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Re: her decision is Hindering Her Own Wedding From Taking Place: Advise Her by manuelpepper: 4:17pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
Dheartless:that is what her guy had advocated for. |
Re: her decision is Hindering Her Own Wedding From Taking Place: Advise Her by manuelpepper: 4:18pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
bukatyne:her parents are in the village. According to their custom the traditional must be done where her parents her. |
Re: her decision is Hindering Her Own Wedding From Taking Place: Advise Her by manuelpepper: 4:22pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
stunningjudy:tank u for this |
Re: her decision is Hindering Her Own Wedding From Taking Place: Advise Her by manuelpepper: 4:24pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
MarvellousGod:stop attacking me......i brought an issue here to get counsel for a friend. If i am the one involve i would have stated otherwise. Tanks 1 Like |
Re: her decision is Hindering Her Own Wedding From Taking Place: Advise Her by manuelpepper: 4:26pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
Jahblessme:people do their weddings in the village even celebrities do it too. No one is exempted from it. Tradition demands she do it where her parents her. Na wa 1 Like |
Re: her decision is Hindering Her Own Wedding From Taking Place: Advise Her by Nobody: 4:38pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
manuelpepper: It won't feel the same abeg. The man should give another excuse, being a "quiet man" isn't enough excuse,its a day's event. Except the man is afraid of expense that would incur. |
Re: her decision is Hindering Her Own Wedding From Taking Place: Advise Her by Jahblessme: 5:22pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
manuelpepper: Abeg u people should allow this babe enjoy her wedding. she doesn't want in village naa,is it by force?? Tradition ko tradition ni.Err last I heard people do weddings where it PLEASES them,wherever makes them happy. What kind of friend r u sef? Instead of advocating for compromise u dey here de carry matter for head like cross of calvary Poor girl,I pity her already 1 Like |
Re: her decision is Hindering Her Own Wedding From Taking Place: Advise Her by manuelpepper: 5:35pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
Jahblessme:stop crying foul.......was it the guy's decision to do it in her village? Why cant u read the details i posted before commenting? It would even be better if the said wedding is done is jos....maybe u dont know the place of tradition in our society. Her tribes demands the traditional wedding to take place where her parents her. Wat else can the guy do? Abi u no sabi comprehension? 1 Like |
Re: her decision is Hindering Her Own Wedding From Taking Place: Advise Her by manuelpepper: 5:37pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
ahsekeena:see ur thinking ooo....he doesnt have? Ok lets say he doesnt have, does that give her the reason to finish the little he has? Na wa for you ooo |
Re: her decision is Hindering Her Own Wedding From Taking Place: Advise Her by peedeeasobie(m): 5:38pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
manuelpepper: The lady is vain, very vain! How many of them will live with her after the marriage. People chasing shadows since 1960 |
Re: her decision is Hindering Her Own Wedding From Taking Place: Advise Her by pickabeau1: 5:40pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
Jahblessme: Why do u refer to marriage like that This is extreme.... |
Re: her decision is Hindering Her Own Wedding From Taking Place: Advise Her by Nobody: 5:43pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
manuelpepper: U don't get my point. I know married women who don't hang their wedding photos in their homes,they don't even look at the pictures or even talk about the wedding. Because it was how they hoped it would be. I think u are the guy in question. Whatever the couple decides to do,let them do. |
Re: her decision is Hindering Her Own Wedding From Taking Place: Advise Her by Jahblessme: 5:47pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
pickabeau1: It rhymes nicely that's why.. Slaves to each other and d kids..mostly d woman slaves though as the bulk of the work falls on her.Studies prove that by the way so no need to argue. manuelpepper: I no sabi comprehension ![]() ![]() She doesn't want and she can't be forced.. I don't know much about the locations as per jos and co.I just feel there should be a compromise tradition or no. And d way u r forcing the issue,being so inflexible and sounding so pained.You are very likely the man in question You don't win someone over by being so forceful.. Maybe d babe is even trying to review her options by delaying the wedding. Poor baby 1 Like |
Re: her decision is Hindering Her Own Wedding From Taking Place: Advise Her by bukatyne(f): 5:59pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
manuelpepper: I am talking about the white wedding Why is the lady not considering the option of bringing her friends over? I am trying time look at all options. |
Re: her decision is Hindering Her Own Wedding From Taking Place: Advise Her by manuelpepper: 6:04pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
ahsekeena:hahahaahaha....i am not the guy....how do i prove it to you? |
Re: her decision is Hindering Her Own Wedding From Taking Place: Advise Her by pickabeau1: 6:16pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
Jahblessme: It is good u say slaves to each other as that is the true situation A man subjugates himself to the betterment of his family while the woman does same When u say work..I guess you talk of house chores Is it the same chores that are being taken up by men to support their wives Is it technology that is making chores less cumbersome This chores you women rant about.... Hmmm |
Re: her decision is Hindering Her Own Wedding From Taking Place: Advise Her by Jahblessme: 6:22pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
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Re: her decision is Hindering Her Own Wedding From Taking Place: Advise Her by senoreetah(f): 7:57pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
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Re: her decision is Hindering Her Own Wedding From Taking Place: Advise Her by manuelpepper: 6:49am On Apr 06, 2015 |
senoreetah:God bless u sister.......am glad u took d right decision. I believe she will see reason the same way you did...like u said after wedding everybody leaves for their home leaving the couples to manage their wahala |
Re: her decision is Hindering Her Own Wedding From Taking Place: Advise Her by manuelpepper: 6:52am On Apr 06, 2015 |
pickabeau1:tank u sir for this....the same chores that we assist them to do oooo.....and they will complaining as if they are made to lay a gigantic egg. Tanks sir 1 Like |
Re: her decision is Hindering Her Own Wedding From Taking Place: Advise Her by royalnikita(f): 8:26pm On Apr 06, 2015 |
manuelpepper:av been reading comments silently until I saw this... firstly, u are d guy in question. secondly, u are only looking for supporters and not advice. finally Op, do d trad in d villa and d wedding in d city. do it this once for d gal, maybe she spent almost all her life in dat oda state and have all her friends, colleagues, neighbours etc. |
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