chiefdoctor:


1. Please tell me where it is on your body you feel your husband shouldn't put his dick. Every orifice of yours should be fair play. Just use oil
2. Whats wrong with thanking him for being a great fawk? You think say e easy? You may think it uneccessary but women would be surprised how much so they can make their men kolo and do anything for them (esp. outside the bedroom) simply by just being appreciative (and reducing complaints). Men were made like God in a way. Praise works wonders.

LMFAO...
shitty post, but...damn!

*here, have one orijin on me***

itops:


what is the truth about you that is hurting.

smh

Suit yourself

@ OP and ur question; wen they retired from dat side. And it is a way of training d young ones. ASAP the young shall grow.

brownlord:


I will stop existing if I cook for any woman.

I'm damn sure your father never cooked for your mother, and my father dint do either.

Where did you get that from? Western civilisation I guess. I don't have a problem with that.

But how come when the man is coming to ask for your hand in marriage you suddenly forget western culture and insist he must go to your village to see your some elders and village ancestors, subject him to kneeling down before some old men all in the name of traditional marriage.

Don't you watch movie or see how the people you practice their culture get married? When they can just call few friends sometimes without the consent of their parents

Will you agree to any arrangement that will not allow you go stage party in your fathers house, will you agree if a man says he won't be going to your village to pay your bride prize or go to kneel down before some old men who he has no business with just because he wants a wife?

why subject a man to those inhuman treatment during marriage only to get to his house and start forming western culture?

Errm... . Sorry you are wrong sir. Some men cook for their wives. My Dad (God bless his soul ) cooked for my mum countless times. I can remember when I was in secondary school, we will pray that Mumsie travels to the village and my dad will prepare a sumcious meal.. He's cooking was different in fact better than Mumsie. He will garnish his beans and plantain with fish and his soup damn... Assorted meat no space for soup.

Oh those days!! ...Dear Lord let my man have at least 50% of His qualities.. M not greedy neither m i asking for too much.

Oga brown Lord, you are wrong ooo. One of my male friends cooks for himself and damn he can cook anything better than a woman.

Plz change your orientation. .. it's not good ooo. ..

duni04:

Lol see this learner! Your father would tell you if he cheated before? If you're not from a broken home, like the rest of the ignorant "feminists" here, go home and ask your mother if she's ever suspected your father had a mistress. Then ask her why she's still married to him, cos her answer to the mistress question will be a resounding yes.

Never

My father has Neva cheated...he only likes one girl in his work place and dat is because d girl looks like me

My husband will be a called nd highly discipline d man of God

akinsadeez:




hehehehehehehe.

Didn't you hear of the pastor recently that had impregnated all the women in his church. In fact he was so randy that he successfully impregnated mother's and daughters at the same time in the same church. Guess what? he said he was directed by the 'Holy spirit' to do so.

Side chicks exist virtually everywhere now... And it is more predominant in our black african culture... Now I've done some wakaing and I've seen d amt of chicks ranging from the higher institutions to the work force and beyond date married men.. Reason financial endowments..
Our women are fatally and mortally lazy people... Y is it dat a widower is always better dan a widow.. Dat is to say if I'm a child in a family and my mother dies.. Der is no problem.. But If I'm in a family my father dies extreme suffer for me...
D worst is dat women are naturally inclined to live longer dan men... Wicked set of people.. Work and get it for yourself and u will garner respect.. How do u expect me to respect you wen u are all abt my neck for money.. I don't think so.. It goes both ways cos if u are a man and ur woman feeds you.. She will insult Jesus out of ur life...
So let all dis girls forming innocent here jst pack well.. Cos na una own worst pass.. As far you are always dependent on a man for money.. U are likely to always be a side chick.. Make no mistakes wives are not exempted from being side chicks cos d main chick na who d man give attention to pass...

zeepatoprick:
Side chicks exist virtually everywhere now... And it is more predominant in our black african culture... Now I've done some wakaing and I've seen d amt of chicks ranging from the higher institutions to the work force and beyond date married men.. Reason financial endowments..
Our women are fatally and mortally lazy people... Y is it dat a widower is always better dan a widow.. Dat is to say if I'm a child in a family and my mother dies.. Der is no problem.. But If I'm in a family my father dies extreme suffer for me...
D worst is dat women are naturally inclined to live longer dan men... Wicked set of people.. Work and get it for yourself and u will garner respect.. How do u expect me to respect you wen u are all abt my neck for money.. I don't think so.. It goes both ways cos if u are a man and ur woman feeds you.. She will insult Jesus out of ur life...
So let all dis girls forming innocent here jst pack well.. Cos na una own worst pass.. As far you are always dependent on a man for money.. U are likely to always be a side chick.. Make no mistakes wives are not exempted from being side chicks cos d main chick na who d man give attention to pass...

do you know that their are married men who has another man's wife as their side chicks?..no mind these women! They are their own problem. They try everything possible to seduce a married man. Then, when they get married, they'll expect other girls not to sleep with their own husbands. It doesn't work that way. Some of them will marry and still be cheating with another married man, yet, they'll still be complaining about side chicks when they are side chicks themselves. I know upto 4 married young ladies who still sleep with richer men. Are they not side chicks? Honestly, I don't pity women when they complain about side chicks or cheating husband because they are devils themselves.

chibic:
do you know that their are married men who has another man's wife as their side chicks?..no mind these women! They are their own problem. They try everything possible to seduce a married man. Then, when they get married, they'll expect other girls not to sleep with their own husbands. It doesn't work that way. Some of them will marry and still be cheating with another married man, yet, they'll still be complaining about side chicks when they are side chicks themselves. I know upto 4 married young ladies who still sleep with richer men. Are they not side chicks? Honestly, I don't pity women when they complain about side chicks or cheating husband because they are devils themselves.

one bottle of andre for you...
After dis ladies messing up demselves to married men and at d extreme destroying d harmony of some marriages.. Dey would be praying and looking for a God fearing, hardworking, honest man to marry... Na thunder wey go fire all of dem...

dBard:




Don't mind d teat.
Guys who can't control their penis always end up making ridiculous generalization to justify their position.
Fyi, it's Your choice to cheat or not, at the end , it'll still be ur cross alone to bear
There are thousands,albeit millions of rich TDH guys out there who have achieved the most admirable quality in a man, the control of their emotions/hormones/self.
If u choose to be one of the dick controlled peeps out there, No p..But StOp generalizing.

Down low homosexuals!
A real ambitious and hardworking man will always have the urge to compensate his hard work with a good lay, anyday anytime.

akinsadeez:


lemme look at this from an African perspective.

Considering the bolded, it seems we now indulge in a form of historical revisionism. What I mean is that during the times of our fathers and grand fathers, the other woman as you have termed it, wasn't actually just 'the other woman', she was the other wife or wives. Back then our fathers not only dated other women, they often married them and the whole house still lived harmoniously. My grandfather for example, had 4 wives and it was the accepted norm then. But now when we look back with our rose tinted glasses, we assume, like you have done that having other women has always been an unacceptable practice which is now being tolerated rather than the opposite.

In fact, I would posit that the so called paradigm shift has actually been the vilification of the 'other woman'. Education and religion has now made us to see a one man one woman marriage as sacrosanct and any woman outside that union as the devilish meddlesome interloper. This was never part of the values our mothers had in the African setting.

this is making a lot of sense

Whats the point of arguing this? Men who are controlled by their pr1cks will continue to cheat and accumulate side chicks while others who allow the fear of God rule their lives will be faithful. Women allow men mess with them and embrace the side chick position. So? You dnt want to be cheated on? Dnt tolerate it. Stay away from mindless pr1cks and men who are taken. If you dnt, then dnt complain.

As for those arguing about what was in the times of our forefathers bla bla bla, Newsflash! This is the 21st century where women no longer tolerate crap. Deal with it. Today's women can NEVER be like ur mothers. NEVER!! Accept the bitter truth! Women now cheat. Women now eat their cakes and have it. women now love pounded yam with pepper soup, fried rice with chicken and other delicacies. Greed isnt the exclusive preserve for men only. Greed is seen in all humans. Infact women cheating is as old as time itself. Accept the new wave of women if you want women to accept you all with your greed. You cheat then you will get cheated on. Bible say you will reap what you sow. Thats karma. Let all cheats marry one another and let the faithfuls come together.

zeepatoprick:
Side chicks exist virtually everywhere now... And it is more predominant in our black african culture... Now I've done some wakaing and I've seen d amt of chicks ranging from the higher institutions to the work force and beyond date married men.. Reason financial endowments..
Our women are fatally and mortally lazy people... Y is it dat a widower is always better dan a widow.. Dat is to say if I'm a child in a family and my mother dies.. Der is no problem.. But If I'm in a family my father dies extreme suffer for me...
D worst is dat women are naturally inclined to live longer dan men... Wicked set of people.. Work and get it for yourself and u will garner respect.. How do u expect me to respect you wen u are all abt my neck for money.. I don't think so.. It goes both ways cos if u are a man and ur woman feeds you.. She will insult Jesus out of ur life...
So let all dis girls forming innocent here jst pack well.. Cos na una own worst pass.. As far you are always dependent on a man for money.. U are likely to always be a side chick.. Make no mistakes wives are not exempted from being side chicks cos d main chick na who d man give attention to pass...

Thank you! Until most Naija girls stop seeing marriage/relationship as the only way to riches. Start thinking of what you are bringing to the table!

Sophyrocks:
Whats the point of arguing this? Men who are controlled by their pr1cks will continue to cheat and accumulate side chicks while others who allow the fear of God rule their lives will be faithful. Women allow men mess with them and embrace the side chick position. So? You dnt want to be cheated on? Dnt tolerate it. Stay away from mindless pr1cks and men who are taken. If you dnt, then dnt complain.

As for those arguing about what was in the times of our forefathers bla bla bla, Newsflash! This is the 21st century where women no longer tolerate crap. Deal with it. Today's women can NEVER be like ur mothers. NEVER!! Accept the bitter truth! Women now cheat. Women now eat their cakes and have it. women now love pounded yam with pepper soup, fried rice with chicken and other delicacies. Greed isnt the exclusive preserve for men only. Greed is seen in all humans. Infact women cheating is as old as time itself. Accept the new wave of women if you want women to accept you all with your greed. You cheat then you will get cheated on. Bible say you will reap what you sow. Thats karma. Let all cheats marry one another and let the faithfuls come together.

Potential divorcee spotted! A woman who wants to drag seniority, control and responsibility with a man is doomed. The man is the head of the family. Even in the larger society, the man is head and sets the rules. Even if you want to go religious, the new testament is replete with verses admonishing women to submit to their husbands and accept them as heads. Its only foolish women with aggressive genes and from broken homes that always want to challenge properly laid down societal and religious norms.
A man going out to look for solace in the arms or bosoms of other women is not a new societal concept. What is new is the belief that a man must stick with one woman. I think men who have over the years encouraged feminism and women empowerment are to blame for this. If we put women in their place (which is at home and satisfying our needs), they wouldn't be dragging seniority and authority with men in the 21st century. Our forefathers would be ashamed of us for what we've made our women into. We allow them toss us around like mugus with their buttocks and breasts in the name of freedom of fashion. After rendering us helpless with their bodies, they then set rules about clinging to one woman only.
I'm very ashamed of what my generation has done to our women.

Rxpetite:
It has always been that way.
Women feel they have to get married within a particular age bracket so they feel marrying a douchebag no matter how useless he is, is better than being a spinster. In fact it is better to marry a wife beater than be a spinster.
Everyone starts to put the pressure on you once you are 25. Even your own parents start dropping hints.
No one cares if you are unhappy as long as you are married.

Please add douchebag "wit money"

I don't do side chics.... I believe strongly in one man and one woman. So ladies if you are looking for such a man, you have just found one but I go for the highest bidder (highest in morales, cash, shape, keeper and bedroom--- coughs***)

duni04:

Potential divorcee spotted! A woman who wants to drag seniority, control and responsibility with a man is doomed. The man is the head of the family. Even in the larger society, the man is head and sets the rules. Even if you want to go religious, the new testament is replete with verses admonishing women to submit to their husbands and accept them as heads. Its only foolish women with aggressive genes and from broken homes that always want to challenge properly laid down societal and religious norms.
A man going out to look for solace in the arms or bosoms of other women is not a new societal concept. What is new is the belief that a man must stick with one woman. I think men who have over the years encouraged feminism and women empowerment are to blame for this. If we put women in their place (which is at home and satisfying our needs), they wouldn't be dragging seniority and authority with men in the 21st century. Our forefathers would be ashamed of us for what we've made our women into. We allow them toss us around like mugus with their buttocks and breasts in the name of freedom of fashion. After rendering us helpless with their bodies, they then set rules about clinging to one woman only.
I'm very ashamed of what my generation has done to our women.

Type all the epistles you want. Lament from now till december. What you see is what you get. Drag and argue about headship from now till tomorrow. Shout all the 'Its a man's world' and men can cheat mantras you know. Women of now will NEVER be like women of old. Deal with it!! who do men cheat with? is it not with women? Your greed has led to the greed of women. Who patronises runz babes? are they not married men? so what are we saying? Y'all cheating has given them the rights to do the same. Men do not give a damn if a woman is single or married. Your wife will be chased by other men from now till tomorrow. theres nofin you can do about it!! You cheat, you will get cheated on. Your fellow men will continue help women to cheat. Kpomkwem!

Sophyrocks:


Type all the epistles you want. Lament from now till december. What you see is what you get. Drag and argue about headship from now till tomorrow. Shout all the 'Its a man's world' and men can cheat mantras you know. Women of now will NEVER be like women of old. Deal with it!! who do men cheat with? is it not with women? Your greed has led to the greed of women. Who patronises runz babes? are they not married men? so what are we saying? Y'all cheating has given them the rights to do the same. Men do not give a damn if a woman is single or married. Your wife will be chased by other men from now till tomorrow. theres nofin you can do about it!! You cheat, you will get cheated on. Your fellow men will continue help women to cheat. Kpomkwem!

Ok lets even make it personal. Agreed that men are always going to cheat. Are you saying you're going to cheat on your boyfriend or husband WHEN he eventually cheats on you? All this hotheadedness will lead you nowhere and will accomplish nothing! Society frows at and spits on women whose dowries have already been paid, opening their legs up to other men. Its either you conform and submit to society's dictates and lead a happy life in a happy marriage, or lead a life of bitterness, stress, debauchery and a societal rejection. The choice is yours. Society belongs to and is ruled by men. A man can choose to be with any woman he chooses. That's the way our society is. Ask your mother (If she's still married to your dad which i doubt) she'll tell you.

duni04:

Ok lets even make it personal. Agreed that men are always going to cheat. Are you saying you're going to cheat on your boyfriend or husband WHEN he eventually cheats on you? All this hotheadedness will lead you nowhere and will accomplish nothing! Society frows at and spits on women whose dowries have already been paid, opening their legs up to other men. Its either you conform and submit to society's dictates and lead a happy life in a happy marriage, or lead a life of bitterness, stress, debauchery and a societal rejection. The choice is yours. Society belongs to and is ruled by men. A man can choose to be with any woman he chooses. That's the way our society is. Ask your mother (If she's still married to your dad which i doubt) she'll tell you.

What kind of society do you think we have? a morally sound one? Mbanu!! our society is a fraud and a morally debased one at that. A society that allows men to brag about their escapades and gives power to wh0res than wives? Wh0res are taken good care of than wives! A society that gives power to rapists, criminals, e.t.c? HYPOCRITES!! Its a confused society that dnt know what it wants!! A society that speaks from both sides of the mouth. And only confused prisoners adhere to it and remain frustrated. I say argue from now till tomorrow, prove all the manhood you want. Beat your chest! Your fellow men will help your women to cheat as they have been doing from days of old. shikena!! Nothing you can do. Cheat and get cheated on.

Sophyrocks:


What kind of society do you think we have? a morally sound one? Mbanu!! our society is a fraud and a morally debased one at that. A society that allows men to brag about their escapades and gives power to wh0res than wives? A society that gives power to rapists, criminals, e.t.c? HYPOCRITES!! Its a confused society that dnt know what it wants!! A society that speaks from both sides of the mouth. And only confused prisoners adhere to it and remain frustrated. I say argue from now till tomorrow, prove all the manhood you want. Beat your chest! Your fellow men will help your women to cheat as they have been doing from days of old. shikena!! Nothing you can do. Cheat and get cheated on.

A man leaving his wife to be with another woman is not cheating, its second nature, its the way society is and has been. A married woman opening her legs to another man is inviting death to herself. Its like you're an accomplice in the robbery of your husbands home because you are his and you've willingly allowed someone steal your companionship which belongs only to your husband.
The basic foundation of this thing is that a man that marries a woman has the sole right to her companionship and her body. Its not reciprocal! The man pays the womans brideprice. The woman does'nt pay anything for the man!
Accept the way society is and lead a happy life! You're gradually digging the grave of your own happiness if you continue on this road.

suffer to get husband? I hardly think any self respecting person, be it man or woman, should think that way. Can't even reply the bf and sugar daddy bit, obviously we aren't on the same page

onoja12:
i dont know where you are from but in African culture a man is allowed to take more than one wife,so you must we deceiving yourself and like your friend say you never marry,when you suffer to get husband then you would learn how to keep one,for now na boy friend and sugar daddy level you dey,aging never start

Grammar and reality are two different things,when reality hits you grammar goes to sleep.you are still speaking grammar,when the time reach for reality,then practicability would come in,once again as your friend said you never get husband yet

mollysteeze:
suffer to get husband? I hardly think any self respecting person, be it man or woman, should think that way. Can't even reply the bf and sugar daddy bit, obviously we aren't on the same page

joanana:


Errm... . Sorry you are wrong sir. Some men cook for their wives. My Dad (God bless his soul ) cooked for my mum countless times. I can remember when I was in secondary school, we will pray that Mumsie travels to the village and my dad will prepare a sumcious meal.. He's cooking was different in fact better than Mumsie. He will garnish his beans and plantain with fish and his soup damn... Assorted meat no space for soup.

Oh those days!! ...Dear Lord let my man have at least 50% of His qualities.. M not greedy neither m i asking for too much.

Oga brown Lord, you are wrong ooo. One of my male friends cooks for himself and damn he can cook anything better than a woman.

Plz change your orientation. .. it's not good ooo. ..

Pls mod that man. There are a lot of clay everywere

duni04:

A man leaving his wife to be with another woman is not cheating, its second nature, its the way society is and has been. A married woman opening her legs to another man is inviting death to herself. Its like you're an accomplice in the robbery of your husbands home because you are his and you've willingly allowed someone steal your companionship which belongs only to your husband.
The basic foundation of this thing is that a man that marries a woman has the sole right to her companionship and her body. Its not reciprocal! The man pays the womans brideprice. The woman does'nt pay anything for the man!
Accept the way society is and lead a happy life! You're gradually digging the grave of your own happiness if you continue on this road.

Now this is why i say the society is messed up. You glorify wh0res and condemn wives!! Build mansions! sponsor foreign trips for wh0res!! Thats a happy marriage huh? How is that supposed to lead to a happy marriage? Look at the marriages looking like peeps were forced to marry. Too many sob stories, too many shams!! Just because the society wants it that way. How many prisoners following the dictates of society are happy? how many? How many of our mothers were happy being prisoners? In the end, dysfunctinal families produce dysfunctional peeps. You are all prisoners!! Who make up the society? its people like you and i. You peeps are worshippping people like you and you are not ashamed to say it. No lives of your own!! No brains of your own!! What kind of life is that? SLAVES!! Where are these peeps when you are jobless and hungry? When your marriage breaks down, where are they? NO WHERE TO BE FOUND. What a messed up society!! society only interested in destroying relationships and marriages. Y'all are licking their a$$es!! PITIFUL.

I said before and will say it again. wmen dnt care anymore. You see how brazen they have become. Runz babes can now beat their chests that they are proud runz babes. who gave them the liberty? you men!! Married women are joining the bandwagon. Your greed has led to their greed. Live with the mess y'all created. Cheat and get cheated on.

mollysteeze:
suffer to get husband? I hardly think any self respecting person, be it man or woman, should think that way. Can't even reply the bf and sugar daddy bit, obviously we aren't on the same page

make you clock 35 no see man. You go dey run like chicken up and down.


You never see world that's why.


Keep on watching TV you here!

Sophyrocks:


Now this is why i say the society is messed up. You glorify wh0res and condemn wives!! Build mansions! sponsor foreign trips for wh0res!! Thats a happy marriage huh? How is that supposed to lead to a happy marriage? Look at the marriages looking like peeps were forced to marry. Too many sob stories, too many shams!! Just because the society wants it that way. How many prisoners following the dictates of society are happy? how many? How many of our mothers were happy being prisoners? In the end, dysfunctinal families produce dysfunctional peeps. You are all prisoners!! Who make up the society? its people like you and i. You peeps are worshippping people like you and you are not ashamed to say it. No lives of your own!! No brains of your own!! What kind of life is that? SLAVES!! Where are these peeps when you are jobless and hungry? When your marriage breaks down, where are they? NO WHERE TO BE FOUND. What a messed up society!! society only interested in destroying relationships and marriages. Y'all are licking their a$$es!! PITIFUL.

I said before and will say it again. wmen dnt care anymore. You see how brazen they have become. Runz babes can now beat their chests that they are proud runz babes. who gave them the liberty? you men!! Married women are joining the bandwagon. Your greed has led to their greed. Live with the mess y'all created. Cheat and get cheated on.

Forget this feminism crap, any woman that practices this is playing with death! I support men that murder their wives for cheating. If you're not the kind of woman that will accept her mans tendency/nature to stray outside the house, please don't get married! Get a vi-brator and adopt a child. Your husband will definitely look to other women outside the house. But if you dare try that tit for tat cheating nonsense, you'll be playing with death.

Viciyus:
Pls mod that man. There are a lot of clay everywere

Hahahahahha. .. I don't ve to mould him cos I ve seen him and my dear m not letting go

duni04:

Forget this feminism crap, any woman that practices this is playing with death! I support men that murder their wives for cheating. If you're not the kind of woman that will accept her mans tendency/nature to stray outside the house, please don't get married! Get a vibrator and adopt a child. Your husband will definitely look to other women outside the house. But if you dare try that tit for tat cheating nonsense, you'll be playing with death.

Hahahahaha. how come many women cheating have not died? your beating of chest achieves nothing. Braze yourself. get ready. This is the 21st century people!! Your wife will cheat on you mercilessly without you knowing nada. I know your type. Your fellow men will help her out where you are lacking.

Sophyrocks:


Hahahahaha. how come many women cheating have not died? your beating of chest achieves nothing. Braze yourself. get ready. This is the 21st century people!! Your wife will cheat on you mercilessly without you knowing nada. I know your type. Your fellow men will help her out where you are lacking.

Lol where i'm lacking? You wish! I thought it was revenge cheating? So its sexual satisfaction afterall. Maybe we should start doing what our fathers did, cut off your clits! Our girls have become dirty immoral pervs!

postmann:


some of your point made sense, but trying to equate a cheating husband to a cheating wife turned your comment on its head. It is a TABOO for a wife to cheat. Ask your heavenly FATHER, ask the babalawo from in your village. At no time did GOD permit women to have more than one husband at a time. Rather HE says such practice is disgusting to HIM. A woman's sexual organ was made in such a way that sexx is an invation of her innermost body. Except she knows no shame or is possessed, she cant seek revenge on her cheating husband by humbling herself spreading her legs for another man. She'd be a fool, the double loser and a public toilet. Sex is humbling for the female no matter what the devil-inspired 21st century culture tells you. Even your children cant get over the shame.
While we hope that men change and be faithful to their wifes, a woman who really understand SHAME cannot seek revenge by becoming a detestable adultress. Cervical cancer is a curse on loosed women.

. See d way he is making it sound soo DISGUSTING wen a woman does it but somwhat palatable & forgivable wen a man does. Sweetheart, d same way it sounds disgusting to males wen a woman cheats, its same way it sounds nauseating to women wen men cheat. If a woman stands a risk of cervical cancer wen she is promiscuous, a man stands d risk of prostate cancer wen he does, if a woman stands d risk of syphilis wen she is promiscuous, a man stands d risk of gonorrheoa. 'All is fair in d game of love & basketball'. Promiscuity is shameful for both sexes be u man or woman. No gender does it & it seems more palatable! Stay Away away from cheating ! Stay away from promiscuity, be faithful to your spouse, whether u r a man or woman. Simple!

joanana:


Hahahahahha. .. I don't ve to mould him cos I ve seen him and my dear m not letting go

good for you we pray others do

duni04:

Lol where i'm lacking? You wish! I thought it was revenge cheating? So its sexual satisfaction afterall. Maybe we should start doing what our fathers did, cut off your clits! Our girls have become dirty immoral pervs!

Lol. You must be lacking in some areas for this to hurt you so much. I know your type. Mostly empty vessels. Maybe women should be cutting off your d1cks since you cant keep them in the pants right? I see that happening already.