kaboninc:


Like that EggovinMma who wants a suitor with a fat salary; that's her number 1 criteria.

At least she knows what she wants and according to her she is ready to pursue it

What do you want from life?

Timbuktou:
It is the destiny of women to cook and clean. Please accept your nature and stop trying to ping with nokia 3310

Maybe or maybe not

Especially not in situations where she works 9 to 5 just like you do

pickabeau1:


Story

Yes you(and all the naija men bashers) have an perfect marriage and we're raised by super dad's yet you just happen to be an authority on bad marriages which are surfeit around you

Your own just happens to be the 1 in the 1000...

Lol

OwKAY

Can you pull out where I bashed Nigerian men? I like references.

I hear stories and read

And no my dad is not perfect.

Besides nobody is asking for perfection.

Timbuktou:
The manipulation is chiefly by the strong-and-independent crew who claim to be equal but still require a higher status male to hook up with. Hypergamy is as real as the earth, and while women may choose to ignore and denounce its existence, it wouldn't be wise for a man to tow the same line

Not everyone considers a higher earning man.

Never wanted a man who will tell me the story of my life because a cup broke

I see myself as strong and interdependent.

I need my husband and he needs me

There is no competition

Justfollowit:


At least she knows what she wants and according to her she is ready to pursue it

What do you want from life?

Gurl. Dont I just love you. No homo.

TreQuartista:


Flawed analogy. . .

Where is it established that eating '3 square meals' is a 'Nigerian thing'? Remember we are talking about 'traditional (or to use the loosely bandied about term - typical )Nigerian setting/family' here.

Perhaps you should define '3 square meals' and relate it to Naija?

Haha...

I guess only Nigerians eat 3 square meals

bukatyne:

Can you pull out where I bashed Nigerian men? I like references.
My marriage is 95% (have a challenge We are going through)
I hear stories and read
And no my dad is not perfect.
Besides nobody is asking for perfection.

Bashing men is d pastime here
That was the intent of both the picture and the original poster

You base ur world view on stories of people
No problem
My point is that if Nigerian men ND marriages are a wreck as y'all like to paint...who then are the 1 in 1000 with perfect marriages

Is that not contradictory?

now you are not asking for perfection
That was why I used the example of the west

Even the western males are not perfect

What u women should do is working together to improve the family setting and not against

DollyParton1:


Gurl. Dont I just love you. No homo.

I am blushing

Thanks

BABE3:


wetin dey shock una?

Honestly, the solution lies with women. They are the ones that want to change the status quo.


So far women like the one in the OP exist, men like shymexx will continue to think that's the picture of the ideal woman. And so far women remain marraige hungry, the men will continue to go for those type of "superwoman" women.
Like someone said "who no like mumu person? ".

The women that isn't the woman in the picture will always be considered a "bad wife", "non-wife material". And by natural selection, they become extinct.

You have always sounded as someone who thinks the woman in the OP is the ideal. You also seem happy when women are bashed. (No offence)

As to the women being the solution; that is a textbook on it's own.

Now I know you like to get under skins, I will start laughing when I see your skin searching posts

BABE3:


bukatyne, I don't understand you. What blood did you mix?

You and hubby's in the skin searching business

TreQuartista:


Flawed analogy. . .

Where is it established that eating '3 square meals' is a 'Nigerian thing'? Remember we are talking about 'traditional (or to use the loosely bandied about term - typical )Nigerian setting/family' here.

Perhaps you should define '3 square meals' and relate it to Naija?

Can you point out where I established it is Nigerian?

pickabeau1:


Haha...

I guess only Nigerians eat 3 square meals




Bashing men is d pastime here
That was the intent of both the picture and the original poster

You base ur world view on stories of people
No problem
My point is that if Nigerian men ND marriages are a wreck as y'all like to paint...who then are the 1 in 1000 with perfect marriages

Is that not contradictory?

now you are not asking for perfection
That was why I used the example of the west

Even the western males are not perfect

What u women should do is working together to improve the family setting and not against

And bashing women is not a pasttime?

Don't make me laugh

Who said all Nigerian marriages are a wreck? Who said all Nigerian men are evil or whatever?

This is one thing that gets to me...

If you have a problem with mine post, quote me and let us discuss.

If out want to address male bashers, quote them and take up your issues with them.

bukatyne:


You have always sounded as someone who thinks the woman in the OP is the ideal. You also seem happy when women are bashed. (No offence)

As to the women being the solution; that is a textbook on it's own.

Now I know you like to get under skins, I will start laughing when I see your skin searching posts

lol. I am happy when Feminists ( not women) are bashed. Point of correction. And if it so happens that everyone on here is a feminist, oh well....

Good. Don't let my posts give you hbp. Face ya work.

No.

Praising women is the pastime.
I need glasses cos it seems I've been reading some posts wrong.

bukatyne:


And bashing women is not a pasttime?

Don't make me laugh

Who said all Nigerian marriages are a wreck? Who said all Nigerian men are evil or whatever?

This is one thing that gets to me...

If you have a problem with mine post, quote me and let us discuss.

If out want to address male bashers, quote them and take up your issues with them.

bukatyne:


And bashing women is not a pasttime?

Don't make me laugh

Who said all Nigerian marriages are a wreck? Who said all Nigerian men are evil or whatever?

This is one thing that gets to me...

If you have a problem with mine post, quote me and let us discuss.

If out want to address male bashers, quote them and take up your issues with them.

Lol
I hear you

I guess you saying that naija men are leeches on their wives is praise right?


On your constant diatribes on naija marriage, Nigerian god
What has been your points

You're too good to be associated with your roots?

Justfollowit:


At least she knows what she wants and according to her she is ready to pursue it

What do you want from life?

Hmmm.

I want you!

kaboninc:


Hmmm.

I want you!

Dream on, baby

Justfollowit:


Dream on, baby

Oh sweetym, my dreams always come to pass.

kaboninc:


Oh sweetym, my dreams always come to pass.

This would be an exception

Sorry ehn

BABE3:


lol. I am happy when Feminists ( not women) are bashed. Point of correction. And if it so happens that everyone on here is a feminist, oh well....

Good. Don't let my posts give you hbp. Face ya work.

High bp ke?

Whatever makes you happy

I don't care about bashing feminists. It cannot make me money.

cococandy:
No.

Praising women is the pastime.
I need glasses cos it seems I've been reading some posts wrong.

I can lend you mine

There is still one thread for marriage haters where women were described in a pathetic manner.

That's woman lovin'

Justfollowit:


This would be an exception

Sorry ehn

In life, nothing is impossible. Even the married get 'liberated', though it may be difficult.

So we all have a price.

My dear, its very possible.

bukatyne:


Not everyone considers a higher earning man.

Never wanted a man who will tell me the story of my life because a cup broke

I see myself as strong and interdependent.

I need my husband and he needs me

There is no competition

That sounds like a solid arrangement. Good for you if it works out. Truth is no arrangement is failure proof and all it takes it is one party to refuse to cooperate and it unravels. However, I chose to get on with it on my own terms.

bukatyne:


I can lend you mine

There is still one thread for marriage haters where women were described in a pathetic manner.

That's woman lovin'

And dude was being hailed as the main man.

He was even lenient and frank in his opinions If you ask me.

The ones that hold worse and more derogatory opinions of women are usually given high fives and encouraged.

O guys cry us a river because we don't respond to hating with undeserved love.

pickabeau1:


Lol
I hear you

I guess you saying that naija men are leeches on their wives is praise right?


On your constant diatribes on naija marriage, Nigerian god
What has been your points


You're too good to be associated with your roots?

Who said Nigerian men are leeches or are you referring to another thread?

We are saying women are over-worked: 2 different things.

Nigerian marriages and Nigerian god, my opinion will not change.

This OP is a part of Nigerian marriage.

Not all marriages are like that and in Some, the man is the woman in the OP.

Ashamed to be associated with my roots ke? I loff. Iron and buba die

I nor get 'English' name... sweet Yoruba ones. I am using a hymn with English and Yoruba translation, will go for the Yoruba.

OK, don't like Yoruba nollywood and soups much

Will you teach me Yoruba?
Pls I'm serious.
I really want to learn.

I especially like Yoruba music

Take it as your offering to the lord.

bukatyne:


Who said Nigerian men are leeches or are you referring to another thread?

We are saying women are over-worked: 2 different things.

Nigerian marriages and Nigerian god, my opinion will not change.

This OP is a part of Nigerian marriage.

Not all marriages are like that and in Some, the man is the woman in the OP.

Ashamed to be associated with my roots ke? I loff. Iron and buba die

I nor get 'English' name... sweet Yoruba ones. I am using a hymn with English and Yoruba translation, will go for the Yoruba.

OK, don't like Yoruba nollywood and soups much

cococandy:


And dude was being hailed as the main man.

He was even lenient and frank in his opinions If you ask me.

The ones that hold worse and more derogatory opinions of women are usually given high fives and encouraged.

O guys cry us a river because we don't respond to hating with undeserved love.

You don't want to be a Good 'naija ' woman

bukatyne:


Who said Nigerian men are leeches or are you referring to another thread?

We are saying women are over-worked: 2 different things.

Nigerian marriages and Nigerian god, my opinion will not change.

This OP is a part of Nigerian marriage.

Not all marriages are like that and in Some, the man is the woman in the OP.

Ashamed to be associated with my roots ke? I loff. Iron and buba die

I nor get 'English' name... sweet Yoruba ones. I am using a hymn with English and Yoruba translation, will go for the Yoruba.

OK, don't like Yoruba nollywood and soups much

Women are over-worked?

Are you overworked in yours?
What is your frame of reference

bukatyne:




OK, don't like Yoruba nollywood and soups much

Really?

cococandy:
Will you teach me Yoruba?
Pls I'm serious.
I really want to learn.

I especially like Yoruba music

Take it as your offering to the lord.

Lols

I be Yoruba abroad .

Can write small sha

Ba wo ni?

Oko e nko?

Iyawo Olele, lowo sibi ni e

kaboninc:


Really?

Yea

Why?

pickabeau1:



Women are over-worked?

Are you overworked in yours?
What is your frame of reference

All women have it Good, all Nigerian men are saints.

Happy?

You're not serious.

Ok I will look elsewhere

bukatyne:


Lols

I be Yoruba abroad .

Can write small sha

Ba wo ni?

Oko e nko?

Iyawo Olele, lowo sibi ni e