shadowgwalker:
true talk @ op...
I think they got no value, most of them finally rush into marriage coded and finally crash it down.

kaî!! imagine when you get kids and one man that fyiok the Mother in the past school days comes out boastfully (maybe to revenge broken heart) and starts giving the child gist on how she fyioks in her school days... ewww!!!

Rapmoney:
By their fruits...

aflyingbird:
they hv no value ? by the way u shouldn't be talking . for someone who had her first child out of wedlock and terminated her second whom she called an "unplanned assignment ", u shouldn't be talking

Rapmoney:
Nothing sensible here

Blebleswag:
Same they wil do to ur sisters, cos she's bn jumpin 4rm peter2james, fryingpan2pot etc.
Or if u dnt hav sisters, then to ur girl child/children

RottenTomato:
Shut the bleep up! Op is very correct. Most of u are disgrace in marriage. Una too dey bleep...before marriage una don bleep like 50 men!

Rapmoney:
Thanks man. Some women are disgrace to womanhood! Many of them sat on the front row in church today with big Bibles!

RottenTomato:
Shut the bleep up! Op is very correct. Most of u are disgrace in marriage. Una too dey bleep...before marriage una don bleep like 50 men!

Brymo:
Sex swims in marriage, while sex
sinks in sin of being single.

SeverusSnape:

Exactly!... It happens, even in my school, When it's Sunday, you'll see them dancing vigorously and falling under "the anointing".

I pity their future husbands, Because most of them, their boyfriends won't marry them after everything.

Mathematical:
op you're right.. no one is a saint we're all clowns.. i know lots of girls on here will criticize ya opinion.. buh that's the sacred fact.. take or leave it..it takes a tree to make a million match sticks buh it also takes a single match stick to burn down a million trees..apart frm any religious view, its technically immoral...

Rapmoney:
Most of them are on NL too

SeverusSnape:

Exactly!... It happens, even in my school, When it's Sunday, you'll see them dancing vigorously and falling under "the anointing".

I pity their future husbands, Because most of them, their boyfriends won't marry them after everything.

aflyingbird:
I don't agree with cohabitation of any sort and have never done it nor will I ever do it. But to say a person loses their value because of it, really? If that's the extent if your education then I pity you. Some idi000ts here, even the females, are agreeing with the op. Too much ignorance and mediocre education is ruining Nigeria!

Mathematical:



no man iz willing to buy wha he can borrow

Mathematical:



no man iz willing to buy wha he can borrow

SeverusSnape:

Exactly Amigo, Those girls are like... (let me just keep quiet).
BTW, It's been long I saw you on here, you look gorgeous...@ your profile picture.

Mathematical:

Yeah.. bn busy.. how re yu

martyns303:
I wanted to open a topic to discuss similar issue but since there is one already, I would like to talk about it here.

OP please don't be angry, let me use this opportunity.

Am in this situation right now. My GF of 4yrs is in her final year, she stays off campus and pays N150,000 annually. I paid for the place and help set it up as in furnitures to electronics, she practically have everything.

I also have my own place, a self contain, very big and spacious, am also paying N150,000 annually, I am a graduate, I don't have a job yet but I make do on the side, am currently on a course and I know once am done a job is not far fetched.

The problem now is my rents had expired, mine expires 3 months before hers, instead of cdigging out N300,000 to pay for both of us, one of us had to move in with the other as we have other things that will require expenses. She can't move in with me because my place is far from her school and will require around N500 everyday for transport, so I decided to move in with her. It wasn't an easy move, beside overcoming the social thoughts from people like the OP, we also invited a lot of bills doing the actual moving, as she had to move her stuffs to her family home, while I moved my stuffs into her place.

We both know it is inappropriate to be living together when we are not married, but we just had to make do. This is her second semester in final and I am most likely to leave the country in 3 months too.

Now here is where I need advice from matured NLs, by matured I mean people who actually take responsibility for themselves and maybe others. I am in my late 20's and I intend marrying this beautiful woman of mine, but a few things have changed on our financial expenses since I moved in. Prior me moving in, I give her around N7,000 per week, I know the next question will be what of her parents, she was raised by a single parent (mom) dad is late and the mom really tried. Now I am spending close to N3500 per day, I asked her how we can cut down on expenses, and we came up with a plan, we bought all the food items we need, filled the gas and every corner where money may go in, then I gave her N30,000 as our feeding for the month, but am still making expenses that are fast draining my pocket.

She is very disciplined, I think we just both don't know how to manage ourselves yet, I would really appreciate advice from married and single NLs who have been in my shoes to please help me with advice, because I believe we may soon be having financial issues, and once there are financial issues in a relationship other things may follow.

SeverusSnape:
Okay, I'm doing great, Thank you. Hope you're good too, I reckon you don't reside here in Nigeria, From the architectural design of the building behind you.

martyns303:
I wanted to open a topic to discuss similar issue but since there is one already, I would like to talk about it here.

OP please don't be angry, let me use this opportunity.

Am in this situation right now. My GF of 4yrs is in her final year, she stays off campus and pays N150,000 annually. I paid for the place and help set it up as in furnitures to electronics, she practically have everything.

I also have my own place, a self contain, very big and spacious, am also paying N150,000 annually, I am a graduate, I don't have a job yet but I make do on the side, am currently on a course and I know once am done a job is not far fetched.

The problem now is my rents had expired, mine expires 3 months before hers, instead of digging out N300,000 to pay for both of us, one of us had to move in with the other as we have other things that will require expenses. She can't move in with me because my place is far from her school and will require around N500 everyday for transport, so I decided to move in with her. It wasn't an easy move, beside overcoming the social thoughts from people like the OP, we also incured a lot of bills doing the actual moving, as she had to move her stuffs to her family home, while I moved my stuffs into her place.

We both know it is inappropriate to be living together when we are not married, but we just had to make do. This is her second semester in final and I am most likely to leave the country in 3 months too.

Now here is where I need advice from matured NLs, by matured I mean people who actually take responsibility for themselves and maybe others. I am in my late 20's and I intend marrying this beautiful woman of mine, but a few things have changed on our financial expenses since I moved in. Prior me moving in, I give her around N7,000 per week, I know the next question will be what of her parents, she was raised by a single parent (mom) dad is late and the mom really tried. Now I am spending close to N3500 per day, I asked her how we can cut down on expenses, and we came up with a plan, we bought all the food items we need, filled the gas and every corner where money may go in, then I gave her N30,000 as our feeding for the month, but am still making expenses that are fast draining my pocket.

She is very disciplined, I think we just both don't know how to manage ourselves yet, I would really appreciate advice from married and single NLs who have been in my shoes to please help me with advice, because I believe we may soon be having financial issues, and once there are financial issues in a relationship other things may follow.

Rapmoney:
U call them idio.ts because they didn't buy ur opinion? I pity u!

Mathematical:


Yeah.. uk..

RottenTomato:
Mugu why didn't u open a separate thread for this crap?!!!

SeverusSnape:

Okay, Nice one. Study hard...

Rapmoney:
Thanks man. Some women are disgrace to womanhood! Many of them sat on the front row in church today with big Bibles!

RottenTomato:
Mugu why didn't u open a separate thread for this crap?!!!