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Re: Gay And Depressed. by Chigorkizz(m): 5:53am On Mar 29, 2015 |
Bro.it deals with the brain.Re-boot ur brain.Change your mentality. |
Re: Gay And Depressed. by DICKtator: 6:02am On Mar 29, 2015 |
Raymie: Hahahahaha!!! Become a Catholic priest so that he can become a paedophile or serial self-servicer? Lmaooooooooo!! Nice one!!! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Gay And Depressed. by Aringon(m): 6:12am On Mar 29, 2015 |
Depressedguy:My says " I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me" brother pls surrender ur life to Christ n He will remove all the depression and set u on high with Him. The the first solution and thereafter, every other thing u seek will follow |
Re: Gay And Depressed. by joanana(f): 6:23am On Mar 29, 2015 |
@op You can't do this alone. Homosexuality is sin and you hate being one. Take it to GOD in prayers. it's going to be a long battle but the battle is the Lord. There's nothing God cannot do, believe in him. Fast and pray my brother. All is well my dear. You can do all things through Christ who strengthens you. |
Re: Gay And Depressed. by BecaciaBarbie(f): 6:25am On Mar 29, 2015 |
Depressedguy:Ladies are easily lured into lesbianism! Especially when you attend an only girls high school. Anyways, All I did was to pray and i avoided girls who could lure me into it.... I was a teen then but was lucky to understand that it isn't normal so therefore I couldn't live with such and prayed it out of me. Even the girls that I tot wouldn't snap out of lesbianism they are more into guys now and regarded those lesbianism days as stupid and foolish, cause they couldn't imagine being once attracted to a fellow lady like themselves..it is totally ewwww! So you gotta wake up and start seeing and doing things like other straight guys. 1 Like |
Re: Gay And Depressed. by Nobody: 6:25am On Mar 29, 2015 |
Re: Gay And Depressed. by benebaby77: 6:26am On Mar 29, 2015 |
alberto2k: Honestly, they need to examine you, there must be something wrong with you. Must you make every thread/post an object of jokes? Must you sound funny so as to get more 'like'? He recounted the bane of his life, and the best that could come out of you was to make joke of it. Wouldn't have been better you kept mum if you don't have anything tangible to say? Please guy, you need to grow up and doing the right things at appropriate time. Stop doing otherwise. |
Re: Gay And Depressed. by pomsky: 6:29am On Mar 29, 2015 |
......mosquitoes were not originally created to suck blood, but something must have happened along the way. When nature's original design is altered, chaos and abuse is inevitable. In the beginnings all things created were very good, but now it is different, even creation, not just humanity, is crying out for redemption from the effects of sin. Every deviant desire is a product of the fall of man and entry of sin. If the blood of Jesus is the cure for sin, then it can be the cure for every offshoot of sin. Your sexual desire and taste has been altered by sin, but if the blood of Jesus is what delivers from sin, then every altered desire can be corrected by the blood of Jesus. |
Re: Gay And Depressed. by U90INDIVERSIT(m): 6:30am On Mar 29, 2015 |
ronald4lif: IT SEEMS YOU ARE GAY TOO ![]() |
Re: Gay And Depressed. by Brugo(m): 6:32am On Mar 29, 2015 |
warpedlogician: Let me assume you are not a Nigerian. Truly, you are big fool for believing this fabrication. You are a disgrace to your schools and teachers. Logic is beyond you. The law is not emotional. A crime is a crime. If we had serious law enforcement they would have traced him and picked him up for this story, fiction or not. They can still choose to make an example of him and sympathisers like you. You must be gay. Young simpleton. 1 Like |
Re: Gay And Depressed. by erudean: 6:33am On Mar 29, 2015 |
Xiadnat:The animal in you! Infectious gay leper. |
Re: Gay And Depressed. by balakbalam: 6:35am On Mar 29, 2015 |
Accept who you are and be happy. Don't let the society opinion of you and your sexuality define you. You are gay and that's it. Nothing can change that, except you want to keep living in deceit and in a depressed state of mind. That's my advise. Be who you are those nonsense advice can't help you orelse you will just be deceiving yourself; I know within yourself you are happy but could get depressed sometime it's normal; use your brain, as gay you can still get your children if you know how to do it. Do not be fooled.[color=#990000][/color] 1 Like |
Re: Gay And Depressed. by wiegraf: 6:36am On Mar 29, 2015 |
Ollymurs: Like all things behavioral and what not, both nature and nurture have a role to play. It is the age-old debate. However, there are people who are so naturally gay that there's virtually nothing nurture can do about it. Nurture does and can play a part, yes. Sometimes significant, but nature is by far more the dominant factor for most personality factors. I was born black, I cannot be white unless, of course, I want to appear as unnatural as MJ did Or consider a born, strong introvert. He can fake being an extrovert if it serves his purposes, say at work. However, that does not change the fact that he's an introvert. Indeed, if he does not find a way to satisfy his need to be alone, eg getting down time at his home, he will live a very stressful life, so much so he will likely not last long (think mental breakdowns, higher susceptibility to illnesses, suicide, etc). Same with sexuality. Same thing op is displaying. Note that the brains of introverts have been studied, and shown to be different to those of extroverts. Nature plays a dominant role. Same thing with sexuality; brains of homos and hets are different. In fact, the behavior of introverts as toddlers has been shown to be different to that of extroverts. Introverted children make a hell of a lot more noise and are more fidgety and excitable than those that are extroverted. Reason being introverts process/feel things more intensely than extroverts. Eg, as adults, these introvert and extrovert groups are given lime or something similar and their response is monitored; the intoverts release more saliva, their brains engage in more activities than the extroverts. They are more sensitive, and therefore tire more easily. We all know people that have displayed clearly homosexual traits right from infancy, just as we know clearly introverted toddlers. All that said this op is not serious. A gay xtian, if ever there was an oxymoron..... I'll add that extroverts will not understand why an introvert would want to be alone, after all they find face to face communication and all that commotion vitalizing. They would now start to think there's something wrong with the introverts. Notice how their intentions were pure but ultimately, shortsighted? Again, same with sexuality. Now, imagine the vast majority of the world was extroverted and their religious values dictated that introverts were sinful? If you're an extrovert, imagine the reverse. Very selfish religionists cannot get their heads out of their a$$es.... 6 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Gay And Depressed. by Nobody: 6:41am On Mar 29, 2015 |
ronald4lif:Why did you have to remove your post? What's the matter? Not confident enough to express your opinion because of what your friends here might say? Perhaps you should take your own advise and "be yourself"! You apparently don't realize how this action of yours can suggest the exact opposite negative advise to the OP. Op, ain't nothing wrong being gay. Just make all attempts to leave Nigeria, if u can. Germany, the Netherlands, some parts of the US are places where you can live without problems and with your head held high. It's your decision: a calm, trouble-free life outside the country or one plaqued by judgmental @ssholes in Nigeria. 2 Likes |
Re: Gay And Depressed. by Deboy382: 6:43am On Mar 29, 2015 |
Hello dude, I feel your plight. I will tell u that you are not far from been free now, you have taken the first step by openingly confusesing your weakness, The next step, is to avoid any thing that will arose your interest into such an ungodly habit like watching gay porn, etc. Thirdly see it as a sin and a strategy of the devil to deny you of eternity. Fourthly get your mum, or a trusted relation to get you a God fearing woman to get married to, u need to be helped to get a woman because on your own you can't get one. Finally try having sex with your wife, you will see the difference. Bros, I bet you homosexuality is a bondage that one must be freed from. I wish I could talk to u personally, u will definitely be free. May God help u |
Re: Gay And Depressed. by fr3do(m): 6:44am On Mar 29, 2015 |
ronald4lif: One's destiny is in one's hand. Oneself is not designed from birth, rather it is a sum total of one's experiences, circumstances and decisions in those circumstances. The op is willing to turn away from this empty, wretched path. Op, the philosophy the person I quited, is subscribed to is that one that believe that people are born with sexualities assigned to them, and changing those sexualities will be short changing oneself. But I speak freedom to you, you have the power to turn away from homosexuality and be happy. |
Re: Gay And Depressed. by Deboy382: 6:47am On Mar 29, 2015 |
Hello, dude I feel your plight. I will tell u that you are not far from been free now, you have taken the first step by openingly confusesing your weakness, The next step, is to avoid any thing that will arose your interest into such an ungodly habit like wishing gay porn, etc. Thirdly see it as a sin and a strategy of the devil to deny of eternity. Fourthly get your mum, or a trusted relation to get you a God fearing woman to get married to, u need to be helped to get a woman because on your own you can't get one. Finally try having sex with your wife, you will see the difference. Bros, I bet you homosexuality is a bondage that one must be freed from. I wish I could talk to u personally, u will definitely be free. God help u |
Re: Gay And Depressed. by balakbalam: 6:47am On Mar 29, 2015 |
Hey who's that idiot talking about arrest. ...... my dear without being cut in the act nobody will do him anything. ... if you are anything but fool you wouldn't have talk about arrest, arrest him as armrrober or kidnapper, if not that some of our leaders are very stupid they would have fight boko haram and corruption instead of ordinary citizen for his or her personal sexuality. Nonsense |
Re: Gay And Depressed. by iwriterng(m): 6:54am On Mar 29, 2015 |
The reason why Nigeria is so backward is not far-fetched! Reading all the STUPID advice on here makes me wonder what the heck is wrong with Nigerians. So he should start praying abi? Right! Maybe fasting will help, 40days and 40nights fasting! 2 Likes |
Re: Gay And Depressed. by Aregs(m): 6:54am On Mar 29, 2015 |
Bro, the fact is you might not even be gay, there are some effeminate guys out there who are not gay... Try see the Bollywood movie 'STRAIGHT' you would understand me. Maybe you just haven't found your type of girl |
Re: Gay And Depressed. by TDstarr: 6:55am On Mar 29, 2015 |
Vyolet:you are obviously wrong, there are people that are born with female homones,i read it somewere on the net, I thought a woman would be thebest to advisehim, but am obviously wrong 1 Like |
Re: Gay And Depressed. by kobonaire(m): 7:00am On Mar 29, 2015 |
HerbalRemedy:Please deliver a carton of the bolded to Sambisa forest |
Re: Gay And Depressed. by Nobody: 7:02am On Mar 29, 2015 |
OP, don't let anyone define you. Be yourself. You are gay and was born that way. You didn't turn gay because you love hanging with girls, rather you were already gay hence your love for hanging with girls. Sexuality isn't a choice and can never be changed. The only thing that might happen is abstinence but the attraction is inborn. 2 Likes |
Re: Gay And Depressed. by colored(m): 7:02am On Mar 29, 2015 |
Depressedguy:heard of Kim k? browse through her nude photos, she will make u straighter than angle 180! and stay away from religion, believe me they all delusional. |
Re: Gay And Depressed. by blesoh(f): 7:05am On Mar 29, 2015 |
Dexnuel:very true,i saw his respond so funny,he's not ready to change. |
Re: Gay And Depressed. by StPete: 7:05am On Mar 29, 2015 |
Depressedguy: Your problem stems from the fact that there are fellow guys like u willing to give up their arse-holes to be drilled by you or possibly them drilling you. If there were no available guys, none of ur gay inclinations would exist |
Re: Gay And Depressed. by CAMNEWTON4PRES: 7:06am On Mar 29, 2015 |
Not only you are a gay but you are the gay-girl ...jeez ..tufiakwa , have some decency. Try to have sex with a girl |
Re: Gay And Depressed. by sleekysol(f): 7:06am On Mar 29, 2015 |
firstly u need to put things in perspective, are u frustrated about being gay because you hate it or because you fins it difficult to satisfy your sexual desire because of the limited gay guys around? are you afraid of loving a woman cuz of experience you have had growing up? you need to first seek the truth about yourself. do u feel any under ground superiority knowing you are gay these things can affect you desire to change. if u can successfully profile yourself then your solution is simply abstain from sex till you get married. that will solve 90% of your issue mix around with great women of virtue chances are majority of your female friends are either lesbians or girls with intent for it Who find your being with you convinient. change your company go to a very involved church and open up to sumone there. but by and large change nust come from you. |
Re: Gay And Depressed. by Sparkle777(f): 7:09am On Mar 29, 2015 |
I feel for u, but wt God all is possible. First accept u hav a flaw. Then go talk to a mfm minister, I hrd there s a way of deliverance for it. Also dnt fornicate, it may add to ur problems. Most important, God has a vast supply of diffrnt gals. Some girls are almost boy like dat u d think they re gay or even men. Such are ur specs my brother. Chill, u re not alone. |
Re: Gay And Depressed. by freecocoa(f): 7:10am On Mar 29, 2015 |
If after hating yourself and having never ending regrets, don't you think this is beyond you? I can understand how you feel due to many reasons, believe me, if people were sensible and open minded enough to recognize that some people are made to be gay, you won't be feeling this way, the problem is that you just want to be accepted by society. True that some people can choose to engage in homosexual activities, that doesn't mean being gay is a choice, you've been praying and hating yourself to no avail, how about loving and accepting who you are for a change? It will do you a lot of good. 1 Like |
Re: Gay And Depressed. by MuyiRano(m): 7:11am On Mar 29, 2015 |
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