Three months to your wedding day, she was raped by some armed robbers that invaded their house. She informed you as the husband to be, you felt bad but you made up your mind since it wasn't her fault. You both went to the hospital together and the doctor confirmed that their was nothing wrong with her. Two month after the ugly incident, and a month to your wedding day, she discovered that she is pregnant.

As the husband to be, would you advice that she should abort the pregnancy knowing fully well as born again that it is a great sin before God and

should the wedding also proceed as planned

Please I need matured opinions on this


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hmmmm ghen ghen

Nawa o! Even Waec easy pass dis question

As a born again.
Seek the face of God. Ask him, he'll surely direct you.

ammyluv2002:
Nawa o! Even Waec easy pass dis question

I know


Just answer

Dat scenario dn happen 4 nollywood movie b4. I no watch am finish. u should narrate d scenario to movie sellers, dem go knw d movie. Buy it and watch it, u ll find solution to ur question.

The best answer to your question is supposing she is your sister or daughter what would you do?

bunmioguns:



I know


Just answer

Well, it's very difficult only The Holy Spirit can make me keep the baby and move on with the wedding plans thatz if I'm the guy

Emodeee:
Dat scenario dn happen 4 nollywood movie b4. I no watch am finish. u should narrate d scenario to movie sellers, dem go knw d movie. Buy it and watch it, u ll find solution to ur question.

Just STFU if you don't have anything reasonable to say

Tundeiab:
The best answer to your question is supposing she is your sister or daughter what would you do?

Am I the one to marry my own daughter or sister?



OMG.. why is nairaland full of slow poke like this

mehn!!!

abortion is no option

u jux hav to accept d baby

just dat d child will hunt ur marriage in a while

ammyluv2002:
Well, it's very difficult only The Holy Spirit can make me keep the baby and move on with the wedding plans thatz if I'm the guy

My bad, didn't read your previous reply very well


Holy Spirit


Hmmmm

1.Go on with the wedding if you can deal with the situation
2. Cancel the wedding , and give her child support(since you really love her but can't deal with the situation)

Tundeiab:
The best answer to your question is supposing she is your sister or daughter what would you do?

Nigga he asked for ya advice not ur riddle or proverb

sinaj:
Nigga he asked for ya advice not ur riddle or proverb

Biatch I wasn't talking/texting to you...


Little gurl, OYA! Run along...

sinaj:
mehn!!!

abortion is no option

u jux hav to accept d baby

just dat d child will hunt ur marriage in a while

Hmmmm. .

Accept the child?

KingEbukasBlog:
1.Go on with the wedding if you can deal with the situation
2. Cancel the wedding , and give her child support(since you really love her but can't deal with the situation)

sinaj:
Nigga he asked for ya advice not ur riddle or proverb

You dey mind am

bunmioguns:




Am I the one to marry my own daughter or sister?



OMG.. why is nairaland full of slow poke like this

if I am a "slow poke" what does that make you "fast poke"? Lol


I know you wouldn't want your sister to go through abortion. I also believe you will want the husband to go ahead with the wedding; so do same thing to her.


When you promised her unconditional love did you put exemptions? Just go ahead and make her your head.

SEE UR BIG HEAD... LOL

Tundeiab:
if I am a "slow poke" what does that make you "fast poke"? Lol


I know you wouldn't want your sister to go through abortion. I also believe you will want the husband to go ahead with the wedding; so do same thing to her.


When you promised her unconditional love did you put exemptions? Just go ahead and make her your head.

SEE UR BIG HEAD ... LOL

I take am resemble you

Enters thread.
Listens to stories that touch, ain't nothing that can make me keep that child, if she wants to keep, we are done.
Walks out of thread dragging my Sk

bunmioguns:





I take am resemble you

Lol

Abeg no break that girl heart o. Canceling the wedding after the rape will BREAK her. Let her have the child after which you can send him/her to her(ur woman's) mum.

I take God beg you no break her heart...

As 4 me.. Aborting tinx sure pass.. No any other option.. 4 me oh

sinaj:
mehn!!!

abortion is no option

u jux hav to accept d baby

just dat d child will hunt ur marriage in a while

Why?

Abort!!! Abort!!! Abort!!!...people have aborted for less.#Simple

thanks for your contribution so far

i must say this is a really bad scenario. Nevertheless , love conquers all things. Accept the baby and move on. It wasn't her fault she got raped. Your main focus should be on taking good care of her. The bitterness should be directed at the perpetrators of the crime.

luigiajah:
i must say this is a really bad scenario. Nevertheless , love conquers all things. Accept the baby and move on. It wasn't her fault she got raped. Your main focus should be on taking good care of her. The bitterness should be directed at the perpetrators of the crime.

bunmioguns:
Three months to your wedding day, she was raped by some armed robbers that invaded their house. She informed you as the husband to be, you felt bad but you made up your mind since it wasn't her fault. You both went to the hospital together and the doctor confirmed that their was nothing wrong with her. Two month after the ugly incident, and a month to your wedding day, she discovered that she is pregnant.

As the husband to be, would you advice that she should abort the pregnancy knowing fully well as born again that it is a great sin before God and

should the wedding also proceed as planned

Please I need matured opinions on this

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rectitude:


i have giving you the answers you really need on my blog 'fixmeblog' its about dealing with issues such as this. am featuring your question there. i think you should check it out http://www.fixmeblog.com

you want to use my thread to drive traffic to your blog

nothing do you bro

Don't make her go through abortion... That child will make you proud one day.
He/she will grow up and understand how difficult the decision was for u and they'll only love u more.
Of course, u av the task of NOT making the baby feel like a bastard.

SarcasticMe:
Don't make her go through abortion... That child will make you proud one day.
He/she will grow up and understand how difficult the decision was for u and they'll only love u more.
Of course, u av the task of NOT making the baby feel like a bastard.

you too know that is the most difficult thing to do