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Serious Opinions Needed,coz U Cud Be Helpin Some Women's Mentality by loshybab(m): 11:15pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
most 21st century women nw think washing clothes for their hubbies is an act f domestic slavery....wts ur take NLanders? |
Re: Serious Opinions Needed,coz U Cud Be Helpin Some Women's Mentality by Nobody: 11:29pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
My take? Buy a washing machine... You see, makes the world easier... NO TAKE 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Serious Opinions Needed,coz U Cud Be Helpin Some Women's Mentality by Ewuro4: 11:40pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
shinejackie: |
Re: Serious Opinions Needed,coz U Cud Be Helpin Some Women's Mentality by Nobody: 11:55pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
Hmm. I don't really see it as something bad. Tis maybe naturally what a woman does. And yes as another nl said, dey can just geta washing machine. Twill reduce d stress so d wife won't have to complain. As per m$en ego, no man will want to wash his own or both of them's clothes when there's a woman at home. I won't even wash my own clothes with hand talkless of washing both mine nd someone elses own. Ill surely get tired myself. But say, if there's no washinbg machine, d husband might as well voluntarily wash sone of his clothes himself so he doesn't work his wife to death. 1 Like |
Re: Serious Opinions Needed,coz U Cud Be Helpin Some Women's Mentality by Nobody: 11:58pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
MusaIbrahim1:But there may still b d problem of who drops d clothes in the washing machine and takes them out to dry |
Re: Serious Opinions Needed,coz U Cud Be Helpin Some Women's Mentality by Jahblessme: 12:03am On Mar 30, 2015 |
Is d man paralysed? How was he doing it before he got married? He should go and buy a machine please and move on. No to domestic slavery in the name of marriage. On to election results jare! 11 Likes |
Re: Serious Opinions Needed,coz U Cud Be Helpin Some Women's Mentality by cococandy(f): 12:52am On Mar 30, 2015 |
loshybab:wash your cloth. 10 Likes |
Re: Serious Opinions Needed,coz U Cud Be Helpin Some Women's Mentality by BlackLeopard(m): 2:39am On Mar 30, 2015 |
Wash your clothes and wash your husband's if it makes you happy to do. (Personal? Fiancee and I do each other's laundry when it comes to it. It's no slavery or the like, it's kindness and cooperation. Now if either of us demanded the other do it, all life long? Different thing much.) 3 Likes |
Re: Serious Opinions Needed,coz U Cud Be Helpin Some Women's Mentality by Nobody: 6:01am On Mar 30, 2015 |
Ewuro4:. Hahahaha.....seems u agree with this counsel.. |
Re: Serious Opinions Needed,coz U Cud Be Helpin Some Women's Mentality by ireneidiva(f): 7:07am On Mar 30, 2015 |
loshybab:Do your laundry my friend. 3 Likes |
Re: Serious Opinions Needed,coz U Cud Be Helpin Some Women's Mentality by ifyalways(f): 7:15am On Mar 30, 2015 |
loshybab:1st century men never wore any clothes. "Sooooo diafore", men that are stuck on the 1st century thought process should start by going butt nakid. 10 Likes |
Re: Serious Opinions Needed,coz U Cud Be Helpin Some Women's Mentality by bellong: 9:39am On Mar 30, 2015 |
Is this what you are thinking? When well meaning Nigerians are awaiting the Presidential result, you are busy thinking about woman matter.... |
Re: Serious Opinions Needed,coz U Cud Be Helpin Some Women's Mentality by Nobody: 9:56am On Mar 30, 2015 |
bellong:. Hahahah, chai, no dull moment on nairaland |
Re: Serious Opinions Needed,coz U Cud Be Helpin Some Women's Mentality by Ewuro4: 12:44am On Mar 31, 2015 |
shinejackie: I do. |
Re: Serious Opinions Needed,coz U Cud Be Helpin Some Women's Mentality by 5minsmadness: 1:18am On Mar 31, 2015 |
loshybab:My dear it's because you are a beta male that you are having this problem. Define your preference and live by it. If a woman isn't washing your clothes then SHE'S NOT THAT INTO THE RELATIONSHIP. Yes. I said it. It's you that is harassing her for a relationship that's why she is doing shakara for you. A woman that loves you and cares for you will do these things for you naturally and won't be thinking of whether she is being a slave or not. Like I said. Define your preferences and live by it. If you don't mind separating your clothes this early in the relationship and washing them yourself then by all means go ahead. If you don't see anything wrong in washing her bra and pant sef you can do so, it's your life. But it is what you tolerate early on in your relationship that will be the norm. Women like guys who take control and don't give a dam. They get tired easily of all this romantic gentle stuff, am telling you from experience. Be the man. If you feel your lady is being lazy and you can't stand it then kindly end the relationship. She will find a guy who will wash her clothes and you will find a lady who won't mind washing yours. Shikena. 4 Likes |
Re: Serious Opinions Needed,coz U Cud Be Helpin Some Women's Mentality by 5minsmadness: 1:20am On Mar 31, 2015 |
qbd2:Very good answer. 3 Likes |
Re: Serious Opinions Needed,coz U Cud Be Helpin Some Women's Mentality by Nobody: 5:47am On Mar 31, 2015 |
Ewuro4:. |
Re: Serious Opinions Needed,coz U Cud Be Helpin Some Women's Mentality by jashar(f): 8:06am On Mar 31, 2015 |
Whatever floats your rootbeer. But doing laundry should not be an issue. I personally do not like washing,I still wash ooo but I can iron for africa. So, guess who does the bulk of the washing and who does all the ironing? |
Re: Serious Opinions Needed,coz U Cud Be Helpin Some Women's Mentality by teasel: 10:17am On Mar 31, 2015 |
Don't you have hands? Do your laundry yourself. ...and change your mentality. 1 Like |
Re: Serious Opinions Needed,coz U Cud Be Helpin Some Women's Mentality by hurricaneindia(f): 4:30pm On Mar 31, 2015 |
Smh |
Re: Serious Opinions Needed,coz U Cud Be Helpin Some Women's Mentality by Nobody: 4:47pm On Mar 31, 2015 |
5minsmadness: Because she is not washing his clothes does not mean he is washing her pant and bra , for Gods sake, you are being facetious. Early in any relationship, you will not find me washing ANY man clothes, I did take my hubby's (then boyfriends) Whites home to wash once but that was because he had bad water where he lived in lekki. The only way a woman should be washing your clothes by hand is if you are paying all her expenses then she is kinda like your slave. I have no probs with washing my hubby's clothes with a washing machine, as it's just as well adding his to mine when I'm doing a load, as long as he has put it in the laundry basket. If it's by hand, yes if Im a full time housewife( God forbid) |
Re: Serious Opinions Needed,coz U Cud Be Helpin Some Women's Mentality by 5minsmadness: 5:09pm On Mar 31, 2015 |
fem29: [size=17pt]Ooooooooohhhhhhh! Who dey quote me this election tyme?? ORUBEBE DEY WORRI YOU? [/size] 1 Like |
Re: Serious Opinions Needed,coz U Cud Be Helpin Some Women's Mentality by Nobody: 5:36pm On Mar 31, 2015 |
5minsmadness: You do not even have any logical response 2 Likes |
Re: Serious Opinions Needed,coz U Cud Be Helpin Some Women's Mentality by 5minsmadness: 6:23pm On Mar 31, 2015 |
fem29: I can assure you, it wasn't my intention to be frivolous. I was simply trying to elucidate on the spectrum of mannerisms he could exhibit vis a vis his proclivity to the subject matter. |
Re: Serious Opinions Needed,coz U Cud Be Helpin Some Women's Mentality by loshybab(m): 11:32pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
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Re: Serious Opinions Needed,coz U Cud Be Helpin Some Women's Mentality by loshybab(m): 11:45pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
@coco,irene,india..., nd oda ladies,I jst bliv wives shud see doin hubby's laundry as a marital duty rada dan slavery.it dsnt mean d hubby shudnt hlp wen conditions beg for it bt...I cnt evn imagine wat dese ladies ar sayin sef,vry soon,u ladies wud say hubbies shud strt cookin for himself too.u ladies need to discard ds provokin mentality.abi y do u thnk children ar more spiritually attchd to d mothers dan d fadas,it's because f ds kinda submissve duties.I dnt sme men who go physical wt deir wives,ds kinda talks cud prompt it @madness,ur talk mk sense jare bt it cud deprive d wife f sme goodies in d likes d affection,respct nd odas if d wife dsnt see it as prt f her primary marital responsibilties....magana ya kare! |
Re: Serious Opinions Needed,coz U Cud Be Helpin Some Women's Mentality by hurricaneindia(f): 12:11am On Apr 06, 2015 |
loshybab:Crap 3 Likes |
Re: Serious Opinions Needed,coz U Cud Be Helpin Some Women's Mentality by lilmax(m): 6:12am On Apr 06, 2015 |
Now we have some that cant pound yam why? Its slavery like she said We have weak men in nigeria thats the prob 2 Likes |
Re: Serious Opinions Needed,coz U Cud Be Helpin Some Women's Mentality by Nobody: 7:27am On Apr 06, 2015 |
MusaIbrahim1:I agree. Everyone can afford a washing machine. By the way, whether she does the washing by hand or machine, she has done the washing hasn't she? Smh |
Re: Serious Opinions Needed,coz U Cud Be Helpin Some Women's Mentality by edwife(f): 10:17am On Apr 06, 2015 |
Timbuktou: Not even that as if they have electricity to run it |
Re: Serious Opinions Needed,coz U Cud Be Helpin Some Women's Mentality by Nobody: 1:40pm On Apr 06, 2015 |
edwife:Mehn, I don't get all this senseless posturing on nairaland. Sometimes, I just can't deal. |
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