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Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by tcalc: 6:33pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
dovelike:ignorance is the best answer? 2 Likes |
Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by Samirana360(m): 6:35pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
cokacoola:Na patience jonathan be ur english teacher |
Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by Nobody: 6:35pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Viciyus:If you hade a high IQ like you stated, you would have written stu-pid this way so that the mods will not change it to silly . Kiddo. Don't bother me again please. I've met real humans to waste my time on you. |
Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by Dragonking: 6:35pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Teespice: Yes continue...your mouth is sharp now but when the time comes you will mellow down like a puppy dog searching for any man to accept u as 7th wife. 2 Likes |
Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by Nobody: 6:35pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
eagleeyez: Marriage is boring. 1 Like |
Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by EbolaParasite: 6:35pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
eagleeyez: Women outnumber men. Men are dying like fowls everyday. 7 out of every 10 new births is female nowadays. Go figure 3 Likes |
Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by butanep(m): 6:35pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
So many humble and harsh opinion about the women above 30 that are still single... Majority of them are the cause of their problems... 1. Finding a man that is dark, tall and cute like me. When they practically know men like us don't easily give into the marriage philosophy. We have mission to accomplished before finally settling down. I laugh when some, still prove stubborn that they will wait. They don't know there is another younger n fresher lady we are interested inn... 2. Some keep on finding the " already made men in street". You still see a lady @ her late 20's stating that her husband "must" have a car, house and earning a fat salary. I am not saying having standard or taste is bad but when they are not forth coming, it is better to forgo the standard and get someone that both of you can get to that standard. It's only girls of 17 to 20 that normally sing those songs. 3. Some have nothing to offer except sex. Bullshit to that woman that can't contribute meaningfully to the welfare of a man except to the welfare of his bed. He will take you as someone that don't have goals in life. 4. Some girls always claim they are not single, whereas deep down in their heart, they are bloody single. They keep scaring the serious guyz, that they have somebody. Whereas there is nobody on ground or the person does not even care. 5. High cost of marriage ceremony. Why will I spend my hard earned income on that so called multi-marriage. Will do introduction, traditional marriage, white wedding, reception and honey moon. A man with an average earning can hardly afford this, hence will decide to be single for sometimes thereby making some ladies remain perpetual single. 6. Harsh economy. The economy is not easy my brother. Unemployment everywhere. Even the ladies get better jobs now than the guyz because of that thing( you know the thing). Guyz are in the street hustling to get daily bread for themselves and family. Marriage become least in their priority. 7 Some ladies problem on being single is spiritual. Some might have offended that womam in the village or their mother or parents have done something evil in the past. So they need deliverance from a good prophet. 8. Some ladies lacks manners. They don't know what courtesy demands hence people see them as uncultured ladies. 9. Some ladies are liability. They didn't go to school, or learn a trade or handwork or even know how to cook. They used their early youth life finding the d!ck that is bigger or sweeter. Karma now showing itself now. 10. Some ladies are meant to be single because no body can tolerate their attitude. My humble opinion. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by Nobody: 6:36pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
tcalc:Given to f.o.o l.s |
Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by Nobody: 6:36pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Truckpusher:Too bad I don't match make |
Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by AreaFada2: 6:39pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
dovelike:. If you are an African American & you desire to marry your kind, that may be true to some extent. But in 9ja where so many crimes are not even resolved, prisons might be congested, but number of prisons & their capacities are not much. No, that's not a reason really. Main reasons include: (a) Reduction in polygamy: most guys & girls don't want polygamy. It's not cool anymore. They however have more side bf/gf now more than before no thanks to many avenues to meet opposite sex. Universities, NYSC camp, work place, social media (2go, fb, instagram, even Nairaland). (b) Women are more educated now. They are not just married off as before. They want a career and everything. But sometimes you just don't get everything. (c) People are generally more selective. Most will not marry the first, second, third or even the 4th boy/girl they date. Some become disillusioned with relationships. Some even take a sabbatical from it. (d) Outside influence: this can be friends married to rich guys, you want a rich guy too. The pastor says you have not found your true wife/husband. So you date for years but still on the look out. And many more reasons. 6 Likes |
Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by Afroconnect: 6:40pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Most of them wan dey chop for everywhere...long throat,tear eye...bigs girls. Lol. 2 Likes |
Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by SwingzProsper(m): 6:40pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
dovelike:yeaaa...we derive na'in in ill*mannered talks... Luv dt cul xteristics... Kip it kul... Hw ws ur day in a nutshell?? |
Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by tcalc: 6:41pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
dovelike:ignorance or silence, i dont get u 1 Like |
Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by Nobody: 6:42pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
AreaFada2:Many many more. But those flooded prison are mostly males, right? |
Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by Nobody: 6:44pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
tcalc:The saying that 'Ignorance is the best answer given to fools'. I meant I would have just ignored him. |
Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by PecE2Make: 6:45pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Most of them are under the snare of the enemy unknown to them. Also, there is an altar speaking against them. |
Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by samuelfemo(m): 6:45pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
bluestone2015: i am so sorry for u and whoever belived all these things u are saying,i percive u are not married and have made up ur mind to remain single. God in the begining said it is not good for a man to be alone then he created a woman to be his companion, if a man is not suppose to be alone why should marriage be an option for a woman .if u cant get a husband pls dont give up yet,u can still be married guesss u are in ur late thirties or early forties? |
Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by ruffDiamond: 6:45pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
See en, dis marriage thing ,methink it's totally overrated cos marriage does not infact complete or complement everyone plus there many other things involved like financial,economic,societal values(mostly decadent here as regarding nigerian ladies) ,tradition etc one thing i have come to understand is that first of all marriage is a woman 's curse hence they worry a lot more than the men. I always argues that adam was doing jst fine until eve surfaced and adam 's life hitherto peaceful and serene existence became a nightmare . . The bottom line is naija gals are simply not it. They ve got too many problem for a guy jo cope wit just too many . . 1 Like |
Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by Nobody: 6:46pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
dovelike:and is that' the real way to write stup1dy? Ohh sorry. I don't know I am talking to a small girl,but with time you will mature. Keep on with your ignorance. I rest my case. And pls do change your dp, so that them won't know you are very long. Case close 1 Like |
Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by October1960: 6:46pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
The response below is on point. Many companies prefer to train and hire single women because they feel they are docile and controllable. Many women will tolerate crap from a man in authority like their boss and then come home to their boyfriend or husband and start forming career woman. In Nigeria sadly SOME of these single women in good jobs are seen as potential mistresses for the "men in charge" so these men in charge would rather hire a lady with less qualifications than a man. Most men won't take nonsense even from a boss. humilitypays: 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by SwingzProsper(m): 6:47pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
[quote author=xtervaganza post=31679053]how many men in your family are in prison?[/quote..] in prison or not... Leave d bae alone.. She no folo u dy yarn mata.. Habaaa.. U geh strongtin wv d bae b4 I tink xo.. Dnt quote me bk |
Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by Nobody: 6:47pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
PDPwayoo: It's not. |
Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by Nobody: 6:48pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
dovelike:Now let me jump to ur side of the fence. These assaults are getting to much on ur person. If u wil reward me, I nw pledge my allegiance to thee! |
Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by Nobody: 6:49pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
StealthIdeals:Don't you think am handling them well? |
Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by tiwasiaife(m): 6:51pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
dovelike: Truth is bitter. dovelike: Truth is bitter. 2 Likes |
Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by tcalc: 6:51pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
dovelike:oh kay, but ignorance isnt the word...i guess it's silence. ignorance (lack of knowledge or information) is wrongly used there |
Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by humilitypays(m): 6:52pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
sexyseun:funny enough, you have a point...lol. I blame the prolonged bad governments in Nigeria. The economy isn't favourable to guys of marriageable age, pity us |
Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by Nobody: 6:52pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
tiwasiaife:Only when it's true, right? |
Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by frisby: 6:53pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
eagleeyez: @ bolded: was this also true when they were in their early-mid 20s? you sound quite certain about this, how come? Can u categorically speak for all spinster when u aren't even one urself. There's no one particular reason why every spinster is still single. And to be frank, I'm sure most of them are fed up with topics like this (heck, even I am fed up) This situation will only get worse in the future. And I say so because of 2 reasons: 1. The economic trend of the country: only few men will think marriage when he feels he cannot handle the responsibilities (mostly financial) that come with it. 2. Modern-day Indoctrination of the female youth: Internet and television subtly pushes into our heads "ideals" that are destructive. And one of them is that false image of what an "ideal man" is. A lot of our teenagers consume these mentally damaging messages like crack. (and let's face it, women are much More impressionable than men). So while in their late teens and early 20's they treat distastefully the males which do not match the picture of the "ideal man" they were taught by the media and friends. And by the time they finally decide to "get serious" they realize that all that glitters is not gold, and that most of what fails to glitter are actually worth more than gold. All in all, no amount of "front page topics" can change the country, our young men, or even the spinster themselves. My people have a saying that goes thus " the only real piece of advice is that which a person offers himself" 5 Likes |
Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by Nobody: 6:54pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
October1960: My brother, a friend of mine was among the 20 list of finalist in a multinational company and they need 8 people. Among the 20 finalists, 16 ladies, four guys. I told me of his performance @ d last stage interview which was wonderful as the board of d employers informed him he will get d job and he filled the employment form, submit credentials, medicals, etc. Till 2day they did not call him, they employed 10 pretty ladies among them. Such is life 2 Likes |
Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by Nobody: 6:54pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
tcalc:Yeah. It's true. But that's how the saying goes.That's how we read it |
Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by October1960: 6:54pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
He just said it all below. Gbam^10 (To the tenth power) butanep: |
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