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How To Charm A Girl And Flatter Her Into Liking You by youngsahito(m): 4:08pm On Mar 20, 2015
Every guy wants to know how to charm a
girl into liking him.
But many fail in their pursuit because
they don’t know the five things to know
to charm a girl. Find out what those five
things are, and how to use them to your
advantage.
Want to know how to charm a girl? You
may have seen some guy chatting with a
girl, and the girl laughing in delight and
calling him a charmer. Sounds nice,
doesn’t it?
Being complimented as a charmer by a
girl is one of the best compliments any
guy can ever get from a girl. It’s not
about looks, it’s not about your physique
or your geek quotient.
It’s purely your wit and how amazing you
are at charming a girl.
How to charm a girl
So what exactly is charming a girl?
Charming a girl isn’t about flirting with
her or touching her in places.
You’d know you’re charming a girl when
you make her feel so happy she could
kiss you right there!
It’s a pretty good thing, isn’t it? Being a
charmer?
We’ll tell you the five really important
things you need to know to charm your
way into a girl’s heart. You can exchange
a lot of looks and share an intense eye
contact with a girl, but you can’t charm
her with that.
To charm a girl, you need to create an
impression beyond looks and your
swagger.
If you want to know how to charm a girl,
firstly, it all starts with a conversation.
And it pretty much ends there.
Charming a girl is all about how you
communicate with her and make her feel
happy and glad. Use these five tips and
you’ll get there even before you know
it! ]
Converse about what she likes
You may think this is unnecessary. Most
guys do. Most guys wonder why they
have to talk only about something a girl
likes. Why can’t girls talk about what a
guy likes too?
Of course, girls can. Girls do take an
active interest in trying to get to know
what guys like to talk about too. But at
times, especially when you’re trying to
make an impression, it’s always better to
be aware of what’s going on in a girl’s
mind. Now talking about what a girl likes
doesn’t really mean couture, diamonds
or cosmetics. The bridge between girls
and guys has narrowed down a lot these
days. It’s really easy to have an
interesting conversation without breaking
into a sweat. Stay away from tech
reviews, calculations and sports and you
should be fine.
Flatter her
When you talk to a girl, it’s easy to get
her talking back to you. But that’s not
enough. If you want to know how to
charm a girl, you need to make her feel
comfortable, and yet, let her know you’re
interested in her.
Friends don’t charm each other’s pants
off. So if you’re going to talk to her like a
friend, she may think you’re a great guy.
But she won’t think you’re a charming
guy. To be seen as a charming guy in a
girl’s eyes, she needs to see you as a
dating potential. And to do that, you need
to flatter her.
Don’t go saying yawn inspiring things like
‘you look beautiful’, ‘you’re so pretty’, or
something along those lines. It’s too
boring and so-not-genuine. Instead, be
vaguely specific when you compliment
her. She’s got a new hairdo? Say
something like “You look really cute
today. Is that a new hairstyle?” Cute is a
nice word to use because men hardly
ever use that word. So when you do use
it, she knows how much you mean it.
Don’t say “Is that a new hairstyle? Gosh,
those hair extensions really do wonders
to your eyes. It’s gorgeous.” That makes
you sound like her hair stylist or her gay
best friend.
By flattering her, you can do three things
with one line. You can warm her up and
make her smile. You can make her
realize that you find her pretty. And
thirdly, you can let her know that you find
her attractive. All of which you need to
do to make her look at you as a dating
potential.
Be funny
Now that you’ve got her all smiling with a
good flow of flattery and great
conversations, it’s time to get into her
personal space. All of us have personal
spaces and we feel very uncomfortable
when someone steps into it unless we’re
comfortable with them. To make her feel
comfortable, you’ve got to make her
have a good time with you. Now we can’t
really tell you how to make a girl laugh.
But we can give you two pointers to help
you. Don’t tell her any jokes. Be happy
when you talk to her.
Sounds vague? Firstly, telling jokes
straight out of a book is stupid. Instead,
tell her about a funny *real or made-up*
incident she can relate too.
And be happy when you talk to her if you
want to charm her. When you’re happy,
the whole world smiles with you! If you’re
smiling and feeling happy, she’d smile
back and be happy too. But if you’re
nervous, you’d definitely make her feel
uncomfortable.
Flirt with her
Guys flirt with girls all the time, but
sometimes, a girl can think a flirty guy is
creepy. So don’t overdo your flirting skills
and gross her out. One of the best ways
to start flirting is by being casual. Ask her
what she does on weekends or after
work, ask her about her favorite
hangouts and restaurants, and just about
anything that can be remotely personal.
She’d know you’re hitting on her because
no one really asks all these questions
otherwise.
And out of the blue, pop this question.
“Hey, this is personal, but do you have a
boyfriend? If you do, my heart’s just
going to shatter into a million pieces
right now!” Corny, yes. But it always
works its magic!
She will laugh, but this line gets your
intentions across straight, and she’d
know you’re interested in her. But don’t
make things awkward by pausing after
she answers the question. Go on talking
about something else like that question
meant nothing to you. Your intentions will
be made clear, and yet, you wouldn’t
make her feel uncomfortable around you.
Touch her
This is dangerous ground, but something
you need to learn. You do want to know
how to charm a girl, right? So touching
her at the right time completes the five
pointers you need to know about how to
charm a girl. If you get this right, you’ve
obviously made a great impression.
Now touching a girl is like playing with
fire. Too quick a touch and you don’t feel
the warmth. Too long a linger, and heck,
you’ll burn! See how dangerous it can
be?
You can send a tingle up her spine with a
simple touch if you’ve warmed her up
already. But remember this. Touch her
only if there’s a reason to touch her, like
touching her ear lobe when you’re
complimenting her earrings, brushing her
hair aside when there’s a gust of wind, or
placing your hand on her back while
crossing the street. A touch is very
personal, so you really need to be careful
and see how she reacts to your touches
before you touch her again.
If you want to know how to charm a
girl and impress her, use these five
steps the next time you meet a girl
you like. And you’ll see how great an
impression you can make in the very
first conversation!

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Re: How To Charm A Girl And Flatter Her Into Liking You by Cutehector(m): 4:11pm On Mar 20, 2015
Nearest indian high temple for ur talisman ring!
Re: How To Charm A Girl And Flatter Her Into Liking You by Nobody: 4:20pm On Mar 20, 2015
You expect me to read all that just because I want to get a girl to like me?? undecided undecided
Re: How To Charm A Girl And Flatter Her Into Liking You by sinaj(f): 4:23pm On Mar 20, 2015
shebi b4 d guy go charm me him go de read all those tinz lyk poem for me
Re: How To Charm A Girl And Flatter Her Into Liking You by Nobody: 4:27pm On Mar 20, 2015
Excuse me...names and pictures of girls' you've charmed, please.

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Re: How To Charm A Girl And Flatter Her Into Liking You by Mhizizzy(f): 4:31pm On Mar 20, 2015
Too long
Re: How To Charm A Girl And Flatter Her Into Liking You by kingofpool: 4:31pm On Mar 20, 2015
Simply go meet a native doctor...
Re: How To Charm A Girl And Flatter Her Into Liking You by ronald4lif(m): 4:37pm On Mar 20, 2015
Yawns!
Re: How To Charm A Girl And Flatter Her Into Liking You by Nobody: 4:46pm On Mar 20, 2015
Oh. Boi!!! shocked shocked such an epistle jez for "like" undecided how long for love
Re: How To Charm A Girl And Flatter Her Into Liking You by Batolee: 4:48pm On Mar 20, 2015
Hmmmm, now that I have read this; who can I charm on Nairaland now oooo. Advise please
Re: How To Charm A Girl And Flatter Her Into Liking You by Nobody: 4:49pm On Mar 20, 2015
When are we submitting the answers to that examination up there?
Re: How To Charm A Girl And Flatter Her Into Liking You by Hgold(m): 4:52pm On Mar 20, 2015
Summary pls.
Re: How To Charm A Girl And Flatter Her Into Liking You by prevail23(m): 4:54pm On Mar 20, 2015
sinaj:
shebi b4 d guy go charm me him go de read all those tinz lyk poem for me
sinaj u look an angel,did it hurt wen u fell from heaven? ..DID it work? if it didn't work den OP u are fired grin
Re: How To Charm A Girl And Flatter Her Into Liking You by ifex370(m): 4:57pm On Mar 20, 2015
I'll be back when the mini version comes out undecided


























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okay I'm done smiley
Re: How To Charm A Girl And Flatter Her Into Liking You by ifex370(m): 4:58pm On Mar 20, 2015
prevail23:
sinaj u look an angel,did it hurt wen u fell from heaven? ..DID it work? if it didn't work den OP u are fired grin


undecided


sinaj
Re: How To Charm A Girl And Flatter Her Into Liking You by Fulaboy(m): 4:58pm On Mar 20, 2015
Kaiiiiii this thing too long pa undecided


Anyway make I give this op one charity like cool
Re: How To Charm A Girl And Flatter Her Into Liking You by Nobody: 5:30pm On Mar 20, 2015
Mhizizzy:
Too long
Seconded!!
Summary mights help
Re: How To Charm A Girl And Flatter Her Into Liking You by Nobody: 5:55pm On Mar 20, 2015
Hgold:
Summary pls.
For summary,Click here


Thank me later wink
Re: How To Charm A Girl And Flatter Her Into Liking You by Nobody: 5:55pm On Mar 20, 2015
Hgold:
Summary pls.
For summary,Click here
Re: How To Charm A Girl And Flatter Her Into Liking You by prevail23(m): 6:19pm On Mar 20, 2015
ifex370:



undecided


sinaj
grin...bros u mean oh..grin grin
Re: How To Charm A Girl And Flatter Her Into Liking You by sinaj(f): 9:17pm On Mar 20, 2015
prevail23:
sinaj u look an angel,did it hurt wen u fell from heaven? ..DID it work? if it didn't work den OP u are fired grin
xowieee it didnt work wink
Re: How To Charm A Girl And Flatter Her Into Liking You by youngsahito(m): 9:32pm On Mar 20, 2015
Abeg oooooo bros...d gal go surely say yes to ur proposal
Re: How To Charm A Girl And Flatter Her Into Liking You by prevail23(m): 10:10pm On Mar 20, 2015
sinaj:
xowieee it didnt work wink
1 lie detected!...I know it worked,so OP won't be sacked grin
Re: How To Charm A Girl And Flatter Her Into Liking You by Houseofglam7(f): 10:26pm On Mar 20, 2015
I'm very sure no one read this.....well.....












Neither did I.
Re: How To Charm A Girl And Flatter Her Into Liking You by Exjoker(m): 11:00pm On Mar 20, 2015
AgapeCharis:
You expect me to read all that just because I want to get a girl to like me?? undecided undecided
Nnaa abeg one bottle of olomo bitter for...

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Re: How To Charm A Girl And Flatter Her Into Liking You by sinaj(f): 11:06pm On Mar 20, 2015
prevail23:
1 lie detected!...I know it worked,so OP won't be sacked grin
lol

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