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Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by Temmytea70(m): 4:31pm On Mar 25, 2015
zubby29:
FACT IS DAT UR KIDS WILL B TALLER DAN BOTH OF U WCH IN MY OPINION IS NOT BAD,WITH TECHNOLOGY AND GOOD FOOD DEY CAN ATTAIN EVEN A BETTER HEIGHT,SO GO AHEAD MY DEAR,its no crime to b short bt i can gauranty u dat ur kids will b ok

Your GAURANTY though....
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by delors(m): 4:33pm On Mar 25, 2015
Temmytea70:


BIO 101..follow my tutorial

If X=tall and Y=short

Husband=XX
Wife=YY
Husband + wife = XX + YY
Children= XY,XY,XY,XY,XY
Or


BIO 102..
Husband=XY
Wife=XY
Husband + wife = XX + YY
Children= XX,XY,XY,XY,YY


Hope it helps you
You meant
Husband=XY
Wife=XY
Husband + wife = XY + XY
Children= XX,XY,XY,XY,YY
But in her case, both are shortingos...how do we fix that?
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by GodMode: 4:33pm On Mar 25, 2015
delors:
So what exactly do u need from us? To tell you to dump him because of his height and then look for a tall guy or give him beans to eat so he can add at least 2inches?
Did you see his height when.you started dating him or was he tall before but now growing short? I wonder how tall Jay Jay Okocha, Obafemi Martins, MI, etc are...
Advice, height is not a determinant sis...

She saw his money gringringrin
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by IamOpemipo(m): 4:34pm On Mar 25, 2015
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Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by Nobody: 4:36pm On Mar 25, 2015
IamOpemipo:


Been goin tru d comments, I feel u pass..
I'm sure she's goin hate d kids if she marru and born for d guy..i cnt even imagin d guy been broke...
no mind the delusional being , she is in lust with the money thinking she is in love how can she love a guy and be afraid of offsprings that may come from their union. she is young anyways..... she ain't seen nothing yet
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by effido666: 4:37pm On Mar 25, 2015
[color=#990000][/color] u should av tot of all dis while datin him
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by Nobody: 4:38pm On Mar 25, 2015
Well in earnest, if the OP and her fiancee get married, they WILL have shorter than average kids.

It depends on what her priorities are - the genetic
makeup of her future kids vs love for her husband.

Everybody has a deal breaker...for some, it may be sickle cell genotype, for others beauty potential, for the rest, height.

Where does the OP stand in this? Do you fear having short children more than missing the potential love of your life?
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by naijafresh: 4:38pm On Mar 25, 2015
If you and your husband are short your kids are very likely to be short.. simple laws of nature, you both have short genes unless by some miracle you have 'tall' genes which are passed on.
So get this out of the way, it is a given, and look at other issues as mentioned above
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by GodMode: 4:40pm On Mar 25, 2015
totima:
Well in earnest, if the OP and her fiancee get married, they WILL have shorter than average kids.

It depends on what her priorities are - the genetic
makeup of her future kids vs love for her husband.

Everybody has a deal breaker...for some, it may be sickle cell genotype, for others beauty potential, for the rest, height.

Where does the OP stand in this?

Which one is dealbreaker

You're watching too much "baggage"gringringrin
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by Temmytea70(m): 4:40pm On Mar 25, 2015
delors:

You meant
Husband=XY
Wife=XY
Husband + wife = XY + XY
Children= XX,XY,XY,XY,YY
But in her case, both are shortingos...how do we fix that?

If X=short and also Y=short
Husband=XX
Wife=YY
Husband + wife = XX + YY
Children= XY,XY,XY,XY,XY



Except for miracle,scientifically the offsprings will be shortingos.......will b short I mean
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by kobonaire(m): 4:40pm On Mar 25, 2015
How him wallet/bank balance be? If na big fat one, make you marry up quick quick .... your short BUT happy children will thank mummy for the rest of their lives ...
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by deebrain(m): 4:41pm On Mar 25, 2015
Its totally unfounded naturally. Short people usually give birth to tall-normal height kids. As long as you are both cleared medically (that you both are not dwarfs), go ahead and marry your guy.
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by Nobody: 4:44pm On Mar 25, 2015
MoonCares:


Thanks for the advice, I never said I want a tall guy, am just afraid because of my future kids.


You are lucky to see a short man that loves you. They are the proudest. They never grow old. Every Year Young. If you leave him, I can guarantee you, it wont take a week for him to get a girl taller than you. LOL, as for your kids, they will always see women like you to marry. Do not worry about your daughters, with high heel shoes, these days, there are no short girls.

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Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by Nobody: 4:44pm On Mar 25, 2015
GodMode:


Which one is dealbreaker

You're watching too much "baggage"gringringrin

Um...deal breaker is a normal phrase. Don't need Jerry Springer to know that. wink
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by Fourwinds: 4:44pm On Mar 25, 2015
Caracta:
Would you rather live happily with a short man or live miserably with a tall man?

You love him, don't you?

But if you don't, please let him go ASAP! Let him find the love he deserves so you can also find Mr. Tall.

My rule is: I won't date the man I can't marry.
thank u. u are sincere. how can someone be dating a girl and knows full well she cannt marry him yet she remains dere chopping ice cream.,taking recharge cards., collecting school fees., house rent etc. such a girl is indirectly shaking d hand of d devil. kasala fit burst anytime oooo
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by Nobody: 4:45pm On Mar 25, 2015
englishmart:
are suggesting that 5ft for a lady is a tall height?
read it again, I said 5ft is not average, so for her guy to be shorter is enough reason to worry.
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by tonquendo4u(m): 4:45pm On Mar 25, 2015
No. U will born giants. If both of u are short, ihe agwo muru aghaghi ito ogologo
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by Nobody: 4:49pm On Mar 25, 2015
If you are in love with him don't cut him down due to his height.
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by shininglite(m): 4:50pm On Mar 25, 2015
seize is immaterial to d issue's of life

seize is not a criteria for success.....

women re confused dats y they end up making grave mistakes... d other day a female nairalander opened a thread dat she is 38 nd not yet married..who knows Hw many short guys she has rejected while trying to wait for mr tall nd huge wit red lips nd 6packs...
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by Nobody: 4:50pm On Mar 25, 2015
Duh
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by Homguy(m): 4:50pm On Mar 25, 2015
MoonCares:


I never said I won't marry him if he's my righful husband, just that my fears is about our future kids and nothing more.
as some one pointed out earlier biology should have taught you that even short people can have tall offspring's so it shouldn't really bother you. Personalty matters a lot, as regards height, your children could be taller than you both.
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by Nobody: 4:51pm On Mar 25, 2015
MoonCares:
Please I need advice from matured people.

There's this guy that am dating, he's so caring, lovely and humble. He is planning to marry me but he is short, though I have not gathered the courage to tell him my fears. Am average 5ft, but am taller than him. So am afraid that our kids will be short.

Please my fellow NL, I need your advice, I don't want to make mistakes in marriage. Though I have been praying to God for the right man.

Being just 5ft yourself already shows you're short. Marrying someone who's shorter than you portends danger on the coming offsprings. I strongly think it's not good for two short people to marry themselves. At least, let one be tall irrespective how short the other is. The fact is, though all your children cannot be short, but most will. The tall one(s) will only come from recessive gene.

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Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by englishmart(m): 4:52pm On Mar 25, 2015
firstEVA:
read it again, I said 5ft is not average, so for her guy to be shorter is enough reason to worry.
anybody shorter than 5ft is a dwarf

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Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by Nobody: 4:56pm On Mar 25, 2015
englishmart:
anybody shorter than 5ft is a dwarf
are you an illiterate? Cos you sound like one.
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by Wallie(m): 4:56pm On Mar 25, 2015
People are funny! All else being equal, for most people

height matters;
weight matters;
health matters;
appearance matters;
physical attributes matter;
posture matters;
intelligence matters;
education matters;
wealth matters;
cleanliness matters;
confidence matters, etc.

For example, assuming you have the power to choose and marry one of two people who are identical twins. They are identical down to their behavior except one weighs 100 kg and the other is 1000 kg, which would you choose? About the only reason you would choose the 1000kg twin is if you have a major fault of your own and you feel the 1000kg twin will be more accommodating.

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Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by Nobody: 4:57pm On Mar 25, 2015
Majority of peeps in family session are terrible terrible, especially the ladies, is this what overseas does to our people? Pathetic.
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by pickabeau1: 5:00pm On Mar 25, 2015
Evina:


First off, her fiance does not need your pity. I would assume that there are people around you deserving of your pity.

Secondly, my brother(s) have a mind of their own. They are men enough to choose their own wives and live with the consequences of their choice. In my family, we don't do the allow/disallow choice of partner by any member.

Lastly, you were quick to attack her but conveniently turned a blind eye to those hurling insults at her! Did she start insulting anyone? Or gave them back a taste of their own medicine?

I never knew you were this biased!

Story
Saying that this lady is mouthed is now bias...

OwKay
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by Evina(f): 5:01pm On Mar 25, 2015
firstEVA:
Majority of peeps in family session are terrible terrible, especially the ladies, is this what overseas does to our people? Pathetic.

Not family section. The terrible ones are guests from romance section.

True talk.
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by Evina(f): 5:02pm On Mar 25, 2015
pickabeau1:


Story
Saying that this lady is mouthed is now bias...

OwKay



LOL. Pickabeau, issoright.
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by Nobody: 5:02pm On Mar 25, 2015
pickabeau1:


You tell me
I guess you can allow your brother marry such a rude lady

how is she rude? And is anyone to tell anyone who their brothers should marry? Rubbish.

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Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by Nobody: 5:04pm On Mar 25, 2015
Evina:


Not family section. The terrible ones are guests from romance section.

True talk.
ok, you needed to how rude and insulting these ladies were, most of the posts have been hidden though.
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by obaty(f): 5:05pm On Mar 25, 2015
MoonCares:
Please I need advice from matured people.

There's this guy that am dating, he's so caring, lovely and humble. He is planning to marry me but he is short, though I have not gathered the courage to tell him my fears. Am average 5ft, but am taller than him. So am afraid that our kids will be short.

Please my fellow NL, I need your advice, I don't want to make mistakes in marriage. Though I have been praying to God for the right man.

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