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Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by smartigo: 3:04pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
KanwuliaJara:You are wrong to say POLYGAMY is an open marriage. Although,it's more like it but with a clause. Open marriage,according to my dictionary is when each partner agrees to have sexual relationship with another partner whenever they feel. The word is 'agree'. They both accepted. There are some aspects we feel are wrong in our culture that can be corrected but OPEN MARRIAGE is not. Imagine such ideology? What does it promote and prevent if I may ask you? I will be right to assume this is a lady's response to polygamy? What happens to polyandry? |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by KanwuliaJara: 3:11pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
smartigo: Agreement comes in many forms o! If you turn a blind eye. . . YOU AGREE simple! If you no gree, you go WAKA with divorce abi? Na who you wan deceive? 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by cococandy(f): 3:35pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
bukatyne: All of them blaming the women. One girl posts to blame the guys and they want to eat her alive Vickybee pls don't mind them. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by josite: 3:49pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
marrying a spouse u have not had the opportunity to see or hear live his or her normal life without them knowing you are watching them is finding yourself married to a strange bedfellow. how can u say u don't know she smokes hemp and hate praying and jus love fuckin any iidiot that lives abroad or. has soft spot for men who has features u will never have.don't marry a stranger. know far more than he or she tells u or show u.my ex was livid when I let her know I' researched and found out she is an international mega class prostitute |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by Mayosky15754: 4:00pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
nkemdi89: You having such friend speaks much volume of your kind of personality. |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by kodlins(f): 4:14pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
CaptainAmerica1: Abeg go and sit down! Your type will never accept that they are wrong. And just be fault finders. Marriages breakup not just because of either the man alone or the woman. Its not a gender thing. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by creepsyme(f): 5:04pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
kay29000:End time things. Mathew 10:21 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by onegig(m): 5:32pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
bukatyne: Nah..Why would I? I don't have the luxury of time for that. |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by Nobody: 6:09pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by Vick4rill(m): 7:00pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
In my own opinion most marriage break up because the youth have lost the meaning of true love. Most girls are after tall,muscular and handsome guys while the guys are after hot sexy and beautiful girls infact wat l jst mention nw are the criteria most youths use when they are after marriage, character is less considered nowadays.that is why marriage rearly last. Because when the couples satisfy the infatuation that lured them to the marriage they now understand that their is nothing left to enjoy again.this are the major reasons of marriage failure.while some few people are just unlucky In my own opinion most marriage break up because the youth have lost the meaning of true love. Most girls are after tall,muscular and handsome guys while the guys are after hot sexy and beautiful girls infact wat l jst mention nw are the criteria most youths use when they are after marriage, character is less considered nowadays.that is why marriage rearly last. Because when the couples satisfy the infatuation that lured them to the marriage they now understand that their is nothing left to enjoy again.this are the major reasons of marriage failure.while some few people are just unlucky |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by cbrass(m): 7:12pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
Lizabeth25: SMH |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by Nobody: 7:35pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
kay29000: Same goes for d man especially when he's rich b4 he decides to court a lady so he ends up dating hypocrites except d woman is richer dan him...also when d woman insist on no sex until after marriage, d man may be blinded by lust which falls from his eyes after marriage hence wahala starts. |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by egobetatoday: 7:35pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
Riodiao: i feel your pain Sir. If all these happened in 2011 all because of buhari, i wonder why such a person is still in the politics of today? And to think that Nigerians have not considered the bloodletting that happened in his name in 2011 is appalling. so many innocent victims are crying from the grave. may their blood be on Buhari and any one who rather than féel for the victims and their families, are gearing Buhari on and ready to still go and cast their votes for him. Osinbajo who calls himself a pastor decided even against all these to run with this blood sucking demon. God will also judge u. |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by ibedun: 8:12pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
I don't enjoy causing people's parent buy YOUR MAMA no go for well. egobetatoday: |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by nkemdi89(f): 9:31pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
Mayosky15754:We got to know of the whole accident after the divorce, besides you don't throw the bath water with the child despite she had a failed marriage thhat doesn't it make her a bad person and failure in life. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by uncjay(m): 9:32pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
bukatyne:Judging by what u just wrote here shows the degree of ur quest, which of course an abstract dream.. Why don't u be true to yourself and be liberal. |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by AODT(m): 9:44pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
My opinion is that marriage is decision made by adults to live together. That is why during the ceremony either in court or church, you are asked ' will you take her/him as you wife/husband' as the case may be. Even though there will be so many alternatives, you have seen him/her, think things through and made up you minds. But unfortunately what we have are people carried away with emotions, sexual desires, warmth, financial comforts etc and when these starts wearing out they immediately start looking for the alternatives to meet their needs. Love. This is a big one but am telling you, once you've decided, you can grow into loving your spouse. If you fall in love, you can easily fall out of love too. But if you grow into loving someone, your roots will be too attached to the ground it will take more than a shake to uproot. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by Nobody: 9:55am On Mar 22, 2015 |
omowumee:omo wetin carry u come nairaland,go jack chemical books |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by Nobody: 9:58am On Mar 22, 2015 |
Unibenstudent:see you black face..you don read yur GST111 finish?? |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by Nobody: 9:59am On Mar 22, 2015 |
omowumee:that course weh I scored 101/100 ,,na wa that pre 571 get text tomorrow |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by Nobody: 10:05am On Mar 22, 2015 |
Unibenstudent:n you dey nairaland abi...me don graduate leave you since naa....when i was still a student, i was very serious oo |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by Nobody: 10:07am On Mar 22, 2015 |
omowumee:shattap dere.. Better go and prepare..make I jack all ur threads,make I know how ur brain functions.. |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by Nobody: 10:10am On Mar 22, 2015 |
Unibenstudent:idi0t |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by Nobody: 10:13am On Mar 22, 2015 |
omowumee:who be idi0t,I no where to catch u,,shey because dean na from chemical now abi |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by spencer100: 3:27am On Mar 23, 2015 |
Hmmmmmmmmmmm Nigerian women seem to have decided at some meeting to disrespect their men, I have found that the women who respect their men, no matter their status have been allowed to flourish by their husbands. Young ladies you earn N500,000 a month, he earns N150,000.00. You rub it in his face that he is a loser, when you expect him to be sane. As anyone asked why Naija men now go an look for wives abroad? Has anyone figured why Nigerian men would leave a well furnished home with a 72 inch screen TV at home to go and watch a match at a viewing centre over drinks? Looking forward to when our men would be eager to go home, no man wants to go through what Mr. Arolowo went through. Kill a wife or die because of a wife. |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by breathless(m): 8:08am On Mar 23, 2015 |
kay29000: Liken it to the same reasons why most businesses fail in their first five years in operation. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by OPearl: 11:45am On Mar 23, 2015 |
I love ds thread and all d comments but d HARD TRUTH is both sides are to be blamed, coz ds days Men don't really love their wives n vice versa. When a man sincerely loves a woman he shows it in all he does, there is no right thinking woman dt wudnt be submissive n respectful to him. In d same vein when a woman without being bias submit to her hubby, loving,caring n RESPECTING him; d man has no option but to go all outta way to love n boast of her (wiffy). (Even d bible supports ds) But ds days we all care too much about ourselves to even consider other peeps feelings. Its only selfish to behave badly towards ur spouse n expect to be loved in return. In marriage, u must not DO what u can't take. I sincerely Pray our men will stop been EGOCENTRIC and listen to their women while we women RESPECT, SUBMIT n OBEY our men (irrespective of what we have, where we @, who we know). IRREPLACEABLE FACT is Men will always be Leaders n Head in all marriages! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by MamaDDD: 1:21pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
The environmental stress especially in the area of the making end means which is becoming more tedious. This tends to put strain on marriages. Couples are now out there hustling to make end means and most of the times dont allocate sufficient time to keep the flame of love burning so, over time this leads to the diminishing of the love which can later make them to become strangers to each other. |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by love2nicee: 12:08pm On May 11, 2015 |
Because of lack of communication and we chrstains have failed to forgive one another |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by MrMacinterchi1: 10:15am On Mar 31, 2020 |
kay29000: this is 2020, and it's still happening. No improvement! 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by chinebu(m): 10:40am On Mar 31, 2020 |
End Time |
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by MrMacinterchi1: 2:18pm On Mar 31, 2020 |
nkemdi89: lol . is that one marriage. na material marriage be that. This type can't even stay during hard times. |
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