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My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by Karlman: 1:31am On Mar 17, 2015 |
I need some sound advice from sound minds. My girlfriend is three weeks pregnant as I am typing to you. From the depth of my heart and soul I want to keep the pregnancy but I am unemployed and really broke. And when I think of my financial status and what would be required to nurse and deliver a babe, I am tempted to think of doing the unthinkable. But I am so drawn to this pregnancy and the baby in it. The way it came to me and the time it came to me and how I can already feel its presence even when its only a three week old cluster of blood, left me in perpetual amazement. This is not the first time a girlfriend would be pregnant for me, but never at any of the times have I felt as connected with them as I feel with this particular one. In the past cases I have always done the otherwise and moved on without blinking an eye but now I can't even lift a finger against this child. But how will I weather the storm of unemployment+pregnant babe+baby on the way? Already I can't sleep no more, staying up all night and day thinking on how to get all the miles covered. Thanks for your time! 14 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by ronald4lif(m): 1:35am On Mar 17, 2015 |
What does your girlfriend do; studying or working? 7 Likes |
Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by Nobody: 1:38am On Mar 17, 2015 |
Have tat baby see the world coz u never know, one day this baby cud b a scientist, artist or even a president...they r the most amazing creatures in the world...so no matter wat, even if ur broke now, never pull this baby out...instead u stand up,find a job and raise ur family... Goood luck to u. 97 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by Karlman: 1:40am On Mar 17, 2015 |
ronald4lif:She does a little job 3 Likes |
Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by Karlman: 1:42am On Mar 17, 2015 |
ronald4lif:She does a little job little pay just enough to cover her Trans and food 5 Likes |
Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by Lobolintin(m): 1:43am On Mar 17, 2015 |
Don't ever terminate...... Stand up and do something dude...I hate it when men says unemployed.. Dude create a jab for ya self.. And raise that fetus angel 78 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by Karlman: 1:45am On Mar 17, 2015 |
KashyBaby:Thanks! 1 Like |
Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by Nobody: 1:46am On Mar 17, 2015 |
If you was dumb enough to have unprotected sex when you are not ready for a child yet then your stupidity is beyond measure. My only advice is to stop wasting time thinking so much and go look for any kind of work for that matter even if you have to clean shoes. You are going to be a father congrats in advance. When you was hitting it raw and enjoying yourself, you didn't think about this day abi? When you was c..umming in her, you had no idea there was a thing call,pregnancy right? And the morning after you and your dumb gf couldn't think of a thing call "the morning after pill" ni? Well you see God give us a brain for a reason, if you can't think and make logical decisions you will be left to face the consequences. Welcome to the real world. 136 Likes 13 Shares |
Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by Karlman: 1:46am On Mar 17, 2015 |
Lobolintin:Thanks! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by ronald4lif(m): 1:47am On Mar 17, 2015 |
Karlman: Depending on the income of her job and if she intends resuming her studies in the next 0-3years, in which time she'll be required to nurse a baby. That's if she isn't a graduate already though. You're unemployed, with uncertainties on when you could secure a job. I really don't know the exact circumstance you are and your plans in the next few years, especially the plans of your girlfriend. However, if the odds are strongly against keeping the pregnancy and with difficulties of putting up with the outcome of it, I will advise you consider the D&C option. But this is me, follow your convictions. 9 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by menix(m): 1:48am On Mar 17, 2015 |
Giving u a hard Knock wuld b well deserved buh who am i to judge.. U ve said 101% y u should not think odawise cous u might not scale through wiv this. U re not d 1st man neither d last unemployed youth who is going to b an emmergency Dad. Do u know that dis baby is going to b ur open door in life, blive mii u will forced to move out of ur comfort zone nd get something doing. Since u ve got parents, dey wont let u down. U ve still got tym to rise nd surely u will rise, Amen.. 24 Likes |
Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by Karlman: 1:50am On Mar 17, 2015 |
rokiatu:I wish I have the strength to match ur harshness. Thanks all the same. 106 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by pyyxxaro: 1:53am On Mar 17, 2015 |
GO AND ASK AUNTY PATIENCE OR BETTER STILL ASK YOUR ATM CARD 1 Like |
Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by Karlman: 1:54am On Mar 17, 2015 |
menix:Amen! Thanks! 3 Likes |
Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by ronald4lif(m): 1:54am On Mar 17, 2015 |
Karlman: I take it that she's just keeping body and soul together. A job that can only take care of one's tfare and food is not well enough to see her through the struggles of a mom. Anyways, I dropped my two cent advise earlier. Good luck with whatever decisions you take 3 Likes |
Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by Karlman: 1:59am On Mar 17, 2015 |
ronald4lif: ronald4lif: ronald4lif:Thanks |
Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by Nobody: 2:40am On Mar 17, 2015 |
Wait while i consult the oracles for an answer to ur question 8 Likes 1 Share
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Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by Nobody: 2:43am On Mar 17, 2015 |
rokiatu:seriously there are more kind words to use and still pass your message. 133 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by Nobody: 2:48am On Mar 17, 2015 |
op you'll will have to do anything to make sure that baby is kept and the three of you are doing fine. anything at all. and start saving towards that final day 3 Likes |
Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by Booty4me: 3:37am On Mar 17, 2015 |
your odongolo don put you for wahala hehe 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by olamonsor2: 4:30am On Mar 17, 2015 |
The mystery here is that you may be broke till she put to bed but as soon as she deliver, doors will be open to you. Pls keep the baby. 24 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by Nobody: 5:08am On Mar 17, 2015 |
Karlman: Three weeks old pregnancy & you believe in lazy ness,you sound like a dumb lazy yoruba boi....So you believe you can't do anything or find a job before the baby is born¿ My friend go & sit down 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by Allwility: 5:33am On Mar 17, 2015 |
You have to keep the baby not because you're feeling connected or whatsoever but because it's the right thing to do. You can pick odd jobs- teaching in a high school, security, etc to enable you foot the bills. Please whatever you do, don't snuff out a life. Goodluck, I'm sure you'll be needing it!! 6 Likes |
Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by williamspaul22(m): 6:01am On Mar 17, 2015 |
Y bring a child in dis world wen u cant take care of d child? U dnt knw wot is condom? Broke ass guys always hav a low mentality. If am d child I go teach u lesson if I grow up 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by Sunkyphil(m): 6:09am On Mar 17, 2015 |
next tym use condom 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by Badgers14: 6:12am On Mar 17, 2015 |
@Op, she's three weeks along, congrats. You still gat more than 8 months to get ya $hit together. Good luck sir. 2 Likes |
Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by Karlman: 6:20am On Mar 17, 2015 |
Allwility:Thanks |
Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by Karlman: 6:21am On Mar 17, 2015 |
Badgers14:Thanks! |
Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by 7footre(m): 6:22am On Mar 17, 2015 |
If you put as much effort as you did in getting her pregnant in searching for a job, you won't be here talking about this... and she is not even the 1st to get pregnant for you! man find sometin doing toto no be permanent work! 52 Likes |
Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by Hazardd(m): 6:27am On Mar 17, 2015 |
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Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by Hazardd(m): 6:27am On Mar 17, 2015 |
the deed has been done, just man up. |
Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by Karlman: 6:29am On Mar 17, 2015 |
williamspaul22:Thanks for your oafish tripe! 1 Like |
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