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agbajesaid:
I thought as much too. but this lady is the nicest lady I've ever met. even if I curse her, embarrass her to leave me alone, she would come back begging. and she gains nothing from me.

that's it! If she's the1 behind ur pridicament,she'l never give up. On you untill she finish you. But she may not be the one sha,just keep praying and stay focus.

grandstar:


Do you love her? If yes, and if you think you're mature enough, then marry her.

Guy you wan kill am Person never chop, you say make him marry.

dadaic:
Whatever it is you think you are doing right that keeps going wrong, my best advice is do the opposite. No one can ever take what belongs to you unless you make them. I think every man has his rise and falls, you may just be experiencing your falls for now, but it can't/won't last forever. Trace your steps and move back seriously with God. I wish you luck.

Best comment!

harffie:
. I know a sissy comment when I see one! 9ce comment!

WHOA!

There's nothing wrong wit you ogbeni, you took some bad decisions and things haven't been working out well for. It happens. Pray and be self conscious of what you do. But don't deny yourself some good sex all in the name of "bad luck". Don't be obsessed with, it's just pussy bro. So Dangote that lost over a billion naira should stop having sex or what? Smh

Funny World we live in especially in Nigeria where people attribute the demise of their fortunes or illness either to a lifestyle, a hated relative etc. I know of people who drink sex like water but are churning cash every month like it doesn't mean a thing.

Cutehector:
My brother, please see a priest, and confess ur sins to him. God will turn ur life around

Come and see Prophet of God in Akure p c c g ( Prayer center church of God Adofure.you will be deliver.

Aitee1:


Typical nairander

What evidence do you have to prove him wrong

Advice him accordingly or stfu

Why did you show only the downward side of your legs? I expected to see mostly the upper side (the angle precisely so i can ascertain how curvy your shape is).

henribj:


Twice a day f..k no be new thing nah, it's only when you guys start calculating the years into the matter na when e go wan look like say na impossible. If your bf get house and it happens you live with him, una go dey f..k steady, except say the girl dey frigid. peeps dey even f..k more than twice a day, na just make the girl dey constantly around you, then make she come fine join with better assets.

Really?! Ok o, that means live in relationships shouldn't be encouraged then.

Sacluxpaint:
When God forgives, he forgives for the bible said his mercy endureth forever. God does not hold any grudge against anyone. Whatever atrocity you think you have against God, Jesus Christ has paid it all. And bro this is life, whether you had sex or not, tribulations will definitely come. Life is not a bed of roses, even in those roses, there are thorns. Remember Job was very faithful and upright with God but he encountered tribulations. Bro, all I can say is don't lose faith.

tahh! Na Jesus bleep 2 dose a day? C'mon, enough already, every man shall own up to there sin including Jesus. Hei Mr, get over it

agbajesaid:
I thought as much too. but this lady is the nicest lady I've ever met. even if I curse her, embarrass her to leave me alone, she would come back begging. and she gains nothing from me.

Physically not, but spiritually she gains everything from keeping U in bondage

TRADELYN:
No!
You got it wrong.

Your problem started when you were becoming lazy in the things that really matter...while focusing your energy, time, money, etc on sleeping around. You are simply getting over-dose.

Sex power can work for or against you. It has both the spiritual and physical effects.

#JustBeDisciplined

so on point!!

weda sex or no sex hard luck can visit any man just like job......also if stop putting enough enthusiasm in things you do,den u are indirectly having sex with hard luck

It might not be the lady, all I'd say is this, if you are still with her and love her then sit her down and explain urself after that both of u can approach a pastor or sth for guidance n all. Nothing a little fasting especially together won't solve. He is God and He is JUST.

agbajesaid:
thanks bro but honestly, I've being doing that for more than a year now, asking for forgiveness and praying fervently but there is no difference. its almost talking my sanity

Calm down. It shall b alright. Just keep on praying to God. Prayer is d key

agbajesaid:
The first time I had sex was after my secondary school & it was with a prostitute. After realizing there wasn't much fun in it as exaggerated by my friends, I asked for God's forgiveness and moved on with my life.

But 2 years after, I met this pretty and well behaved lady, and I fell in love with her. She was too pretty to resist. We had sex at least twice in a day for more than 3 years because we virtually stay together. During those period, I noticed things changed negatively.

Academics, business, spiritual, moral aspect of my life crashed. And up till today, I can't do anything right. And before I met this girl, everything was fine. Please I need help. Could it be the girl that's using my fortune or its the sex that destroyed my life?

agbajesaid:
The first time I had sex was after my secondary school & it was with a prostitute. After realizing there wasn't much fun in it as exaggerated by my friends, I asked for God's forgiveness and moved on with my life.

But 2 years after, I met this pretty and well behaved lady, and I fell in love with her. She was too pretty to resist. We had sex at least twice in a day for more than 3 years because we virtually stay together. During those period, I noticed things changed negatively.

Academics, business, spiritual, moral aspect of my life crashed. And up till today, I can't do anything right. And before I met this girl, everything was fine. Please I need help. Could it be the girl that's using my fortune or its the sex that destroyed my life?

agbajesaid:
The first time I had sex was after my secondary school & it was with a prostitute. After realizing there wasn't much fun in it as exaggerated by my friends, I asked for God's forgiveness and moved on with my life.

But 2 years after, I met this pretty and well behaved lady, and I fell in love with her. She was too pretty to resist. We had sex at least twice in a day for more than 3 years because we virtually stay together. During those period, I noticed things changed negatively.

Academics, business, spiritual, moral aspect of my life crashed. And up till today, I can't do anything right. And before I met this girl, everything was fine. Please I need help. Could it be the girl that's using my fortune or its the sex that destroyed my life?

cut ya ties with the girl and probably cut your manhood........thne meet ya pastor

@OP From your posts it appears you spend most of your time 1.) having sex 2.) sports betting. Leave the poor spirits it's not a spiritual thing. I don't see prayers or deliverance helping if you don't re-prioritise and spend time on important things.

EggovinMma:


THE GUY DEY FUCCCK AS IF E DEY LIFE LONG PILLS! 2 TIME A DAY FOR THREE YEARS...I tire o.

Nne na doctor's prescription oooo.

Now I understand why business is booming for the likes of Oyedepo and and Oyakhilome.
Now let me give you some advice since you are so good at sex because behind every cloud is a silver lining. You need to become a por.nstar. That is your calling in life.So when you have sex you get PAID at the same time that is where you have been getting it wrong.
Please there is no such thing as luck extraction just stupid people who cannot THINK and so become hostages of superstition and "men of God". Bad luck comes from stupid thoughts. Try and hang out with intelligent people and see how your luck will change . The human head weighs between 2-5 kg why carry so much load about if you won't use it
I do not want to abuse you but have you not noticed how poor people tend to be unintelligent and superstitious praying for a "breakthrough". In that regard I agree when the bible says from those who don't have the little they have will be taken and give to those who do.Your problem is
1. You have no goals
2. Youu do not THINK
3. You do not THINK

People who don't think look for magic and spirits and gods to solve their problems The little they have will be taken and given to those who think
Let me give you a brief insight on MOOD REGULATION. Our moods are regulated in the brain by chemicals called neurotransmitters among other things. Some activities give a brief intense rise in neurotransmitters like dopamine e.g smoking, cocaine etc leading to euphoria . People who suffer depression may then use smoking drugs or even sex/porn as a way of BOOSTING mood.This is quite common with porn .They feel good for a while and then the mood crashes and they repeat the cycle.The brain of a person using sex in such a compulsive way may be just like that of a drug addict, Nairaland may have a similar effect . You may need to see a doctor to determine whether you are clinically depressed and also to get some rehabilitation. If indeed you are depressed then you will lack drive,have low esteem , have low energy and avoid people all ingredients for failure in life again NOTHING to do with luck
Every problem has a solution more often than not it has nothing to do with God who has made man complete.THINK

Having sex hundred times a day can only destroy ur health ,I think u already av given up strugles cos of ur fetish belief dat sex destroyd ur destiny,forget that and work and pray harder,ur miracle is on d way,some prostitutes make sex more than ten time a day for yrs,yet,when they repend and move on wit life,some succeds

Teenaira:
I am very sure you don't have any spiritual problem. The only problem you probably have is that you are very greedy and lazy. Please stop deceiving people who are gullible by saying you prayed and fasted.
How can you be having sex with a lady twice a day. I suspect you have had enough of her and now thinking about how to move to another lady. This is real greed. Averagely, if you have a round of sex, it will take your body about a week to get back to where it was before the round. You are the first person I have ever heard having sex twice a day. To justify this you claim some people have more. Can you tell me anybody that does who does not have all the problem you highlighted. I only pity the lady who has agreed with you to destroy her live together. So tell me who you will like to marry that girl. Meanwhile, there is no indication that you are doing any work.
My recommended solution is that go and start working and fend for your self. When you go through the stress for some days, even if a more beautiful girl begs you to have sex you will happily decline the offer. That is why I said you are lazy. Take this option and let me know if you still have any of the assumed problem.

Live is all about choices, you chose whatever you want.

It only took 6 pages for someone to tell op the truth.

He is looking for a easy way out and the spiritual train is his ticket.

Prophet TB Joshua will do a perfect deliverance for you and you will surely overcome it. Just believe in God.
The girl may not be the cause.
But are you still together? If yes try to formalise your marriage since you loved her very well, instead of the two or three times sins you said you are committing with her daily

Sex is sacred, the mystery behind sex is that once you have an intercouse with a lady you are joined as one spirit being, that's why those in dangerous Occultic spheres indulge in ritual sex. Most pretty ladies around are Satan agent sent to ruin your destiny. Sex is best enjoyed in marriage. Guy go and seek for deliverance, it's obvious ur destiny is under attack.

ElekeNtioba:
There is no formular to solving ur problem. Start by taking a break from the girl and put urself and ur thoughts together. A change of environment can help too. Channel ur sex drive to more productive activities.

Get a grip on ur life and set ur priorities right.

Goodluck

U gave a very nice advice. He's the architect of his problem, the tym he had to sex @ atleast 2ce everyday for 3yrs is enough to make a +ve change in lyf. Free ursef from the desire of ur soul.

You are certainly not the first to face this kind of situation and you wouldn't be the last...
My advice for you is to. Change ur mindset towards life... Get urself engaged wit positive Job, friends,and environment... Be determined and am sure u ll b free. In no time

agbajesaid:
No but she would not let go

hmmm, dats strange. I think this involves the two of you. Some curses are unleashed tru sex. The gal might even be ignorant of any generational curse. Some people have a long history. Both of should see a strong man of God for fruitful counselling and prayer.........mean time u should try to ask God for forgiveness and accept the lord Jesus Christ as your Personal lord and saviour.....

this life is very tough to exist in, there are laws and rules that is meant to live this life,nature made this rules,even animals live by their own standards,but the devil have detioriorated human beings so badly that we live without limits,thus leading to uttermost destruction. Young man am sorry to tell you that just prayin and fasting will never solve ur problem, you have reached to almost the point of no return, your spirit have been wholy possesed by this very dirty spirit you caught from very unclean women, am afraid you are not in control of urself again, as it is almost impossible for you not to fall again again to the same act, never open a door way to some unclean spirits to enter,cos at times when they gain entrance they never leave, and if they do it is an extremely hard and an unpredictable phenomenom, even God himself stays clear from interfering with these very unclean and also powerful creatures..the will of God will happen in ur life...

ElekeNtioba:
There is no formular to solving ur problem. Start by taking a break from the girl and put urself and ur thoughts together. A change of environment can help too. Channel ur sex drive to more productive activities.

Get a grip on ur life and set ur priorities right.

Goodluck

the only sensible advice i've seen here i really don't know why nigerians are so quick 2 jump 2 a religious conclusion in EVERY-FUÇKING-THING!

agbajesaid:
The first time I had sex was after my secondary school & it was with a prostitute. After realizing there wasn't much fun in it as exaggerated by my friends, I asked for God's forgiveness and moved on with my life.

But 2 years after, I met this pretty and well behaved lady, and I fell in love with her. She was too pretty to resist. We had sex at least twice in a day for more than 3 years because we virtually stay together. During those period, I noticed things changed negatively.

Academics, business, spiritual, moral aspect of my life crashed. And up till today, I can't do anything right. And before I met this girl, everything was fine. Please I need help. Could it be the girl that's using my fortune or its the sex that destroyed my life?

. Too bad but not too late

Wch church do u attend, hav u heard of genuine repentance? Thereafter, u wil need 2 go 4 deliverance. Then u wil b fasting, prayin & studyin ur bible @ least twice in a day 4 three years. May god hav mercy on u