abokisas:


Today morning I received a phone call from a
sister & a Bestfriend of mine .
We talked about a number of things but one
thing that touched me so much was when she
said that “Pope, I gave up on love because
love hurts and it’s a waste of time.” I became
speechless for a moment. She asked me “Why
that weird silence?” I took a deep breath and I
told her that I was reminiscing about my love
affairs ever since I started the game of
dating. She added on “I no longer believe in
love because people are not trust worthy and
appreciative at all.”
Basing on her words and the tone of her voice
it came to my understanding that she had
been through bad relationships in her past
that gave her a negative thinking about love
and relationships.
Well, I think that’s normal because many
people have the same thinking depending on
what they have been through. But I don’t
think its love that hurts us, but loving the
wrong people in the right time. You know
when you have too much love for someone
sometimes you get blind to see the obvious
things. You resist your heart to accept the
truth that you are with a wrong person and
you are being played & used. You look at the
signs but you take them for granted. You
console yourself that maybe they will change
as time goes on but the more time you get to
be with them the more they show you their
true colors. Innocently you continue
unmasking your heart for them, you give
them all your love and care, you draw plans
for the future with them and by the time you
get to realize that you are wasting your time
and dealing with a wrong person, it’s already
late and you are so heart broken. Yeah, such
an instance has ever happened to me. So far
now two times in my life and I know how it
hurts.
All in all, be careful with your heart. Don’t
completely trust someone. Love with your
heart but don’t leave all your senses behind.
Use your brain. Observe the signs very well
and act open them. Don’t be in a relationship
because of the history you have between each
other, be in a relationship because it makes
you happy and feel loved. Stop settling for
less than what you deserve. If someone
doesn't treat you right, takes your love and
care for granted, you can walk away. I know
it’s not that simple like the way it sounds but
if it’s the only option left to save your heart
you got to get yourself together and do it.
Otherwise, if you happy in love with someone
thank God for that and cherish every moment
you spend together. Stick with each other and
do your best to make your relationship work
because it's very hard to find true love in this
world.
And if you are brokenhearted or single, just
know that's not the end of your life. You'll
heal and find someone better.
Blessings

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This crap is too long, just summarize it.

StormAngel:
When u love som1 a hundread percent and he or she knows, misbehaviour starts

this is common within d male folk.

No offence...

StormAngel:
When u love som1 a hundread percent and he or she knows, misbehaviour starts

this is common within d male folk.

No offence...

D1ck:
This crap is too long, just summarize it.

D1ck:
This crap is too long, just summarize it.