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See What The Woman I Want To Marry Is Doing To Me Cuz Of House by ItsAnderson: 2:47pm On Apr 03, 2015
please i need matured advice on
this: Am in love with a lady, we have been together
for like 9months now. The problem is that my
apartment is not presentable, i refuse her coming,
each time she wish to come.. I have occasionally
taken her to a guest house, and she do reject we
going there. I do really love her and will marry her..
This issue of her coming to my place is causing
quarrel, she feels i have things am trying to hide
from her apart from the the reason i put before her.
My plan has been to see how i could rent a new place
before letting her come, the plan is not swiftly
coming at the moment. She is telling that even
though i stay in hole, that i should take her there, that
she believes i will make it later in life. I don't feel
comfortable, advice pals...

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Re: See What The Woman I Want To Marry Is Doing To Me Cuz Of House by iceberylin(m): 2:50pm On Apr 03, 2015
grin

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Re: See What The Woman I Want To Marry Is Doing To Me Cuz Of House by DonCortino: 2:51pm On Apr 03, 2015
You are suffering from inferiority complex.
See a psychiatrist.

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Re: See What The Woman I Want To Marry Is Doing To Me Cuz Of House by missbehave247(m): 2:51pm On Apr 03, 2015
Inferiority complex is killing you slowly. Better wakeup

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Re: See What The Woman I Want To Marry Is Doing To Me Cuz Of House by Nobody: 2:52pm On Apr 03, 2015
If you are not even comfortable enough showing the lady you want to marry where you live? How are you gonna share the rest of your life with her?

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Re: See What The Woman I Want To Marry Is Doing To Me Cuz Of House by TOLULOPEMIDEAR(f): 2:53pm On Apr 03, 2015
I hate pretenders undecided

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Re: See What The Woman I Want To Marry Is Doing To Me Cuz Of House by teiluj(f): 2:54pm On Apr 03, 2015
take her there if that's what she wants to avoid trouble

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Re: See What The Woman I Want To Marry Is Doing To Me Cuz Of House by all4gud(m): 2:55pm On Apr 03, 2015
You are wrong. Let her know where you live. Hiding it from her will not help the relationship. Be yourself and present same to her. No condition is permanent.

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Re: See What The Woman I Want To Marry Is Doing To Me Cuz Of House by Nobody: 2:56pm On Apr 03, 2015
Seriously i think you should... I dnt even know how i can help you
you seem like one who isn`t ready to yield to any advice whatsover

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Re: See What The Woman I Want To Marry Is Doing To Me Cuz Of House by 25omega(m): 2:58pm On Apr 03, 2015
poster

the true judge of a person who cares about you unconditionally (most of the time) is a person who would ride with you when you are down. you should let bring her to the hole in the wall and if she is a woman who really cares about you, she wouldn't give a shit. She would roll along and push you to do better. By the way all the money you are spending on a guest house could have been used to buy clean sheets and curtains to make your room look presentable.

If she sees your place and break up with you, then you really should thank God that you dodged a bullet because for better or worse is a reality in life. If your wife or husband can abandon you when you are worse then you don't want that person. Also anyone in their right mind who hasn't been to the home of the person who claims to love them in 9 months will def think you are married with kids

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Re: See What The Woman I Want To Marry Is Doing To Me Cuz Of House by emmysoftyou: 2:58pm On Apr 03, 2015
Bro, I was once in ur shoe, but the different is that I never really love the girl, so I refuse until d one I love shown up then I showed her my domain cool

Why re yu delaying her from knowing your place when yu really love her?

Biko stop wasting time and take her to mama to know ya parent..

If na me be d girl,I go jus leav u cos u dey F up.wink

Go show am ur place jawe..undecided

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Re: See What The Woman I Want To Marry Is Doing To Me Cuz Of House by Nobody: 3:00pm On Apr 03, 2015
Please bring her let me show her my own place, it's presentable....

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Re: See What The Woman I Want To Marry Is Doing To Me Cuz Of House by emmysoftyou: 3:02pm On Apr 03, 2015
Raymondenyi:
Please bring her let me show her my own place, it's presentable....
lol,
naim be sey,she no go return again..grin

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Re: See What The Woman I Want To Marry Is Doing To Me Cuz Of House by major466(m): 3:03pm On Apr 03, 2015
ItsAnderson:
please i need matured advice on
this: Am in love with a lady, we have been together
for like 9months now. The problem is that my
apartment is not presentable, i refuse her coming,
each time she wish to come.. I have occasionally
taken her to a guest house, and she do reject we
going there. I do really love her and will marry her..
This issue of her coming to my place is causing
quarrel, she feels i have things am trying to hide
from her apart from the the reason i put before her.
My plan has been to see how i could rent a new place
before letting her come, the plan is not swiftly
coming at the moment. She is telling that even
though i stay in hole, that i should take her there, that
she believes i will make it later in life. I don't feel
comfortable, advice pals...
You have no reason to be ashame at the condition of your apartment bro. We all desire a nice place to live in only when we can afford it. Just bite the bullet and show her where you live. If she's the one, she will stick with you even if you live in a shrine. Remember, no condition is permanent. You may be living in a hole today but tomorrow you will be building your own 6 bedroom duplex.

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Re: See What The Woman I Want To Marry Is Doing To Me Cuz Of House by harrysterol(m): 3:22pm On Apr 03, 2015
Op you can take her to my house grin

Thank me later or my nigga simdam500 or stinggy can help
Re: See What The Woman I Want To Marry Is Doing To Me Cuz Of House by dopeJemi: 3:38pm On Apr 03, 2015
rokiatu:
If you are not even comfortable enough showing the lady you want to marry where you live? How are you gonna share the rest of your life with her?

Your signature is My favourite song and video of last month and this month, great song

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Re: See What The Woman I Want To Marry Is Doing To Me Cuz Of House by Nobody: 3:39pm On Apr 03, 2015
dopeJemi:


Your signature is My favourite song and video of last month and this month, great song
Good taste. wink That song is so do..pe. I cant stop listening to it.

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Re: See What The Woman I Want To Marry Is Doing To Me Cuz Of House by stinggy(m): 3:56pm On Apr 03, 2015
harrysterol:
Op you can take her to my house grin

Thank me later or my nigga simdam500 or stinggy can help

OP ItsAnderson shey u don hear am? Bring her come my house, you're welcome bro, truss me. But if she end up loving me, toor, you're OYO
Re: See What The Woman I Want To Marry Is Doing To Me Cuz Of House by stinggy(m): 4:04pm On Apr 03, 2015
ItsAnderson:
She is telling that even
though i stay in hole, that i should take her there, that
she believes i will make it later in life. I don't feel
comfortable, advice pals...

She told you this and you still won't let her know your place? See bro, stop feeling inferior and get real! Your house can't be the worse out there, even if it is, what does it matter? Not as if you'll live there all your life. If you loose this babe, you'll forever be sorry for acting like this.

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Re: See What The Woman I Want To Marry Is Doing To Me Cuz Of House by ItsAnderson: 4:09pm On Apr 03, 2015
stinggy:


She told you this and you still won't let her know your place? See bro, stop feeling inferior and get real! Your house can't be the worse out there, even if it is, what does it matter? Not as if you'll live there all your life. If you loose this babe, you'll forever be sorry for acting like this.

i have big boomba so she cannot afford to dump rare commodity like me
Re: See What The Woman I Want To Marry Is Doing To Me Cuz Of House by Emhicee(m): 4:46pm On Apr 03, 2015
grin
Re: See What The Woman I Want To Marry Is Doing To Me Cuz Of House by stinggy(m): 5:03pm On Apr 03, 2015
ItsAnderson:


i have big boomba so she cannot afford to dump rare commodity like me
I thought you were being serious sef undecided undecided

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Re: See What The Woman I Want To Marry Is Doing To Me Cuz Of House by muba4huss(m): 5:18pm On Apr 03, 2015
iceberylin:
grin
nija power bike...
Re: See What The Woman I Want To Marry Is Doing To Me Cuz Of House by simdam500(m): 5:33pm On Apr 03, 2015
25omega: poster

the true judge of a person who cares about you unconditionally (most of the time) is a person who would ride with you when you are down. you should let bring her to the hole in the wall and if she is a woman who really cares about you, she wouldn't give a shit. She would roll along and push you to do better. By the way all the money you are spending on a guest house could have been used to buy clean sheets and curtains to make your room look presentable.

If she sees your place and break up with you, then you really should thank God that you dodged a bullet because for better or worse is a reality in life. If your wife or husband can abandon you when you are worse then you don't want that person. Also anyone in their right mind who hasn't been to the home of the person who claims to love them in 9 months will def think you are married with kids
guy! U don talk am finish.

Op u r talking of bomba, where u dey give her d bomba? That same guest house? Where u meet her sef?

Ans d 3
Re: See What The Woman I Want To Marry Is Doing To Me Cuz Of House by simdam500(m): 5:37pm On Apr 03, 2015
harrysterol: Op you can take her to my house grin
shocked i will tell Mrs. Harry tongue
Re: See What The Woman I Want To Marry Is Doing To Me Cuz Of House by tomzman: 5:38pm On Apr 03, 2015
all4gud:
You are wrong. Let her know where you live. Hiding it from her will not help the relationship. Be yourself and present same to her. No condition is permanent.
Q.E.D
Re: See What The Woman I Want To Marry Is Doing To Me Cuz Of House by afanide: 5:41pm On Apr 03, 2015
ItsAnderson:
please i need matured advice on
this: Am in love with a lady, we have been together
for like 9months now. The problem is that my
apartment is not presentable, i refuse her coming,
each time she wish to come.. I have occasionally
taken her to a guest house, and she do reject we
going there. I do really love her and will marry her..
This issue of her coming to my place is causing
quarrel, she feels i have things am trying to hide
from her apart from the the reason i put before her.
My plan has been to see how i could rent a new place
before letting her come, the plan is not swiftly
coming at the moment. She is telling that even
though i stay in hole, that i should take her there, that
she believes i will make it later in life. I don't feel
comfortable, advice pals...



Bro, you are making a very big mistake not allowing her know your apartment.

This is one BIG opportunity to know the kind of lady u are about to get married to and u want to blow-up this opportunity.

How are u sure she loves you then?

Pls take her to where you reside. If she's yours, you will play ahead with you for a better place. Hence otherwise, she may Dump u if she's the materialistic type.

Give it a trial and see for yourself.

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Re: See What The Woman I Want To Marry Is Doing To Me Cuz Of House by Nobody: 5:49pm On Apr 03, 2015
This is what I hate when guys try to impress a girl with what they don't have undecided


According to your post, the girl doesn't real mind what your apartment looks like, she's eager to see where you live!. Hiding it from her shows you aren't man enough, buckle up and show her where you live, get over yourself! Before you do something dumb and won't get out of the Mess.

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Re: See What The Woman I Want To Marry Is Doing To Me Cuz Of House by dopeJemi: 6:09pm On Apr 03, 2015
rokiatu:
Good taste. wink That song is so do..pe. I cant stop listening to it.

I swear
Re: See What The Woman I Want To Marry Is Doing To Me Cuz Of House by Nobody: 6:16pm On Apr 03, 2015
stinggy:

I thought you were being serious sef undecided undecided
make a quick detour. It's Andyblaze the resident unfunny jester cry
Re: See What The Woman I Want To Marry Is Doing To Me Cuz Of House by CR77(f): 6:32pm On Apr 03, 2015
Badoo tongue
Re: See What The Woman I Want To Marry Is Doing To Me Cuz Of House by habeebcole: 6:34pm On Apr 03, 2015
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