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Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by ayinba1(f): 7:08pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
babyosisi: always so predictable 4 Likes |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by ayinba1(f): 7:21pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
@Tehn The right thing to do is hand the money over to his family IF it was donated in the name of DJdola. It would be wrong to raise money for one cause and use it for another. He is dead now and the normal inheritance rules do not indicate that what was raised for his benefit be handed to outsiders. If you worry about what his family will do with the money, you may end up soiling your organization's reputation. We cannot be the evaluator and judge of that. I also do not think returning to donors is realistic. For future drives, you may want to use a proactive fundraiser approach to have a purse to draw from when need arises OR when you take up a case and put someone's name out there, either have a stated amount you are raising for the individual OR let donors know that some of the money will be used to fund TEHN's other operations. No matter how "huge" we feel this money is, let us be cautious and not delay in doing the right thing. Let us be cautious again and not rub salt into injury as all that money cannot bring DJDOLA back. You set out with a good intention, May God help us all to be just and fair. Ameen 16 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by jaybee3(m): 7:37pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
@Ayinba1 I guess it's safe to conclude you are for option 1. Thanks for your input. TeHN will go with the general consensus on completion of the collation exercise by next friday 1 Like |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Nobody: 7:41pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
Idowuogbo: As a Muslim building mosque is an automatic qualification for Aljana. So respect his religion |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Caracta(f): 7:46pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
Option 3 please! 1 Like |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Idowuogbo(f): 7:49pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
breadandbutter:We are not here to fund Aljana.Gerrit?!!! 50 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Nobody: 7:53pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
After ensuring Dj mum is empowered Tehn should take up other cases. A lot in nl need help. The koko is accountability. 8 Likes |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by ayinba1(f): 7:54pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
Hmnnn. |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Winneygirl(f): 7:54pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
Empowering his Mum is the ideal thing to do. I only have a nagging concern that there will be family members who will not allow the initiative to thrive. However, we can only do the best we can. There are different responsibilities here, and it will be her responsibility to ensure that whatever comes out of this does not die. . Even though 'rehousing' them is a good idea, I feel it should be up to them. . Set up a business she can do. If it thrives enough and they can relocate, fine. . But I dont feel we should bear the responsibilty of moving them. 2-3 yrs is a short time. What happens then if her business does not thrive, and there is rent to be paid? She'll call on us for help, and then there'll be no purse to draw from becos we are handing over everythn here? Another fundraiser?? Let's set up a business for her, but leave the accomodation/relocation out of it. 25 Likes |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by babe4chi(f): 8:07pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
I go with option 3 please... 1 Like |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Nobody: 8:11pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
Option 3. 1 Like |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Idowuogbo(f): 8:11pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
ayinba1:We should hand the money over to the family so they can go ahead and buy a land in badagry? That's an insult to donors abeg! Come on...think about it na...think about the students amongst us that donated a chunk out of their feeding allowance to help save a life and we are here discussing land and mosque?! Hian! 22 Likes |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by greatgod2012(f): 8:14pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
Build house Build mosque From how much gangan na? Abeg, option 3 please. @Tehn, Thanks for all your effort, weldone. May you be rewarded accordingly. Amen 5 Likes |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Babyrex(f): 8:33pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
Winneygirl:SUPPORTED!!!!! Makes a lot of sense 7 Likes |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Nobody: 8:39pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
ayinba1: This is an obituary thread and I would implore you to keep it solemn Thanks 13 Likes |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Osyxcel(m): 8:40pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
Option 3 (including one-off donation to other verified cases on NL) 1 Like |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by corisande: 8:49pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
Option 3 please! |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Nobody: 8:55pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
Idowuogbo: Thank you!! People who donated did so mainly to help an e-friend in need They would have still done so for someone else other than DJ as in times past so primarily that money was donated for his medical care I agree with helping his mom out but certainly disagree to anything beyond that 6 Likes |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Nobody: 8:59pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
ayinba1: DJ has passed on and this house worked hard about his welfare There is another sick person folake that money is currently being raised for and others may follow I doubt if anyone,not even DJ himself if he were here will object to money raised on his behalf being used to help another sick person in need.So your attempt to whip up sentiments where it is not needed fails. If your sole aim of donating was for DJ and DJ alone and nothing else will do,for whatever your intentions are,I am afraid you have the wrong perspective in giving and I am certain there are very few that have that same mindset if any. There is no reputation being soiled Tehns has acted appropriately in the "post Mortem" of this whole thing by giving suggestions on what to do next and allowing others to 10 Likes |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Nobody: 9:04pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
I will suggest that Tehns creates a poll and put it up for vote.no member registered today should be allowed to vote in that poll. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Nobody: 9:07pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
breadandbutter: You can go ahead and build a mosque in his honor ,nobody is stopping you Build one in all geopolitical zones sef Did anyone support DJ because of his religious affiliation ? Maybe those who did are the ones angry about option 3 Most people didn't care about his religion when they donated so making it a religious affair at his death is annoying to me and many others. 41 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Just20(f): 9:08pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
I go with OPTION 3. TeHN God bless you. This case has really touched me and I believe most people on nairaland in more ways than one. DJ keep on resting bro. Your legacy will live on 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by XBLadez: 9:11pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
I don't like the idea of bringing this to the front page |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by KingTom(m): 9:14pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
See how these Mofos are arguing over DJ like greedy relatives! For God's sake lets calm down and agree!! 3 Likes |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Idowuogbo(f): 9:18pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
babyosisi:Exactly! how can someone even think of buying a land with another man's sweat? na wa o! Smh 3 Likes |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Nobody: 9:19pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
babyosisi: His religion is the one and only religion God recognizes so we should encourage building a mosque on his behalf 2 Likes |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by fpeter(f): 9:20pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
I REP Options 2 and 3... |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Nobody: 9:22pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
Idowuogbo: Hahahahaha It's like when some pastors tell you to dig deep and empty your pocket forgetting that some people digging will have to trek home and drink garri. |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by tbaba1234: 9:23pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
breadandbutter: That is not part of the options presented. 6 Likes |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Nobody: 9:23pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
breadandbutter:stop that crap,so if he didn't build a mosque,no ticket to paradise? The money should be use only in favor of the family,and no third party consideration.. I endorse helping the mum some ways,but please no mosque building please.. 3 Likes |
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