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Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by nickyblinky(f): 10:34pm On Apr 02, 2015
Am in a relationship which is just four months old now,I know he truly love me as he claim, but he is broke and also I don't like d friends he keep.actually at first I never love him wen he ask me out d first time, now I think I really love him.but his friends talks dirty

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Re: Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by Nobody: 10:36pm On Apr 02, 2015
What is the problem? His brokeness or the fact that his friends talk dirty?

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Re: Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by Nobody: 10:37pm On Apr 02, 2015
Op, first of all, is the guy in question the father of the child?
If he is then we have a whole different case, but if he isn't the father then all you have to do is consider these points

~ firstly, is this the man that you want to help raise your kids? Do you think he has the financial capacity to cater for your needs?
Is he hard-working?. What's the nature of his current Job.
Finance is a critical part of any relationship.

~ secondly, you said you don't like the company he keeps. Do you think his friends are having a negative influence on him?

Op, I don't know how much you love this guy but if you feel the relationship isn't yielding positive results, it's better you just break-off, instead of causing more problems for yourself

Op, I wish you good luck and I hope you make the right decision

Thanks
Re: Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by mirexxx(f): 10:37pm On Apr 02, 2015
because he is broke??
bae u dont love him so just quit!



about his friends
mehn! i hate guys who talk dirty!
they disgust me and i will advise you to tell your bf about it and just avoid them


a broke guy in a company of guys who talk dirty! no way!
bad combo!
Re: Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by YUNGLURD(m): 10:46pm On Apr 02, 2015
nickyblinky:
Am in a relationship which is just four months old now,I know he truly love me as he claim, but he is broke and also I don't like d friends he keep.actually at first I never love him wen he ask me out d first time, now I think I really love him.but his friends talks dirty
re his Friends dating u? I don't seem to understand y some gals fault something out of nothing..I don't like gals cutting corners, u should just tell us he's broke and nothing else.
Re: Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by Ab025(m): 10:48pm On Apr 02, 2015
is it his money or his friends that you are dating......?
Re: Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by Nobody: 10:49pm On Apr 02, 2015
mirexxx:
because he is broke??



about his friends
mehn! i hate guys who talk dirty!
they disgust me and i will advise you to tell your bf about it and just avoid them


a broke guy in a company of guys who talk dirty! no way!
bad combination!


I just dey c u for every thread nawoo

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Re: Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by elantraceey(f): 10:51pm On Apr 02, 2015
I'm yet to see the problem here, you knew he was broke before you said yes and as for his friends you can easily talk to him about it and avoid them.
Re: Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by mirexxx(f): 10:51pm On Apr 02, 2015
oloyolo:



I just dey c u for every thread nawoo
nairaland is for everybody na tongue
i can be anywhere i wanna be smiley
Re: Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by Baddestguyp(m): 10:51pm On Apr 02, 2015
mirexxx:
because he is broke??



about his friends
mehn! i hate guys who talk dirty!
they disgust me and i will advise you to tell your bf about it and just avoid them


a broke guy in a company of guys who talk dirty! no way!
bad combo!
and you think a guy will avoid his close friends just because you asked

I'm sure she wouldn't do the same if the roles were reversed
Re: Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by Equado(m): 10:52pm On Apr 02, 2015
missclasssy:
Op, first of all, is the guy in question the father of the child?
If he is then we have a whole different case, but if he isn't the father then all you have to do is consider these points

~ firstly, is this the man that you want to help raise your kids? Do you think he has the financial capacity to cater for the needs of you and your child
Is he hard-working?. What's the nature of his current Job.
Finance is a critical part of any relationship.

~ secondly, you said you don't like the company he keeps. Do you think such environment is what's suitable in raising your child.

Op, I don't know how much you love this guy but if you feel the relationship isn't yielding positive results, it's better you just break-off, instead of causing more problems for you and your child.

Op, I wish you good luck and I hope you make the right decision

Thanks and God bless smiley
STFU....this post reaks of sheer stewpeedity,you think you've said something reasonable,but what you just spat is shiit.

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Re: Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by Baddestguyp(m): 10:53pm On Apr 02, 2015
elantraceey:
I'm yet to see the problem here, you knew he was broke before you said yes and as for his friends you can easily talk to him about it and avoid them.
would you avoid ur close friends if ur bf asked you to
Re: Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by nickyblinky(f): 10:54pm On Apr 02, 2015
:Pd first time I visited him, his friends were like is dis d girl : one of them said I saw dis girl in my dream we were eating banana.can't recall all wat their say,it was really disgusting
Re: Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by Houseofglam7(f): 10:54pm On Apr 02, 2015
Medicine after death!
What exactly do you want us to say?
Leave the broke guy so you won't hear his friends talk dirty again?
I'm as confused as you are girlfriend
Re: Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by Nobody: 10:55pm On Apr 02, 2015
Equado:
STFU....this post reaks of sheer stewpeedity,you think you've said something reasonable,but what you just spat is shiit.

undecided
Re: Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by mirexxx(f): 10:55pm On Apr 02, 2015
Baddestguyp:
and you think a guy will avoid his close friends just because you asked

I'm sure she wouldn't do the same if the roles were reversed
whatever it is!
I'm sure those guys add no value to his life!
as for me! i dont relate with girls that talk dirty
i can't be friends with em'
Re: Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by elantraceey(f): 10:55pm On Apr 02, 2015
Baddestguyp:
would you avoid ur close friends if ur bf asked you to


If he has very very good reasons why I should .
Re: Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by Nobody: 10:56pm On Apr 02, 2015
mirexxx:
nairaland is for everybody na tongue
i can be anywhere i wanna be smiley


So u always have something to say on every thread

U must be a talk active

*trows phone under pillow*
Re: Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by ojun50(m): 10:56pm On Apr 02, 2015
2 questions
Are u rich?
Are u dating his friends?
Re: Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by Nobody: 10:59pm On Apr 02, 2015
missclasssy:
Op, first of all, is the guy in question the father of the child?
If he is then we have a whole different case, but if he isn't the father then all you have to do is consider these points

~ firstly, is this the man that you want to help raise your kids? Do you think he has the financial capacity to cater for the needs of you and your child
Is he hard-working?. What's the nature of his current Job.
Finance is a critical part of any relationship.

~ secondly, you said you don't like the company he keeps. Do you think such environment is what's suitable in raising your child.

Op, I don't know how much you love this guy but if you feel the relationship isn't yielding positive results, it's better you just break-off, instead of causing more problems for you and your child.

Op, I wish you good luck and I hope you make the right decision

Thanks and God bless smiley






Where did op mention having a child
Re: Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by TheSonOfMark(m): 10:59pm On Apr 02, 2015
missclasssy:
Op, first of all, is the guy in question the father of the child?
If he is then we have a whole different case, but if he isn't the father then all you have to do is consider these points

~ firstly, is this the man that you want to help raise your kids? Do you think he has the financial capacity to cater for the needs of you and your child
Is he hard-working?. What's the nature of his current Job.
Finance is a critical part of any relationship.

~ secondly, you said you don't like the company he keeps. Do you think such environment is what's suitable in raising your child.

Op, I don't know how much you love this guy but if you feel the relationship isn't yielding positive results, it's better you just break-off, instead of causing more problems for you and your child.

Op, I wish you good luck and I hope you make the right decision

Thanks and God bless smiley





This is a case of administering antibiotics to one who has a case of migraine - good drug (advice) but the wrong case (OP).

She never stated that her lover has a child.

Re: Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by mirexxx(f): 10:59pm On Apr 02, 2015
missclasssy:
Op, first of all, is the guy in question the father of the child?
If he is then we have a whole different case, but if he isn't the father then all you have to do is consider these points

~ firstly, is this the man that you want to help raise your kids? Do you think he has the financial capacity to cater for the needs of you and your child
Is he hard-working?. What's the nature of his current Job.
Finance is a critical part of any relationship.

~ secondly, you said you don't like the company he keeps. Do you think such environment is what's suitable in raising your child.

Op, I don't know how much you love this guy but if you feel the relationship isn't yielding positive results, it's better you just break-off, instead of causing more problems for you and your child.

Op, I wish you good luck and I hope you make the right decision

Thanks and God bless smiley
kids?? where did she state that in her post?
why the epistle?
Re: Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by mirexxx(f): 11:01pm On Apr 02, 2015
oloyolo:



So u always have something to say on every thread

U must be a talk active

*trows phone under pillow*
lol if u say so
Re: Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by Nobody: 11:02pm On Apr 02, 2015
mirexxx:
kids??

oh, my bad gringrin
I am a bit drunk grin
Re: Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by mirexxx(f): 11:04pm On Apr 02, 2015
missclasssy:


oh, my bad gringrin
I am a bit drunk grin
I'm thinking something else grin
Re: Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by Nobody: 11:05pm On Apr 02, 2015
mirexxx:
I'm thinking something else grin
Re: Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by Nobody: 11:05pm On Apr 02, 2015
mirexxx:
I'm thinking something else grin

What cheesy
Re: Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by Nobody: 11:07pm On Apr 02, 2015
mirexxx:
lol if u say so


Yea I know am wrong most nairalanders ar introvert
But they be forming bado online
Av meet few of them
Including one girl that disturbs romance section a lot
Re: Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by Nobody: 11:07pm On Apr 02, 2015
TheSonOfMark:






This is a case of administering antibiotics to one who has a case of migraine - good drug (advice) but the wrong case (OP).

She never stated that her lover has a child.


Blame it on alcohol gringrin
Re: Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by kinglekan: 11:08pm On Apr 02, 2015
missclasssy:


oh, my bad gringrin
I am a bit drunk grin

What are you high on?? Lol

Nwaz u were not totally wrong shaa. The baby she is carrying is her four month old relationship.
Re: Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by mirexxx(f): 11:09pm On Apr 02, 2015
oloyolo:



Yea I know am wrong most nairalanders ar introvert
But they be forming bado online
Av meet few of them
Including one girl that disturbs romance section a lot
yea that's true! smiley
what's her moniker?
Re: Pls Ur Advice Is Needed by mirexxx(f): 11:10pm On Apr 02, 2015
missclasssy:


What cheesy
that u're really drunk cheesy

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