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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by sadly: 4:29am On Mar 14, 2015 |
Djboosting:I understand... on to the babe we talked about last time. I was beginning to feel irritated by her monosyllabic replies and had to ask why she does that as if she is unhappy for some undisclosed reasons. I told her she is more bigger than that and more intelligent or am I bugging her. The reply I got was rather shocking. She said I am more mannerless than she thought and is that how I talk to people whats my business with how she responds. Blocked my number on whatsapp and calls. I don't know how to hide when something isn't right. so I guess I lost this one already. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by bugzyberry(m): 4:54pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
sadly: exactly my thoughts. like you jst read my mind. will u keep acting like d boyfriend your entire life without letting her know u care about her? i fear u will jst get friendzoned. jetworldpee: how then do you move to the next level like real dating.. as in making it official if you don't tell her how u feel.... Op u re needed to clear this up 1 Like |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by teddy7(m): 5:09pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
jetworldpee:Nawa for my kind person? bros I no understand o. its like u didn't read my first post. I have basically done everything Op said. I have done d raport in thats she tells me everything even d ones i don't expect her to. I've been acting like her boyfriend ..jst check that my post. she is definitely attracted and she raises her guard of course by telling me about a guy I never asked about. I normally brush such topic aside by joking 'I ain't d jealous type' or something of that nature...jst d way op said. normally I would av gone for a kiss but she is a very sensitive girl not like the ones i've dated b4. I didn't want to nip my chances with a kiss. thats why I told her how I feel. she said she would give it a thought d last time I talked with her... so I'm currently on d waiting faze ... |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by craiggylad(m): 7:03pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
teddy7:.. guy ma own advice z dat flatterin will do alot...mayb wen u c her,u jst luk @her amazinly nd say mayb words like jeez its been long av seen an angel dressed in human clothin in form of a gal fwend.....use dat word galfwend so dat she cn c u as som1 alwedy in2 her...u cn send her morning msg jst 2 check on her....nt alwaz o b unpredictable,tell her hw ur head spins anytime u both talk....jst kip on teasin nd make her go down....let her c u as a guy dat she will nt b able 2 do witout...#peace bro# |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Djboosting: 8:44pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
sadly: Lost? .. To me- No... but if u accept u lost her, It's still cool.. life goes on... MISTAKES MADE U see sadly, from the little deep meaning I FOUND out from Ur UN-SEEN convo (conversations) with her, it's like two things pretty obvious here. . 1.. She wants a fling (short time parole) with you, but u made it clear to her U're attaching feelings into the talks.. she saw that and she flaked... 2.. U're trying too hard to please her, to make her happy... U're being too nice.. and worst, U're making it obvious that u really like her and really NEED her.. and most importantly the convo is not sparking any EMOTION from her... the only attraction she has is from the eye contact from the wedding... but now she's got the real u a little and she felt nothing much on it.. so the attraction dies... I'm out... #peace_man 1 Like |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Nobody: 8:23pm On Mar 15, 2015 |
am so appy to av sin such a thread. U can assist me in ma dating game. Here is ma pin 79C80510 |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by bigt2(m): 8:58pm On Mar 15, 2015 |
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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by sadly: 8:28pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Djboosting:chei bro. So that's the end, isn't there any solution? Well, I called her with a different number and she picked but ask that I call her back cos she is in class. I called her next morning and explained. She said she will unblock the whatsapp but never did. However, I never give up on her just meant to give her space. I should have limited the communication from the onset which is my usual way of doing things since my first baptism of heartbreak fire. But on following my bros advice who urge me to reach her everyday, it spoil the whole thing. Just advice me on how I can revive this whole thing. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Eden007(m): 8:44am On Mar 17, 2015 |
Some girls are very funny. Check this out. There's this girl that attends my sister's church. I met her once in a bank, she recognized me and introduced herself to me I didn't ask for her contact that day because I knew how to see her again. Unfortunately, I couldn't see her in my sister's church the few days I attended. I searched for her on FB and dropped my contact for her to call me that I'll love to meet with her again. She called, but I missed the call. Initially I didn't know she was the caller, so I called the strange number to find out who the person was. She denied and said it's a wrong number. I searched the number on FB her name appeared. I sent her a text to inform her I now knew she's the one through FB and that I'll love us to sit out today. She didn't reply, so I opted to call and hear from her. She said No and hung up on me. Mehn! see this girl o? If she wasn't interested why did she call me in the first place? I don't believe this is a do or die affair. I intend to be a jerk on her and really hurt her ego before I delete her number from my phone. What do you guys think prompted her to act this way and what do you think I should do? There are many beautiful girls out there I can score atleast 5 today. I don't like giving girls upper hand over me. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by kennyman20(m): 8:37pm On Mar 17, 2015 |
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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by teddy7(m): 12:07am On Mar 18, 2015 |
craiggylad:thanks man. Not bad |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Zenith21(m): 4:24am On Mar 18, 2015 |
ibukun3:bro I saw a post of. Dis and I decided to reply. For me, all u need do is surprise her..... Go to her aos instead of waiting for a moment to chat, don't call her. On reaching there, get romantic wit her...... take her to the movies or sometin..... The more u tink she isn't into u, the more u lose her grip. She needs u to spice the relationship for her. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Sheegs4gold: 11:56pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
Thank God I found this kinda thread ..weldone OP...There is this girl introduced to me by a friend..we get along with each other by chatting and calling sometimes until her browsing phone got spoil...so I lost the chatting aspect..I was later left with the calling option and I had to sensored my calling cuz of her study..gradually it seems am losing it..I later get close when she was on strike in school and I seize the opportunity to tell her...the response I got is that am late that she already accepted 4 anoda guy...and I love this girl too much..I further ask if wasnt late..what would have been her response and she said it would av been yes...what should I do |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Myself50: 1:04am On Mar 19, 2015 |
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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by FreshGuy2(m): 7:53am On Mar 19, 2015 |
Am back again.... tnx xxxteddyxxx your advice worked like magic for me........ I want another advice..i am 21yrs of age now and I haven't got my first kiss but today am meeting with my gal and I want to be the one to initiate the kiss may be from there to something else I dunno so how do I go bout that without making myself look awkward and needy at the same time even though she do kiss me through the phone after calling but I just don't want to mess the whole thing up....... tnx for your advice in advance. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by tr3y(m): 3:13am On Mar 20, 2015 |
Sheegs4gold: All this yes, no, I don't get the picture. How do you even do it. Do you get on one knee with a ring on your hand and your other hand holding her, do you put a smile on your face and say will you be my girlfriend? I mean all I ever did is tease a girl, get her invested, move in for the close. Once we 4k she is automatically my girl. No yes/no. No Banky W. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by iamdeclan(m): 4:43pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
xxxtedyxxx: Plz,I need a reply to what am about to say co am going crazy now. What dies a girl mean when she keeps insisting she can't date u but gets jealous wen she sees u wit oda gals,calls u up to 3 tyms a day,even call during extra cool sometyms and tells u abt all guys dat asks her out/dose dat she goes on a date with...Don't understand her &I rly love her.. N.B her reasons 4 insisting we can't date includes 1)U are my friend 2)all guys seem fakish to me now(because her last relationship hurt are rly well) 3)we are in same level&our future isn't sure cos u mite not b ready 4 marriage wen I am. But recently,she told me dat she wanna 4get abt d level issh&go 4 any guy dat seem appealing to her. Pls do u tink she z friend zoning me?? I need a reply quickly |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by iamdeclan(m): 4:50pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
xxxtedyxxx:Plz,I need a reply to what am about to say co am going crazy now. What dies a girl mean when she keeps insisting she can't date u but gets jealous wen she sees u wit oda gals,calls u up to 3 tyms a day,even call during extra cool sometyms and tells u abt all guys dat asks her out/dose dat she goes on a date with...Don't understand her &I rly love her.. N.B her reasons 4 insisting we can't date includes 1)U are my friend 2)all guys seem fakish to me now(because her last relationship hurt are rly well) 3)we are in same level&our future isn't sure cos u mite not b ready 4 marriage wen I am. But recently,she told me dat she wanna 4get abt d level issh&go 4 any guy dat seem appealing to her. Pls do u tink she z friend zoning me?? I need a reply quickly |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by iamdeclan(m): 5:48pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
Plz,I need a reply to what am about to say co am going crazy now. What dies a girl mean when she keeps insisting she can't date u but gets jealous wen she sees u wit oda gals,calls u up to 3 tyms a day,even call during extra cool sometyms and tells u abt all guys dat asks her out/dose dat she goes on a date with...Don't understand her &I rly love her.. N.B her reasons 4 insisting we can't date includes 1)U are my friend 2)all guys seem fakish to me now(because her last relationship hurt are rly well) 3)we are in same level&our future isn't sure cos u mite not b ready 4 marriage wen I am. But recently,she told me dat she wanna 4get abt d level issh&go 4 any guy dat seem appealing to her. Pls do u tink she z friend zoning me?? I need a reply quickly |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by ellarry(m): 8:02pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
gr8 work teddy and other guys are doing here |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by fxbot: 2:36pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
WackyJ1:Thanks Buddy. Been doing that but unfortunately, the girls so far hasn't caught my fancy so I do not proceed after a few words. I told one today while crossing the road. She was on the divider. I asked her why she didn't cross the road as i did, she just laughed and said something inaudible. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by fxbot: 2:50pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
iamdeclan:Cut her some slack buddy. Leave her. You have told her your mind. The thing is that VIRTUALLY all girls build a defensive wall when you say: "can we date, or I wanna date you" They get all defensive and give you an almost programmed reflexive reply: "I can't date you, we are like brothers and sisters, I will think about it, I don't know, I have a boyfriend (when they don't have)" blah blah. So what do you do, leave her and focus on something more important to you. What's important to you? Only you can answer that question. do you like games? spend time playing games. Do you like reading books? spend time reading books etc. You get the drift? What many guys do is that they play around as many as 3-5 girls so that once one messes up, they focus attention on another. It helps you a lot. I lost guard and focus of this rule and I have messed up pretty badly in the last few days. My bro wackyj1 had to reboot my memory. So, bro... get as many girls as you can so that just as in this case that she says she can't date you, you focus attention on another. when she doesn't hear from you anymore she will start flashing or calling you. I had done this before without even knowing that its the rule. How I lost guard of this rule and mess up my chances is what I can't explain. You are likely friendzoned already so the game changer that can remove you from that zone is when you stay away from her for MONTHS... if you come back, you can start afresh on a different memory lane. 3 Likes |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Fkhalifa(m): 4:08pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
my own problem is girls tend to yield or get close to me after sometime.... of which i dont like pestering them after their initial gra gra oti sumi |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 4:51pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
bugzyberry: U don't get, acting like a bf, is the sole tool that keeps you away from getting friendzone. It means u aint scared of her antics, u can tell her any romatic thing u want..without looking weired. A guy that is already friendzone can't do dat. The point is..u need to show romantic interest first, proving your sef as a potential boyfriend material. The asking out part becomes easy for you. Since u av already shown her what you r capable of.
U can't define a relationship with a girl wen u r not her boyfriend yet, dats y u need to show boyfriend potential first. Wen u meet a new girl..ur chances r higher if u start acting like a boyfriend as asap..dat way..u easily put ur sef out of d friendzone. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 4:56pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
Big Shout out to everyone that has been contributing to the growth of this thread while I was away. Got a date.....next week. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 5:06pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
teddy7: Keep us update with the outcome of the convo. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 5:10pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
fxbot: U are on the right track. Keep doing that. Don't relent, push ur comfort zone farther and farther. D best way to learn something new is to start doing dat thing wen we feel fear or anxiety. With time, talking to girls anywhere will become a part of you. Its not every guy dat's skilled in that aspect. 2 Likes |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 5:13pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
Fkhalifa: I hope u r not letting this pattern to block d fishes u should av eaten sha? |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Fkhalifa(m): 5:24pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
xxxtedyxxx:lool bro atall,there is this girl that hardly replies my chat,after some weeks, now shes ready to meet me anytime i so wish... thereby giving me the mentality of being very patience till God knows when i ill start getting welcomed from ladies bro any new tips for guys? |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by fxbot: 5:36pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
xxxtedyxxx:can I have you digit? I need to discuss something with you. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by milinda(f): 6:02pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
Nice thread OP, wanna knw if u got tip fr girls too because d ones ere re mostly guys'. Anyway i av ds cute friend of mine(guy) and he jx broke up wit his gf who is a cheat. we ve been friends for a long tym nd i dont knw his ex in person. i jx want how to get him to feel diff abt like cos i really do love him. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 7:41pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
fxbot:09022012388 |
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