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Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by CharlesNneji1: 2:32pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
*WARNING* Lazy readers...please, keep off, this article might be too long for you. Infact, this might end up being a long long thread* ***************************************** Lol. Hair salons are very dangerous. As in, female hair salons. they are one of the most dangerous places a guy can ever enter. Why? Because what girls say in hair saloons can kill a guy's confidence gan. How? In hair salons, after hearing single girls analyse guys who are asking them out, you will come out covering your face on behalf of most single men out there. First, the conversation will start with a general discussion about guys... ...then they will narrow it down to the horribly annoying things guys do, gradually they will tear guys up and spit out how foolish and desperate for love some guys are. As she talks about the "mumu-ness" of the guy who is asking him out, all her friends will throw back their heads and laugh. It is an ugly experience if you watch girls talk about a guy in this way, some babes get bad mouth die abeg...and my mission is to make sure no babe ever takes a guy i come in contact with for granted. Here is the hard truth. IT IS POSSIBLE THAT A GIRL YOU ARE ASKING OUT, NOW OR IN THE PAST, HAVE LAUGHED AT YOU WITH HER FRIENDS. But chill, what i am about to show you right now will make sure that a girl never laughs at you behind your back when you show interest in her. My hope is that after learning this, you will use it and change how you interact with girls. Now, let's begin... 1. FOR GIRLS, FRIENDSHIP AND ROMANCE ARE TWO DIFFERENT THINGS. Most dudes don't get this. Baba, because she is opening teeth for you and throwing you 360 degrees hugs every time does not mean she is attracted to you in a romantic way. For girls a friend is different from a boyfriend. and when a girl starts seeing you as a friend IT WILL BE RARE for her to see you as a boyfriend - ever again (Go and ask any girl). Some days back i read an article where some dude was advising guys that the best way to make a girl like you is to go to her and become her friend and with time she will start liking you... I read the article and laughed, as in, threw back my head and laughed. In might work in hollywood but try it in real life and you MIGHT end up in friend zone quarters till you grow white bear-bear. You need to do something else - something else that always works all the time. You see, girls classify guys into two when they meet them; it is either they place you as someone they can date or they place you as someone they can never date. If she places you as someone she can not date, when you ask out let me show you what will happen... - First she will be shocked that you've even asked asked out in the first place (You that she saw as a "brother" ![]() - Then she will beg you that you two should just remain friends - Then she will start ignoring you. In that order. Now, you might be asking yourself the following questions... One; How or why does a girl decide to date one guy and decides not to date another guy? Two; why is it difficult for girls to date a guy they have been just friends with for a long time Three; How do i make sure that a girl sees me as someone she wants to date. To know the answer to these above 3 questions, you have understand how a girl knows that she would like to date a guy. and that is what i will show in the continuation of this thread.... I will continue the thread immediately i get 30 comments under this post. 48 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by Fairgodwin(m): 2:34pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
hmm... interesting I get the point: if you like a girl, walk up to her straight and make your intentions known. Others I can deal with. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by dharay99: 2:35pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
area boys long notes, Next abeg.... ![]() 8 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by Odunharry(m): 2:37pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
lol at friendship. it best you let her know what you want.......if not most 9JA girls will friendzone you and trust no guy wants to be seen as a brother.. op , ride on 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by Generalkorex(m): 2:39pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
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Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by chymystique(f): 2:41pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
Came here to Chill ![]() You are on point on gals categorising guys on "mere friendship" and "dateable" levels. I beg to difffer in that salon gist.. its chronic gossips , road side and poorly managed salons that usually does that esp the hairstylists. Am waiting for your follow up writeup on how gals "know the guy they wanna date" since u aint even a gal. 15 Likes |
Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by DahtzFestjayz: 2:45pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
Girls turn me down because, am too forward 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by jmoore(m): 2:51pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
This op went to school and read womanology. 25 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by LewisO: 3:08pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
Turn me down, i turn you down ⬇ too! You aren't God, my life doesn't depend on YOU! Nice article (op) very sensible post. ![]() 34 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by dajoaneke(m): 3:09pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
When I ask a lady out once n she says no! Thats the end of it. Onto the next one. I dislike this habit of "let me test him". You be teacher? 91 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by TheSonOfMark(m): 3:31pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
chymystique: Whenever and wherever two or three women are converged, dissecting the male analogy becomes agendum numero uno. Doubt me? Visit the family section. [/quote] 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by chymystique(f): 4:06pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
TheSonOfMark: You are right though but not all the time esp not when there are important matters at hand to discuss by those women. ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by guente02(m): 4:32pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
Adding Up Post Numbers 1 Like |
Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by judey1992(m): 4:55pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
i accept the fact that it is always rare for girls to date you if you have been classified as friend. OP you are so onpoint |
Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by Nobody: 5:02pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
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Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by Syphax(m): 5:15pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
OP,so you expect me to read that shit up posted?Why do some guys like studying girls like books? ![]() I would rather read psalm 119 than read that stuff u posted! 33 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by Charlesberry(m): 5:21pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
Space booked!!!! Op just continue oh, if you dey wait for 30 comments you dey wait time ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by MrDojo(m): 5:24pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
dajoaneke: Heheheheheh ![]() |
Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by SkinnyDude(m): 5:34pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
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Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by SkinnyDude(m): 5:35pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
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Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by SkinnyDude(m): 5:35pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
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Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by SkinnyDude(m): 5:36pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
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Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by SkinnyDude(m): 5:36pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
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Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by SkinnyDude(m): 5:36pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
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Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by Pr0ton: 5:37pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
dajoaneke: Seconded. 1 Like |
Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by Pr0ton: 5:38pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
Who be this skinnydude na? ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by SkinnyDude(m): 5:40pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
Pr0ton:ajuju mike ejeagha. he needs 30 comments, am giving them to him. 10 Likes |
Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by Pr0ton: 5:45pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
SkinnyDude: I can help with a better job. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by SkinnyDude(m): 5:48pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
Pr0ton:patiently waiting...does the job require CV? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by holluikon(m): 5:50pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
It work sometimes 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by Pr0ton: 5:53pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
SkinnyDude: Na.. Just common sense and your voice. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
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