we have dated for 3years and we are now engaged,part of the marrige rite have been done.he has never shouted at me,but yesterday I got the shock of my life.I suspected he was cheating because he calls the girl each time he goes to work,I confronted him,out of anger I hit his hand and he beat me.though he apologized that night. but I haven't really forgiven him,I don't know what to do.he is really a nice man,but the thought of that night breaks me into two. Adebayo.

woky:
Not all men beats women

beat

You were the one that 1st looked for trouble , though I don't support his retaliation but there ar other good ways you would have used in confronting him that wouldn't have made him beat u. Jst 4gv him, since u said he apologised..


Sorry for the beating and happy married life in advance

Some men are just related to LEGENDURY BEAT

Dont let him hit u again...

joychioma19:
we have dated for 3years and we are now engaged,part of the marrige rite have been done.he has never shouted at me,but yesterday I got the shock of my life.I suspected he was cheating because he calls the girl each time he goes to work,I confronted him,out of anger I hit his hand and he beat me.though he apologized that night. but I haven't really forgiven him,I don't know what to do.he is really a nice man,but the thought of that night breaks me into two. Adebayo.

Beautiful chic like u
Its sad to read this ,,, i honestly do not respect any man that hits a woman
But you said uve forgiven him as it is the first time n he really loves you his a nice guy.
But my thing is be careful once his beaten u n u did nothing thats open pass to make u punching bag in the future .. Cuz if u suppect his cheating it can only get worse.

But u married him n u know him best , just think about the advice u will give ur daughter if she came to u with this issue n use it on urself.

Hope it works out

The guy nah bast@rd sha no offence

@dating u wont see him cheating, but after marriage with kid maybe boy, is when u start talking nonsense... Mrs u need ProCOLD and if my wife rise hand not to talk of beat, heaven go Receiv 1dead body,

KashyBaby:
Dont let him hit u again...

how do you suggest she do that?

ghost1718:
@dating u wont see him cheating, but after marriage with kid maybe boy, is when u start talking nonsense... Mrs u need ProCOLD and if my wife rise hand not to talk of beat, heaven go Receiv 1dead body,

read very well Mr ,we don't have kids and we are still getting married and not yet married. and please hold back your insult. I guess you don't know how bad it feels.

ghost1718:
@dating u wont see him cheating, but after marriage with kid maybe boy, is when u start talking nonsense... Mrs u need ProCOLD and if my wife rise hand not to talk of beat, heaven go Receiv 1dead body,

read very well Mr ,we don't have kids and we are still getting married and not yet married. and please hold back your insult. I guess you don't know how bad it feels.

Personally, I think you made a mistake raising your hands on him.

I, myself won't take it lightly with any man or woman that hit me.

I'll never forgive any guy that cheat on me. Our relationship will end that day.

Vickybee:
Personally, I think you made a mistake raising your hands on him.

I, myself won't take it lightly with any man or woman that hit me.

I'll never forgive any guy that cheat on me. Our relationship will end that day.

dis babe dy mean oo

sirRiddy:
beat

chai!

Vickybee:
Personally, I think you made a mistake raising your hands on him.

I, myself won't take it lightly with any man or woman that hit me.

I'll never forgive any guy that cheat on me. Our relationship will end that day.

are you really sure? you will leave any man that cheat on you?

Elucidate more on the " I hit his hand" "he beat me"

joychioma19:
read very well Mr ,we don't have kids and we are still getting married and not yet married. and please hold back your insult. I guess you don't know how bad it feels. read very well Mr ,we don't have kids and we are still getting married and not yet married. and please hold back your insult. I guess you don't know how bad it feels.

sorry weed is controlling me wait make i check...checking,,,,,,,aaah i said maybe with kids nah

woky:
dis babe dy mean oo

Except he's doing it codedly.

joychioma19:
are you really sure? you will leave any man that cheat on you?

Yes!

Vickybee:
Personally, I think you made a mistake raising your hands on him.

I, myself won't take it lightly with any man or woman that hit me.

I'll never forgive any guy that cheat on me. Our relationship will end that day.

miss forget that thing... If u cant forgive, be ready to remin single because every man must cheat... Is in our blood, minus me

All na wash... This nairaland, just like red carpet.
You put a show.

woky:
dis babe dy mean oo

sirRiddy:
All na wash... This nairaland, just like red carpet.
You put a show.

na true shaa

ghost1718:
miss forget that thing... If u cant forgive, be ready to remin single because every man must cheat ... Is in our blood, minus me

If a lady had said, "all men are cheat", hell would let loose.

Bunch of confuse creatures.

Vickybee:

Except he's doing it codedly.


Yes!

Lolzzzz

yes for mouth ko??

abeg no deceive that gal joor

woky:
Lolzzzz

yes for mouth ko??

abeg no deceive that gal joor

I am not deceiving anybody.

I am abiding to the scriptures and that's my ideology.

Vickybee:

If a lady had said, "all men are cheat", hell would let loose.

Bunch of confuse creatures.

i no get wife or girlfriend on nairaland. so i must say the truth ;Dlike i said earlier minus meeeeeeeee

Vickybee:

If a lady had said, "all men are cheat", hell would let loose.

Bunch of confuse creatures.

and one of them must succeed in puting u under his roof or u will remain single till hen grows teeth

ghost1718:
i no get wife or girlfriend on nairaland. so i must say the truth

All men are not cheat. Atleast, I know of my dad and boyfriend.

woky:
and one of them must succeed in puting u under his roof or u will remain single till hen grows teeth

To remain single is not a curse.

Vickybee:

I am not deceiving anybody.

I am abiding to the scriptures and that's my ideology.

And scriptures says u souldn't forgive huh??

remember 70x7 abi na 77x7 sef

Vickybee:

To remain single is not a curse.

Of course

woky:
And scriptures says u souldn't forgive huh??

remember 70x7 abi na 77x7 sef

It says we should forgive but not on an account of adultery.

Vickybee:
Personally, I think you made a mistake raising your hands on him.

I, myself won't take it lightly with any man or woman that hit me.

I'll never forgive any guy that cheat on me. Our relationship will end that day.

Then You Are Not Ready For A Relationship, But anyway, Better Wait Till When You Are Truly In It.

Vickybee:

All men are not cheat. Atleast, I know of my dad and boyfriend.

so na here u fit trust me, but outside u no fit