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Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by Cherlene(f): 1:38am On Apr 06, 2015 |
Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by MrsChima(f): 2:03am On Apr 06, 2015 |
Cherlene: Then you should have made that clear originally then I wouldn't have sensed that. Carry on. 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by Cherlene(f): 2:15am On Apr 06, 2015 |
MrsChima: I believe I wrote the term [foreign] without categorizing. Anyway, I apologize. Have modified it due to possible misreading. Cherlene 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by MrsChima(f): 2:23am On Apr 06, 2015 |
Cherlene: Thanks sugar. ![]() |
Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by Cherlene(f): 2:29am On Apr 06, 2015 |
MrsChima: Super, you're welcome. ![]() Oh congratulations on being number 100 to comment. Cherlene |
Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by Juvante(m): 3:07am On Apr 06, 2015 |
Personally,I actually didn't fancy foreign ladies, though, I have met a lot of them( in the dark, all dogs may bark different, but they look alike!) until I met one on August 2nd,2014,On Nairaland of all places! I can assure you that my life has been one happy whirlpool . She is the best thing that ever happened to me since I started dating! She has her issues ( everyone does), but the way that she handles it, that's what knocks my feet off! I will say she is actually different from other girls that I have dated because her simplicity , honesty, compassion , open mindedness , empathy for the less privileged, is scary! She is best friends with my Sisters and their kids,my grand mom and actually takes time to call my grand mom, which is actually shocking because I have never introduced any girl to my grand mom because she have her own ideas about marriage and might reject my girls for one reason or the other! My grandma actually loves her and threatened to deal with me if I breaks her heart! I will say that deep down in Nigerian guys, though, we don't actually admit it to the ladies, we love ladies that offer something different, and skin colour is not definitely a barrier. The foreign ladies have a different mentality and approach to their relationship. Though they have their own issues e.g the need for regular communication, constant expression of your feelings, full disclosure of your past, family planning, relocation if you are in different time zones...., they are different to most modern Naija babes, and I repeat most, because there are still good girls in Nigeria, even, better than most foreign girls. They don't ask for regular Blackberry subscription , they don't bother u for Indian or Brazilian weavon, etc! My advice is this- be careful o because some foreign girls nor good o! Dem go use child support take dabaru your life! It's not always about obtaining a passport or having kids with exotic looks (those are just bonus), just follow your heart! Auf wiedersehen ! 4 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by tpiadotcom: 3:18am On Apr 06, 2015 |
empathy for the less privileged do you yourself have empathy for anybody including the less privileged? ![]() everybody wants to form holy now. |
Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by Juvante(m): 3:26am On Apr 06, 2015 |
tpiadotcom: I wish that you know how many times that we have quarrelled and argued her habit of sending money to guys that ask her for money. She loves to help, even when she knows that they are lying. Guy, if na you, how u go feel if guys dey sing " maga don pay" for your babe head! But, she has promised to be more circumspect in her dealings ! Take care , bro! 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by tpiadotcom: 3:29am On Apr 06, 2015 |
Juvante: girls nko? or dont girls also need money? ![]() where's the empathy now? ![]() I just don't know why women do not like showing empathy to themselves. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by esosuo: 3:34am On Apr 06, 2015 |
tpiadotcom: |
Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by tpiadotcom: 3:34am On Apr 06, 2015 |
if so, why don't men follow this rule when it comes to showing empathy to themselves |
Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by Juvante(m): 3:37am On Apr 06, 2015 |
tpiadotcom: Funny! Guy, u are funny o! I was explaining a point, not a sexism issue! Anyway, I think that since she is also on Nairaland, she will have to come on this thread and defend her self! Anyway , it's not a sex thing because to the best of my knowledge , she also assist females because I recall her throwing a dinner eat out at a restaurant for a friend on her birthday ! 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by esosuo: 3:38am On Apr 06, 2015 |
tpiadotcom: |
Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by MrsChima(f): 3:43am On Apr 06, 2015 |
Cherlene: Yay! |
Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by MrsChima(f): 3:52am On Apr 06, 2015 |
Juvante: If all you are worrying about whether a foreign chick will trap you for child support then do not have kids with one. It is that simple. Stupidity is human beings worst enemy! 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by Juvante(m): 4:08am On Apr 06, 2015 |
[quote author=MrsChima post=32393453] It's not that simple! Shit do happen! Sad but true! Not very accidental discharge release live bullets cos you might get lucky to be hit by a blank bullet, ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by Juvante(m): 4:20am On Apr 06, 2015 |
[quote author=MrsChima post=32393453] If all you are worrying about whether a foreign chick will trap you for child support then do not have kids with one. It is that simple. Stupidity is human beings worst enemy! [/quote As for me, I am convinced about my lady! A lady who takes time to travel a long distance by flight to an African shop, because none is in her town,just to buy African food ingredients, download YouTube videos of steps to cook Egusi soup and actually cooks a pot of Egusi soup with cow tail! My grandma actually wants to teach her more! That's more than a leap of faith, it is preparation for life as a Nigerian wife! If I am your brother, will u advice me to dump such a lady for a "nice" Nigerian girl? It's different strokes for different folks! If na so die be, I go put tooth pick for my mouth, stroll out to meet it, with a big smile plastered on my face! 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by esosuo: 4:23am On Apr 06, 2015 |
[quote author=Juvante post=32393509][/quote] If the father does not support his child who will? ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by MrsChima(f): 6:24am On Apr 06, 2015 |
[quote author=Juvante post=32393561][/quote] You made a mistake of asking me such question because I am going to give it to you salty truth. The reason why that lady coming to see you is because it is easier and cheaper for her to enter Naija than you enter America or Europe. She has googled several links of how to cook Naija food because she doesn't want to look stupid and that you have been stressing her how important Naija food is to you and your culture. If she is not Nigerian then she can't be a Nigerian wife. IF she doing all these extra steps to please and impress you...it is a bit desperate especially if you are not reciprocating as well. You are not the only Nigerian man that snagged a Western and some made it past 5 years and some died in 5 years. Good luck. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by MrsChima(f): 6:30am On Apr 06, 2015 |
[quote author=Juvante post=32393509][/quote] Excuses! If you as a black man knows the country you are visiting judges you for the shade of your skin then why in the hell would you have a baby with a non-Black woman ![]() You can sex those oyinbo bishop all day but breeding kids knowing that you may not stay for long due to whatever? Use common sense brothers!! Abeg! 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by MrsChima(f): 6:35am On Apr 06, 2015 |
esosuo: why wouldn't a father not support his child? I know some women personally who are on child support with African baby daddies. Some of them ended the relationship because of issues but some African baby daddies refuses to support their children and those women were forced to take them to court. I am not saying all American women are innocent but not all African men are truthful nor supportive. It is bad either way. The best solution is not to breed babies. 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by esosuo: 6:52am On Apr 06, 2015 |
MrsChima: I support the no breeding tins expecially the ones that don't have plans on marrying ,any one who makes mistake as an excuse shud always be ready to raise the child with support 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by Juvante(m): 8:45am On Apr 06, 2015 |
MrsChima: I will have to correct some of your impression which I think is wrong 1. I don't need her to go to Europe or America because I got several offers of admission to study for Masters in Ivy League universities in the US and also to conduct research in some of the best engineering departments in the UK, but I turned them down, due to strings attached! If I wanted to visit any country on earth, the worst they will ask of me, is to provide a bank statement with the equivalent of 11,000 Euros! That's what is required to visit Oslo, the most expensive city in the world, not to talk of hungry Portugal and other broke ass European countries! It's not about documentation! If I wanted paper, I can get an arrangee marriage this week in Stuttgart , Germany or any broke ass countries in the Schengen zone, without paying a dime. My friends have got my back on that! 2. From the first day that I met her, she told me about her fascination for the Nigerian culture, especially our food and clothes. She reeled off websites showcasing weddings and other info from Nigeria . So she is not trying to impress me. Her oldest friend is a Nigerian guy from the East! She was already "Nigerian" before I met her . 3. She was born and raised in Africa, Cape Town to be precise! So the African culture is not alien to her. She has been schooling in Europe since high school but I can assure you that she is 100% African. 4. We have already discussed issues about relocation back to Africa. We are already planning her first visit to Nigeria later in the year, whether I am around in Nigeria or not, my family has already agreed to welcome her! And I assure you that they will spoil her silly if given the slightest opportunity. You already know how strangers are taken care of in Nigeria, not to talk of a daughter inlaw! 5. She has already read your post and I can assure you that she is livid with some of your assumptions, which is understandable, because , you inferred that she was trying to impress me that's why she was trying her hand on cooking Nigerian dishes! 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by Cherlene(f): 9:34am On Apr 06, 2015 |
luvablesam: Goodmorning Thank you for your input. Cherlene |
Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by Cherlene(f): 9:47am On Apr 06, 2015 |
Dreambeat: Goodmorning Can I ask? In which way are foreign ladies LESS HYPOCRITICAL regarding their sensitivity? Cherlene |
Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by Nobody: 9:50am On Apr 06, 2015 |
There's no one size fits all for this.I think foreign ladies are more open-minded.They tell you what they want up front. 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by MrsChima(f): 9:56am On Apr 06, 2015 |
Juvante: You can't correct me on a damn thing! I have never said you wanted her for papers. I said it is easier for one to enter Naija than to enter USA or EU. I don't care about her being livid...it is fact. Oh..random people can be Nigerian now? Did it get that bad? 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by Cherlene(f): 9:59am On Apr 06, 2015 |
leanfarmer: Goodmorning I wonder, If your reply is based on your PERSONAL EXPERIENCE or? Cherlene |
Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by MrsChima(f): 10:02am On Apr 06, 2015 |
leanfarmer: Not all. Women in general wanf a man to accept them for who they are and be true to them. Personality varies and desires changes daily. It has nothing to do where they are from. |
Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by mulattoclaro(m): 10:08am On Apr 06, 2015 |
Cherlene:a lot my dear. Foreign girls are more loyal, more respectful, more industrious, more caring and more caring than their Nigerian counterparts. Nigerian girls are hungry, dirty, unkempt, uncivilised, rude, ill-bred and lack courtesy. They believe a relationship is a financial bail-out from poverty and a meal ticket. I'm currently engaged to a Brazilian and believe me it's the best thing that ever happened to me. I don't regret not dating or wanting to marry a Nigerian girl. Not all of them are like that. Let's 98.9% of them are like that. 7 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by Nobody: 10:14am On Apr 06, 2015 |
Exactly, it goes without saying that women want men to take them for whom they are. |
Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by MrsChima(f): 10:16am On Apr 06, 2015 |
esosuo: Precisely. I don't get why people can be so laid back with unsafe sex. I see fatherless kids all over and wonder how the father sleep at night Use condoms people!! |
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