mikketech:


Its not sex that caused u all these things. Its the girl. She is possessed with a bad spirit.
It happens to me. There are some girls u meet that are bad luck to you. While some will bring goodluck to me.

It has happened to me.

Advice:: break up with her and move on with your life,while u do so. Find another girl who will add more value to ur life in every aspect. Things will be better for you. Am a living testimony.

Yes, but the bad luck usually manifests after sex.

pomsky:


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......Op, you remind me of my late father before he gave his life to Christ. He was an intellectual, who attended the Massachusetts Institute of Technology. He was very intelligent and did become finance director of one of the blue chip companies in the country. He believed in the power of the mind and thinking out solutions for EVERY problem. He believed Christians were a lazy bunch.
This continued into his 60's until the devil had time for him and took over his file!
I laugh when people make comments like you have above, thinking you can handle ALL issues with intellectual/mental or physical power. These are the least on power scale. Have you watched Andrew Mayne or Chris Angel. How do you mentally or intellectually explain their doings? Not to talk of solving or unraveling their mysteries?
You simply can't becos they operate from the spiritual!
Yes God made us complete IN CHRIST, but not up to the point that we don't need Him. He will never bring you to a place where He becomes indispensable in your life. If all the solution is in your brain, He becomes indispensable.[/size]

Are you suggesting that we should not plant cassava and Yam and wait on Christ? Are you suggesting we do not have surgery when advised to do so .Are yo suggesting we do not save but wait on Christ? I do not want to discuss your father out of respect. The issue here is about a young man engaged in compulsive behaviour. This is a problem that we find in China in Muslim countries,India etc and they find solutionsIt is NOTHING NEW. We do not need to introduce religion into practical problems. That is foolishness. Do you pray to Christ to change a flat tire on your Car
This is a mental health problem ,it is as simple as that. @OP do you smoke cannabis or use other drugs?

deltateam:


Not every man is weak. We still have active men even if you are not one.

Tell that to the marines. Sex isn't food

olamilekside2:


Oga Agbaje, sex is not destroying or affecting your life, u're involve in what God dislikes e.g Gambling and not keeping promise, check urself , d lady is nt ogbanje, ur prblm is frm ur bad act.

Thank me later

God bless you.
I don't know why people like to play the name-shame-blame game. What will it cost man to accept that his problem is as a result of his own actions? And he's looking for deliverance. Truth will deliver him.

agbajesaid:
I thought as much too. but this lady is the nicest lady I've ever met. even if I curse her, embarrass her to leave me alone, she would come back begging. and she gains nothing from me.

she gains nth from you oro ti so ara eha! the talk yaff talk by itself

@op that doesnt mean, you wont go back and hit it, you like hitting it dont you? keep at it, lets see how that goes for you

UjSizzle:

Seriously, it's the girl? It's not the apparent sin he willingly dwelt in, but the girl he sinned so joyfully with?
Talk about the Adamic law: Always blame the woman.

Righteousness exalts a nation, but sin is a reproach to any people.

Smh. God will help us all.

madam its the girl. Take it or leave it. As if you don't know that 80% of you ladies are possess with the evil spirit.

agbajesaid:
I wouldn't deny the fact I WAS obsessed with sex. The girl was CHARMING; I wish i could share her pics. I'm over it now and I need help. I just hope my problem is not spiritual. I wish I was in abroad, I would have seek the help of a good psychologist or even go to rehab.

Your ultimate solution is in the WORD OF GOD. You must be born again and become serious with God and in His service, not just a church goer.
Be BORN AGAIN, studying and practicing the word of God daily and your focus in life shall be restored.

See people giving different solutions but yet can not see.....

My brother, the only solution is to check your spiritual life and the only way to do that is to check the dreams you have.

God speaks to us through dreams; if u r addicted to sex; it means it has eaten some part of your inner man.

Negative dreams are bad; since you have had sex with that gal than ask for God to reveal her to you. A gal can be nice and good but can be possess.

If you wanna know who she; look at eyes and listen to some words she says to you and her beauty is meant to capture you and blind wash you. So be careful because who truly likes you wud not sleep with everyday and she wud be interested in ur future. But if does not then you have to stand.

agbajesaid:
The first time I had sex was after my secondary school & it was with a prostitute. After realizing there wasn't much fun in it as exaggerated by my friends, I asked for God's forgiveness and moved on with my life.

But 2 years after, I met this pretty and well behaved lady, and I fell in love with her. She was too pretty to resist. We had sex at least twice in a day for more than 3 years because we virtually stay together. During those period, I noticed things changed negatively.

Academics, business, spiritual, moral aspect of my life crashed. And up till today, I can't do anything right. And before I met this girl, everything was fine. Please I need help. Could it be the girl that's using my fortune or its the sex that destroyed my life?

jaybee3:

There is absolutely nothing wrong with the dude.
His priorities are skewed and he is certainly mentally/intellectually lazy.

He is spending a good chunk of his daily life to think about sex as well as directly engaging in sexual activities

Of course he's all that boo boo, as well as a Christian who willfully lets his physical desire rule his life. When a brother is stuck there, I direct him to ask God for help. Some things can cause you the weirdest setbacks, you just realize that singular past action is the reason.
But to say his guilt and feeling of helplessness should be addressed? Nah. He needs God now more than ever (if nothing else, for peace). But he needs to first accept his faults, instead of blaming everything but himself.
People prosper in times of peace, not just in the nation, but also in their hearts. I think Nigeria is peaceful enough for now. It's his heart that needs a spirit overhaul.

Go for deliverance in a good church

Visit any Mfm church close to you and try to explain to pastor or visit prayer city for deliverance.
Tnx

As much as you are struggling to seek for a spiritual freedom I suggest you combine it with psychological liberation.

mikketech:
madam its the girl. Take it or leave it. As if you don't know that 80% of you ladies are possess with the evil spirit.

Oh please. It's the girl. It's the girl who saw him first and propositioned. It's the girl who stripped to her birthday suit and placed his penis inside her. It's the girl who demanded to be serviced twice a day for three years.
It's the girl who showed up in his line of vision when he was thinking about heaven. She threw his mind off God and planted the first seed of sin.

Wrong.

You want to tackle a problem, you uproot it, not swat at branches and leaves.

He is the cause of his problems. He was the one who harbored thoughts of sex. He saw the girl. He propositioned. He was the guy on top pounding away. He stayed with her for three years.

When the devil is ready for you, he takes even the smallest seed or thought you have and grows an oak tree out of it. He will gradually help you water and nurture it. But it is never an independent thought. It s always something you desired.
That will why the Christian is admonished to guard his heart with all diligence for out of it comes the issue of life.

Tell your friend to repent. The devil may have helped him, but he left the door open.

agbajesaid:
I wouldn't deny the fact I WAS obsessed with sex. The girl was CHARMING; I wish i could share her pics. I'm over it now and I need help. I just hope my problem is not spiritual. I wish I was in abroad, I would have seek the help of a good psychologist or even go to rehab.

You don't need to go abroad. Go to SCOAN, Ikotun, Lagos. It is very possible for a demonic spirit from the girl to affect you. She may have a spiritual husband hence any man that gets intimate with her enters trouble. This is very possible. Another point is that if you believe it's the sex you have been having with her that have destroyed you, then it's the sex because that's what you believe. In any case, your life needs to be set straight again through deliverance. Please visit the SCOAN.

UjSizzle:

Of course he's all that boo boo, as well as a Christian who willfully lets his physical desire rule his life. When a brother is stuck there, I direct him to ask God for help. Some things can cause you the weirdest setbacks, you just realize that singular past action is the reason.
But to say his guilt and feeling of helplessness should be addressed? Nah. He needs God now more than ever (if nothing else, for peace). But he needs to first accept his faults, instead of blaming everything but himself.
People prosper in times of peace, not just in the nation, but also in their hearts. I think Nigeria is peaceful enough for now. It's his heart that needs a spirit overhaul.

Think about it this way hun, God didn't instruct him to spend his productive years on things that's of no benefit to him so why should he start bothering God now?
I just hate it when people run to God every single time when they can easily engage their own brain to see what exactly they've been doing that's fuelling the setbacks.

Just pay attention to him and see how he is trying to blame someone else for his misfortune whilst comfortably forgetting the fact that he actively engaged in unproductive activities.

Heck, why would anyone have sex twice daily for 3 years straight and not get paid for doing so?
He had better turn himself into a male prostitue if he can't keep that nonsensical energy in check

When u do tins dat displeases Allah often or u do unlawful tins often, it s lyk u ar movin away from his mercy. Unlawful sex is an evil way, it makes one's life open to oda evil forces dat may destroy one.

Stop nd repent now! Ask for Allah's 4givness, supplicate more often nd perform more supererogatory prayers and be patient, you will see tins changed.
Moreover always fast, it kips u away from sins.

I repeat be patient wen prayin nd waiting for result!

you suppose release single for the girl. call am ' chop banana '

Aitee1:


Yeah...that's when our operations kick start

Btw I'm not your sis

youre tall o

Nigerians are the most gullible set of people on the planet, this guy is just very lazy, there are billionaires who are addicted to sex,take musicians for example, I'm sure some of them have sex every other weekend.
I'm not saying you shouldn't pray, but pray for God to open your eyes, cause the only thing taking your luck is your negative mentality.

And Leave The Girl Alone.

jaybee3:

Think about it this way hun, God didn't instruct him to spend his productive years on things that's of no benefit to him so why should he start bothering God now?
I just hate it when people run to God every single time when they can easily engage their own brain to see what exactly they've been doing that's fuelling the setbacks.

Just pay attention to him and see how he is trying to blame someone else for his misfortune whilst comfortably forgetting the fact that he actively engaged in unproductive activities.

Heck, why would anyone have sex twice daily for 3 years straight and not get paid for doing so?
He had better turn himself into a male prostitue if he can't keep that nonsensical energy in check

We are on the same side. The young man is foolish (and that's not an insult). He left what was important to dwell on unfruitful ventures. All I'm saying is, if he feels unable to disentangle himself from sin, then God is so willing to help. He wants us to prosper in our endeavours, but he wants us to do it on his own terms, sin-free. Now if he was any less a Christian, I may have ignored him. But he feels like something spiritual is attached to this. So I'm only supplying the spiritual implications of his actions.

Why is this thread about the girl being evil? Why hasn't anyone told the op he might be the one responsible for his dilemma through an angry spirit wife? mtchhhhhheeeeeewww

May God help you!.............#teamROKIATU

success17:
Visit any Mfm church close to you and try to explain to pastor or visit prayer city for deliverance.
Tnx

That is just another pentecostal cult with brainwashed followers .DO not go to any church or anyone who propagates ideas of the devil ,luck and all that nonsense. People have girlfriends all over the world and guess what they fvck them regularly. If you are doing it everyday then that suggests you are using sex in the same way as a baby uses a dummy/pacifier. Or as others would use drugs alcohol etc. There may be underlying emotional problems. I wonder whether you use drugs or porn excessively .What about computer games.This would give and insight into your psychological profile. If you go to this MFM you will just be substituting one slave master for another when what you need is total FREEDOM.Living outside Nigeria and not hanging out with Nigerians is interesting .You can go for 3-4 years and not hear any stories of jazz,testimony and all that buulshit. Hanging out with Nigerians is bad for your intellectual health.Just read through this thread no practical or logical suggestion all we hear is pray fast get close to God. Still you cannot fix electricity with all those prayers

Henrypraise41:
Bro, you have to embark on fasting & praying and when doing this prayer tell her to back off, though she might refuse but you need to force her. You are caged and its only prayer that can liberate you. Goodluck

You seriously needs prayer, and the best for you is to go to the mountain top (ori-oke)and you don't need to tell her where you are going to though.

UjSizzle:

God bless you.
I don't know why people like to play the name-shame-blame game. What will it cost man to accept that his problem is as a result of his own actions? And he's looking for deliverance. Truth will deliver him.

God bless You too and all ur generations to come.

Agbaje is so blind, putting is predicament on innocent lady, who knows mayb d little oppurtunities his benefiting is frm d lady's Glory. Also, his a fool and very sinful living together wth who he neva marry.

Repentance witout change of character keeps u in one place, is jst like if u av a flat tyer nd u dont change it d car wont move even if it does it cant move fast so cgange ur ways too

agbajesaid:
thanks bro but honestly, I've being doing that for more than a year now, asking for forgiveness and praying fervently but there is no difference. its almost talking my sanity

Imagine the other things you could have done with your time over 3yrs and you spent it having s*x? Now u blame it on the poor girl who is also living a wasted life just as u. Even those not having s*x have a hard time not mention u who wasted ur. Accept ur faults and move on with ur life.

Well, seriously..........there is no problem with the Lady........the problem here is with you, you find it hard to MULTI-TASK, almost all male have these multitasking problem, whereas, our female counter-part can do dat very well more often than not! So I would advice u to do one thing @ a time! #Man should know thyself because an Unexamined life is not worth living! #ROKIATU

UjSizzle:

We are on the same side. The young man is foolish (and that's not an insult). He left what was important to dwell on unfruitful ventures. All I'm saying is, if he feels unable to disentangle himself from sin, then God is so willing to help. He wants us to prosper in our endeavours, but he wants us to do it on his own terms, sin-free. Now if he was any less a Christian, I may have ignored him. But he feels like something spiritual is attached to this. So I'm only supplying the spiritual implications of his actions.

So are you sin free. Or are there just good sins? Is any human sin free? So why am I and so many others prospering. Is Dangote sin free or Mama Peace or Bill Gates or JayZ,Fashola,Tinubu,IBB or Mr Ibu sin free?. Prosperity has little to do with sin. Whether we are sinful or not we prosper and at any rate every one is sinful every day so let us leave story. Prosperity lies in the minds. Those people who you find seeking prosperity in churches and by paying tithes are those who rarely make it.