like his fine face, which might get scarred. Also, people always take your calm look to mean you are lazy.

2.) Girls believe you must be a womaniser.

They believe they are not the only females who find you attractive, so you must have countless girlfriends. It's true in some cases but mostly wrong. Some smashing handsome guys go without a girlfriend for months, even throughout a year. Not that they don't search, but girls turn them down, even when it's obvious these girls are so much into them; they just don't want to be cheated on.

3.) Ugly dudes are quick to call you useless cos you are broke

The reasoning of ugly nigerian guys has really made nigerian babes look like money hungry fellows. They believe all a naija babe wants is CAsh...caSH... cAsH, making it seem as if they can date an orrangutan monkey so long he's got money. Such guys are quick to rubbish looks. They even stupidly look down on an handsome campus boy cos he doesn't share in their money mentality. For God's sake, he's still a student.

4) You spend too much time taking care of yourself

You shave often, take care of your skin, avoid stress, eat well and wear nice clothes just cos you don't want to be seen as someone who has lost form by thesame people who have showered you with compliments. Some even go the extra mile by piercing their ears and trimming their eyebrows, what I call childishness or the wannabe attitude, cos you won't really need those extras if you are truly handsome.

5) People think you are gay

You better hang around girls more often, otherwise people will mistake you for a gay. Gays find handsome guys attractive and approach them the most. Handsome guys are often told to go into the gay game cos they believe they'll make it big.

6) they end up marrying average or ugly looking girls

Not that they couldn't find a beautiful girl to say yes to them, but they got carried away by the 150% love they got from average/ugly girls who threw themselves at them. Such a girl usually have substance like good behaviour, good cooking ability, puts him above all and also a good job and the ability to provide for herself and him, all she needs are just his eyes professing undying love for her. Can we blame the dude? He's seen it all in beautiful girls, whom he must have termed bimbos who bring nothing to the table other than their beauty.

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Re: Disadvantages Of Being Handsome by midolian(m): 10:36am On Mar 12, 2015
I STILL WANT TO BE HANDSOME

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Re: Disadvantages Of Being Handsome by Tallesty1(m): 10:42am On Mar 12, 2015
#TEAM FOREVER YOUNG
Re: Disadvantages Of Being Handsome by Nobody: 10:44am On Mar 12, 2015
Not my taste

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Re: Disadvantages Of Being Handsome by Nobody: 10:53am On Mar 12, 2015
brito:
Not my taste
you must be the girl below

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Re: Disadvantages Of Being Handsome by Nobody: 10:59am On Mar 12, 2015
Segeggs:
you must be the girl below





For your mind you handsome. get lost!

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Re: Disadvantages Of Being Handsome by Nobody: 11:09am On Mar 12, 2015
Points 1,2 and 3 are valid, I don't know about the other ones.

I've been accused on several occassions of being lazy 'cause of my look.

But they keep missing the point, I'm a damn hustler who loves to stay neat cheesy
Re: Disadvantages Of Being Handsome by sammieguze(m): 3:23pm On Mar 12, 2015
Eey.... Sorry.


Advantage of being ugly cheesy


AirborneLacer:
Points 1,2 and 3 are valid, I don't know about the other ones.

I've been accused on several occassions of being lazy 'cause of my look.

But they keep missing the point, I'm a damn hustler who loves to stay neat cheesy
Re: Disadvantages Of Being Handsome by williamspaul22(m): 4:14pm On Mar 12, 2015
True op, u re on point
Re: Disadvantages Of Being Handsome by Nobody: 4:38pm On Mar 12, 2015
Are you saying we should be ugly?
Re: Disadvantages Of Being Handsome by Nobody: 4:44pm On Mar 12, 2015
More

You are easily tag as "arrogant"

its hard to find true friends or girls who love you because of you.
Re: Disadvantages Of Being Handsome by Nobody: 4:46pm On Mar 12, 2015
rokiatu:
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You are easily tag as "arrogant"

its hard to find true friends or girls who love you because of you.


anytime i see dat ur yansh ehhhn i always dey jam my mirror cheesy.
ur ukwu is enough to cause major accidents in lagos highways cool
Re: Disadvantages Of Being Handsome by Nobody: 6:27pm On Mar 12, 2015
D1ck:
Are you saying we should be ugly?
post your pix let's see
Re: Disadvantages Of Being Handsome by Nobody: 8:08pm On Mar 12, 2015
I haven't experienced any of these. The only common thing I experience is when people try to speak straight English to me, doubting if I can speak pidgin... which I can fluently speak.



also, whenever I tell my guys I want to c someone down the street, they just assume its a girl.... even
though I honestly no get time for girls

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Re: Disadvantages Of Being Handsome by 2rhymestharap(m): 10:27pm On Mar 12, 2015
2 so true..... when i say am single it sounds so fake... cos im too goodlooking to be single... + am a womaniser... hat one day grin

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Re: Disadvantages Of Being Handsome by Nobody: 10:30pm On Mar 12, 2015
Are you implying it is a crime to be handsome ?
Re: Disadvantages Of Being Handsome by Nobody: 10:39pm On Mar 12, 2015
ur right op on ur points below the one that annoys me is that people start calling u a gay if u try to avoid women while if u start dating them they would say that u look like a womaniser this word ehh

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Re: Disadvantages Of Being Handsome by Cutehector(m): 10:41pm On Mar 12, 2015
Bisolarh:
Are you implying it is a crime to be handsome ?
u b fine babe
Re: Disadvantages Of Being Handsome by sexylogan(m): 10:42pm On Mar 12, 2015
Worwor guys go dey form Brad Pitt now undecided

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Re: Disadvantages Of Being Handsome by LewisO: 11:53pm On Mar 12, 2015
undecided
Re: Disadvantages Of Being Handsome by Nobody: 7:10am On Mar 13, 2015
*addition*

Girls wont let him be, his girlfriend wont be comfortable.
Re: Disadvantages Of Being Handsome by IamOpemipo(m): 7:37am On Mar 13, 2015
2 and 5 dunno abt d rest..
Re: Disadvantages Of Being Handsome by Penboy: 8:48am On Mar 13, 2015
Lolz... *waiting for disadvantages of being ugly*
Re: Disadvantages Of Being Handsome by phlio(m): 9:40am On Mar 13, 2015
op u r on point.I go thru all ds .....but am always proud n happy
Re: Disadvantages Of Being Handsome by G12(m): 9:50am On Mar 13, 2015
Listed above don't apply when you are handsome and a kpako. People dey confuse my handsomeness with ajebor dese days. I go just look dem laff, being handsome doesn't mean you are and ajebor. Abi dem neva see dose ugly big cheek ajebors?
Re: Disadvantages Of Being Handsome by G12(m): 9:51am On Mar 13, 2015
Listed above don't apply when you are handsome and a kpako. People dey confuse my look with ajebor dese days. I go just look dem laff. Being handsome doesn't mean you are and ajebor. Abi dem neva see dose ugly big cheek ajebors?
Re: Disadvantages Of Being Handsome by Davidolives(m): 9:54am On Mar 13, 2015
G12:
Listed above don't apply when you are handsome and a kpako. People dey confuse my look with ajebor dese days. I go just look dem laff. Being handsome doesn't mean you are and ajebor. Abi dem neva see dose ugly big cheek ajebors?
i totally agree with you on this one peeps think you r ajebor
Re: Disadvantages Of Being Handsome by Rexhenrex(m): 10:19am On Mar 13, 2015
very true oo,when i tell someone av never had a g.f the be like u are a player.i know say i no too fne sha.winkwink
Re: Disadvantages Of Being Handsome by sinizia: 11:17am On Mar 13, 2015
The disadvantages is nothing compared to the advantages.

So thanks but no thanks, I'd rather stay handsome. People's opinions have never paid my bills anyway. So they can shove it up their réctum. cool
Re: Disadvantages Of Being Handsome by Maj196(m): 11:29am On Mar 13, 2015
Nevertheless the advantages still outweighs the disadvantages.
Re: Disadvantages Of Being Handsome by Nobody: 11:43am On Mar 13, 2015
Segeggs:


1.) People take you to be soft.

It's no lie that handsome guys are really cute and tender, which makes girls find them attractive cos they believe a soft appearance-especially soft eyes- can appeal to their emotions. This tenderness, which ladies see as one of the elements of TLC, is actually a shortcoming when such guys relate with other guys. A rough looking dude will always feel he stands the advantage over a handsome one when it comes to a fight, even when the handsome dude looks physically fit for the fight. It's usually because he believes the handsome dude has a lot to lose in the fight, like his fine face, which might get scarred. Also, people always take your calm look to mean you are lazy.

2.) Girls believe you must be a womaniser.

They believe they are not the only females who find you attractive, so you must have countless girlfriends. It's true in some cases but mostly wrong. Some smashing handsome guys go without a girlfriend for months, even throughout a year. Not that they don't search, but girls turn them down, even when it's obvious these girls are so much into them; they just don't want to be cheated on.

3.) Ugly dudes are quick to call you useless cos you are broke

The reasoning of ugly nigerian guys has really made nigerian babes look like money hungry fellows. They believe all a naija babe wants is CAsh...caSH... cAsH, making it seem as if they can date an orrangutan monkey so long he's got money. Such guys are quick to rubbish looks. They even stupidly look down on an handsome campus boy cos he doesn't share in their money mentality. For God's sake, he's still a student.

4) You spend too much time taking care of yourself

You shave often, take care of your skin, avoid stress, eat well and wear nice clothes just cos you don't want to be seen as someone who has lost form by thesame people who have showered you with compliments. Some even go the extra mile by piercing their ears and trimming their eyebrows, what I call childishness or the wannabe attitude, cos you won't really need those extras if you are truly handsome.

5) People think you are gay

You better hang around girls more often, otherwise people will mistake you for a gay. Gays find handsome guys attractive and approach them the most. Handsome guys are often told to go into the gay game cos they believe they'll make it big.

6) they end up marrying average or ugly looking girls

Not that they couldn't find a beautiful girl to say yes to them, but they got carried away by the 150% love they got from average/ugly girls who threw themselves at them. Such a girl usually have substance like good behaviour, good cooking ability, puts him above all and also a good job and the ability to provide for herself and him, all she needs are just his eyes professing undying love for her. Can we blame the dude? He's seen it all in beautiful girls, whom he must have termed bimbos who bring nothing to the table other than their beauty.
wetin concern me wit handsomeness?huh,shey na handsom I wan chop ni?if u are handsome nd u are as broke as mosque mouse then na wash in eldee d don voice lol
Re: Disadvantages Of Being Handsome by Sanguine77(m): 12:57pm On Mar 13, 2015
;DMost girls believe you are a player. Women sha.
Team #handsome and rich#

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