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Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by Misogynist2014(m): 10:46pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
celes8213:You are right |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by Nobody: 10:47pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
Plain simple.. sex is cheaper. Culture is loose and there are no tabboos anymore 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by millionboi(m): 10:47pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
kay29000:so if u ask me na who I go ask? |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by hamilton62(m): 10:48pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
Dyt:Yes not everyone tolerates such but the main issue is that marriages are now like business where each party are looking for goodies only... Statistics show that 8 in every 10 business empire you know now will crumble in 5-10years time. If partners want their marriage to work out good they will, you might not like tolerating some ill in it but you apply understanding... The problem is understanding and ignorance of the real marriage and not the word. How do most marry now? You see a beautiful lady or a wealthy dude today then tomorrow is the wedding... How many wives table their husbands' down to the Lord in prayers and not invite a 3rd party? How many husband and wives know that marriage is for better for worst? How many woman can make their house a resting place for their husband even him arriving late from work without a justifiable reason? How many husband can send their wife to their mother after telling then of some ills that he has endured for long for a little mother and daughter advice? Even at then how many mothers can afford the right advice to their daughters without flaming up things? How many women respect their wife and vice versa? Most men have fallen from being the breadwinners and are now the gallant bread consumer with rights on demand type. The problem is this stupid civilisation... We might choose to be civilised and still with our morales of positivity from root. Thanks. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by MrPresident1: 10:50pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
Gender equality, women empowerment, gender mainstreaming, feminism, and many other useless concepts being thrown about supposedly in other to help the women but in actual fact are guided missiles aimed at the foundations of marriages and meant to destroy the very essence of society. Destroy the men by emasculating them economically Empower the women and make them stubborn and unsubmissive to their husbands. It is the system the beast created. 7 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by onoja12: 10:51pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
That is what western life brings confusion kay29000: 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by ideology(m): 10:51pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
Some "minor" issues were taken for granted. Seriously it varies, from infidelity, misunderstanding, tolerance etc. God help us. a couple divorced after 2months because of toothpaste (tolerance/wisdom ) 5 Likes |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by Dyt(f): 10:51pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
[quote author=hamilton62 post=3183Thanks.[/quote] What have I done to u Why u nagging me |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by Mactuoyo(m): 10:51pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by cbrass(m): 10:51pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
Vickybee: What's This You Have typed 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by Nobody: 10:52pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
kay29000: Who is the common denominator? |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by hamilton62(m): 10:54pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
[quote author=Dyt post=31836353][/quote] My sweetie, God forbid me nagging any talk more of you, just that I want to quote and highlight somethings from your view... I am sorry you misunderstand but it's for the best of all our interest and no grudge. Thanks for understanding. |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by Nobody: 10:54pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
Back then, the parents of the said to be groom would have been observing the said to be bride even without d man's been aware of it. They accept bride from their own observation. Ask your mother and father! And what has Internet gotten to do with "broken home" Back then.. courtship didn't last long either.. how long the couple court is not the problem.. its just the general lack of patience and the internet...[/quote] |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by uncjay(m): 10:57pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
Vickybee:from a feminist perspectives.....all that could comes out is an attack at the male folks painting them blue black as if they were evil creatures.... Your scale lacks balancing as you are one sided regarding the issue on ground. I'm not here to defend the male folks because both are contributing to the nemesis, at the same time castigates your type who sees men as the solely factor that brings about crashes in marriage and other evil scenario.....check it. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by Dyt(f): 10:58pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
hamilton62: Preaching understanding U like to also retaliate o Cos I quoted u like that, u sef do same |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by Nobody: 11:00pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
donsteady:best comment so far,(all of them are writing story),oh! I know u, we went to Harvard university together in 1956 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by mashnino(m): 11:02pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
All dis long English..... At d end of d day... Na SEX If the SEX is good... Dahz all.. Men and SEX... Very synonymous 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by hamilton62(m): 11:02pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
Dyt:It's well. Lol |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by cbrass(m): 11:03pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
Misogynist2014: GODBLESS YOU |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by lastpage: 11:04pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
Vickybee: This kind of "woman" (above) is the major reason while marriages dont last five years! I mean, what manner of man would live "peacefully' with this sort of "misguided basket mouth", huh? Lastpage! 9 Likes |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by watered(m): 11:05pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
Spouses these days want to live life like they see in the movies 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by cbrass(m): 11:05pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
Lizabeth25: I Still Don't understand How The internet Is part Of it |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by octopusfreaky(f): 11:06pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
People feel praying for God's will is outdated ,God promise for every marriage on earth is love,,peace,happiness etc but when you cut corners it becomes nightmares.wondered yyy some ex prostitutes and single mothers get married to a lovely and caring man...coz they choose to surrender their past and dedicate their life to God...now the so-called single,,sharp girls that abused or mocked them in the past will envy their marriage and start asking them for tips on successful marriage .. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by deebrain(m): 11:06pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
I also know of so many more that succeed and last wonderfully through out their lives. |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by Misogynist2014(m): 11:07pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
MrPresident1:I don't think there is any solution, FFK was right about women, they are slaves to emotions, once a phenomenon agrees to their emotions, its very hard, if not impossible to make them turn away from it. Sometimes I just think about how women destroyed morality in America and Australia and shake my head. This link, though voluminous is the best thing I've ever read and its on feminism, try reading and won't bleak an eye http://www.dandebat.dk/eng-feminisme.htm 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by watered(m): 11:07pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
Vickybee:I see the pain in your words, I also see the truth in your lies. This woman's marriage has packed up and the reason was because her husband cheated on her. Woman be honest cos I know it. |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by Capitano1(m): 11:09pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
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Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by OrderBroker: 11:09pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
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Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by Misogynist2014(m): 11:09pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
cbrass:Amen my dear brother. Women type a lot of things out of emotions without considering how logical they are. Mankind has a lot of work to do to curtail them. Gen 3:16 comes to mind. The 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by Nobody: 11:10pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
Me too is wondering what d Internet is doing to broken homes. quote author=cbrass post=31836854] I Still Don't understand How The internet Is part Of it [/quote] |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by Nobody: 11:11pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
Misogynist2014: You and women ehn You must be very miserable I wish you knew me then 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by Misogynist2014(m): 11:13pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
Justfollowit:I care less than I write. 1 Like |
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