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Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by chinkichun: 7:05pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
Despise the free lunch (you shouldn't have accepted the free ride) and Never outshine the master (since you did accept the free ride, you should have carried the bag as a way of paying for the free ride). |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by BBM: 7:05pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
Checkout10: wow this nah nairaland replica hope senu won't sue you for lol good job bro 1 Like |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by eightsin(m): 7:05pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
The situation would determine my action. So I can't really say if you are wrong or right. |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by oyin01(m): 7:06pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
klark3: Bro, if you know what you are doing, go and apologise and get your Job back. You need a lot of orientation and patience when you have a ladyboss. I understand your ego as a man, but having a ladyboss is better than being jobless. Besides na you dey miss now that ure at the bringe of getting a blow. Its a matter of time. Understand hierarchy. Shes your boss. Whether shes a lady or even younger than you. 1 Like |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by Ilaje44(m): 7:06pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
duni04: You should be eternally greatful and thankful to your mother, because she endured a lot to bring you this far, and you should vehemently fight any one that tries to dominate her and restrain her freedom. Don't think it's a good live that you or a male relative of her husband must accompany her before she can be allowed out of the house. Or that every decision she takes that your father or any male relative would have to first give his consent. Women are not your slaves. They've got very good brain too. And not a few are better than most men. |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by jaykaylegend(m): 7:06pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
Viciyus:you know how naija women dey behave na.. If they don get rank or money pass man, dem dey like to show theirselves.. |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by Nobody: 7:07pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
Seun:Oga Seun nailed it. Dayuumm! 2 Likes |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by Nobody: 7:07pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
Misogynist2014: You value success much when you know you were very close to failure!!! This is the most sensible sentence you have written so far. I find it inspiring, I will appreciate it if you can keep it up. |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by stonecoldcafe: 7:07pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
TopHand: Op please don't do this. Never, never try this. She may be a no nonsense woman. Sucking up to your female boss like this may be your greatest undoing. If a woman does not open mouth and tell you "I like you" in a work setting, then DON'T TRY IT! 1 Like |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by Braggante(m): 7:07pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
logica: Bless you! I've learnt something from this Ur post. Ur a wise one. |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by bigtt76(f): 7:07pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
You nor fit carray woman bag but you go fit raymove panty eh? SMH .....some men sha |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by blessedkay(m): 7:08pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
Hello Nairalanders, to be honest, you people are misleading this young guy. I mean those who support him for not carrying his boss's bag. Who knows whether he was been tested on attitude level? Now, he had failed the exam with huge consequence. Look, people who can make heaven must be as humble as little children. If this guy continues in his egoism, he mighht still loose his next appointment if correction is not properly addressed now...............I wish to councel the guy more but time will not permit me, have a nice day |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by kaboninc(m): 7:08pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
bukatyne: No nau... E never pass ni Him still fit reason the boss... She's a woman ni and she wants him to acknowledge that she's in charge. I'll suggest he begs her or see her papa That one go understand as him get experience If na you, you no go mellow? |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by Nobody: 7:08pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
its an- if I scratch ur back, u scratch mine- world we live in. Guy if u know say u no go help her carry her bag, u for no enta her ride na, u for jejely jump molue or keke napep go site. Bt wait first, I quote u- "It's was even my first time of hitching a ride in her car, as I have always eschewed it"... Guy u neva talk wetin "eschew" 4 dat ride. @least u go leave romance section small, dey enta jobs/ vacancy section.lol |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by gidjah(m): 7:08pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
sukkot:bros,you can lie die walahi!!!you go tey tex for jail!!ha ha ha |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by Misogynist2014(m): 7:09pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
FrancisTony:You are right, pride is not enough reason to put your job and dream on the line. If GOD could withstand been spit on because HE had a goal, what then is a Man unable to withstand ridicule from a woman? |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by Acidosis(m): 7:09pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
Well the answer is relative. Some men will willingly wash her undies because of daily bread; while some won't do such. A man has to set his own principles. You've set yours, thus you deserve NO blame. |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by Rastamann: 7:10pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
Was "carrying of her bag" part of the job responsibility? You did what was right and no worries, a new job is waiting at the corner for you. We must not "a Cow" brother, simply because we want to eat meat! |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by duni04(m): 7:11pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
Ilaje44:I beg to differ. We belong to different schools of thought. I think the place of a woman is at home, in the bedroom and in the kitchen @ the bolded: its for her protection! So she's not molested. Exactly how many rape cases do we get to hear of in Saud Arabia? And what are the stats for Nigeria? |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by Timoleon(m): 7:11pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
duni04: pls i am not interested in the story, but to say a humble person is going nowhere na fallacy o.... recently we discovered that rotimi ameachi was boy boy for lots of people b4 he got to the top, i remember a former minister who was a house boy,read for his waec under street lamps and stil made it to becoming minister.....people like rochas were cosidered persons u could trample upon, orphaned, child hawker and today what is he? many of those who occupy posts as mds and directors didnt start up there na....many of them carriex lots of hand bags it didnt deter them from rising.....one of my favorite quotes goes thus "life is a bicycle, u dont fall until u stop pedalling.....i remember ronaldos parents were so poor and ronaldo himself wasnt bright as a student, his teacher said to him he woukd never amount to anything in life...well, he has been named world footballer of the year 3times.....if the op is really good at his architecture, having a big project at hand, definitely, his gifts will speak for him and carrying his boss's bag would b a thing of history. |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by Nobody: 7:12pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
Misogynist2014:Don't mention about God here. Biblically, OP is darn wrong - even though I don't concur with that verse. Bible said that servants should submit to their masters. In this scenario, that woman is the "boss lady" and OP has the right to be submissive... |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by kaboninc(m): 7:13pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
Headlamp1: And you...you came too slow? Nna..... And maybe because of loyalty she asks him to come to the ladies with her ni.... He never said she was carrying any other 'load' aside her bag. Besides, wouldn't it be nicer if he carried the 'excess' load while she carries her bag? Or that one no come to you ni? Cocky ko, rocky ni. Cocky to your boss who employed you? |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by Nobody: 7:13pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
Nneka123:Nope. Two bosses. Lol...Nneka...the bolded really sounds like a curse to me, no pun intended. Just imagine: -"stand guard while I use the restroom" -"dispose of my sanitary napkins" -"bark like a dog for my boyfriend's amusement" -"chase my car on foot while I drive home" -"stay in the corner and watch my husband and I perform _coitus" -"clean up after my dog" -"come to my office right away...close the door. Does my fart smell like lavender? No?!!! We'll try again tomorrow" Jesus!!!! *snaps out of alternate reality* *breathing profusely* What a nightmare! Nneka, please take it easy on your subordinates when you become a boss o. Phew! Lol 1 Like |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by bukatyne(f): 7:14pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
kaboninc: Would not even ask him to carry my bag in the first place. In his boss shoes, I will mellow. It would be better he apologizes to her personally. There is something to learn from everyone esp bosses. |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by Brugo(m): 7:14pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
klark3: [size=15pt]May God bless you and reward you with contracts that will elevate you so high that you will no longer remember this event. Thank you for reminding her that she is just a boss and not your god. Don't dwell on this injustice. Keep a positive mind. PP will flow well well this month and your client base will grow.[/size] 1 Like |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by kelvyn7: 7:15pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
klark3: see, na u fuckup nau. I get female boss too. they always like been bossy. as my madam dey, make she com tell me make I carry her hand bag, I go com refuse...I dey craze ni?? In fact, na me dey even ask her to carry her bag, so far wen month end I go get alert. shikena. dat one no comot anything from my body, even with my Bsc and professional papers Dat ur madam sef beta I tell u truth, she wait till d next day b4 she fire u my madam go fire u instanta, like Glo instanta promo. no think am at all. na u do wrong!! I go suggest make u go beg her. beg her well well, and she go gree, trust me. |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by D33VA(f): 7:15pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
Thinkr: Clearly from ur grammar, u, Mr. r yet to find ur way into a higher institution. N if u have please ask for a refund, clearly all that education was wasted on u |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by iPrevail(m): 7:17pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
rokiatu:Seriously? You are better of not working to such a place. ^^^ ..and what does this even mean?! 1 Like |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by AsanwaKC(f): 7:17pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
ode! go and lick..ur wundw |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by bosun11(m): 7:18pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
Some will say u are wrong because at that moment she is your boss , some will say u are right because u needed to act like a man. To be honest, you were wrong .There is nothing wrong carrying the bag of your current boss even if the boss involved is a lady.Bear in mind that a big project was coming up, you could have swallowed your ego and do the needful based on the fact that you get paid at the moment from this same job. And if she starts taking advantage of the fact that you are loyal and obedient.You start searching for another job elsewhere while you are still on this one.....till you get another one. Hopefully once another job comes by, you resign.Am sure there will questions from the big boss and this woman and you could possibly tell the man himself what transpired earlier on ................ I wish you al the best man and i hope you get a better job asap.Cheers |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by duni04(m): 7:18pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
RickRichards:Lmao! Don't mind those îdiots that still don't get it, especially the guys amongst them. I'm ashamed for all of u! 1 Like |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by Filmdirect: 7:18pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
OP listen, I will tell you reality, as i would speak to my brother. The world you are born into today is not what you are imagining. Women are now doing things, are upwardly mobile. Fathers are now giving things to their daughters and they are having power that money brings. This is a worldwide thing. Therefore, you must learn anew. Not that you should be a door mat but you should immediately erased that man is better than woman mentality that you have. Just look at them as sisters and mothers if that will help you. See these men congratulating you? They will not give you money to start your business or offer you a job. Actually an employer on this forum might likely not hire you, because although they might like your bold stand, they might be uncomfortable with how you see life, and your quick insubordination. But they will not tell you that. Remember you are first a follower before you are a leader and that even Joseph was in portiphar's house before Prime Minister of Egypt. You could have handled that matter differently. Look at the world in reality and know where and who you truly are at the moment, that will later change as you earn it aright. You were not equal to your boss, you were her employee. It is okay, you have learnt. Now, please do not go to her and try to work her emotions, as she will see through that. If you want to apologize, do so succinctly and confidently. Don't lean in and look into her eyes or try to work up some feminine emotions. it is belittling and if it were me, i would not rehire you. I almost think for this case, the damage has been done. Also i honestly do not think it was about the bag. I think you might have eluded pride even before then. She felt what you thought of her - that she is your equal who is no more deserving than you, and a part of your disdained her. I can bet it was in your body language way before the bag incident. Just learn from this. 1 Like |
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