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Help I Have A Huge Problem Relating With People Esp Girls by aknopic: 10:26am On Apr 11, 2015 |
My name is akinwunmi am a student studying law. I ave a huge problem relating with people especially girls This is how the problem goes when a girl talks to me, I feel difficulty replying, I just mumble words like I don't know how to speak good eng. When i talk I just feel sth restraining my vocal cord My movement is also not leftout, I just feel like I am not the one moving and thereby becoming absent minded. Also when am about to talk to someone I feel like sth is in my head, my eyes will get dry, I get a feeling of mouth of odour all these block me from passing info thereby leading to BLACKOUT. My public speaking is not also leftout. I feel pressured all arnd my body wen I am about to speak I don't know if there's any one here that can help please I don't want my life and career to be ruined just because of this. |
Re: Help I Have A Huge Problem Relating With People Esp Girls by adekoonlay(m): 10:55am On Apr 11, 2015 |
Eleyi gidi gan ooo. Let the wiss men and women of NL comment. As for me just booking space. 1 Like |
Re: Help I Have A Huge Problem Relating With People Esp Girls by Calderal(m): 11:00am On Apr 11, 2015 |
chai speechless |
Re: Help I Have A Huge Problem Relating With People Esp Girls by Yustash001(m): 11:58am On Apr 11, 2015 |
what type of fear is this?.....psycologist in the house....help.. . what type of fear is this?.....psycologist in the house....help.. . |
Re: Help I Have A Huge Problem Relating With People Esp Girls by aknopic: 12:57pm On Apr 11, 2015 |
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Re: Help I Have A Huge Problem Relating With People Esp Girls by Jboyossai(m): 1:00pm On Apr 11, 2015 |
Well, I will advice you to try and speak wt atleast 3 of the opposite sex each day, even if its something meaningless and see how confidence you will become.... Meanwhile farano , seun come help this dude...... |
Re: Help I Have A Huge Problem Relating With People Esp Girls by aknopic: 4:58pm On Apr 11, 2015 |
Jboyossai: |
Re: Help I Have A Huge Problem Relating With People Esp Girls by Francmakua(f): 5:21pm On Apr 11, 2015 |
It happens to me. My own is that sometimes when I want to talk I will feel tears forming in my eyes and when I talk I may cry. Until I read this book, "The new spirit controlled woman." it is a book for females but it talked about temperament very well. I began to understand why I behave the way I do. You can't fight who you are it will always swim back no matter what, but you can convert your weakness to strength with the help of the Holy Spirit. 3 Likes |
Re: Help I Have A Huge Problem Relating With People Esp Girls by aknopic: 9:17pm On Apr 11, 2015 |
Pls mod help!!!!! 1 Like |
Re: Help I Have A Huge Problem Relating With People Esp Girls by japhmanuel: 9:39pm On Apr 11, 2015 |
Try to boost ur confidence |
Re: Help I Have A Huge Problem Relating With People Esp Girls by dagentility(f): 9:57pm On Apr 11, 2015 |
Practice makes perfect 1 Like |
Re: Help I Have A Huge Problem Relating With People Esp Girls by osemoses1234(m): 1:34am On Apr 12, 2015 |
My broda make I no lie for yu nah frm ur village...no b clear eye.... |
Re: Help I Have A Huge Problem Relating With People Esp Girls by Jaypea98: 1:48am On Apr 12, 2015 |
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Re: Help I Have A Huge Problem Relating With People Esp Girls by Jaypea98: 1:49am On Apr 12, 2015 |
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Re: Help I Have A Huge Problem Relating With People Esp Girls by walepinna(m): 1:53am On Apr 12, 2015 |
Hmmmm This is a serious issue o If u sure say no b from vila dis thing dey happen Try take 2wraps of Alhaji tani's SK n u will see how u will flow well with the opposite sex n ur public speaking will be improve tremendously... Thank me later |
Re: Help I Have A Huge Problem Relating With People Esp Girls by Nobody: 2:03am On Apr 12, 2015 |
As someone already said, just keep practicing. Face your fears even if your gonna totally black out a couple of times, then so be it You could also practice conversations in the mirror. Though you don't want to sound premeditated in your dealings with people, it would go a long way to sharpening your brain, improving recall, confidence and a whole lot more. Dude, public speaking shouldn't scare you, cause most of the peeps in the audience most times don't give a fvck anyway, so why should you? Also, the more stuttered you sound, the more annoying it is to the audience, so just step up like no one's watching and say what's on your mind. If you stumble on a word or two, just take a breadth and continue, you'll be fine. |
Re: Help I Have A Huge Problem Relating With People Esp Girls by aknopic: 11:28am On Apr 12, 2015 |
i think this page as been moved to romance session. pls I ll still Iike it to be moved to the front page for more coverage abeg Thanks again n advance moderators |
Re: Help I Have A Huge Problem Relating With People Esp Girls by ogunvic41(m): 12:09pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
Start faceless chats on 2go,BBM, whatsapp and others |
Re: Help I Have A Huge Problem Relating With People Esp Girls by aknopic: 12:16pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
ogunvic41:I started this last year before I gained admission I the problems I listed still persist |
Re: Help I Have A Huge Problem Relating With People Esp Girls by Brugo(m): 12:34pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
Bro hope you just want to be a passive company lawyer cos I wonder how you would defend your client in court. The best way to overcome this is to go ahead and do what you couldn't. You won't die if you try. Talk to people around you. If you love football, visit a viewing centre and argue with those guys there You know those newspaper stands? Go there too and just hail someone "Sai Buhari". I'm sure an argument will start immediately. Before long you will be comfortable discussing with others. |
Re: Help I Have A Huge Problem Relating With People Esp Girls by Nobody: 1:01pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
HAVE NO FEAR!!! I HAD THE SAME PROBLEM A FEW YEARS AGO! AND I SOLVED IT. SIMPLE SOLUTION. In a nutshell. Just embarrass yourself in front of people. After this, you will never fear any human again, |
Re: Help I Have A Huge Problem Relating With People Esp Girls by Nobody: 1:03pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
aknopic:Hmmn . . . . ask yourself. What are you really afraid of? Is it embarrassment? Is it appearing foolish? Answer and let's see what we can do about it. |
Re: Help I Have A Huge Problem Relating With People Esp Girls by aknopic: 1:10pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
Teempakguy:Appearing foolish |
Re: Help I Have A Huge Problem Relating With People Esp Girls by Nobody: 1:21pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
aknopic:Hmm . . . in that case, you have to get into an argument, probably political, doing this will allow you to appear foolish without being aware that you are actually appearing foolish. This will make you realize one simple truth . . . . DUDE . . . . NO BODY FÛCKING CARES ABOUT YOUR FOOLISHNESS! NOBODY EVER NOTICES HOW FOOLISH ANYONE IS UNTIL THAT PERSON IS SAFELY OUT OF RANGE! having realized this, you will be surprised to find that you feel more at ease with every one. BTW, no gbagaun allowed. |
Re: Help I Have A Huge Problem Relating With People Esp Girls by Bflexing(m): 1:33pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
All training schools I have attended, they will tell u the best way to practice is by speaking in front of your mirror when u are alone.u may have the person or audience in mind when doing this. |
Re: Help I Have A Huge Problem Relating With People Esp Girls by Osirimononaye(m): 1:43pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
Pls try and download "The Talking tom" app on your smartphone and try talking with it. I'll help. |
Re: Help I Have A Huge Problem Relating With People Esp Girls by Nobody: 2:03pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
aknopic:why call names. You say something |
Re: Help I Have A Huge Problem Relating With People Esp Girls by aknopic: 2:07pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
Smallville10:I am sorry thought that is the way to call the attention of the moderators |
Re: Help I Have A Huge Problem Relating With People Esp Girls by aknopic: 2:14pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
Another thing is fear of what to say Now I see a girl familiar afar wat I do is just to divert to another direction. it might sound funny but dats d truth This is cos I fear or dont know what to say AFter greeting her. (to avoid getting blank and appearing like a fool of a dumb person). |
Re: Help I Have A Huge Problem Relating With People Esp Girls by aknopic: 3:23pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
aknopic:Sometimes I try talkingto girls by asking questions they get turned off and will just give an excuse to leave |
Re: Help I Have A Huge Problem Relating With People Esp Girls by Nobody: 3:28pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
Op, I have a problem to your solution. |
Re: Help I Have A Huge Problem Relating With People Esp Girls by aknopic: 5:32pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
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