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What Do You Think??? by giffty(f): 12:44pm On Apr 02, 2015

Alright....
My dad got a case that has kept him in a state of confusion..This situation has been on for a month now....
Just wanna get your opinion about it.

Well a guy(26) got a girl(15) pregnant. She is in J.S.S 3 and they have been dating for a while now. Her mum did not approve of the relationship but had no choice since she has lost control of her daughter...
To cut the long story short->>she's now five(5) months pregnant,though the case started when the pregnancy was four(4)months..There was a delay because of the DNA result,since the guy claimed he's not the only one sleeping with her,now its out and confirmed him owner of the pregnancy..

The problem is making a decision of either keeping the pregnancy or terminating it.

N/B:If she terminates the pregnancy,HER LIFE IS AT RISK and keeping the pregnancy WILL DISRUPT HER EDUCATION..

Your candid advice please.........

Re: What Do You Think??? by obi4eze(m): 12:49pm On Apr 02, 2015

How is your dad related to the case?

Is he the 26-year-old guy or what?

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Re: What Do You Think??? by dharay99: 12:51pm On Apr 02, 2015

now its 5months, ok its going to 6months and u ppl are still tinkin of terminating d baby?

#yhu ppl are not serious i tell u..

Abortion should b a capital NO, its late already na, and moreover, its bad, its a murder, risky, its.....

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Re: What Do You Think??? by Nobody: 12:53pm On Apr 02, 2015

obi4eze:
How is your dad related to the case?

Is he the 26-year-old guy or what?

What a question!!!

Re: What Do You Think??? by giffty(f): 12:53pm On Apr 02, 2015

obi4eze:
How is your dad related to the case?

Is he the 26-year-old guy or what?

nope,actually the guy is his tenant,and the case was brought to him,not because of that though

Re: What Do You Think??? by Princecalm(m): 12:54pm On Apr 02, 2015

What u sow, u must surely reap, there is no way u can cheat nature.

Re: What Do You Think??? by tohpahz(f): 12:56pm On Apr 02, 2015

Hmmm.. i think d gal shud kip d bby.. stopping school wud be a price she hss to pay.. maybe she'd continue lera..

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Re: What Do You Think??? by StPete: 12:59pm On Apr 02, 2015

Nothing new under the sun, she won't be the first nor the last baby mama. Let her keep the child, pause school for the time being. Continue when the child is old enough to stay without breast milk

Re: What Do You Think??? by obi4eze(m): 12:59pm On Apr 02, 2015

giffty:
nope,actually the guy is his tenant,and the case was brought to him,not because of that though

Let them do what seems good to them after all no be me tell them say make them go fornicate..

15-year-old girl for that matter. The boy deserves to be flogged.

Re: What Do You Think??? by ronald4lif(m): 12:59pm On Apr 02, 2015

It's a bit too late for a D&C already. She has to keep the pregnancy. Poor girl!

"Catch them young" guys are not smiling.

Is there no law in place that punishes offenders of such crime? The girl is still a minor and the guy should face stiff legal charges

Re: What Do You Think??? by giffty(f): 1:01pm On Apr 02, 2015

D1ck:
What a question!!!

Lol,a rhetorical one

Re: What Do You Think??? by giffty(f): 1:02pm On Apr 02, 2015

ronald4lif:
It's a bit too late for a D&C already. She has to keep the pregnancy. Poor girl!

"Catch them young" guys are not smiling.

thanks though

Re: What Do You Think??? by giffty(f): 1:05pm On Apr 02, 2015

ronald4lif:
It's a bit too late for a D&C already. She has to keep the pregnancy. Poor girl!

"Catch them young" guys are not smiling.

Is there no law in place that punishes offenders of such crime? The girl is still a minor and the guy should face stiff legal charges

there is but you see,she wasn't rape and her mum was aware of the relationship..
so they can't do anything cos it seems like she gave a permit..

Re: What Do You Think??? by jaykaylegend(m): 1:07pm On Apr 02, 2015

I'm suspecting you are the 15 year old girl!!

Re: What Do You Think??? by giffty(f): 1:11pm On Apr 02, 2015

jaykaylegend:
I'm suspecting you are the 15 year old girl!!

I'm sorry to disappoint you but your hunch is wrong,thank you

Re: What Do You Think??? by dechandel(f): 1:18pm On Apr 02, 2015

A 15 year old is no more a baby, she can take care of herself and her baby..
She signed up for it the day she decided to open up something else other than her books!!

Btw, Jss3 or Sss3

Re: What Do You Think??? by Tashaamania(f): 1:19pm On Apr 02, 2015

She wasnt raped, the said 26years old guy who clearly would know about protection but did not use it + her mum who lost control over a 15year old was aware of the relationship..am sorry, why is this a problem

giffty:
there is but you see,she wasn't rape and her mum was aware of the relationship..
so they can't do anything cos it seems like she gave a permit..

Re: What Do You Think??? by ronald4lif(m): 1:21pm On Apr 02, 2015

giffty:
there is but you see,she wasn't rape and her mum was aware of the relationship..
so they can't do anything cos it seems like she gave a permit..

Her mom should have acted swiftly before she got pregnant by involving relevant forces or agencies to restraining the guy from ever contacting the girl. I'm not sure this would have been helpful as she'll still reach him anyways.

She may also have taken the girl to live with a relative in some other state. The distance could have helped weighed down whatever thing she has with this guy.

But all that is past now. 5months preggy is too risky to get rid off, it could be very fatal. So keeping it is a must.

The mom and her parents are to be blame sort of for not taking the necessary decision when they got wind of the little girl sexcapades with this guy. She (the mom) will have to help her carter for her baby after one year so she can resume her studies.

And since DNA has proven the guy to be responsible for the pregnancy the girl's family must take a case up to relevant authorities that will enact a condition that will see this guy pay a monthly sum for the baby's welfare.

Re: What Do You Think??? by Nobody: 1:21pm On Apr 02, 2015

Tashaamania:
She wasnt raped, the said 26years old guy who clearly would know about protection but did not use it + her mum who lost control over a 15year old was aware of the relationship..am sorry, why is this a problem

Don't you think you have shown us the Air Max enough undecided

Re: What Do You Think??? by Nobody: 1:27pm On Apr 02, 2015

Let her keep that precious life. Lesson learnt for those who ain't having unplanned pregnancy just yet.

Ladies especially, you are 100% responsible for it when your belly starts to protrude. Better you take precautions cuz most guys really don't care when the sh*t goes down.

Lol! @ Dechandel on opening something else. grin

. A 15 year old these knows a lot o!

Re: What Do You Think??? by dechandel(f): 1:31pm On Apr 02, 2015

chipmunkey:

Lol! @ Dechandel on opening something else. . A 15 year old these knows a lot o!

Knows what

Biology praticals

Re: What Do You Think??? by giffty(f): 1:34pm On Apr 02, 2015

ronald4lif:

Her mom should have acted swiftly before she got pregnant by involving relevant forces or agencies to restraining the guy from ever contacting the girl. I'm not sure this would have been helpful as she'll still reach him anyways.

She may also have taken the girl to live with a relative in some other state. The distance could have helped weighed down whatever thing she has with this guy.

But all that is past now. 5months preggy is too risky to get rid off, it could be very fatal. So keeping it is a must.

The mom and her parents are to be blame sort of for not taking the necessary decision when they got wind of the little girl sexcapades with this guy. She (the mom) will have to help her carter for her baby after one year so she can resume her studies.

And since DNA has proven the guy to be responsible for the pregnancy the girl's family must take a case up to relevant authorities that will enact a condition that will see this guy pay a monthly sum for the baby's welfare.

yeaa,you're right
Thanks alot

Re: What Do You Think??? by Nobody: 1:35pm On Apr 02, 2015

dechandel:
Knows what
Biology praticals

Oh well, that's all they're supposed to know but social media exposure isn't helping matters.

Just imagine my 12 y.o niece uses a BB Q5 with subscription on it.
Isn't that disturbing? Like w.t.f does she need that for. Too bad I can't talk to her mom about it. undecided

Re: What Do You Think??? by OohMpa: 1:38pm On Apr 02, 2015

dechandel:
A 15 year old is no more a baby, she can take care of herself and her baby..
She signed up for it the day she decided to open up something else other than her books!!

Btw, Jss3 or Sss3

You see young one, listen to these wise words of Ooh Mpa:

There comes a time in someone's life you seek the CHANGE!!!
You know since 12 years, she's been writing Junior WASCCE. The first time, she failed, she cly, she rest
The second time, she no know maths, she fail, she cly, she rest
The third time, dem seize result, she fail, she cly, she say NO MORE TLANSFORMATION!!!!! She wants CHANGE!!!! angry

So she do scan and find no brain in head but in pünny. So, she use her brain find man who do scan to see blain in penïs, get child, get money, comot JSS 3 and now she accomplish all goal in life

We thank God for CHANGE!!!!!
Plaisseeeeee The Lordddddd!!!! angry

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Re: What Do You Think??? by giffty(f): 1:40pm On Apr 02, 2015

dechandel:
A 15 year old is no more a baby, she can take care of herself and her baby..
She signed up for it the day she decided to open up something else other than her books!!

Btw, Jss3 or Sss3

Lol,
JUNIOR SECONDARY SCHOOL THREE(3)
i guess she started school late..
About your opinion->>I'm not sure she'll be able to handle a baby..

Re: What Do You Think??? by dechandel(f): 1:45pm On Apr 02, 2015

OohMpa:

You see young one, listen to these wise words of Ooh Mpa:

There comes a time in someone's life you seek the CHANGE!!!
You know since 12 years, she's been writing Junior WASCCE. The first time, she failed, she cly, she rest
The second time, she no know maths, she fail, she cly, she rest
The third time, dem seize result, she fail, she cly, she say NO MORE TLANSFORMATION!!!!! She wants CHANGE!!!!

So she do scan and find no brain in head but in pünny. So, she use her brain find man who do scan to see blain in penïs, get child, get money, comot JSS 3 and now she accomplish all goal in life

We thank God for CHANGE!!!!!
Plaisseeeeee The Lordddddd!!!!

I am so dead!! grin

Please carry this your change to your doctor.. He needs to prescribe a different meds for a change grin

Re: What Do You Think??? by dechandel(f): 1:54pm On Apr 02, 2015

giffty:
Lol,
JUNIOR SECONDARY SCHOOL THREE(3)
i guess she started school late..
About your opinion->>I'm not sure she'll be able to handle a baby..

She wont be able to handle a baby¿¿?? But she was able to do what brings a baby into this world?? How wonderful..

Her mummy had better prepare for omugwo!!

Re: What Do You Think??? by dechandel(f): 1:56pm On Apr 02, 2015

chipmunkey:

Oh well, that's all they're supposed to know but social media exposure isn't helping matters.

Just imagine my 12 y.o niece uses a BB Q5 with subscription on it.
Isn't that disturbing? Like w.t.f does she need that for. Too bad I can't talk to her mom about it.

12?? Thats no news.. We have them here on NL.. Romance section most especially!

Re: What Do You Think??? by Nobody: 2:02pm On Apr 02, 2015

dechandel:
12?? Thats no news.. We have them here on NL.. Romance section most especially!

Lil wonder I get confused sometime and I'm so disenchanted. Even the guys are worse off and it wasn't like that when I joined even as a troll. By the way, this was the very first Moniker I registered with. cool

Re: What Do You Think??? by austine4real(m): 2:25pm On Apr 02, 2015

in short ur dad was responsible

Re: What Do You Think??? by Dygeasy(m): 2:33pm On Apr 02, 2015

giffty:

[b]To cut the long story short->>she's now five(5) months pregnant.

Okay.

The problem is making a decision of either keeping the pregnancy or terminating it.

Are you people serious at all?

N/B:If she terminates the pregnancy,HER LIFE IS AT RISK and keeping the pregnancy WILL DISRUPT HER EDUCATION..

Your candid advice please.........

I'm wondering what education is left after 5 months into the pregnancy. You need no one to spell it out.

Logically and Medically it is not safe thinking about abortion at this stage of the pregnancy.

Re: What Do You Think??? by Dygeasy(m): 2:39pm On Apr 02, 2015

dechandel:
She wont be able to handle a baby¿¿?? But she was able to do what brings a baby into this world?? How wonderful..

Her mummy had better prepare for omugwo!!

She didn't know she'd get pregnant.

She expected a Range Rover Sport or plasma TV

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