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Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by GANJAFARMER: 10:00am On Mar 21, 2015 |
Mmadukaku:It depends and because most people judge from afar so they tend not understand these kind of individuals. I built my first house within two years of working ,it was a twin three bedroom flat which I intended to stay with my live-in girlfriend and rent the other flat out ,but I opted to rent a house in highbrow area just for the security and often at times when I renew the exorbitant rent my girl don't find it funny always insisting we should pack into our own house and live their. After so much pressure from her I told her my reasons and painted a blurry picture of what could transpire if we pack into the house and she believed me . Even before she passed on I deliberately rented an apartment all because of her. sometimes people do the things they do due to some factors that people around might find it difficult to comprehend. I do not judge a man by his ways but by his thoughts . 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by 400billionman: 10:01am On Mar 21, 2015 |
Mmadukaku: It might also be a mistake. I knew of a case, the guy got the SUV for a reason but that thing later didn't work as planned. He drives it for private use and has a second older car. Right now he has addressed his priorities right and invests all his savings into landed properties. Will you not marry him for that ? 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by Nobody: 10:01am On Mar 21, 2015 |
laplace12:Lol, so christians shouldn't plan for the rainy days? 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by Tallesty1(m): 10:01am On Mar 21, 2015 |
Some ladies won't mind if he sleeps in the car at night. Especially these 30+ babes that are looking for a way to attract a man. |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by baslone: 10:02am On Mar 21, 2015 |
I can talk for myself. I drive a very expensive SUV and I live in a rented apartment. "How you arrive, that is the price you are". This is not for salary earners, Every successful business man I know passed through this stage. It's called packaging- Respect is key. Prospective business partners, investors,loan sharks won't visit your house.They simply size you up from what they see and it gets the bills paid. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by debeo: 10:02am On Mar 21, 2015 |
Your sister doesn't love the guy! If she does SUV or no SUV, rented apartment or not. She will run to the guys house! When if the car is 2m nko? Do you know it takes an average of 7m to build a small 2bd? So the guy should go and steal or build 1 house in 7 years before he marries your sister because your sister is queen Elizabeth or Tracheal or Leah? Or should he go and live in one bush in ikorodu with snakes and wild animals as neighbours and spend 5 hours in traffic everyday just to get home and be reducing his life span? Abegi She never wan marry Shioooo When there are plenty golden fishes in the ocean Your sister who wants to marry a landlord what has she amasses for herself? Any special reasons why the guy should marry her minus the obvious ones? 6 Likes |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by showbobo(m): 10:05am On Mar 21, 2015 |
Dunno why Nigerians can be so petty. . .shey na everybody go build house ni abi don't u think it's a gradual process 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by ideology(m): 10:06am On Mar 21, 2015 |
Mmadukaku: Op mentioned his rent, making it look like, the guy is wasting 200k on rent. It depends like I said, someone working in a bank may find it difficult to run business at the same time. we can not just conclude that the guy doesn't have investment plans. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by tivta(m): 10:06am On Mar 21, 2015 |
mirexxx:. My sweet sister. You have a lot to learn about how men think. The summary of marrying a rich man is as follows" he who pays the piper, dictates the tune." Most ready made men are serial cheats, abusive and slave masters. They will treat women like properties that they can discard at any time and more often than not have lots of concubines. If that is the type of man you want, GOODLUCK, cause it will be a miracle to find a ready made man who will respect his wife(even if she is independent) why? Cause of the way women think like you, always putting comfort ahead of respect. Its up to you to decide what you want in a man cause as like solomon did in the bible, a wealthy man will most often than not be a cheat and polygamous. 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by Nobody: 10:06am On Mar 21, 2015 |
Tallesty1:This thread obviously isn't for you, pls don't derail. Look for an age discussion thread. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by Nobody: 10:07am On Mar 21, 2015 |
frankmishael1: What if he chose Buhari? Would you decamp to satan or turn atheist? |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by AreaFada2: 10:11am On Mar 21, 2015 |
mimicious:. You know some ladies like noisemakers. Some guys build a house and tell nobody until they collect house keys from the builder. |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by menix(m): 10:14am On Mar 21, 2015 |
OP... How did u know doz guyz ve no investment, do u think its every guy dat runs his mouth.. I was staying wiv my broda in a self contain wen i bought my 1st car wich was an SUV, i would say it was over-due.. And i could tell u 1 truth amongst d gals i dated till date only 1 knew my investments cous she was good at searching my phone. Dislike guyz wiv fake life buh most tym wat doz guyz need is a kool headed woman to make something out of them.. |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by caprini1: 10:15am On Mar 21, 2015 |
Acidosis: |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by horlakunle25(m): 10:15am On Mar 21, 2015 |
RickRichards:Wat's dis one saying?? Side effect of taking "mini-pack" b4 typing I guess! |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by Nobody: 10:16am On Mar 21, 2015 |
Sacluxpaint:go back to ur slumber |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by Nobody: 10:17am On Mar 21, 2015 |
400billionman:Good reason if I must say but the bone of contention is towards guys who own very expensive suv just to annouce that they've arrived. |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by femi4: 10:17am On Mar 21, 2015 |
Mmadukaku:2 million naira car is not a big boy car. That's the cost of an average tokunbo car 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by Nobody: 10:21am On Mar 21, 2015 |
frankmishael1: Typical gullibe Nigerian |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by caprini1: 10:21am On Mar 21, 2015 |
Acidosis:I mean a 4 bedroom duplex.....we are talking about homes here and not an apartment! 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by Nobody: 10:28am On Mar 21, 2015 |
femi4:Made in Nigeria brand new SUV's can be bought with that amount. Come to Nnewi ![]() |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by bodeoni: 10:34am On Mar 21, 2015 |
In the world we live today, the package has become more important than the content. A guy my buy an expensive car and still be living in a self contain cos he is trying to make himself into a brand. The car one drives might just be what determines whether or not one gets a major contract 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by Nobody: 10:34am On Mar 21, 2015 |
It doesn't matter as long as he has the plans of building his own. People do it. I have a friend who lives in a 2bedroom boys quaters in opebi with her husband and 4kids,they drive nice cars,and have built two blocks of 3bedrooms flat at ikorodu and mowe,which they rented out. They are landlords living in a rented place'so it's not new. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by femi4: 10:36am On Mar 21, 2015 |
Mmadukaku:Made in Nigeria car doesn't have heritage yet |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by Nobody: 10:39am On Mar 21, 2015 |
FitnessNigeria: Some of us don't let anyone in when we embark on any kind of project until its completion. The said guy may have investments the lady doesn't even know about. He may be building his house and the lady won't know. Afterall he isn't in anyway obligated to let her know—they aren't married. Moreover, investments aren't limited to landed properties, you know? No right-thinking guy would own a SUV and be living in a self con. without having atleast a land, or working earnestly to get one. He just may not let the lady know about it. Only takes a lady with a discerning mind to understand. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by tuffgongjo(m): 10:42am On Mar 21, 2015 |
Tuntheycr7:That your picture is a Hat-trick of Lands now. |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by chyket(m): 10:43am On Mar 21, 2015 |
In Life some people pretend as if where they get to in life is always because they are hardworking,smart and very discerning but life is not as simple as that. From most of the posts i ve gone through here,it seems to most people that its automatic that once you make an investment that it will succeed and prosper but statistics show that 75% of start ups ie new businesses fail within the first 3 years,look around your environment and see how often businesses spring up and disappear. Most businesses struggle in Nigeria because of poor foundation like inadequate capital,copycat syndrome and lack of basic management skills etc. Most. genuine businessmen in Nigeria know that the greatest threat and competition in business comes from people who have access to drug money,government funds etc and they patiently wait for you to develop a business model and once they notice that you are making a headway,they float a similar business and pump so much resources into it that yours will look like a child's play. I have seen Millionaires become beggars and beggars become Millionaires so people should not base their marriage on what you have now or what you do not have.I have been married for over 14years and I can tell you from my personal experience that things will always change but what always keeps a marriage is believeing in yourselves and a decision that you will make a success out of the marriage. You could even own properties and investment at inception of the marriage and circu mstances beyond your control may make you to sell them off in other to survive. Once a Man has genuine plans for the future and he is willing to work together with the wife to achieve it and He believes and trusts in God,I personally believe that they are on their way to a successful marriage irrespective of the hiccups that may come up once in a while. 4 Likes |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by Nobody: 10:44am On Mar 21, 2015 |
coolbibz:A lot of guys do. |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by Nobody: 10:44am On Mar 21, 2015 |
Mmadukaku:Yes, I know someone who came back from Norway to Nigeria last year and he's building a house now but refuses to buy a car. Not that he doesn't have the money for a car, he simply does not want to show off. That guy i guess is a role model. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by justmag(m): 10:44am On Mar 21, 2015 |
This is a very good post that should have people thinking ahead. It's very important to understand the one you are with. So many people are draw to people with a lavish lifestyle without observing longevity. I can be lavish today but will it be consistent? A girl will see a Mercedes Benz and automatically assume this guy is wealthy and can a garantee a proper future with her. Money can disappear over night. So I don't blame the woman who left the man with the 200,000 naira self contained. She has a plan. |
Re: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by elbinmanny(m): 10:45am On Mar 21, 2015 |
I did not intend to buy a car just to be a car owner. It depends on the type of biz or career u are into, im into construction and own a mercerdes c class (for private use) and a Nissan frontier truck (for site). I live in a rented apartment cos it was neccesary. That doesnt mean I dont wanna own my own property. It could be time or the type of house I want to erect. I wont live my house for someone to build and wont vacate site where I make my money cos I want to build mine. Its time and what I want. Ladies should look at prospects. Must guys buy expensive cars to market themselves. ![]() |
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