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Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by Acidosis(m): 9:29am On Mar 21, 2015 |
caprini1:Oga rent for lekki is not 4m. You have to be specific about the type of house and the location within lekki. This half baked information isn't healthy on a social media. Rents in Lekki can be as high as 4m; and as low as N200k 4 Likes |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by Nobody: 9:29am On Mar 21, 2015 |
Come ph, you will find a man with 3 cars in a rented apartment.should one's investment be the basis for relationships and marriages. Gold diggers everywhere! 5 Likes |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by Nobody: 9:30am On Mar 21, 2015 |
StOla:He can buy a land and be a proud land owner and can resell over a period of years and maybe buy another closer to where he hope to live. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by Nobody: 9:31am On Mar 21, 2015 |
majekdom2:Is it wise to invest in liabilities more than assets? |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by StOla: 9:33am On Mar 21, 2015 |
Mmadukaku: Yes he can, but he'll still be living elsewhere on rent. That should not stop him from buying a car as a necessity to commute to work and other social outings. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by Nobody: 9:34am On Mar 21, 2015 |
cr7lomo:Some men cannot be changed. They tell you its their money and what you think doesn't matter. |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by Nobody: 9:35am On Mar 21, 2015 |
parzdor: Na true o my brother. Most celebs live in rented apartment but show to the world they're made men/women. Fake lives everywhere. Ladies sef no gree talk for d matter on ground. |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by Nobody: 9:36am On Mar 21, 2015 |
StOla:Exactly. I was referring to guys who live flamboyant lifestyle with no single investment anywhere. Not even in the village. |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by coolsegun2002: 9:36am On Mar 21, 2015 |
Dis OP nd her sister are obviosly from upcountry...when u live nd work in lagos especially on the island..dis kinda life style is common...why?? ...most peeps can't easily afford land in lagos(I'm not talking about mowe nd ikorodu ooo) so they rent a place part time nd save up...so what's wrong with having a car to ease ur movement around town..since car loan exist in some companies with flexible payment plan...my guy can easily arange for one small camry(2007) ...go to lekki nd ajah...u go see boyz dy rent apartmnt of 1mil per anuum nd dem neva buy land...btw who told u d car is 2mill...mayb my guy don come nairaland auto section..my able dealers don give am better second hand/distress sale for 700k..OP abeg bone story ...all na packaging 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by dBard: 9:37am On Mar 21, 2015 |
Cpumping: ...and the silly thread made front page. @o.p, before my marriage, I had 2 cars and one was/is an suv, and I stayed in a rented flat, but that in no way meant I was being flamboyant,and more importantly,I have a plan for my future. ur sisters rejection of her suitor probably had little to do with wat he had but a perception of wat was his possible NFA lifestyle. Eventually, it's the inner workings of the man/woman that matters. 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by diamondoluwole: 9:39am On Mar 21, 2015 |
Is matter a lot, leave in a rented apartment and drove SUV #2million is bad, because investment first is a gr8 opportunity. I have a customer living in a rented house and drove Toyota jeep #8million he had accident with the jeep right off only God save his life. And this Bro didn't have a single land talk of one plot. He was sack where is working no money to pay the house rent now is living in one uncompleted building in Ago palace way. Investment first before pleasure, no matter how much salary you earn every month ! Mmadukaku: 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by komek(m): 9:41am On Mar 21, 2015 |
Mmadukaku: OP, that's how we leave here in Lagos o. But you and your sister funny die. What if he uses that SUV to set bigger jobs that can earn him income to buy a house? Do u know if some companies want to give u a contract they start by accessing u and not one house u built in the village. Your car in that regard is an asset. If u tell me those boys are NFA's then I will think again. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by Nobody: 9:42am On Mar 21, 2015 |
Mmadukaku:we all have got different dreams and aspirations. If I currently use a 2 mil car and live in a 200k house does not mean I don't have plans to have an investment anywhere. They are 2 different things. I wonder how unintelligent people can be. The car may be of utmost importance to me maybe because perhaps it facilitates my business plans and needs which an asset may not be able to do at that time. It's never good to jump at conclusions. 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by Nobody: 9:43am On Mar 21, 2015 |
diamondoluwole: coolsegun2002: |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by madeinnigeria: 9:44am On Mar 21, 2015 |
@ op have u been to abuja before? Thats exactly the kind of life most ppl live there 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by ideology(m): 9:44am On Mar 21, 2015 |
IT DEPENDS. But let's be objective can 2million build A house. Anyway I don't know what she knows 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by LydayBobo(m): 9:45am On Mar 21, 2015 |
There's no different BTW the one riding bicycle and SUV and living in the self contains apartments. They all need a virtue woman to turn their life around positively ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by laplace12(m): 9:45am On Mar 21, 2015 |
He has a car and a house and you asking if they can marry him?..bro are you ok? ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by mirexxx(f): 9:45am On Mar 21, 2015 |
buh really what's wrong in wanting an already made man ![]() do we have to start from the scratch with him?? we dont know who we'll be with in d future how do u start from d scratch with someone you know nothing about? naija mentality ![]() God blessed u with a man that can cater 4 ur needs and the needs of the family ur going to start together now becomes a problem in this country?? so we must drink garri with him to prove our love? it really doesn't mean u love him or does it guarantee marriage! am not in anyway encouraging girls not to work hard 4 a living o that's what most if you would see it to be sha a friend of mine once told me she would not marry a rich or well to do man she prefers they both start from the scratch? in marriage?? ![]() in this times ![]() ![]() and century?? this might be off topic sha saw someone's post and i had 2 say this ![]() ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by cornoil(m): 9:48am On Mar 21, 2015 |
What sort of reasoning is this? A guy works in a good company in a busy city like Lagos at terrible traffic locations like Apapa or Ikeja and decided to rent house in peaceful and sane environment very close to his work and start planning towards raising mortgage to get his personal building in such place instead of going to a place where he would leave house at 4 am in d morning and get home by 11 or 12 pm every night, facing dangers on the way. So u expect him to trek to office everyday? 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by Nobody: 9:48am On Mar 21, 2015 |
FitnessNigeria:2million ke. In 2010, I know of a guy dat owns a hummer truck worth over 10million then, brand new tear rubber, dat live in a one bedroom flat which is not fenced,not tile, old modeled structure, road-side parking space n no water supply. He had no investment, no land, not even thinking of building any yet. D rent of dat house was 150k. What would u call dat kinda person? And another civil servant dat lives in a 4 bedroom duplex with a year rent of 1.2million, owns 2 SUVs, 3 kids attending a british school wit school fees of over 150k per term n he's feeling like a yankee based guy. No land yet because he loves his apartment n says he intends 2 live there for some years. And both families r so happy n they feel/act classy. *smh* NB: I know these persons very well. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by Nobody: 9:49am On Mar 21, 2015 |
majekdom2:You can get a smaller car and invest too. It isn't wise to own a 2million naira car when you have nothing to fall back on if anything happens to that car. Ph men are mostly guilty of this wayward lifestyle. My gfrnds living in ph says men over there are more interested in living wayward lives. |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by Nobody: 9:51am On Mar 21, 2015 |
ideology:2million can start a good biz innit? |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by Nobody: 9:53am On Mar 21, 2015 |
pinkbee:Wow... Misplaced priorities Smh |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by chronique(m): 9:54am On Mar 21, 2015 |
It depends though. At a point while we were growing up,we had about 4 cars and we were still living in a rented apartment until we later moved into our own house in Lagos. Building your own house in Lagos is not very easy sometimes as some people may see it. Except you intend to build in areas where there are virgin lands. Moreover,you might have other projects competing for your scarce resources. Again,the type of job He does might necessitate the kind of ride He drives. In my years of doing biz and submitting proposals as a young man,I have come to understand what serious packaging in business is. You'd go somewhere to submit proposal and they'd stylishly send someone to come look at the car you came in(as a means of assessing your worth and seeing if they could entrust huge sum of money in your hands). Most times,the man who came well packaged in a range rover sport,gets the job ahead of you. This was something I experienced a lot around 2008. In a nutshell,I think what's more important,is what plans the dude has for his future and how he intends to go about them. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by Nobody: 9:54am On Mar 21, 2015 |
Mmadukaku:maam/ sir, it's not a wayward lifestyle. When you talk fall back on, I don't really understand. if one perhaps have an asset like you said which maybe a landed property, it still might not be easy to do away with. I encourage savings, one can always hold on to that. Well, you have something to fall back on when you car is faulty or damaged, it is called insurance. Which ever way you see it. It is not beans owing an asset in choice locations in ph. Majority have investments in their hometown perhaps but not in ph. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by harffie(m): 9:55am On Mar 21, 2015 |
jossayo:lol....I say picture of the SUV before I comment on the matter! 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by AlPicapcI(m): 9:56am On Mar 21, 2015 |
emmyw: They think with their puna.... 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by hedonistic: 9:57am On Mar 21, 2015 |
Stupid question, pointless thread. How did this land on the front page? You confused mods have to sit up. |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by laplace12(m): 9:57am On Mar 21, 2015 |
pinkbee: Their investment is in heaven ![]() But this investment thingy could get crazy sometimes. I know a guy that earns 25k as salary and is planning to buy a land in mowe. Isn't that crazy? Isn't he supposed to live first and let God take care of the future. From my christian point of view, massive rush to investment is an expression of lack of faith. I don't expect many to understand tho ![]() |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by 400billionman: 9:58am On Mar 21, 2015 |
A lady would be a harlot to live above her means. Bangles, earnings, necklaces and costly clothes and handbags. If she is always at the tailor or bend-down-select, she is fashion crazy and therefore a thief or runz girl. |
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