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Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 11:06pm On Apr 09, 2015
Truckpusher:
Read through and don't be blinded by sentiments and poor judgement.

She goofed. angry

Thought you said you'd be nice today. undecided
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by RaeMystix: 11:07pm On Apr 09, 2015
The moment a man lays his hand on me...It's over.
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 11:08pm On Apr 09, 2015
RaeMystix:
The moment a man lays his hand in me...It's over.

No space for nonsense?
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Truckpusher(m): 11:09pm On Apr 09, 2015
MzNelly:


Thought you said you'd be nice today. undecided
Yeah, but not when some criminal tendencies is being exhibited right under my nose. tongue

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Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by RaeMystix: 11:09pm On Apr 09, 2015
dearpreye:


No space for nonsense?
Are you tired or ill?.
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 11:09pm On Apr 09, 2015
dearpreye:



Life is more precious than living with a dog!

I concur!
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 11:11pm On Apr 09, 2015
Truckpusher:
Yeah, but not when some criminal tendencies is being exhibited right under my nose. tongue

grin grin
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by NobleG1(m): 11:12pm On Apr 09, 2015
If any j*erk who calls himself a man slaps you during courtship, no red flag is bigger than that. He's a woman beater and abuser.

Dump his a*ss as soon as possible. If you continue with him, then you deserve everything he does to you.

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Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Truckpusher(m): 11:14pm On Apr 09, 2015
MzNelly:


grin grin
Yeah.

I got eagles eyes wink

She can call me names ,after all criminals don't show love to their arresting officer grin
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 11:15pm On Apr 09, 2015
RaeMystix:

Are you tired or ill?.

Why?
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 11:16pm On Apr 09, 2015
Truckpusher:
I will as long as you're not encouraging women to poison their abusive husbands.

You are too small and un-wise to mess with me Truckpusher.
I hereby call on all abused women to poison their husbands.

Are we done here? Are you satisfied? Will all these improve your life? Will your bitterness and holding on to e-strife for years better your life? Will quoting me out of context increase your self-esteem? Will anyone die? Will anyone poison their husbands?

Ok, swerve again--------------->>>>>>>
And remain swerved! Bitter excuse of a man.

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Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 11:17pm On Apr 09, 2015
standd:


You are too small and un-wise to mess with me Truckpusher.
I hereby call on all abused women to poison their husbands.

Are we done here? Are you satisfied? Will all these improve your life? Will your bitterness and holding on to e-strife for years better your life? Will quoting me out of context increase your self-esteem? Will anyone die? Will anyone poison their husbands?

Ok, swerve again--------------->>>>>>>
And remain swerved! Bitter excuse of a man.

It's only a faceless online forum.

You people should quit this squabble.
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Truckpusher(m): 11:21pm On Apr 09, 2015
standd:


You are too small and un-wise to mess with me Truckpusher.
I hereby call on all abused women to poison their husbands.

Are we done here? Are you satisfied? Will all these improve your life? Will your bitterness and holding on to e-strife for years better your life? Will quoting me out of context increase your self-esteem? Will anyone die? Will anyone poison their husbands?

Ok, swerve again--------------->>>>>>>
And remain swerved! Bitter excuse of a man.
The highlighted part is possible because you have a lot of people that have been pushed to the wall and what you just suggested could just open Pandora's box .

And remain swerved! Bitter excuse of a man: You sound more bitter my dear grin and I never expected you to be happy with me especially when I got into your head and opened it for people with eyes to see you for who you really are . grin and you're also bitter because you can't touch me from here, not even your poison. tongue

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Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by wapSmart(m): 11:21pm On Apr 09, 2015
dearpreye:


Hitherto I never knew slaps are stratified grin grin grin grin grin
They are bro.
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Truckpusher(m): 11:23pm On Apr 09, 2015
standd:


You are too small and un-wise to mess with me Truckpusher.
I hereby call on all abused women to poison their husbands.

Are we done here? Are you satisfied? Will all these improve your life? Will your bitterness and holding on to e-strife for years better your life? Will quoting me out of context increase your self-esteem? Will anyone die? Will anyone poison their husbands?

Ok, swerve again--------------->>>>>>>
And remain swerved! Bitter excuse of a man.
Too small and unwise for a poisoner ? Yes I agree but how you wan take catch me na? grin tongue

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Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 11:24pm On Apr 09, 2015
Truckpusher:
The highlighted part is possible because you have a lot of people that have been pushed to the wall and what you just suggested could just open Pandora's box .

And remain swerved! Bitter excuse of a man: You sound more bitter my dear grin and I never expected you to be happy with me especially when I got into your head and opened it for people with eyes to see you for who you really are . grin and you're also bitter because you can't touch me from here, not even your poison. tongue

Yes. Thank you smiley You can now move on. Somehow, you even beat the cowards liking your useless posts at this madness.
Dalu shine. Now face your life.

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Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Truckpusher(m): 11:25pm On Apr 09, 2015
standd:


Yes. Thank you smiley You can now move on. Somehow, you even beat the cowards liking your useless posts at this madness.
Dalu shine. Now face your life.
Go and drink your bitterqueen joor cheesy grin

Poison me if you can tongue

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Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 11:28pm On Apr 09, 2015
Truckpusher:
Yeah.

I got eagles eyes wink

She can call me names ,after all criminals don't show love to their arresting officer grin

Fight! Fight!! Fight!!!

Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Youngpo413: 11:28pm On Apr 09, 2015
Beamborla:
Abort Mission kia kia... I wouldn't dare
Indeed
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 11:31pm On Apr 09, 2015
Truckpusher:
Too small and unwise for a poisoner ? Yes I agree but how you wan take catch me na? grin tongue

You better respect your self and move on. Count your age on your toes and fingers, now use your head, your elbows, your shin....

If I finger your brain eh, the people you put up this random immature act for will pity you.

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Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 11:31pm On Apr 09, 2015
dearpreye:
That's the present dilemma my female friend has found herself. She just couldn't believe her fiancee, whom she loves so much, could lay his hands on her. Unfortunately, it's happened!

Immediately I got a call from her last weekend, I could feel some pain in her voice. We met in a popular eatery, with tears in her eyes, she let out her disappointment and frustration. They've been courting over 4 months- having been mere friends over 5 years.

They had an argument. It got heated up. Words were spilled from both ends, and a slap from the guy brought her back to realityr she had just received a slap from the man she might end up getting married to. I tried to calm her down. Both of them are my friends!

Women can really weep, especially when someone whom they deeply love treats them poorly; they have containers of tears behind those two sockets at their foreheads! They are a very emotional and sensitive people; too precious and tender!

She sought my advice. I simply ask her if that was the first. She reluctantly said NO; the guy has slapped her twice before this recent one. I didn't want to be responsible for the breakup of an intending couple. And I don't also believe that, even in the face of verifiable, unbearable character defects, one should jump into a marriage with the hope of changing their spouses...you may just have inherited a prayer and fasting ministry! !!!

I advised her to look at the matter with her head, not heart. But trust, emotions are usually stronger than knowledge!

She called me yesterday, and told me she was going ahead with the courtship. It's her call. But i didn't fail to warn her that she could be receiving hotter slaps in the years ahead. Kicks could even follow!

If you were in her shoes, as a lady, what would have been your decision?

Was my advice a wrong one?
dearpreye:
That's the present dilemma my female friend has found herself. She just couldn't believe her fiancee, whom she loves so much, could lay his hands on her. Unfortunately, it's happened!

Immediately I got a call from her last weekend, I could feel some pain in her voice. We met in a popular eatery, with tears in her eyes, she let out her disappointment and frustration. They've been courting over 4 months- having been mere friends over 5 years.

They had an argument. It got heated up. Words were spilled from both ends, and a slap from the guy brought her back to realityr she had just received a slap from the man she might end up getting married to. I tried to calm her down. Both of them are my friends!

Women can really weep, especially when someone whom they deeply love treats them poorly; they have containers of tears behind those two sockets at their foreheads! They are a very emotional and sensitive people; too precious and tender!

She sought my advice. I simply ask her if that was the first. She reluctantly said NO; the guy has slapped her twice before this recent one. I didn't want to be responsible for the breakup of an intending couple. And I don't also believe that, even in the face of verifiable, unbearable character defects, one should jump into a marriage with the hope of changing their spouses...you may just have inherited a prayer and fasting ministry! !!!

I advised her to look at the matter with her head, not heart. But trust, emotions are usually stronger than knowledge!

She called me yesterday, and told me she was going ahead with the courtship. It's her call. But i didn't fail to warn her that she could be receiving hotter slaps in the years ahead. Kicks could even follow!

If you were in her shoes, as a lady, what would have been your decision?

Was my advice a wrong one?
[quote author=dearpreye post=32530760]That's the present dilemma my female friend has found herself. She just couldn't believe her fiancee, whom she loves so much, could lay his hands on her. Unfortunately, it's happened!

Immediately I got a call from her last weekend, I could feel some pain in her voice. We met in a popular eatery, with tears in her eyes, she let out her disappointment and frustration. They've been courting over 4 months- having been mere friends over 5 years.

They had an argument. It got heated up. Words were spilled from both ends, and a slap from the guy brought her back to realityr she had just received a slap from the man she might end up getting married to. I tried to calm her down. Both of them are my friends!

Women can really weep, especially when someone whom
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 11:32pm On Apr 09, 2015
MzNelly:


Fight! Fight!! Fight!!!


undecided undecided Don't tell me you are enjoying this oh grin

Chaiiiii! Agbaya Truckpusher
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 11:33pm On Apr 09, 2015
I am very much against domestic violence but it takes two to tango. Sorry to say this but most deluded feminists always believe that the man is solely to blame. Remember in the book of proverbs 15:1 ' a harsh word stirs up anger, a gentle one cools it'. So what are the things that could make your spouse flare up? Be very observant and learn to communicate. Some women even start the fight and expect the man to fold hands.Haba! Let's learn to respect and love each other, no need to fight for supremacy.
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 11:33pm On Apr 09, 2015
standd:



undecided undecided Don't tell me you are enjoying this oh grin

Chaiiiii! Agbaya Truckpusher

I am

Please continue cheesy cheesy
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 11:35pm On Apr 09, 2015
MzNelly:

I am
Please continue cheesy cheesy


Lol grin Now I have to stop.
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 11:36pm On Apr 09, 2015
standd:



Lol grin Now I have to stop.

sad

Truckpusher nau sad
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by RaeMystix: 11:36pm On Apr 09, 2015
dearpreye:


No space for nonsense?
What do you mean ?.
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 11:44pm On Apr 09, 2015
standd:

You are too small and un-wise to mess with me Truckpusher.
I hereby call on all abused women to poison their husbands.
Are we done here? Are you satisfied? Will all these improve your life? Will your bitterness and holding on to e-strife for years better your life? Will quoting me out of context increase your self-esteem? Will anyone die? Will anyone poison their husbands?
Ok, swerve again--------------->>>>>>>
And remain swerved! Bitter excuse of a man.
Truckpusher:
This is the last quote you'll ever get from me.
At the highlighted showcases how you think,we were just having a convo and you made it known to me that you don't give a fucck about what I said and in the same breath you started with the curses and abuse - It only smacks of one thing and that thing is :There is some elements of the ugly bitter truth in what I have said.
You can curse all you want I won't reply you with one insult and you know why.
Truckpusher:
This is the last quote you'll ever get from me.
At the highlighted showcases how you think,we were just having a convo and you made it known to me that you don't give a fucck about what I said and in the same breath you started with the curses and abuse - It only smacks of one thing and that thing is :There is some elements of the ugly bitter truth in what I have said.
You can curse all you want I won't reply you with one insult and you know why.


Truckpusher and Standd I sense some level of e-feelings between you both grin
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 11:44pm On Apr 09, 2015
standd:

You are too small and un-wise to mess with me Truckpusher.
I hereby call on all abused women to poison their husbands.
Are we done here? Are you satisfied? Will all these improve your life? Will your bitterness and holding on to e-strife for years better your life? Will quoting me out of context increase your self-esteem? Will anyone die? Will anyone poison their husbands?
Ok, swerve again--------------->>>>>>>
And remain swerved! Bitter excuse of a man.
Truckpusher:
This is the last quote you'll ever get from me.
At the highlighted showcases how you think,we were just having a convo and you made it known to me that you don't give a fucck about what I said and in the same breath you started with the curses and abuse - It only smacks of one thing and that thing is :There is some elements of the ugly bitter truth in what I have said.
You can curse all you want I won't reply you with one insult and you know why.
Truckpusher:
This is the last quote you'll ever get from me.
At the highlighted showcases how you think,we were just having a convo and you made it known to me that you don't give a fucck about what I said and in the same breath you started with the curses and abuse - It only smacks of one thing and that thing is :There is some elements of the ugly bitter truth in what I have said.
You can curse all you want I won't reply you with one insult and you know why.


Truckpusher and Standd I sense some level of e-feelings between you both grin grin grin
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Truckpusher(m): 11:46pm On Apr 09, 2015
standd:


You better respect your self and move on. Count your age on your toes and fingers, now use your head, your elbows, your shin....

If I finger your brain eh, the people you put up this random immature act for will pity you.
You're butt hurt,asss whooped, and butt flogged.

How you wan take finger my brain na? tongue You be winsh cheesy
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by xest(m): 11:47pm On Apr 09, 2015
Beamborla:
Abort Mission kia kia... I wouldn't dare
abeg make I hear,see ur mouth. Nah u go even stay pass sef
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Truckpusher(m): 11:47pm On Apr 09, 2015
MzNelly:


sad

Truckpusher nau sad
That little boy you begged for, on his behalf is now ranting again and peeing allover my way. grin

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