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| Is Break-up The Best Option?? by Nobody: 10:27am On Mar 30, 2015 |
Goodmorning people...ohk here's the ish...my bf few weeks back...asked for sex from a year three months old relationship and i turned him down..for some reasons....now he's been avoiding me for almost 2weeks ...friends pls whats ur advice on this#ps:i love him and not ready to lose him#... |
| Re: Is Break-up The Best Option?? by Nobody: 10:41am On Mar 30, 2015 |
Ppearl: Well it depends what u want to do in the name of love ..., Personally i think u should leave him ... His not speaking to u for 2week in d name of sex (Alarm bell) if a guy truly feels d same he will WAIT! The fact his doing this meansu value the relationship more n he doesnt .. If u sleep with him cuz u love him .. He will surely leave u ..  Hooe it helps 3 Likes |
| Re: Is Break-up The Best Option?? by falconey(m): 10:41am On Mar 30, 2015 |
Ppearl: why did you turn him down? Are you a V? 2 Likes |
| Re: Is Break-up The Best Option?? by Nobody: 11:42am On Mar 30, 2015 |
why did you turn him down? Are you a V?actually the reason is cause am nt ready... |
| Re: Is Break-up The Best Option?? by Nobody: 11:47am On Mar 30, 2015 |
Lala247:Thanks alot...don't know if i shld call and find out things from him...a friend advised me against it doh 1 Like |
| Re: Is Break-up The Best Option?? by TheSonOfMark(m): 12:04pm On Mar 30, 2015 |
Ppearl: Really? But you're ready to extort money from him while hiding beneath the charade called "LOVE". You bunch of pseudo-intelligent, scamming gyno-humanoids! Where is Searching4Love when he's needed? 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Is Break-up The Best Option?? by Nobody: 12:15pm On Mar 30, 2015 |
TheSonOfMark:i don't extort him at all...i feel it hurts my pride 1 Like |
| Re: Is Break-up The Best Option?? by Nobody: 12:23pm On Mar 30, 2015 |
Ppearl: Yh dont call, leave him . If its really meant to be it will b. Dont force it 1 Like |
| Re: Is Break-up The Best Option?? by Richiy(f): 12:59pm On Mar 30, 2015 |
TheSonOfMark: Easy tiger. She never said anything about any extortion. Don't jump so fast. OP, didn't you guys discuss this before you started dating? 1 Like |
| Re: Is Break-up The Best Option?? by greatestboss(m): 1:04pm On Mar 30, 2015 |
you aren't ready to lose him, yet you deny him of sex?! after 1yr and 2 months, i hail the dude. As for me, after like 3months(max), i would have gotten your ass laid on! i gat no respect for unloyal hoes. |
| Re: Is Break-up The Best Option?? by pinkycute(f): 1:05pm On Mar 30, 2015 |
My questions are.... 1: Do you really love dis guy  2: Have you ever had sex wit him before 3: Has he cheated on you before 4: Is this the first time, he's demanding sex from you, Since you guys, has been together for a year nd three months 5: Do you trust his words, in anyway Answer those questions correctly...... |
| Re: Is Break-up The Best Option?? by Enegod(m): 2:14pm On Mar 30, 2015 |
Ppearl:If you are not ready for SEX you shouldn't be in a relationship  1 Like |
| Re: Is Break-up The Best Option?? by Nobody: 4:56pm On Mar 31, 2015 |
pinkycute:1. Yes 2. No 3. No 4. Yes...bt he wasnt really serious then 5. I ave my doubts |
| Re: Is Break-up The Best Option?? by Nobody: 4:59pm On Mar 31, 2015 |
Richiy:yea and he was fine with it |
| Re: Is Break-up The Best Option?? by swaggzo(m): 11:53pm On Mar 31, 2015 |
Lala247: In the name of sex you say?? Whats your role as my girlfriend if you will not let me out with another girl but you and at the same time you cannot satisfy my sexual urge? What will we be doing for good 2-3 years without having sex.. And you say we're dating. I always tell the people who aren't ready for sex yet to not start a relationship. Cuz the feelings must surely come.. The more you them away the closer they'll come at you and it's either you do it or you don't. You cannot tell a girl to leave her boyfriend because they've not talked for weeks. You cannot simply draw conclusions and give terrible advice on every matter you find on the internet because you're god! 1 Like |
| Re: Is Break-up The Best Option?? by swaggzo(m): 11:56pm On Mar 31, 2015 |
Ppearl: You don't have to blame him.. It's natural that these sexual feelings come and go. You cannot tell me you've never felt the same way too. Even animals won't believe yaa. Try to hold on with him.. If things stop working you both probably should stop dating. Girl sex is always a big part in many relationships.. If you're not ready to open up then quit playing around and stay single until your time. |
| Re: Is Break-up The Best Option?? by Nobody: 11:59pm On Mar 31, 2015 |
swaggzo: Lol well u didnt state all this ... So where u expecting everyone to tell u what u want to hear? If that is the case then dont comment or quote ppl if u cant take opposing comments.. On every matter lol cuz uve seen all my post right... Ur too emotional.. Fix up Ps u quoted me first Be careful |
| Re: Is Break-up The Best Option?? by Nobody: 11:59pm On Mar 31, 2015 |
TheSonOfMark: ehmmm why are you always on the attack, you're one biased dude. 1 Like |
| Re: Is Break-up The Best Option?? by Nobody: 12:02am On Apr 01, 2015 |
Ppearl: First of all Romance section is the wrong place to get advice, you're an adult so its up to you anyway but there's one thing i tell my younger ones, If you want to smoke and drink you can but never smoke and drink because you're pressured to. that's my only advice to you. 1 Like |
| Re: Is Break-up The Best Option?? by swaggzo(m): 12:21am On Apr 01, 2015 |
Lala247: I'm sure if you read this again you would not understand what you wrote |
| Re: Is Break-up The Best Option?? by Nobody: 12:23am On Apr 01, 2015 |
swaggzo: Lol i know im tired ... Thought u created the thread .. Neway no worries . Nite |
| Re: Is Break-up The Best Option?? by swaggzo(m): 12:31am On Apr 01, 2015 |
| Re: Is Break-up The Best Option?? by Nobody: 1:25am On Apr 01, 2015 |
Ppearl: Damn Damn Damn “Am not yet ready” I hate this statement ehn... Young lady if you know you're gonna have sex with him,do it now.... If it gonna be,bring it on and make it last...if you should start having sex with him by the year 2018 will not stop him from cheating on you if he want to..... Damn..I hate you right now In fact I see this your post as childish... I feel like heating you with an rod.. You disgust me.. B1tch...slow poke hoe... |
| Re: Is Break-up The Best Option?? by speed99: 3:54am On Apr 01, 2015 |
@ Op... I admire you uprightness. please, stay true to your belief. you are a rare gem. but just a minute. Have you had sex in this 1 yr 3 months? you said you've done it before. what made you stop? religious or personal grounds? People need to learn from you. |
| Re: Is Break-up The Best Option?? by apparentlylaw(m): 4:35am On Apr 01, 2015 |
just because of sex......cut it off with him |
| Re: Is Break-up The Best Option?? by Nobody: 5:37am On Apr 01, 2015 |
Ppearl: It's a fairly simple decision. You have been asked to either pick God or your boyfriend. |
| Re: Is Break-up The Best Option?? by Nobody: 6:39am On Apr 01, 2015 |
Noh luv lost yet....jes a nikka been infuriated cos he didn't get to fvck.. His 'drilling tool' is obviously angry with you too. 1 Like |
| Re: Is Break-up The Best Option?? by Nobody: 6:40am On Apr 01, 2015 |
Before I say anytin, pls I want Op to understand dat sex is as cheap as 500naira! So if ur guy is a bad guy he shud know this! If u were a virgin, then I personally will nt bother u for sex if we truely connect and love each other. BUT for u to hav bn banged severally by guys in d past, and u dare want to control ur guy and play the good girl, u def gat anoda tin comin! If u r nt a V, u've lost d right to dictate wen and wen u guys can hav sex, it can happen anytime u both hav d urge, it shudnt be ur call/right. He's nt ur toy. or will u be hapi if he does same tin to u? I dnt waste my time wit girls like u at all. Infact, I kill wateva feelin I hav for ur likes not because of the sex issue, but because of ur fcckin controllin attitude! Who d hell r u to dictate to me wen n wen to ease myself? Will u be hapi if I do same to u? Or do u tink u will neva hav d urge for sex? Put urself in his shoes gaddamit! U will be a very bad life partner wit dis attitude! Self centered! Greedy! Controllin! #nonsense! |
| Re: Is Break-up The Best Option?? by Monicasque(f): 6:50am On Apr 01, 2015 |
Ppearl: Have you ever slept with him before? |
| Re: Is Break-up The Best Option?? by Houseofglam7(f): 7:36am On Apr 01, 2015 |
Hmmmmm.....on this issue, I feel you sort it out wiv him. The only thing you'll get here is bashing and some more bashing. |
| Re: Is Break-up The Best Option?? by Nobody: 9:40pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
Houseofglam7:As in ehn!...no be small bashing oh |
| Re: Is Break-up The Best Option?? by chimerase2: 9:45pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
U mean for one fool year of foooling around ua cat and he has not been compensated Young ladie u wan carry dat cat go heaven?  Why re u stingy on wat god gave u freely  |
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