coogar:


miz.mycoli is a coward.....
she should run her mouth and blame it on her hormones. it's a valid excuse for women to behave badly.

cococandy:
At bolded. No he's not. She's not his child.

I can't deal

Who places a man in a position to choose or cut off a friend his wife or girlfriend relates with?
Where do you folks get off with such high handedness? He can advice her if he feels they are not cool people but he has not 'right' to decide who her friends should be.

Jeez

cococandy:
At bolded. No he's not. She's not his child.

I can't deal

Who places a man in a position to choose or cut off a friend his wife or girlfriend relates with?
Where do you folks get off with such high handedness? He can advice her if he feels they are not cool people but he has not 'right' to decide who her friends should be.

Jeez

Odunharry:

mcdokwe:
Like I always say, even though you would and continue to insult me, I'm not about to say disparaging things about you or family here.
Thank God you are here finally and would hopefully state the truth. Even though I don't remember which friend you said I harrassed, I remember I had to sacrifice my relationship with the so-called ex to be with you, I remember how you tried your best to be friends with her and moan that I leave her, she was at an advantage but loved you and came for you, thankfully she was wise and gave me all the support to be with you instead, but remains a good friend whose impact in my life can't be overstated.
The post you refer to wasn't a pity party or a plea for you to come back(I've done that, don't regret it and like I said to you, I'm proud my ego didn't stop me) it was rather an advice to people out there not to create reasons for others to hit them, I only tried using my story to pass a message.
I remember saying I said some words but never could match you in words, saying I used you to explore sex was one of them but the least I could say as sex was explorable and we both explored each other.
It has been making the rounds that I insulted your dad to his face, lol. I won't say I didn't because I talked proud when I should be ashamed I got his daughter pregnant. But for those that would discern, I got a shocking call from your so called pastor, and then your dad that I shouldn't do anything I might regret, both sounding as though I had plans to harm anyone when the only thing I asked was for you to come so I could see you and my child and go back to base, I didn't understand but having wished to get across to your dad without success, I figured that could be my chance to sort out things with him and then offered to travel to meet him so we could sort things out, but your dad said I shouldn't bother coming but should rather wait till more than a year to try again. In that fit of anger (admittedly stu.pid) I asked if he expected me to abandon my own child like he abandoned you over a year and that was the insult.

mcdokwe:
Like I always say, even though you would and continue to insult me, I'm not about to say disparaging things about you or family here.
Thank God you are here finally and would hopefully state the truth. Even though I don't remember which friend you said I harrassed, I remember I had to sacrifice my relationship with the so-called ex to be with you, I remember how you tried your best to be friends with her and moan that I leave her, she was at an advantage but loved you and came for you, thankfully she was wise and gave me all the support to be with you instead, but remains a good friend whose impact in my life can't be overstated.
The post you refer to wasn't a pity party or a plea for you to come back(I've done that, don't regret it and like I said to you, I'm proud my ego didn't stop me) it was rather an advice to people out there not to create reasons for others to hit them, I only tried using my story to pass a message.
I remember saying I said some words but never could match you in words, saying I used you to explore sex was one of them but the least I could say as sex was explorable and we both explored each other.
It has been making the rounds that I insulted your dad to his face, lol. I won't say I didn't because I talked proud when I should be ashamed I got his daughter pregnant. But for those that would discern, I got a shocking call from your so called pastor, and then your dad that I shouldn't do anything I might regret, both sounding as though I had plans to harm anyone when the only thing I asked was for you to come so I could see you and my child and go back to base, I didn't understand but having wished to get across to your dad without success, I figured that could be my chance to sort out things with him and then offered to travel to meet him so we could sort things out, but your dad said I shouldn't bother coming but should rather wait till more than a year to try again. In that fit of anger (admittedly stu.pid) I asked if he expected me to abandon my own child like he abandoned you over a year and that was the insult.

coogar:


i dunno about other men but i have a million percent of that right. it's a take it or leave it offer. if i believe a friend or a group of friends my partner(not even wifey o) keeps is noxious to our relationship, i am within my God-given rights to tell her to stop seeing them.

if it doesn't sit well with her, she can fück off.....nicely! a partner doesn't have to be my child to take instructions from me. when a woman tells me yes - she has given me the rights to lead her. it's as simple as that. i have zero tolerance for bad friends.

cococandy:
good for you

Rose2014:


The guy too is abusive o

He should tell us what he said of her family

*sips my fanta*

I asked if he expected me to abandon my own child like he abandoned you over a year and that was the insult.

coogar:

dre11:



Am sure you have read the guy reply and the word he said to her that she counted as a whole wide world abuse....

njokusboy:
I strongly believe this lady would still TOLERATE the dude if he hadn't gone bankrupt....

My submission...

Lady, we wish you the best in life, there's really no point in mending a cut slipper, it'd cut again... you cannot live with someone you clearly disdain...

In your next marriage, I hope you don't attempt to physically assault your husband, he might retaliate..
I also hope you ain't this foul mouthed and insultive in real life, change oh, it may still count in your next marriage..

I pray, you husband doesn't try to seduce your friend, he shouldn't bring in any lady to sleep over, if out of happenstance, he does, he shouldn't have the effrontery to tell you, he should hide it... it's less harmful that way..

Finally, I pray you learn to take your friends' opinions less seriously, I also hope you learn to keep certain details about ur marriage from them...

Mcdokwe, when you open another thread I go give you your own advice... but you fit take some from here, as it applies to you...

cococandy:


Angel Michael.

You left you ex to be with her. No wait! You sacrificed you relationships with your ex to be with her. You must have felt you were doing her a favor by such a huge sacrifice. Only God knows how your friendship with the ex must have caused her pain and she had to endure your disrespect even at inviting her to sleep over in your place.
How would you have felt if she had an ex boyfriend giving her that kind of support with be with you.

You must think we are babies. Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew.

You beat up a man's daughter so much that a group of women couldn't separate you from dishing out the blows to her yet expect her father to be cool that you want her to come and visit again.
Really?

His mere statement of "don't try what you will regret" warranted an insult on his person and you're here forming gentleman.
He even told you to wait one year. Of course you can insult him because you're not behind bars where you belong.


I know your type. those who know how to spin words to appear more calm and collected than their victims meanwhile they are the cause of all the wahala.

mcdokwe:
Like I always say, even though you would and continue to insult me, I'm not about to say disparaging things about you or family here.
Thank God you are here finally and would hopefully state the truth. Even though I don't remember which friend you said I harrassed, I remember I had to sacrifice my relationship with the so-called ex to be with you, I remember how you tried your best to be friends with her and moan that I leave her, she was at an advantage but loved you and came for you, thankfully she was wise and gave me all the support to be with you instead, but remains a good friend whose impact in my life can't be overstated.
The post you refer to wasn't a pity party or a plea for you to come back(I've done that, don't regret it and like I said to you, I'm proud my ego didn't stop me) it was rather an advice to people out there not to create reasons for others to hit them, I only tried using my story to pass a message.
I remember saying I said some words but never could match you in words, saying I used you to explore sex was one of them but the least I could say as sex was explorable and we both explored each other.
It has been making the rounds that I insulted your dad to his face, lol. I won't say I didn't because I talked proud when I should be ashamed I got his daughter pregnant. But for those that would discern, I got a shocking call from your so called pastor, and then your dad that I shouldn't do anything I might regret, both sounding as though I had plans to harm anyone when the only thing I asked was for you to come so I could see you and my child and go back to base, I didn't understand but having wished to get across to your dad without success, I figured that could be my chance to sort out things with him and then offered to travel to meet him so we could sort things out, but your dad said I shouldn't bother coming but should rather wait till more than a year to try again. In that fit of anger (admittedly stu.pid) I asked if he expected me to abandon my own child like he abandoned you over a year and that was the insult.

coogar:

Owliver:
^

cococandy:
that is highly insulting. Very.

Wedon:


The more you talk, the more angry I become!

SMH . . .

cococandy:


Angel Michael.

You left you ex to be with her. No wait! You sacrificed you relationships with your ex to be with her. You must have felt you were doing her a favor by such a huge sacrifice. Only God knows how your friendship with the ex must have caused her pain and she had to endure your disrespect even at inviting her to sleep over in your place.
How would you have felt if she had an ex boyfriend giving her that kind of support with be with you.

You must think we are babies. Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew.

You beat up a man's daughter so much that a group of women couldn't separate you from dishing out the blows to her yet expect her father to be cool that you want her to come and visit again.
Really?

His mere statement of "don't try what you will regret" warranted an insult on his person and you're here forming gentleman.
He even told you to wait one year. Of course you can insult him because you're not behind bars where you belong.


I know your type. those who know how to spin words to appear more calm and collected than their victims meanwhile they are the cause of all the wahala.

JoeCutie:
That's why I hate this very idea of people (Nairalanders) running to open a pathetically silly thread ONLINE over anything and everything that happens in their relationships/marriages OFFLINE.

Just this morning (or maybe yesterday), another guy opened another thread on Family Section, telling us how he needs answers to his partner's vagina with boils, smelling and ejecting some green fluid. What's that? And many other pathetic threads we keep seeing everyday. This is immaturity. This is madness!

Now, the guy (Mcd.kwe) had earlier opened a thread opening this babe's yansh (even opening his own too in the process), and now the babe has reciprocated; opening her own thread again to protest her innocence and then open the guy's yansh too. Now, what do we (Nairaland panel of Judges) see? Poo!

Chai! This is funny, but very unfortunate. Having looked into their both yanshes, all I could see is just poo. They should please, go and buy some tissue papers.

I've nothing to say about this. No comment.

cococandy:


Angel Michael.

You left you ex to be with her. No wait! You sacrificed you relationships with your ex to be with her. You must have felt you were doing her a favor by such a huge sacrifice. Only God knows how your friendship with the ex must have caused her pain and she had to endure your disrespect even at inviting her to sleep over in your place.
How would you have felt if she had an ex boyfriend giving her that kind of support with be with you.

You must think we are babies. Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew.

You beat up a man's daughter so much that a group of women couldn't separate you from dishing out the blows to her yet expect her father to be cool that you want her to come and visit again.
Really?

His mere statement of "don't try what you will regret" warranted an insult on his person and you're here forming gentleman.
He even told you to wait one year. Of course you can insult him because you're not behind bars where you belong.


I know your type. those who know how to spin words to appear more calm and collected than their victims meanwhile they are the cause of all the wahala.