MRMICKMEN:


you gave so much insight to the guy and his family so i think u are the person in question,stop hiding it.

Oh no dear, am not butdon't worry i will soon post something about me, just watch out.

Am not the person involve, i am only handling a counseling section with her and on her permission, i brought this topic here and she is also following the account.

How are today? Happy weekend in advance.

pbs4real:
very unserious fella,depending on popsy 2 win a case wit d govt so he cn swim in money,OP SOWIE TO SAY DIS D GUY IN QUESTN IS DUMB BT UR FWEND IS DUMBER. . No offence

Yeah! sure no offense. I like being realistic when it comes to practical issues like this. thanks dearie.

How are you doing this weekend? Happy election in advance.

ferdimako:

She just graduated...others are submitted CVs...she is waiting for marriage...una...see am? The only reason some ladies attend a university.

My dear it's well oh!! How are you dear?

sule5727:
all dis ajebo's dats d way d behave well jst shine ur eye may be is because of d money dats y u still keep him,wat if d mum is not alive wat ll happen...he ll spent all d wealth uselessly nd dat ll be d beginning of ur suffering with him shine ur eye!!

You can't imagine how i like your comment.

You brought out one of my points. A man of 36 who's mum does everything for, when she eventually there is no possibility for him to manage what his parents left behind because it will be a case of learning how to use your left hand at old age when you are used to your right from childhood.

God bless you jare and happy weekend. How are you preparing for the election?

evea:
if the mother will support ur decision to help him, tk dis advice. plan with the Mother 2 cut off any form of support for him. He should be on his own. If it is 2 denial him 4 months 2 help him get 2 his feet den do

My dear will it be possible? That will be learning how to use your left hand at old age.

Well that is for my friend to decide, i only gave my advice but for me, it should be someone trying to do all that extra wahala for me and not me for anybody. After all these suffer head wey i don do from childhood to now. I should better fix myself than fix someone else's mess up

What was his mum thinking? She dey fine who wan help her nany her son for him age?

My dear i fitn't shout!!!

Happy weekend and election in advance.

FemiAdenekan:
What other answer does your client need? No. The whole thing would be a disaster.

You know sometimes when there are more than two witnesses over a matter, the matter dey sweet pass. That was why i asked her to bring it here.

Happy weekend nd election in advance.

sparko1:

yes she can marry him, if she so in need of a prayer project.

Abi oh!! Hope youb are good.

SmartFaces:


My dear will it be possible? That will be learning how to use your left hand at old age.

Well that is for my friend to decide, i only gave my advice but for me, it should be someone trying to do all that extra wahala for me and not me for anybody. After all these suffer head wey i don do from childhood to now. I should better fix myself than fix someone else's mess up

What was his mum thinking? She dey fine who wan help her nany her son for him age?

My dear i fitn't shout!!!

Happy weekend and election in advance.

Thanks bros. lol. happy election ahead

akinademayowa:


So,someone who goes to church regularly and is effective in the church may not (or can not ) be romantic and good in bed,right? that's a new theory that I'm hearing o....when does being effective in church have to do with how romantic one is?

Oh please, i did not say that. Church activeness has totally nothing to do with sexual performance. But the guy in question say he has not made love to any girl before and that he is even scared touching or ki*sing women. For sure, my friend on the other hand is so much on the vibrant side based on her confession. I have known her for some time now, and she usually say she can divorce for the sake of poor sexual performance if the man won't improve.

I guess she does not want to take that area for granted, step in just to find out that what he told her was actually true. You will agree with me that most marriages are suffering from that.

SmartFaces:


My dear it's well oh!! How are you dear?

True true...the guy doesn't need ur advice. Concentrate on ur client. Ask her to get or make a job! Pple attract their ilk.

Skoopy:


I'm sure it's followers you need.

Thanks for your observation but it's totally your opinion which is always welcomed. But the truth is far from that. When you ask me, i will tell you.

How are you doing this weekend? Please do enjoy yourself and take charge, don't let anyone steal your joy.

SmartFaces:


Oh please, i did not say that. Church activeness has totally nothing to do with sexual performance. But the guy in question say he has not made love to any girl before and that he is even scared touching or ki*sing women. For sure, my friend on the other hand is so much on the vibrant side based on her confession. I have known her for some time now, and she usually say she can divorce for the sake of poor sexual performance if the man won't improve.

I guess she does not want to take that area for granted, step in just to find out that what he told her was actually true. You will agree with me that most marriages are suffering from that.

OK..ur client isn't a virgin after all? Chineke mee!

roaringlamb01:



the saddest part is the religious angle to all this... religious people r so so lazy... I'm sure the lady would be scared to "disobey" God... mostly because she too is trying to form religious... why would God set u up with a lazy person. don't be foolish. remove the religious cap from your head and kindly decline the stupid offer. Tis deception of the highest order. my sister once dated a guy who wanted to give the first car of their marriage to his pastor... be careful and flee from this dude...

Thanks dear. Some people tend to be religious and heavenly conscious that they unknowingly get earthly useless.
At 36, he should start giving back to his parents and not depending on them.

joseph1832:
Funny how people use the Holy Spirit to tell all sort of lies these days.

Lemme understand your friend here. She wants to depend (marry) on someone who depends on someone else. What sort of thing is this dependency theory?.

A man who can't take responsibility at age 36 will not be a good father and husband!. And she's also have to play slave to the mother in law because she provides and pay all the bills.

My advice to your friend OP, she should look for another man immediately!!!.

Thanks alot friend, she is following this thread too, and am sure she is learning.

Happy weekend and please do stay positive. Enjoy.

ferdimako:

OK..ur client isn't a virgin after all? Chineke mee!

Chineke what? She is not and it should not be a news or surprise to you or anyone. Should it?


am sure you are good.

ferdimako:

True true...the guy doesn't need ur advice. Concentrate on ur client. Ask her to get or make a job! Pple attract their ilk.

Strong point. I guess she she needs to start doing something for herself.

ferdimako:

Ignore and continue waiting for other men. You said the men may stop coming...hahaha...you just get a job first or make it. See adviser!

Thanks, i am working but my client is not yet and hope to get something soon.
Thanks all the same.

SmartFaces:


You can't imagine how i like your comment.

You brought out one of my points. A man of 36 who's mum does everything for, when she eventually there is no possibility for him to manage what his parents left behind because it will be a case of learning how to use your left hand at old age when you are used to your right from childhood.

God bless you jare and happy weekend. How are you preparing for the election?

yea tnx!we jst pray d election should be violence free...

SmartFaces:
She is my client and this is the story.

He is 36years of age, still lives with his mum, feels very lazy and scared to do anything for himself to generate income, depends on his mum for virtually everything because she is rich, had never taken any form of responsibility what so ever, yet he wants to marry her.

Can he make a good husband and father considering the fact that he is so so lazy?

Can he give anything whether love, money, take responsibility, just name it considering the fact that he has been on the receiving side from childhood till now?

Can he be romantic enough and be good on bed, considering the fact that he forms to be so churchy and righteous...He spends all his time in the church and other religious gatherings.

More so she does not love him or even have an atom of feeling for him, but he said "The Holy Spirit Ministered to him, that she is his wife"

What should she do?

For references, feed backs and supervisory purpose, please follow this account, before or after your contribution. Thanks people.

she should being desperate and get herself a real man.

SmartFaces:


Chineke what? She is not and it should not be a news or surprise to you or anyone. Should it?


am sure you are good.

To get a nice job is as hard it is to keep virginity....without compromises..no road.

Adyrin:
@apoint He (Jesus) came to die for you... Then he came to work and as a result the Father (God) created an appartment (RHS) for Him(Jesus) as His reward for a job well done!
Now where is the job well done of this 36 years old Mammon?

I feel the mother is wicked to still let this happen!

You are right dear, i also think it's the mother's fault. Some women can pamper their kids that it affects the children even when they grow up.

Billyonaire:
If he is the only son, then marry him.

For where? he has 5younger siblings. Infact the younger ones are do well for themselves. From my client's story the second to the last born who is a boy has two lands he bought from the money he gets from his business center or cafe center in portharcourt.

SmartFaces:


For where? he has 5younger siblings. Infact the younger ones are do well for themselves. From my client's story the second to the last born who is a boy has two lands he bought from the money he gets from his business center or cafe center in portharcourt.

Tell her to run before he impregnates her. Lazy people love sex too much. That explains the reason poor people have more children than the hardworking rich ?

nnafather:


Akpa amu gi tipia there...Okuko igbo. What do you know about marriage? Go and wash plates for dinner. Mama is calling u. Anu.

Please, please and please, no need for all that. We are lovely and matured people, let's make this thread conducive and free of abuses so other people can come in and feel good. please.

Kai!!! but you funny shaa. How you take know sey him na igbo, if you sef no be igbo or understand igbo? You are really funny abeg, laff wan kill me as i dey read your own.

Ah ah, you get hot temper shaa.

Thanks dear and stay positive. happy weekend.

SmartFaces:


Please, please and please, no need for all that. We are lovely and matured people, let's make this thread conducive and free of abuses so other people can come in and feel good. please.

Kai!!! but you funny shaa. How you take know sey him na igbo, if you sef no be igbo or understand igbo? You are really funny abeg, laff wan kill me as i dey read your own.

Ah ah, you get hot temper shaa.

Thanks dear and stay positive. happy weekend.

I have heard you...thanks.

Phantomstranger:


This has got to be the funniest quote, Iv read on tis forum

So funny my deae, i no fit laff.

Akposkool:
There is only one reason she wants to stick with him. I sense he is a sex Marshall. This is all that matters to some girls. They just love the diick. I believe the op is not telling the full story

My dear am not hiding anything. The guy said he has not had sex before, that he is even scared to go close to ladies. She on the other hand, doesn't want to take that for granted, when she now accepts she finds out it's actually true. She said she won't forgive herself.

gatiano:
My father has a house or two, my mother probably has more, my grand parents on bot sides have at least one each, if i have 20 more houses for myself, we won't be living in them, because they were built to bring incomes, so i still stay in my father's house with my wife and child, if she so needs a house which she needs, she better get herself one.
This is why we are poor in Africa, That mentality that i must have my own place, when your families have loads of them is useless. do something else with your time and money.That is the only reason why GOD blessed your mum or dad or parents with their house(mansion), so that you may do something else.

Am sure you put in lots of hard work to get what your got for yourself. but this one is not doing anything. He can sit beside his mum for hours doing nothing.

He younger brother - Second to the last born - a boy has two landed properties for himself.

Great evening ahead.

mimicious:
Op I hope d person in question is not ur man to be

Someone has asked me that too. No, he his not. Don't worry, you will soon hear mine.

I am a very realistic person, if he was mine, i will tell you, after all nairalanders no go beat me abi?

hope you are doing great?

sleekman:
To Me This Matter Is Pretty Easy. Tell Him U'll Marry On 2 Conditions. He Should Get A Job And Get A Self-Con. Once He Does That Then Uve Given Him A Reason 2 Live. U Must Pray 1st And Ask God 4 Signs

Thanks alot dearie, God's direction matter too.

SmartFaces:


Someone has asked me that too. No, he his not. Don't worry, you will soon hear mine.

I am a very realistic person, if he was mine, i will tell you, after all nairalanders no go beat me abi?

hope you are doing great?

Am doiNg great sweetie! Happy sunday!!

shaizegotswag:
Please op how can I contact you for personal issues? Thanks

Follow me here on NL, then i will get back to you.

Happy weekend.