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I Have A Challenge With Public Speaking by Nobody: 9:33pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
My Dear Nairalanders, I have a very big problem that is threatening my sanity and career. I recently got promoted to a senior role in a multinational coy in Lagos and had to represent the Coy in a trade meet, during which I had to make presentations. This happened to be my first public speaking event and I performed woefully such that I couldn't recognise my voice, my heart was pounding like mad and I felt that I was going to faint. I pulled though the ordeal but this has continued to haunt me. I do presentations but mostly to junior staff, but when it comes to relating with my peers or seniors, I fall to pieces. The only time I perform satisfactorily is when I engage my peers or seniors in small groups, outside of this set-up, its a disaster. Please help me with contacts for experts on public speaking (or training), or even ideas to control my fear. I have risen to my position through hardwork, loyalty dedication and excellence and wouldn't want to stagnate this with my poor communication skills. Please mods put this on front page to get maximum coverage. B.R |
Re: I Have A Challenge With Public Speaking by Pvin: 9:36pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
Practice with a mirror of yourself |
Re: I Have A Challenge With Public Speaking by Nobody: 9:44pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
find your unique gift, no be everybody go be pastor, you wnt struggle if its ur real gift, thre is something you ar good at, find that!!! |
Re: I Have A Challenge With Public Speaking by CrazyMan(m): 9:50pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
See the link below. A similar question was asked there. https://www.nairaland.com/2197959/how-build-up-good-advocacy#31789523 |
Re: I Have A Challenge With Public Speaking by rawpadgin(m): 9:57pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
I'm a victim too, mine is getting better gradually though I noticed that i was trying too hard not to make a blunder whilst presenting lecture my case improved after i started caring less about what peeps gonna say after my presentation |
Re: I Have A Challenge With Public Speaking by Nobody: 10:14pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
Thanks for all your kind responses so far |
Re: I Have A Challenge With Public Speaking by kellyJames5(m): 12:01am On Mar 24, 2015 |
A very quick and important question: Do you self-service? |
Re: I Have A Challenge With Public Speaking by egwajoe(m): 4:36pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
Kellyjames5, do u know that sexuality section exist in this forum ? Then Go there Now! |
Re: I Have A Challenge With Public Speaking by kellyJames5(m): 4:50pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
egwajoe: And what was that suppose to mean? I asked the OP question not you,and for your information;self service can cause such. Next time,make sure you understand a post well before quoting. |
Re: I Have A Challenge With Public Speaking by egwajoe(m): 8:15pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
It is good to ask questions, but u fail to ask,why ? Kellyjames5. |
Re: I Have A Challenge With Public Speaking by kellyJames5(m): 8:56pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
egwajoe: Is that not a question? Didn't you see the question mark? |
Re: I Have A Challenge With Public Speaking by egwajoe(m): 9:22am On Mar 25, 2015 |
That is why you will always fail exam. U gave a question a wrong answer. F9 for u |
Re: I Have A Challenge With Public Speaking by dhemmyhardy(m): 10:29pm On Mar 25, 2015 |
@ lasttimer: if you really know you want to improve your I can some book that will really help you speak in public both In business meeting, seminars and in society just mail me dhemmyhardy2011@gmail.com Regards. |
Re: I Have A Challenge With Public Speaking by Nobody: 2:21pm On Apr 04, 2015 |
kellyJames5: I don't cos I'm married |
Re: I Have A Challenge With Public Speaking by Nobody: 2:23pm On Apr 04, 2015 |
dhemmyhardy: demartins141@gmail.com |
Re: I Have A Challenge With Public Speaking by Ifiegboria(m): 3:49pm On Apr 04, 2015 |
I have similar issue maybe cos I do stammer but I think u can improve on it especially if u knw there myt not be opportunity for the audience to ask questions or room for feedbacks. U need some confidence builder like practicing and some leadership course. U are a leader, so, u should be able to address anyone comfortably. Its not easy but u can. Also make sure u have such an expertise in ur field so that no one can intimidate you. aghedoaim@gmail.com |
Re: I Have A Challenge With Public Speaking by Nobody: 10:07pm On Apr 04, 2015 |
You will also need to be coached physically. This trainer is available in Lagos. Send a mail to valsworth005@gmail.com 1 Like |
Re: I Have A Challenge With Public Speaking by SmartFaces(f): 12:43pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
First i must commend your strength to share your short coming. Just like someone earlier said, everybody must not be a pastor or a public speaker, but when you find yourself in such position, you need work on yourself. 1. Get some books on leadership and public speaking. 2. Days to your presentation, practice practice practice. 3. Get a close friend or two, let them listen to you, analyze and criticize your performance before the D-day. 4. Pray to God about that situation in faith... there nothing he can't do. 5. Look for and identify your area of calling, what i mean is "what destiny has designed for you" Every individual on earth has where God had called him to function, such that if you are not functioning there, you may seem to experience this feelings or have things difficult. 6. While you are working, have your life's purpose at the back of your mind and in little or no time, you will see things work out for you. Don't worry, God will see you through. 1 Like |
Re: I Have A Challenge With Public Speaking by SmartFaces(f): 12:47pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
Valsworth: Valsworth is also right. You need a physical coach. you can get a person who is enlightened in such areas, ask for his or her help. A mentor will also do. He or should should be able to guide you accurately at all times and during your presentations. |
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