shinejackie:
Endless back and forth argument, what works 4A might not work 4B, choose what works for ur family, stick to it and have peace of mind, to each is own......Kapish

MusaIbrahim1:
My take? Buy a washing machine... You see, makes the world easier... NO TAKE

loshybab:
most 21st century women nw think washing clothes for their hubbies is an act f domestic slavery....wts ur take NLanders?

Ewuro4:
Endless back and forth argument, what works 4A might not work 4B, choose what works for ur family, stick to it and have peace of mind, to each is own......Kapish undecided

loshybab:
most 21st century women nw think washing clothes for their hubbies is an act f domestic slavery....wts ur take NLanders?

loshybab:
most 21st century women nw think washing clothes for their hubbies is an act f domestic slavery....wts ur take NLanders?

bellong:

Is this what you are thinking?

When well meaning Nigerians are awaiting the Presidential result, you are busy thinking about woman matter....

shinejackie:
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Hahahaha.....seems u agree with this counsel..

loshybab:
most 21st century women nw think washing clothes for their hubbies is an act f domestic slavery....wts ur take NLanders?

qbd2:
Hmm. I don't really see it as something bad. Tis maybe naturally what a woman does. And yes as another nl said, dey can just geta washing machine. Twill reduce d stress so d wife won't have to complain.
As per m$en ego, no man will want to wash his own or both of them's clothes when there's a woman at home.
I won't even wash my own clothes with hand talkless of washing both mine nd someone elses own. Ill surely get tired myself. But say, if there's no washinbg machine, d husband might as well voluntarily wash sone of his clothes himself so he doesn't work his wife to death.

Ewuro4:


I do.

5minsmadness:

My dear it's because you are a beta male that you are having this problem.

Define your preference and live by it.

If a woman isn't washing your clothes then SHE'S NOT THAT INTO THE RELATIONSHIP. Yes. I said it.

It's you that is harassing her for a relationship that's why she is doing shakara for you. A woman that loves you and cares for you will do these things for you naturally and won't be thinking of whether she is being a slave or not.

Like I said. Define your preferences and live by it. If you don't mind separating your clothes this early in the relationship and washing them yourself then by all means go ahead. If you don't see anything wrong in washing her bra and pant sef you can do so, it's your life. But it is what you tolerate early on in your relationship that will be the norm. Women like guys who take control and don't give a dam. They get tired easily of all this romantic gentle stuff, am telling you from experience.

Be the man. If you feel your lady is being lazy and you can't stand it then kindly end the relationship. She will find a guy who will wash her clothes and you will find a lady who won't mind washing yours.

Shikena.

fem29:


Because she is not washing his clothes does not mean he is washing her pant and bra , for Gods sake, you are being facetious. Early in any relationship, you will not find me washing ANY man clothes, I did take my hubby's (then boyfriends) Whites home to wash once but that was because he had bad water where he lived in lekki. The only way a woman should be washing your clothes by hand is if you are paying all her expenses then she is kinda like your slave.

I have no probs with washing my hubby's clothes with a washing machine, as it's just as well adding his to mine when I'm doing a load, as long as he has put it in the laundry basket. If it's by hand, yes if Im a full time housewife( God forbid)

5minsmadness:


[size=17pt]Ooooooooohhhhhhh!
Who dey quote me this election tyme?? ORUBEBE DEY WORRI YOU? [/size]

fem29:


Because she is not washing his clothes does not mean he is washing her pant and bra , for Gods sake, you are being facetious. Early in any relationship, you will not find me washing ANY man clothes, I did take my hubby's (then boyfriends) Whites home to wash once but that was because he had bad water where he lived in lekki. The only way a woman should be washing your clothes by hand is if you are paying all her expenses then she is kinda like your slave.

I have no probs with washing my hubby's clothes with a washing machine, as it's just as well adding his to mine when I'm doing a load, as long as he has put it in the laundry basket. If it's by hand, yes if Im a full time housewife( God forbid)

loshybab:
most 21st century women nw think washing clothes for their hubbies is an act f domestic slavery....wts ur take NLanders?

loshybab:
most 21st century women nw think washing clothes for their hubbies is an act f domestic slavery....wts ur take NLanders?

loshybab:
most 21st century women nw think washing clothes for their hubbies is an act f domestic slavery....wts ur take NLanders?

loshybab:
@coco,irene,india..., nd oda ladies,I jst bliv wives shud see doin hubby's laundry as a marital duty rada dan slavery.it dsnt mean d hubby shudnt hlp wen conditions beg for it bt...I cnt evn imagine wat dese ladies ar sayin sef,vry soon,u ladies wud say hubbies shud strt cookin for himself too.u ladies need to discard ds provokin mentality.abi y do u thnk children ar more spiritually
attchd to d mothers dan d fadas,it's because f ds kinda submissve duties.I dnt sme men who go physical wt deir wives,ds kinda talks cud prompt it

@madness,ur talk mk sense jare bt it cud deprive d wife f sme goodies in d likes d affection,respct nd odas if d wife dsnt see it as prt f her primary marital responsibilties....magana ya kare!

MusaIbrahim1:
My take? Buy a washing machine... You see, makes the world easier... NO TAKE

Timbuktou:
I agree. Everyone can afford a washing machine. By the way, whether she does the washing by hand or machine, she has done the washing hasn't she? Smh

edwife:


Not even that as if they have electricity to run it