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Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by seedorfg(m): 7:29pm On Mar 21, 2015
He should start smoking fish, my 2cent though

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Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by Nobody: 7:29pm On Mar 21, 2015
You cant stop him. No one stops a smoker, they stop when they realize they need to.

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Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by victor2008(m): 7:29pm On Mar 21, 2015
Let me start by saying if not for weed, i wont be a graduate, actually i smoke hemp for 11years,then after i stopped substituted it with liquor, now even im married my wife want me to go back to hemp smoking, because back then what a man can achieve in 5years,i will do it in a week, due to hemp smoking done alot of good and bad due to hemp smoking.
My advice tell him to start reducing the in take to tiny, or better still take it as beverage, or cook it with beans that as crayfish, fish etc

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Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by Adyrin(m): 7:29pm On Mar 21, 2015
tah!
Na so una D̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣̥ snatch people gf so!
W̶̲̥̅̊ђA̶̲̥̅ts there that you can't tell her here?
Oloshi ni!
luckyman1010:
He will stop it by God grace,it wouldn't cost you anything,call me or watzapp me on 08037934770.
Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by flavour360blog: 7:29pm On Mar 21, 2015
Lol! He needs the holyspirit

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Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 7:30pm On Mar 21, 2015
Add more thyme to his food.


I feel for u dear, I know how painful it is to discover that he has been smoking for long. Just be careful with him cause he might get agressive and hurt u.

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Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by Nobody: 7:30pm On Mar 21, 2015
okonelfg:
jus giv him a blowjoob




Matured Advice Only!

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Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by duality(m): 7:30pm On Mar 21, 2015
He is not gona stop. there's nothing you can do. He should give is life to christ. let God do the rest.

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Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by LewisO: 7:30pm On Mar 21, 2015
[size=14pt] Continue using kiss to keep his mouth busy, i bet u he won't remember weed. undecided [/size]

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Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by Capitano1(m): 7:31pm On Mar 21, 2015
[size=18pt]SWEAT TOO MUCH
Visit us[/size]
Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by Adyrin(m): 7:32pm On Mar 21, 2015
Would you advise your children to take it?because you are so proud of it.....
W̶̲̥̅̊ђA̶̲̥̅t is bad is bad!
Period!
victor2008:
Let me start by saying if not for weed, i wont be a graduate, actually i smoke hemp for 11years,then after i stopped substituted it with liquor, now even im married my wife want me to go back to hemp smoking, because back then what a man can achieve in 5years,i will do it in a week, due to hemp smoking done alot of good and bad due to hemp smoking.
My advice tell him to start reducing the in take to tiny, or better still take it as beverage, or cook it with beans that as crayfish, fish etc
Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by succyreal(m): 7:33pm On Mar 21, 2015
Report him to the police let him be beaten and torture for some weeks after then tell them to warm him never to go near WEED again then he should be release.

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Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by Adyrin(m): 7:33pm On Mar 21, 2015
You still had the guts to book space in second page?
Haba...!
LewisO:
Hhhh
Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by bjbukzy(m): 7:33pm On Mar 21, 2015
i once tot i cant do without it but since going to nysc camp in november, i ve not smoked or eaten weed. tho sometimes i feel so.weak.but i just channel my thoughts towards other tins

it seems dis nysc of a thing helped sha as i ve it in mind to be a good example to my students
Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by thelifechangers: 7:34pm On Mar 21, 2015
LOL @THAILAND THYME

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Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by cutedidah(f): 7:34pm On Mar 21, 2015
Hey gal..sup with you? why trying to change him..R u d Holy spirit?? just commit him in Gods hand.

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Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by Nobody: 7:36pm On Mar 21, 2015
steppin:

Sister, pele. Your bf is a junkie, he can't stop even if he wants to.
Just get yourself another Boyfriend.





Lol. Will you get me one?
Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by Ibime(m): 7:36pm On Mar 21, 2015
Is he doing well in life?

Is he achieving his goals?

If so, allow him to continue what he enjoys doing in his leisure time. I don't see why the world must end.

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Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by eltalentino(m): 7:36pm On Mar 21, 2015
The surest way to stop smoking
1. Do not put the cigarette in your mouth
2. Don't lit the cigarette and u are good to go. My 2 cents
Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by Pimples(m): 7:37pm On Mar 21, 2015
he has to first be convinced of the need to stop
he has to avoid friends that encourage him to smoke
he has to gradually reduce his intake (to reduce withdrawal symptoms)
he has to ask for God's help. (don't underestimate prayers)
Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by IYANGBALI: 7:38pm On Mar 21, 2015
Catered4:
[i]Me: What's this?
Dele: Thyme
Me: what kind of thyme is this?
Dele: Its Thailand Thyme. Its used in cooking soup and its also medicinal. When you use it to cook, you will like it.
Me: wow, I will like to try it. Can I have some?
this got me cracking grin

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Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by Nobody: 7:38pm On Mar 21, 2015
SmartChoices:

OK I will get back to you...



Thanks
Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by Nobody: 7:38pm On Mar 21, 2015
Snoop Lion & Wiz Khalifa smokes at least 20 wraps of weeds everyday...
Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by Nobody: 7:40pm On Mar 21, 2015
undecided i pity ur condition, if u try 2 take weed frm him u r trying to take ur own life. hw did u ended up dating a guy smoking weed in d first place? if u can run away bf he gets u pregnant u better run cause any1 dat smokes dat shit r womanizer, lazyman, alcoholic, and wife beater at d end he wont b responsible 4 taking care of u and d kids.

once again run asap 4 ur lyf and listen to ur parent. i know d story is just a joke though.

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Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by Nobody: 7:41pm On Mar 21, 2015
duality:
He is not gona stop. there's nothing you can do. He should give is life to christ. let God do the rest.

Catered4 here's your answer....
Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by Akposkool(m): 7:41pm On Mar 21, 2015
Not everyone who smoke misbehave. Does he behave strangely like talking to himself or shouting without reason? Does he neglect his personal responsibilities, or lose focus in life? These are questions that I wanna ask. Because if he behaves normally and doesn't act like a street monger or fight anyhow, then I will advise you let him be. These persons take time to change, it can't happen in one day. If na cigarette e easy but skunk and weed, my sister leave am for God. Because if he smokes and still behaves normally, na God win

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Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by Nobody: 7:42pm On Mar 21, 2015
jauntty:
Why do Girls think they can CHANGE a guy ?

He can only change if HE decide to change. otherwise you can't do much.






There are also guys who believes in changing ladies too Vice Versa
Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by chax100(f): 7:43pm On Mar 21, 2015
One Friday arrive home so happy, tell him you have just been promoted and promise him a treat at KFC or Chicken Republic, in one of their new branches on Yaba road tomorrow. On the D-day, a Saturday take him to Yaba- Left, the psychiatric. By the time he finished seeing his seniors whose mind had reached the advance-higher smoking in Skunk, Weed, Indian hemp, Meth and Cocaine. Let him know that all those madmen started like him, then he will remind himself that a true wealth man is a sound mind. Thanks, also put him I prayers, there is nothing our God cannot do. Remain blessed.

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Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by Segunod(m): 7:43pm On Mar 21, 2015
The rate @ which teenagers smokes weed is days is really scary. Some are expose to smoking @ d tender age of 16yrs old.
@OP, he really needs ur love and most importantly prayers. Those who smokes don't let out d habit easily. U need to seperate him from those friends and make sure u're always watchful of his company.
Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by free2ryhme: 7:43pm On Mar 21, 2015
Catered4:
A week ago, I smelled something like cigarette on him though I wasn't sure because I've never seen him smoke and he doent look like someone that smokes. As in, no trace of it in him. The smell was so strong that I was forced to ask him.

Me: Did you smoke?
Dele: No, why?
Me: Are you sure?
Dele: No I didn't
Me: But I smell something like cigarette in you
Dele: I didn't smoke


I was so convinced that he smoked but I had no strong evidence to prove that he smoked. The next day, in the afternoon precisely, I perceived that same smell on him which wasn't so in the morning. I was forced to ask again.

Me: You smoked today again. Don't even deny it.
Dele: *Speechless*
Me: I knew you smoked yesterday but I wasn't so sure of what I smelled in you. Today that same smell is on you and its so strong. So tell me, Do you smoke?
Dele: Yes but not cigarette.
Me: What?
Dele: Skunk (don't know if I got the spelling right)
Me: What's Skunk?
Dele: He explained though I didn't understand any of his explanation since I was hearing it for the first time.
Me: For how long have you been smoking Skunk?
Dele: For years. I wasn't like that before not until some circumstances pushed me into the street. Mumsy and everyone doesn't know I smoke. No one knows.
Me: Please I want you to stop smoking. I don't feel comfortable with smokers. How can I help you stop?
Dele: I'm not an addict. I can stop right away.


I was so happy that I thought it was that easy to stop. Right there I believed he had stopped smoking skunk. A day after our discussion, I saw him with something that looked like grinded grass or dry leaf wrapped in a small white nylon. I was so curious to know what it was, so I asked.

Me: What's this?
Dele: Thyme
Me: what kind of thyme is this?
Dele: Its Thailand Thyme. Its used in cooking soup and its also medicinal. When you use it to cook, you will like it.
Me: wow, I will like to try it. Can I have some?
Dele: (This time around, laughing out), its weed ooo.
Me: you mean Igbo?
Dele: Yes Igbo. Its also called Weed.
Me: (Not suspecting he smokes weed too) is it the same Igbo that is being mixed in hair creams?
Dele: Yes but not this one. If you want that one, I will get it for you. This one is being put into tea or chewed. Its medicinal.


Dele explained the medical benefits of taking weed (In tea or chewing). I never knew he smokes weed not until a day he went out with his friends, his eyes was bleeding blood like he was given blow in the eyes. His eye balls were out and scaring. This time around, I walked up to him and asked if he had been smoking and he said Yes. I was furious. He promised to stop smoking skunk but I was surprised when he told me it wasn't skunk this time around but weed. I was so down. He promised to stop again.

Just yesterday, I caught him smoking. He didn't know I was coming. I saw him smoking the white paper. I was heart broken. I was speechless. I ran inside. He came in, he knew I was angry but he didn't know what to say. Not long, he slept off. I searched d whole house. I found wraps of weed in a nylon. I also found some in the varandah under a chair. I threw them into the water closet and flushed them. I placed the wrapper closed to where he will see them. He woke up and saw the wrappers emptied. He asked and I told him I ate them all. He didn't believe but I insisted that I ate them all since that's what he likes doing too. Ever since then, I've been keeping to myself.

I want to help him stop his smoking habit. I don't want him to damage his health due to excessive smoking. I'm afraid if he continues this way, something bad might happen to his health.

Please fellow Nairalanders, I need him to quit smoking, how do I help him stop. Matured advice only.
Thank you.


You can never change a man

If your parents don't smoke and abhor smoking what business do u have dating an igbo smoker

Never be equally yoken with an unbeliever
Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by appini: 7:44pm On Mar 21, 2015
Help to stop smoking weed.. Hmm!
Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by Nobody: 7:44pm On Mar 21, 2015
Mynd44:
I have been on the same road as the OP...suporting a weed addict *Shivers* not fun.

hiding money, searching his pockets and drawers almost stalking......you are in for a long ride



Hmmm. Ever since I discovered, I've been so worried. I really don't want his health damaged.

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