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I Need Help Abt My Sex Life.. by unilagfreshest(m): 7:14am On Mar 22, 2015 |
am 25, i love sex bt d problem is any time i wnt to make love to my gal using condom, i loose my EreC_tion in less than a minutes, nd to get it back will be diffficult and evn after removin d condom wont get it until after an hour or more... bt without condom, i rock well. tho she(they) dont complain bt i always wnt to protect my self atleast som times, have tried many condoms frm goldcircle(worst) to durex nd any u cn see in market, bt am worried..do i hav problem or its normal?...Help.(Note: i use withdrawal method most times) Thanks. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Need Help Abt My Sex Life.. by Mhizizzy(f): 7:16am On Mar 22, 2015 |
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Re: I Need Help Abt My Sex Life.. by Orijin105: 7:20am On Mar 22, 2015 |
Mhizizzy:Mhizizzy and spacebooking are jez like Bread and butter 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Need Help Abt My Sex Life.. by Cutehector(m): 7:21am On Mar 22, 2015 |
Its well |
Re: I Need Help Abt My Sex Life.. by Nobody: 7:21am On Mar 22, 2015 |
Op, yours is a case of condom based erectile dysfunction. Have no fear, its not rare Do you practice Pre-intimacy with your partner before sex? Pre-intimacy is just the physical and intimate acts done before sex to stimulate arousal and desire for sexual activity such as kissing, touching embracing and the rest I will advise you spend some time in pre-intimacy before you put the condom on, you could put in the middle or towards the end of the pre-intimacy Pre-intimacy can help both women and men to become more aroused, which for women can promote vaginal lubrication and for men can help to promote their _erection. Also, you can try adding a lubricant on top of the condom, it helps to enhance sensation leading to a more firm _erection. If you are using latex condoms, try using a water-based or silicone-based lubricant, The size of the condom also matters. If the condom seems too large or too small for your penis it affects the general _erection Finally,you can try self servicing with the condom while alone. Sexual stimulation feels different with a condom on, so self-serving with the condom on, helps your body adapt to it Op, I hope I helped, Thanks 2 Likes |
Re: I Need Help Abt My Sex Life.. by naijaboiy: 7:22am On Mar 22, 2015 |
Please go and see a doctor. He could help you with that. Skin to skin is still very risky no matter the trust. |
Re: I Need Help Abt My Sex Life.. by Orijin105: 7:22am On Mar 22, 2015 |
I see STD/HIV dancing shoki in your life 2 Likes |
Re: I Need Help Abt My Sex Life.. by Nobody: 7:25am On Mar 22, 2015 |
The info you've provided isn't enough to give u a conclusive assessment... First, does the sensation become more intense with the use of the condom? 2nd, do you like the use of condoms or just conforming to social norms? 3rd, at what point of the inercourse do you put your condom on? 4th, you put it on yourself or she does for you? 5th, have you tried letting her use a female condom? |
Re: I Need Help Abt My Sex Life.. by Mhizizzy(f): 7:36am On Mar 22, 2015 |
Orijin105: 105? Nawa o..dey wan finish u o If u don reach 109...lemme know |
Re: I Need Help Abt My Sex Life.. by unilagfreshest(m): 7:41am On Mar 22, 2015 |
First, does the sensation become more intense with the use of the condom? NO. 2nd, do you like the use of condoms or just conforming to social norms? i dont like using it, bt i feel its important nd all dat, bt mostly dissapointe wit d outcom. 3rd, at what point of the intercourse do you put your condom on? hahan, b4 nahh.. 4th, you put it on yourself or she does for you? myself 5th, have you tried letting her use a female condom? Nope. i should b d one in charge nt her... moreover most gal dnt evn knw wat it looks like. |
Re: I Need Help Abt My Sex Life.. by Orijin105: 7:42am On Mar 22, 2015 |
Mhizizzy:dat ishilov.e wicked ehn! she jez dey gimme ban till 2025 i never see dat kind ban before she ban me up to d stage dat i started tagging her moniker after opening a new account |
Re: I Need Help Abt My Sex Life.. by delishpot: 7:51am On Mar 22, 2015 |
See risking na. Bros abeg no chook unprotected again o. Lets go see a medical doctor for better investigation. |
Re: I Need Help Abt My Sex Life.. by Nobody: 7:57am On Mar 22, 2015 |
unilagfreshest: Then, I'll say its anxiety issues related to your dislike of condoms, wear your condom just before penetration, not some few mins before and let her put it on for you and integrate it as just another part of lovemaking or let her use female condom... 1 Like |
Re: I Need Help Abt My Sex Life.. by Afrok(m): 9:02am On Mar 22, 2015 |
Op two things will be involved one day; 1. Pregnancy 2. STDs If no.1 then U ar safe as a baby father or termination, if no.2, two things are involved; 1. Gonorrhoea 2. HIV If Gonorrhoea U ar safe coz it can be treated, if HIV, U ar on a long thing as know d drill nd what can / will happen. So op, Use ur head and don't allow ur di*k be in control always. 1 Like |
Re: I Need Help Abt My Sex Life.. by 400billionman: 9:32am On Mar 22, 2015 |
unilagfreshest: You are underaged. Stop having sex. Pursue your dreams, make God first. There is time for everything. 1 Like |
Re: I Need Help Abt My Sex Life.. by Dygeasy(m): 9:52am On Mar 22, 2015 |
You are in trouble OP |
Re: I Need Help Abt My Sex Life.. by unilagfreshest(m): 10:01am On Mar 22, 2015 |
missclasssy:THANKS SO MUCH...WILL WORK ON ALL |
Re: I Need Help Abt My Sex Life.. by TheSonOfMark(m): 10:06am On Mar 22, 2015 |
@Missclasssy: There are folks with sensitive penile skin. The constriction 'caused by the latex might just be too much on his nerve-endings. How about she uses a female condom while he works on those flaws? From experience I know keeping an erection is more psychological than physical. |
Re: I Need Help Abt My Sex Life.. by cybug: 10:42am On Mar 22, 2015 |
Some condoms do have numbing agents... This can degenerate to erectile dysfunction. Get married! |
Re: I Need Help Abt My Sex Life.. by ffo(m): 1:13pm On Mar 22, 2015 |
unilagfreshest: you need JESUS in your life. also if you can't hold yaself GO AND MARRY. |
Re: I Need Help Abt My Sex Life.. by austine4real(m): 1:23pm On Mar 22, 2015 |
God is upset wt u,cos u'r wasting His milk stop fvckin til u gets married or d tin no go stand again |
Re: I Need Help Abt My Sex Life.. by pretydiva(f): 1:46pm On Mar 22, 2015 |
Won't advice u. Buh d only tin I wil say is 4 u 2 focus on ur studies. Sex is meant only 4 d married folks. If u wanna ve sex den u no d right tin 2 do. Dont incure d wrath of God n jeopardize ur future. Peace |
Re: I Need Help Abt My Sex Life.. by Nobody: 1:46pm On Mar 22, 2015 |
austine4real: An ill-thought statement ! SMH |
Re: I Need Help Abt My Sex Life.. by Nobody: 1:52pm On Mar 22, 2015 |
pretydiva: The way some people talk sometimes just makes you sit and wonder. Did the guy tell you he is not old enough to make decisions for himself? So why stray from the subject How the fvck does someone's _sex life have anything to do with his studies? Are you innocent of the charges you are laying against him? Who are you to say preach about God and his laws seeing you dress like a street-walker! 1 Like |
Re: I Need Help Abt My Sex Life.. by chimerase2: 1:58pm On Mar 22, 2015 |
Op ua case is a normal case It happens to me too but ma AMU stays erect without cuming with condom but witout condom. I rock too Wat I mean is doing it with condom doesn't interest me at all Me too I can't continue doing skin to skin so I had to quit 1 Like |
Re: I Need Help Abt My Sex Life.. by austine4real(m): 2:34pm On Mar 22, 2015 |
missclasssy:2day is sunday lets b holy. So if i fvckd u&pour cvms on ur body,d cvms ddnt waste abi u drank it? |
Re: I Need Help Abt My Sex Life.. by Renz(m): 7:04pm On Mar 25, 2015 |
unilagfreshest: Exercise Regularly and drink more water. 1 Like |
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