A man, Chukwudi Obi, has told the Oshodi Grade B customary court in Lagos State that he used to force his wife, Nkechinyere, for sex throughout their eight-year marriage.

“Ever since I started living with my wife, she never allowed me to have sex with her. I had to force myself on her before we had our four children,” Obi said.

Obi was responding to a petition by his wife seeking a court order to stop his plan to marry another woman.

He told the court that Nkechinyere threatened to stab him with a knife in 2010 when he attempted to have sex with her.

“Since she started living with me, my wife would always find it difficult to have sex with me. I do not know what her problem is. We had our four children through the use of force.

“When I saw that things were getting out of hand, I took her and the children to the village so that her parents could talk sense into her,” Chukwudi submitted.

He said that he was ready for divorce because he was fed up with the sexual starvation.

He also denied the allegation by his wife that he abandoned his family because of his girlfriend.

“I did not abandon them as she said because I was sending her N10,000 on monthly basis to take care of the children; I have the tellers here,” he said.

President of the court, Alhaja A.I. Olorunimbe, ordered Obi to continue to pay his wife N10,000 monthly for the children’s upkeep, pending the determination of the suit.

She also enjoined the parents of the couple to explore means of resolving their conflicts.

“Ever since I started living with my wife, she
never allowed me to have sex with her. I had to
force myself on her before we had our four
children,” Obi said.

President of the court, Alhaja A.I. Olorunimbe,
ordered Obi to continue to pay his wife N10,000
monthly for the children’s upkeep, pending the
determination of the suit.

Vickybee:
That woman is very SILLY.
She has no right to deny the man sex since they are married except the man has a secret he isn't divulging.

missclasssy:
That's what happens when you don't understand the sexual attitude of your partner before you go into marriage.

All this people screaming "No sex till marriage" are just being myopic and religiously sentimental.....

Utchgirl:
#10,000 on monthly basis? To take care of 4children.I think it's too small .

Unibenstudent:
doesn't that look like what u can do? Hypoc###e

Vickybee:

smh.

You don't know me.

ijustdey:



what can N10,000 naira do as monthly upkeep for a family of 5 with wife inclusive....


the judge should have asked him to add some money joor with the current inflation rate in the country

Utchgirl:
#10,000 on monthly basis? To take care of 4children.I think it's too small .

Dimples192:
The children were conceived via rape

She don't wanna give it up, Yet she won't let him remarry

I dnt gerrit

Vickybee:
That woman is very SILLY.
She has no right to deny the man sex since they are married except the man has a secret he isn't divulging.

He said that he was ready for divorce because he was fed up with the sexual starvation.

Vickybee:

Just shut up. Did you read anywhere that they didn't have sex before marriage?.

A silly attempt to make a mockery of people that still uphold to their dignity because you have lost yours.

For your information, sex before marriage is still not helping matters because pretence usually becloud dating and relationship.

What would you say in the case where some men or women turn monster after marriage meanwhile they have been acting saints before that...

Mynd44:

Moat times it is decided based on what the man earns. If he earns 18k you don't expect the judge to ask him to pay 30k Na.

As for the sex thingy.....*shrugs* Na their wahala

Islie:


Which of the parts you don't get.....

The lady in question is irritated by sex or maybe the mans manhood is doing her something that she doesn't prefer sex with him

ijustdey:



I get your point sir,
but how man go dey earn 18k and go still give birth to 4 children...... that's just my thinking.

Dheartless:
sex?
No am not interested
.
New wife?
you can't try that.

divorce?
No am not interested.


what do you want na?
I want to ruin your life.

it's been that way since the time of Adam and Eve.

will this court please grant that man freedom from that bondage, before it turns out to be a murder case in the nearest future.
like ; husband beats wife to death
or wife stabs husband while he was asleep

or better man dies of cardiac arrest.

Unibenstudent:
here u go again,,openly declaring that u live a false life on nairaland,a life different from ur real life on ground,,try to stop been a faker
#bye

lordhugo:
Nollywood movie titled- CHILDREN OF RAPE!



This is spousal rape.....the fucki.ng judge just had someone confess in that courtroom. Lock him the hell up and send that woman to Fulaboy for some koboko whips for DERELICTION OF SPOUSAL DUTIES.

missclasssy:


First of all, you took my original post out of context and you quoted me, foaming at the mouth, ranting and raving nonstop like a hag experiencing menopause or an orgasmic mad woman.....

I said it's always advisable for a couple to "know each other" before deciding to enter into marriage
This doesn't imply that you go around sleeping with every tom, _dick and harry.

This helps you in knowing if you are both sexually compatible.

There have been lots of couples who have had marriage problems just because one partner isn't sexually satisfied or just because sexually, they aren't just congenial, due to the fact that they hadn't engaged in sex before sealing their relationship in marriage

I will still continue to affirm my assertion that sex before marriage is always the best.

missclasssy:
That's what happens when you don't understand the sexual attitude of your partner before you go into marriage.

All this people screaming "No sex till marriage" are just being myopic and religiously sentimental.....

Vickybee:

Just shut up. Did you read anywhere that they didn't have sex before marriage?.

A silly attempt to make a mockery of people that still uphold to their dignity because you have lost yours.

For your information, sex before marriage is still not helping matters because pretence usually becloud dating and relationship.

What would you say in the case where some men or women turn monster after marriage meanwhile they have been acting saints before that...