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Re: Arranged Marriages Were Better Than Modern Marriages. by koyyess: 4:23pm On Apr 06, 2015 |
PAGAN9JA:A so called traditionalist using ghetto words common with uncouth, illiterate negros. If your ancestors were alive, they would have sold you to the whites a long time ago for a cheap brand of whiskey. Keep deceiving yourself. Frustrated,mad oaf. 3 Likes |
Re: Arranged Marriages Were Better Than Modern Marriages. by Nobody: 4:29pm On Apr 06, 2015 |
Whatever floats, lol. More power to you. |
Re: Arranged Marriages Were Better Than Modern Marriages. by Iaz93: 4:40pm On Apr 06, 2015 |
Joavid: JISOS!!! Jo, you killed me! ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Arranged Marriages Were Better Than Modern Marriages. by cococandy(f): 5:17pm On Apr 06, 2015 |
Number 1) I said "for me". So dear don't tell me what is wrong or right for me. you can have an arranged marriage if you feel it is right for you. End of... Your argument is against love but all through your post you were describing infatuation. Are they the same thing? Well maybe you think they are. Sigh ![]() pussyphilia: |
Re: Arranged Marriages Were Better Than Modern Marriages. by Sanguine(f): 5:26pm On Apr 06, 2015 |
5minsmadness: #smiles. You just keep calm, be yourself and then see how things turn out. Whatever will be will sure be. Nobody is perfect. 2 Likes |
Re: Arranged Marriages Were Better Than Modern Marriages. by pussyphilia(m): 5:29pm On Apr 06, 2015 |
cococandy:OK bae. I get ur point. But what many people think is love is actually infatuation. |
Re: Arranged Marriages Were Better Than Modern Marriages. by Nobody: 6:05pm On Apr 06, 2015 |
Joavid: All these gay men disguising as women on Nairaland claiming anti-feminism. Cococandy Bukatyne Sophyrocks Fellis etc beware of Joavid. See her nauseating and demeaning post about Nigerian women and she claim to be one. Oniranu! |
Re: Arranged Marriages Were Better Than Modern Marriages. by obowunmi(m): 6:58pm On Apr 06, 2015 |
ayobase: Thank you sir. I've matured. I'm an old member and was out to have fun so I came up with the name. I don dey old but I like my moniker sha... 1 Like |
Re: Arranged Marriages Were Better Than Modern Marriages. by 5minsmadness: 7:36pm On Apr 06, 2015 |
Sanguine:Thanks. I must say you are very easy on the eyes ![]() |
Re: Arranged Marriages Were Better Than Modern Marriages. by Sanguine(f): 7:53pm On Apr 06, 2015 |
5minsmadness: #smiles. I'd take that as a compliment. *bows* Gracias. #bigGrin. And eeerrrm, that look...really deep (those eyes though). What's on your mind? You wanna share? Don' worry I won't tell anyone... 1 Like |
Re: Arranged Marriages Were Better Than Modern Marriages. by NobleG1(m): 8:08pm On Apr 06, 2015 |
This is c*ock and b*ullshit!! Old parents lasted in marriage because women at their time didn't have rights like women of today. At that time, society made it the woman's fault if the marriage breaks up. Leaving your marriage was a no no for women and family would ostracize them if they eventually leave. It was extremely tough for a divorcee to re-marry unlike her male counterpart. So women were stuck in their abusive marriages for the rest of their lives. Today's woman has better rights. She can choose to marry or not, without being forced into one. And if she decides to marry, she marries a man of her choice and can leave an abusive marriage if she wishes, without fear. So for you to advocate for the return of the barbaric period shows there are i*diots in 21st century who still believe women are second class humans. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Arranged Marriages Were Better Than Modern Marriages. by Nobody: 8:08pm On Apr 06, 2015 |
Vickybee: Lmao!!! ![]() Did you say gay?? Bwhahahahahahahahaha Rotfl ![]() ![]() Wallahi, you are very very stupiiid! ![]() I did my service to humanity, so you would stop fooling yourself around this forum and now am your biggest nightmare? ![]() Keep digging through my posts and spamming NL with my "joavid". I don't have time dumbos like you. Goodluck cos you'll need it. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Arranged Marriages Were Better Than Modern Marriages. by Nobody: 8:10pm On Apr 06, 2015 |
Re: Arranged Marriages Were Better Than Modern Marriages. by koyyess: 9:26pm On Apr 06, 2015 |
PAGAN9JA:You must be high on some cheap drugs. I've already said it that you know nothing about your history. You are just a deluded, angry ,mad illiterate seeking relevance on NL. Even your gods can't remove the shackles on your miserable callous feet. Mumu negro. |
Re: Arranged Marriages Were Better Than Modern Marriages. by bukatyne(f): 9:42pm On Apr 06, 2015 |
Vickybee: Hi Vicky, Thanks for the mention. There are a diverse group of people here just like in real life and not everyone will believe in your ideals. I will say define yourself and values and try to stick by them, improving when nnecessary You do not have to convince anyone to believe in you or your ideals neither do you have to believe in what others believe in. The most important thing is to grow daily, learn from people you can and respect everyone 's opinion. Have a great day/night. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Arranged Marriages Were Better Than Modern Marriages. by Ewuro4: 11:24pm On Apr 06, 2015 |
hurricaneindia: Are they your children? Learn to Stop poking your unsolicited nose into strangers' family affairs. Ciao. 1 Like |
Re: Arranged Marriages Were Better Than Modern Marriages. by Ewuro4: 11:40pm On Apr 06, 2015 |
5minsmadness: Oga, Most East Indians practice arranged marriage accross the globe till date. I'm talking top professionals like Physicians & Members of Parliament (MP). Young, hale and hearty 20s & up. No story, confirm. |
Re: Arranged Marriages Were Better Than Modern Marriages. by 5minsmadness: 11:49pm On Apr 06, 2015 |
NobleG1:You were doing so well marshalling out your points, and then you ended it stupidly. 2 Likes |
Re: Arranged Marriages Were Better Than Modern Marriages. by SenatorJames(m): 12:30am On Apr 07, 2015 |
I agreed with the op to some great extent |
Re: Arranged Marriages Were Better Than Modern Marriages. by NobleG1(m): 1:35am On Apr 07, 2015 |
5minsmadness: What you think about my post is totally irrelevant to me. 1 Like |
Re: Arranged Marriages Were Better Than Modern Marriages. by hurricaneindia(f): 1:42am On Apr 07, 2015 |
Ewuro4:My opinion. No vex |
Re: Arranged Marriages Were Better Than Modern Marriages. by hurricaneindia(f): 1:42am On Apr 07, 2015 |
Ewuro4:Its just an opinion. Calm down. Ciao |
Re: Arranged Marriages Were Better Than Modern Marriages. by CAMNEWTON4PRES: 3:30am On Apr 07, 2015 |
Arranged marriages are definitely better 1 Like |
Re: Arranged Marriages Were Better Than Modern Marriages. by obowunmi(m): 4:42am On Apr 07, 2015 |
Sophyrocks: You must live in a perfect world. Look woman, life happens to many people. |
Re: Arranged Marriages Were Better Than Modern Marriages. by obowunmi(m): 4:42am On Apr 07, 2015 |
CAMNEWTON4PRES: God's will is the best option. |
Re: Arranged Marriages Were Better Than Modern Marriages. by 5minsmadness: 7:34am On Apr 07, 2015 |
NobleG1:Not now maybe as you are probably still in secondary school, but it might become important later when you graduate and become involved in human resources. Anyone can bring up an argument. Sometimes they just want to access your reasoning faculty, your courtesy, your politeness and your patience. In getting a job, attracting and maintaining clients or even marrying a responsible wife, politeness is a key ingredient. It will get you far in this life or it will impede your progress, it's all up to you. I wouldn't waste this time giving you this small lecture as there are a lot of prepubescent individuals on this site and throwing insults is a regular here. However I saw the way your thought process flowed and the way you arranged your points only to end it with an insult. I strongly feel this is a reflection of who you are in real life and it would be a pity if you constantly sabotage your intelligence potential with this underlying scurrilous behavior. Take it or leave it. It's your life. |
Re: Arranged Marriages Were Better Than Modern Marriages. by pickabeau1: 8:13am On Apr 07, 2015 |
Interesting... So you can talk like this without typing in CAPS and exclamations ![]() More of this Sophyrocks: |
Re: Arranged Marriages Were Better Than Modern Marriages. by Nobody: 8:23am On Apr 07, 2015 |
obowunmi: And that is why you must do your best to make marriage work. You talked about including God in marriage. How can you include God in your marriage when you dnt live a good life? If your moral values are low, your marriage will suffer. |
Re: Arranged Marriages Were Better Than Modern Marriages. by NobleG1(m): 1:37pm On Apr 07, 2015 |
5minsmadness: The say silence is the best answer to an i*mbecile like you but I'm tempted to enlighten you. It doesn't matter how you choose to live your pathetic life. As my previous response entails, your opinion of my posts is totally irrelevant. I'm not interested to know you exist. It’s pretty simplistic to think that you can know the measure of a man through internet posts. I’m surprised at how you seem to be so agitated by all of this. Actually, I’m not surprised really. It is you who have taken the time to read and reply to my post, so you should really ask yourself why you deem it necessary and worth your time. You are amongst a few people who have been following me that I’ve come to call “hater-flatterers.” They have a big problem with me, yet seem to find me thrilling. I really bother these a*ssholes. They so quickly dismiss virtually everything I have to say as bullshit or some type of crazed, angry rant, however, they are the very ones who love to indulge it. If what I have to say is so beneath you, then why bother to reply anyway? Is it that you care enough to "educate" what you believe to be a poor misguided soul? Is it that you don’t have a life? Maybe it upsets you that you were brought up so poorly and no one could care less about what you have to say? Or perhaps what I have to say really rattles the core of your belief system so you feel the need to be defensive? If what I have to say is so silly, then ask yourself why it strikes such a nerve? Whatever the reason may be, I will not continue stooping so low in giving you the attention you desperately needs. All the hater-flattery in the world will not prompt me to change. You will only serve to make me stronger. You may not agree with what I have to say, but intelligent people do. I am not always right, nor do I profess to be (as you i*diot think you're), but I do always speak what I feel and that obviously resonates with a lot of people. And as much as you may not like what I say, you cannot deny that it resonates with you. 1 Like |
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