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She Gets Turned On When I "Yell" At Her. How Normal Is That? by someCoolDude87: 5:28pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
"Yell" might not be the right word; but on a number of occasions when I get upset at her over a wrong doing, and my temperament and voice get high, coupled with the stern look on my face, my girlfriend says it turns her on. How normal or abnormal is this? She chipped in this info last night when she was complimenting how I use my stern voice and face to put her back on track whenever she misbehaved. I was like wtf? Seriously? and She responded in the affirmative. Mind you, on most other occasions, I also let her know when she wronged me but on a cool note). Instead of reacting "coolly" on those other occasions, she has asked that I scold or yell at her each time she offends me; saying that besides the positive effect it has on correcting her, that it also turns her on. Is she encouragineg verbal abuse, and maybe later, physical abuse? Is she trying to make me an abuser? I am not a party to this o! Please, How do I reconcile not being an abuser with correcting her wrongs by yelling at her all the time? |
Re: She Gets Turned On When I "Yell" At Her. How Normal Is That? by Cutehector(m): 5:32pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
Disadvantages of watchn fifty shades of grey 7 Likes |
Re: She Gets Turned On When I "Yell" At Her. How Normal Is That? by jairusben(m): 5:34pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
chaii...dangers of oyinbo film 1 Like |
Re: She Gets Turned On When I "Yell" At Her. How Normal Is That? by alberto2k(m): 5:36pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
Keep yelling 3 Likes |
Re: She Gets Turned On When I "Yell" At Her. How Normal Is That? by ifekemmie(f): 5:38pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
Stop yelling @ her, there re ways to correct her without yelling. Know each oda do's n don't. Bt no way u won't be stepping on each oda toes bt u need to corect her with love so dat u won't be an abuser |
Re: She Gets Turned On When I "Yell" At Her. How Normal Is That? by kilokeys(m): 5:40pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
chai. pyscho full naija o |
Re: She Gets Turned On When I "Yell" At Her. How Normal Is That? by Brugo(m): 5:41pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
Hmmm mental sontin |
Re: She Gets Turned On When I "Yell" At Her. How Normal Is That? by Nobody: 5:41pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
Ab-Normal |
Re: She Gets Turned On When I "Yell" At Her. How Normal Is That? by AndreRose(f): 5:48pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
I think its the same thing with some girls that love to be spanked or beat during sex. I guess hers is to be yelled at as a prerequisite to be turned on and getting a better sex(but that's if you two wana do it). But first does she get turned on on other occasions apart from when you yell at her? #my opinion though 1 Like |
Re: She Gets Turned On When I "Yell" At Her. How Normal Is That? by Nobody: 5:52pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
You have a submissive woman and you are complaining. Dump her and come to me, I like to dominate if that's your thing. 3 Likes |
Re: She Gets Turned On When I "Yell" At Her. How Normal Is That? by someCoolDude87: 5:53pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
AndreRose:Yes she gets turned on during pre-intimacy too. 1 Like |
Re: She Gets Turned On When I "Yell" At Her. How Normal Is That? by sinaj(f): 5:55pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
dnt stp yelling boy! 1 Like |
Re: She Gets Turned On When I "Yell" At Her. How Normal Is That? by Abduletudaye(m): 6:04pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
rokiatu: You this girl eh.. |
Re: She Gets Turned On When I "Yell" At Her. How Normal Is That? by someCoolDude87: 6:05pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
rokiatu:A woman... dominate me? If I hear! |
Re: She Gets Turned On When I "Yell" At Her. How Normal Is That? by Abduletudaye(m): 6:05pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
Don't abuse her physically oo...keep yelling abeg...it turns her on and corrects her... What more do you want? |
Re: She Gets Turned On When I "Yell" At Her. How Normal Is That? by Nobody: 6:07pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
someCoolDude87:abi sharrp you would love it, I will be the perfect submissive wife in the streets thou. Just in the bedroom. 1 Like |
Re: She Gets Turned On When I "Yell" At Her. How Normal Is That? by Abduletudaye(m): 6:07pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
sinaj: Seconded... |
Re: She Gets Turned On When I "Yell" At Her. How Normal Is That? by blessedvisky(m): 6:09pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
kilokeys: lol. part of the 21 million crazy Nigerians. NL has at least 50% |
Re: She Gets Turned On When I "Yell" At Her. How Normal Is That? by someCoolDude87: 6:10pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
ifekemmie:I do correct her with love but obviously she needs more than that kind of of correction. |
Re: She Gets Turned On When I "Yell" At Her. How Normal Is That? by PunkyOh(f): 6:14pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
So weird. Makes me think that she might have daddy issues or some other psychological problems. Or maybe she grew up without structure & noone to reprimand her, so she's now projecting that on to her mate. Makes her feel like she's cared for when scolded or something. Who knows? Either way, its pretty out of the norm & a little creepy. 1 Like |
Re: She Gets Turned On When I "Yell" At Her. How Normal Is That? by ifekemmie(f): 6:15pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
do correct her with love but obviously she needs more than that kind of of correction. U continue, yelling is not d best |
Re: She Gets Turned On When I "Yell" At Her. How Normal Is That? by someCoolDude87: 6:15pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
sinaj:does it turn you on too? |
Re: She Gets Turned On When I "Yell" At Her. How Normal Is That? by rildwanullahi(m): 6:25pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
rokiatu:Wetin I want na him u b.make we meet Abeg |
Re: She Gets Turned On When I "Yell" At Her. How Normal Is That? by Nobody: 6:27pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
rildwanullahi:you want to be dominated? Put some money in my account first. And that's an order. Let's take it from there. 1 Like |
Re: She Gets Turned On When I "Yell" At Her. How Normal Is That? by ekkywolex(m): 6:27pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
Yell away bro |
Re: She Gets Turned On When I "Yell" At Her. How Normal Is That? by Nobody: 6:29pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
some gurls are like that,I remember my ex don't like it if I don't react When she do something wrong |
Re: She Gets Turned On When I "Yell" At Her. How Normal Is That? by sinaj(f): 6:34pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
someCoolDude87:i fink xo. yeeeeeeeeellllllk!!!! |
Re: She Gets Turned On When I "Yell" At Her. How Normal Is That? by shyshally(f): 9:08pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
Just as someone above said,I think its a psychological issue too,maybe she grew up in an aggressive home where her dad/mum corrected her with aggression and she has learnt to correlate love with that,or on the other hand,maybe she's just the submission type of girl,if so,try to know the boundary between correcting with love before its escalates and you become a woman beater cus power is quite addictive |
Re: She Gets Turned On When I "Yell" At Her. How Normal Is That? by ivyy(f): 9:26pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
She's a weirdo and a psycho too Watch out coz now she's gona start frustrating you delibrately just so you can yell @ her Do not let her I repeat do not 1 Like |
Re: She Gets Turned On When I "Yell" At Her. How Normal Is That? by AndreRose(f): 10:14pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
someCoolDude87:Hmm...her case is beyond what I thought. You should then ask her about it. |
Re: She Gets Turned On When I "Yell" At Her. How Normal Is That? by MzzTega(f): 10:16pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
Abnormal babe. Perhaps your voice is possessed by mammy water spirit |
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