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Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by Nobody: 10:53am On Apr 05, 2015 |
Hmm...Op if I had the chance, I will take the next available flight straight to USA..no matter how u are gonna rationalized it, there are better opportunities over there! Even if u are working a menial job. You can comfortably build yourself a decent house and afford a nice house when you return to Nigeria! ! @Op Pls relocate! |
Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by shilling(f): 10:57am On Apr 05, 2015 |
telexfree1: What is ordinary about Canada? Immigrants have it much easier in Canada than the US. 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by LBTY(f): 10:57am On Apr 05, 2015 |
iykedare: I think calculated risk sounds better. One shouldn't embark on all risks. Dear op, I have questions. What kind of visa is your sister wanting you to get? What if you are lucky enough to get a two year visa? I don't get why she wants you to hide at home. Has she planned everything out for you or what because I don't understand the estimated time. How is she expecting you to get your papers? After getting your papers, I believe you'd transition fine, but these questions before then need to be asked. What exactly do you want? I wish you all the best in whatever decision you decide to embark on. |
Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by Ilaje44(m): 11:02am On Apr 05, 2015 |
Alcatraz001:This is not an arguement. If every abled brains leave Nigeria, who will develop the land? I dont think you want that country to continously being ruled by thugs and lawless people right? Anyway, to the topic: staying indoor for 6 months is not an easy thing. You have to be strong willed and very disciplined to endure the "incacerration". I'd suggest depending on which area your sister stays in the States to travel in autumn. It would be easier to endure staying indoor during the cold months. Hence, if you are a risk taker, then go for it. However, like other people have said, prepare for the worst, while you hope for the best. Wish you the best of luck. |
Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by nandyz(m): 11:03am On Apr 05, 2015 |
pls dear ,,,, better stay at Nigeria n make Ur paper right here in Nigeria before travelling to state ..................... okkkkkkkkkkk.... that is all I have for u dear 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by LBTY(f): 11:03am On Apr 05, 2015 |
mya1: Exactly! 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by Naijalastborn(m): 11:04am On Apr 05, 2015 |
70k per month. its better off if you are not going there with Legal procedures |
Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by shilling(f): 11:08am On Apr 05, 2015 |
Op should ask some serious questions and provide Nairaland with follow up info. Money wise, N75know isnothing. To put things in perspective, even if op was doing some crappy minimum wage job fulltime, he'll make around $1280 and have a better standard of living. |
Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by obowunmi(m): 11:12am On Apr 05, 2015 |
Alexisu: ![]() ![]() No dulling... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by telexfree1: 11:13am On Apr 05, 2015 |
Danfo: Best response so far 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by Pasca07: 11:13am On Apr 05, 2015 |
lestat:lol u hash ooo .....all the same u are right |
Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by Nobody: 11:15am On Apr 05, 2015 |
Thanks guys |
Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by Nobody: 11:21am On Apr 05, 2015 |
Drabeey: For your future sake, do not mind Nairalanders unless if they are living or has lived outside Nigeria. It sounds easy but it is not. Please do not take that risk at all. Personally, I think your sister wants a babysitter, I can't possibly imagine an illegal immigrant becoming a legal immigrant miraculously after 6 months. Please, Think it through fro your own sake. 3 Likes |
Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by eyinjuege: 11:23am On Apr 05, 2015 |
CityNG: Bro, he's talking of 75k in naira not dollars. That's about $350 per month. That's crap and you can bet the OP can't raise a family comfortqbly on that. 3 Likes |
Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by eyinjuege: 11:26am On Apr 05, 2015 |
Justfollowit: The sister can get an arrangee marriage for the OP. There really are a few ways of getting around the system |
Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by Nobody: 11:29am On Apr 05, 2015 |
eyinjuege: Wow! Why do we still have illegal.immigrants if it was that easy. 3 Likes |
Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by justwise(m): 11:31am On Apr 05, 2015 |
Drabeey: You are going to waste all your sayings, your sister will not perform magic in 6 months to get you any paper. Ask her to tell you exactly the sort of visa she will be getting for you within that 6 months. Looking at your salary I will be surprised if You are issued a B1/B2 visa by US embassy, even an IV from your sister will not cut it because you don't have strong tie to Nigeria. |
Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by justwise(m): 11:32am On Apr 05, 2015 |
eyinjuege: Talk is cheap |
Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by justwise(m): 11:32am On Apr 05, 2015 |
Justfollowit: Ask them |
Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by normaljenny(m): 11:33am On Apr 05, 2015 |
MY BROTHER SIX MONTHS IS NOTHING AND 75K IS NOTHING AND THE JOB YOU ARE DOING IS NOT EVEN SECURITY GUARRANTEED. YOU ARE EVEN SINGLE AND NO RESPONSIBILITY IN UR HANDS EXCEPT BEER MONEY, RECHARGING UR MB BUNDLE AND ALL THAT. AND I BELIEVE YOU ARE NOT PAYING UR HOUSE RENTS HERE IN NAIJA. DO YOU KNOW HOW MUCH IT COST TO RUN A FAMILY PER WEEK? 75K IS BISCUIT MONEY. MY BROTHER FORGET ALL THOSE ABOVE ADVISING YOU TO STAY PUT IN NIGERIA. I EARN MORE THAN YOU DO AND AM WORKING ON GETTING TO THE STATES TO STAY. BRO. YOU DEY MAD O. NO EVEN THINK AM AT ALL. YOUR SISTER WISHES WELL FOR YOU. IF YOU ARE EVEN SMART ENOUGH WHILE AT HOME YOU CAN FIND FEW LEGITIMATE BUSINESSES ONLINE AND BE TAKING IN FEW CHANGES. USE YOUR TONGUE COUNT YOUR TEETH. WETIN BE 75K 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by Nobody: 11:34am On Apr 05, 2015 |
Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by Nobody: 11:35am On Apr 05, 2015 |
normaljenny: Have you ever left the shores of Nigeria before ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by Nobody: 11:38am On Apr 05, 2015 |
BROS YOU MISS THE POINT. THE POINT IS, IS HE EVEN GOING IT LEGALLY? yOU PEOPLE SHOULD NOT ENCOURAGE OUR BROTHERS TO DO ILLEGAL STUFF. PLAIN AND SIMPLE IF IT IS NOT LEGAL, HE SHOULD DUMP IT... Lucasbalo: |
Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by Ninilowo(m): 11:41am On Apr 05, 2015 |
OP, Sorry for being blunt, YOU LL BE MORE THAN SORRY at the end of the day. Even a married man earning less than 75k is managing a decent life with a wife and two children. So what's the biggie about US? 4 Likes |
Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by Terdoo2k4(m): 11:43am On Apr 05, 2015 |
You would be breaking the law of a land and that would be sinning against God |
Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by Winneygirl(f): 11:49am On Apr 05, 2015 |
My question is this... "Does the Op have an aim.... ambition? " Are you contemplating going because you have an ambition of your own, or you just want to go to the U.S.? There's no where I see an aim. Does she have a plan for a job for you, or schooling or what? As far as I see, even you don't know why you are considering it....She hasn't revealed everything to you. Until you have all the facts, please stick to your job. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by abbey621(m): 12:00pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
A lot of people don't understand how America works, if your sister is going to bring you here legally as an immigrant then there's no need to stay indoors for six months because you would already be a legal immigrant capable of moving around freely. On the other hand, if her intention is to have you come in through a non immigrant visa and then marry a citizen over here then you would definitely need to abide by her rules and pray for luck. Either way you need to let her know how you feel and ask lots of questions, there's nothing wrong with leaving your job as long as you come into the United States legally and stick to your plans. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by Motolank: 12:18pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
Drabeey:Seriously, your sister might need a baby sitter... sibling is no more sibling when you get to america... don't know how she wants you to get papers in six months, what's she going to perform? If she has baby or children here..I will say DONT come. But if she wants to marry you with her papers (arangy). Not bad idea... 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by eyinjuege: 12:18pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
Justfollowit: A host of reasons. Some are not the right age, some don't have the money to make such arrangements, and hey some do genuinely fall in love and voila their papers are ready. |
Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by Nobody: 12:27pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
eyinjuege: Sounds so simple...uhm Have you lived a considerable part of your life in US before? I suggest you stop misinform the poor boy, let those who actually live there explain his options to him. 3 Likes |
Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by successky: 12:32pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
The only thing i can tell you is to ASK GOD 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by eyinjuege: 12:42pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
Justfollowit: No one is MISINFORMING the "poor" boy. I'm not the one inviting him into the US, and I'm definately not the one trying to help him get a stay. I just put across one of the many possible angles that the sister might be working on to help him get a stay. I know for a fact that people still have arrangee marriages to get their green card. |
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