KevinBrown:


Nope. I don't find guys attractive. I can't believe I once did. (But I was also pretty wild. There was a time a thought one particular cat was cute).

So, yeah, sexuality can be flexible, given the right environmental and psychological conditions.

You were attracted to a cat? WTF

Sigh...


You'll obviously keep being depressed if you keep hating yourself...

KevinBrown:


Whatever I say is from experience. It's totally possible for someone to change from being straight to gay, and vice versa.

Let's see...During this period you thought you were gay, were you also attracted to women? Or you just made ut a duty to be attracted to only guy (don't even know how that works).

masonkz:



Let's see...During this period you thought you were gay, were you also attracted to women? Or you just made ut a duty to be attracted to only guy (don't even know how that works).

I didn't think I was gay. I was actually gay. And it lasted for like 3 years.
Its a long story tho

Rainess:


You were attracted to a cat? WTF

Gross?

Demons on Nairaland
Somebody wants to step up and you want him to remain down.
Do you think gays are happy digging shiit from another guys arse??

ronald4lif:
Accept who you are and be happy. Don't let the society opinion of you and your sexuality define you. You are gay and that's it. Nothing can change that, except you want to keep living in self deceit and in a depressed state of mind. That's my advise.

jmoore:
Some gays have turned around having seen the light. They rejected homosexuality and other immoral acts attached to it.


Below is testimony from a former Gay advocate



If a former gay advocate can reject homosexuality, you can do it too.

Don't swallow the lie that "You were born that way". Homosexuality is insanity, it is evil!!! Reject it and be set free!!

In the words of Former gay activist, Michael Glatze "Homosexuality is death, and I choose life.”

and posting Michael Glatze up and down NL.

@OP,whatever I tell you here will be attacked by many who would think I want you to be gay in all desperation.

I'll get down to one thing.Take a look at your life,don't you deserve happiness,you do know what happiness can do to change your depressed state currently right.

If you believe in happiness,I'd advice you go for it and not drag someone else down an unfruitful road of sadness.

Knowing fully well that you can't cultivate heterosexual affections for women,please don't buy into trying to get involved with one just cause your life is messed up.The lady deserves happiness and true love,just as you probably do.

Your choices today will reflect tomorrow,if you can't love a woman in all ramifications,don't mess her life up please,I see many Nigerian gay men doing it out of pressure and I don't envy it.

I won't advice you to enter into homosexual relationship and I won't deter you from one.From all you said,you are irreversibly gay.

Goodluck(sorry Sai Buhari).

Lies. That story is complete balderdash.

Being gay is a life choice and not genetics. You realise that you have openly confessed to a crime?

Prayer doesn't dramatically change one's sex, there are steps he has to take.My bros it's not impossible. Very soon you'll admire a lady's bossom like we do IJN and even get attention sef.
Keep moving,God loves you.

GhostProtocol:
In all seriousness, have you tried praying about it?

Nothing is impossible.

Depressedguy:
Being gay is my life regret, i have questioned God and myself how i got to this stage. I just feel like commiting suicide.

Here is my story,..........

being gay aint something to regret. Our suituation is similar, i do fantasize bout women but don't want to get too close. I solve my own prob by doing wat i love best. U Dnt need to patronise any slut, get urself some toys.

mooremedia:
Demons on Nairaland
Somebody wants to step up and you want him to remain down.
Do you think gays are happy digging shiit from another guys arse??

Whenever u hear GAY, what comes to ur mind is two guys banging each other in the a.ss abi?

Not all gay guys fancy gay sex.

it is well with you bro

If he is lonely he can join d military to fight d war n bring back our girls d mumu doesn't know what lonely is

Too long story abeg, I go read am 2moro

go to white garment church

to flog out the demons from you

if that does not work

I advice you to go to TB Joshua

Na deliverance you need. ... go meet Tb Joshua

CyrusXandria:
and posting Michael Glatze up and down NL.

@OP,whatever I tell you here will be attacked by many who would think I want you to be gay in all desperation.

I'll get down to one thing.Take a look at your life,don't you deserve happiness,you do know what happiness can do to change your depressed state currently right.

If you believe in happiness,I'd advice you go for it and not drag someone else down an unfruitful road of sadness.

Knowing fully well that you can't cultivate heterosexual affections for women,please don't buy into trying to get involved with one just cause your life is messed up.The lady deserves happiness and true love,just as you probably do.

Your choices today will reflect tomorrow,if you can't love a woman in all ramifications,don't mess her life up please,I see many Nigerian gay men doing it out of pressure and I don't envy it.

I won't advice you to enter into homosexual relationship and I won't deter you from one.From all you said,you are irreversibly gay.

Goodluck(sorry Sai Buhari).

Dude, in as much as I have thought of this, it simply cant work for me. All my elder siblings are married and I am next in line, so I have got no excuse whatsoever. You guys don't get it, I am a complete man from the outside, good looking, good car and good job, so as far as my mum is concerned, marriage is next for me. So that's why am seriously worried, because I need to start liking a woman as soon as possible; the hardest thing for me to do.

OP's problem is not his sexuality but his religion.

Learn to love yourself.

Religion is an impediment to progress and happiness.

ronald4lif:
Accept who you are and be happy. Don't let the society opinion of you and your sexuality define you. You are gay and that's it. Nothing can change that, except you want to keep living in self deceit and in a depressed state of mind. That's my advise.

You're a massive idio*t!!

I'm a paedophile, should I also be happy with myself?

The OP recognises the abnormality of his deviant lifestyle/desires and here you are encouraging him to accept it like it's something normal.

[size=18pt]OH BOY NA ONLY JESUS FIT COMOT THAT DESIRE FOR BONE OH![/size]

Gay and depressed ? what a wonderful life .

Hey I can't say I totally understand how you feel. We all have our secret frustrations so don't be too hard on yourself. I tried sending you a message but I am not sure how that works. I hope you get the necessary help you need and if you want to talk you can inbox me.

alberto2k:
Taa! Goan cut that your abuna!

Or what other help do u need?

Oh oh.... sorry, you need a knife?
idiat!

Be nice man , be nice....a friend needs your advice not for u to castigate him the more and make him feel worse! He has blood in his veins just like you.

Visit Tb Joshua at once!

ronald4lif:
Accept who you are and be happy. Don't let the society opinion of you and your sexuality define you. You are gay and that's it. Nothing can change that, except you want to keep living in self deceit and in a depressed state of mind. That's my advise.

Ogbeni, you dey UK dey advice my guy here to accept who he is?

Wetin you want na make dem land his ass for prison shey¿?

Conitnui...

ronald4lif:


You still don't get it. People don't change their sexuality, it's a natural trait. Can a heterosexual change to gay, will you advise heterosexual to become gay?

NO ONE IS BORN GAY BRO>>> stop deceiving ursef

Depressedguy:

I have all it takes to get a woman, i have a good job, a car, and live alone. But at this age, i have not seen a womans pants not to talk of getting in between.

The bolded is your problem right there!!

You have never seen a woman's underwear nor toto and you conclude that you are gay? Oga you are should call your self shy and foolish rather than a gay person.

nna if you dey for Abuja, go to Nicon Hilton restaurant, de one where dem day party nightly, find one karuwa, preferably a university student - dem plenty there, sadly. carry am go ya room, gi am money, tell am say you just wan see her underwear. after she show you, tell am make she remove am and play with ya prick, also tell make she lick am for you.

nna, if ya prick no stand, conclude say you be gay, but not before.

P.S. if ya prick no stand, my name no be nduchucks. mumu

OP, am always happy with guys like you, for you pose no threat to my grove. Am grateful to GAYS, INMATES, TOUTS, and many other group of men who are not just available for HONEYS thereby increasing my number of females. Thank you!