agbajesaid:
I thought as much too. but this lady is the nicest lady I've ever met. even if I curse her, embarrass her to leave me alone, she would come back begging. and she gains nothing from me.

That should be the reason you need to run away from her!!Bros,if you don't pray fervently you re gooner

agbajesaid:
I thought as much too. but this lady is the nicest lady I've ever met. even if I curse her, embarrass her to leave me alone, she would come back begging. and she gains nothing from me.

That should be the reason you need to run away from her!!Bros,if you don't pray fervently you re a gooner

buoye1:
That should be the reason you need to run away from her!!Bros,if you don't pray fervently you re gooner

she is 300% from the marine kingdom... so your best bet now is to align yourself with a bible believing church, with strong prayer team.. then break off the relationship... dont let her know where you live... move away from her.... and when she strikes spiritually, make sure you maintain your prayer life, that way you are sheilded in Christ...

and also try and get yourself BAPTISED in the Holy spirit, so you can battle in the spirit.

agbajesaid:
The first time I had sex was after my secondary school & it was with a prostitute. After realizing there wasn't much fun in it as exaggerated by my friends, I asked for God's forgiveness and moved on with my life.

But 2 years after, I met this pretty and well behaved lady, and I fell in love with her. She was too pretty to resist. We had sex at least twice in a day for more than 3 years because we virtually stay together. During those period, I noticed things changed negatively.

Academics, business, spiritual, moral aspect of my life crashed. And up till today, I can't do anything right. And before I met this girl, everything was fine. Please I need help. Could it be the girl that's using my fortune or its the sex that destroyed my life?

The problem is you stopped reading. Give yourself some personal time by cutting down on sex and frivolous chatting with your girlfriend. Your success is in your own hands, not ANYTHING OR ANYBODY. All the best.

Op it seems u've bn a follower of PDP,happy to see dat u seek change.

This thread could either be :
1) An ingenious plot by a brilliant mind to create some sensational fictional story that makes it to front page.
2) Proof of the gradual collective mental retardation that afflicts NairaLand.

Tearg1:
she is 300% from the marine kingdom....

I have been searching high and low for the ultimate mamiwater fūck buddy

kobonaire:
I have been searching high and low for the ultimate mamiwater fūck buddy

why would you want that man? I mean why would you want to encounter a mammy water?

Bro You Had Better Run To Mffm Prayer City For deliverance

henribj:
why would you want that man? I mean why would you want to encounter a mammy water?

it will be very sweet bros, didn't you read the OP's story, I mean sèx twice a day?? That's dynamite!!

Oga, sex is more spiritual than physical, ur body is the temple of God where the Holy Spirit dwells.

Bible is the manual for life, if u join ur body to an harlot, all she has accumulated and received from other sex partners( like badluck etc) will be transferred to u automatically.

The solution is within u, u hv identify the problem, accept Jesus Christ today as ur personal savior, go on deliverance for He will set u free BUT never go back on ur vomit.

Some carnal minds will come here telling u it is ur mind, Hell NO, don't listen to such crap. God created u and knows what is good for u but we always allow our eyes to deceive thereby leading to sin and the consequences are always tough.

agbajesaid:
The first time I had sex was after my secondary school & it was with a prostitute. After realizing there wasn't much fun in it as exaggerated by my friends, I asked for God's forgiveness and moved on with my life.

But 2 years after, I met this pretty and well behaved lady, and I fell in love with her. She was too pretty to resist. We had sex at least twice in a day for more than 3 years because we virtually stay together. During those period, I noticed things changed negatively.

Academics, business, spiritual, moral aspect of my life crashed. And up till today, I can't do anything right. And before I met this girl, everything was fine. Please I need help. Could it be the girl that's using my fortune or its the sex that destroyed my life?

kobonaire:
it will be very sweet bros, didn't you read the OP's story, I mean sèx twice a day?? That's dynamite!!

you don't need to have a mammy water babe for you to have sex twice or more in a day. abeg leave mammy water o, they can't help.

When God forgives, he forgives for the bible said his mercy endureth forever. God does not hold any grudge against anyone. Whatever atrocity you think you have against God, Jesus Christ has paid it all. And bro this is life, whether you had sex or not, tribulations will definitely come. Life is not a bed of roses, even in those roses, there are thorns. Remember Job was very faithful and upright with God but he encountered tribulations. Bro, all I can say is don't lose faith.

You can not eat snail with hair and still think you can trace your path to victory. You better go down on your kneels and seek God intervention and forgiveness. Yoruba can it igbin onirun. Any man that eat it dosnt remain the same

agbajesaid:
The first time I had sex was after my secondary school & it was with a prostitute. After realizing there wasn't much fun in it as exaggerated by my friends, I asked for God's forgiveness and moved on with my life.

But 2 years after, I met this pretty and well behaved lady, and I fell in love with her. She was too pretty to resist. We had sex at least twice in a day for more than 3 years because we virtually stay together. During those period, I noticed things changed negatively.

Academics, business, spiritual, moral aspect of my life crashed. And up till today, I can't do anything right. And before I met this girl, everything was fine. Please I need help. Could it be the girl that's using my fortune or its the sex that destroyed my life?

Having sex twice a day for a week straight is stressful and here you are talking about 3 years. Most likely almost all your time and energy was devoted to sex.....watching porn....drinking Red Bull...eating a lot....having sex...sleeping and resting to recover ...then starting the cycle all over again. If you spent little time to focus on your studies and business and check your spirituality and morals why would you not expect them all to crash? Now here you are in 2015 asking the world if the reason is the girl using your destiny. Look in the mirror and you will see the guy responsible.

henribj:


you don't need to have a mammy water babe for you to have sex twice or more in a day. abeg leave mammy water o, they can't help.

normal woman no be machine to be giving you jolly time 2x /day .... you need a marine babe

You don fall for ogbanje God e win

kobonaire:
normal woman no be machine to be giving you jolly time 2x /day .... you need a marine babe

either you never meet woman wey dey ready to give am to you any time and any how you want it, or you are just joking.

henribj:


either you never meet woman wey dey ready to give am to you any time and any how you want it, or you are just joking.

i will take you out for beer and pepper soup one day, I need to get the blueprint from you on how to find such babes ...

kobonaire:
i will take you out for beer and pepper soup one day, I need to get the blueprint from you on how to find such babes ...

hahahaha, will look forward to that day.

well said! if the dude in question plays a game like chess or monopoly regularly he most likely would have a different story to tell.....

TRADELYN:
No!
You got it wrong.

Your problem started when you were becoming lazy in the things that really matter...while focusing your energy, time, money, etc on sleeping around. You are simply getting over-dose.

Sex power can work for or against you. It has both the spiritual and physical effects.

#JustBeDisciplined

Delete that girl from your memory now and see a good man of God asap

agbajesaid:
The first time I had sex was after my secondary school & it was with a prostitute. After realizing there wasn't much fun in it as exaggerated by my friends, I asked for God's forgiveness and moved on with my life.

But 2 years after, I met this pretty and well behaved lady, and I fell in love with her. She was too pretty to resist. We had sex at least twice in a day for more than 3 years because we virtually stay together. During those period, I noticed things changed negatively.

Academics, business, spiritual, moral aspect of my life crashed. And up till today, I can't do anything right. And before I met this girl, everything was fine. Please I need help. Could it be the girl that's using my fortune or its the sex that destroyed my life?

work harder, top this blame game.

Mmm

agbajesaid:
I thought as much too. but this lady is the nicest lady I've ever met. even if I curse her, embarrass her to leave me alone, she would come back begging. and she gains nothing from me.

Most women who gain from you spiritually, hardly ask for anything physically .You may need to discontinue with the affair immediately while you still seek the face of God for help because it makes no sense to continue cohabiting with her on one hand and seeking spiritual help almost simultaneously.

OP you indeed need help but it's not because girls ruined you.

(A hint: it has nothing to do with sex. Look at your life, at all the other aspects of it that aren't sex, you'll probably find the problem there, this is just a distraction you're stuck with.)

Started arranging your load. Na villa things o! That chick ain't through with you yet. Unless you leave her and go for deliverance, you might end up being the village palm wine tapper.

Some men are out there with money, status, and all kinds of things going for them... And they are just dreaming of the right woman to cum and go with all day every day ,even if all they have in life falls by the way side.. They just want a good woman to feel good with...
Some will think your problem is nothing because they have all the things you lost ,and are willing to give it all up for what you have... The Grass is always greener on the other side...

agbajesaid:
The first time I had sex was after my secondary school & it was with a prostitute. After realizing there wasn't much fun in it as exaggerated by my friends, I asked for God's forgiveness and moved on with my life.

But 2 years after, I met this pretty and well behaved lady, and I fell in love with her. She was too pretty to resist. We had sex at least twice in a day for more than 3 years because we virtually stay together. During those period, I noticed things changed negatively.

Academics, business, spiritual, moral aspect of my life crashed. And up till today, I can't do anything right. And before I met this girl, everything was fine. Please I need help. Could it be the girl that's using my fortune or its the sex that destroyed my life?

As much as I dont believe took your luck away... Sex outside marriage is a sin that is all i know.
My advise to you will be for you to go back to God in prayers...confess your sins and ask God for the grace not to go back to them... Repent and become born again... serve God faithfully... Ask Him for direction... Then when he tells you what to do... if you obey Him you wont regret... There is no sin the BLOOD of Jesus Christ cant to watch away... And there is no life lost that Jesus cant restore...
Just ask Jesus Christ to come into your heart...

youngwarlocks:
U mean u have been f**king a girl at least 2 × 365days × 3......man, ur luck is f**king gone.

as in f*cking gone, sex na food,you devoted your whole life to sex and you say luck is gone. I believe you know what you are supposed to do.

agbajesaid:
thanks bro but honestly, I've being doing that for more than a year now, asking for forgiveness and praying fervently but there is no difference. its almost talking my sanity

You can't continue in sin and said grace should abound... Not possible
The only solution is genuine repentance


Confess your sin and turn away completely from those sins


God will surely help you buy remember, you need to first help yourself