Notyourb1tch:
perhaps the ones you know talk bad but the ones I know don't. You should really stop generalising. Again I have no problems or qualms who Nigerian men date. Just that there is no need to insult and put us down

We all have to use our common sense
when people generalize I don't take it personnel
People speak from life experience and their environment and Our life experience and the environment create part of
our values ,morals and the way we judge other people
I have being treat like Nigerian by custom and immigration officer
They do generalize- all Nigerian are call drug dealers
That sad but I am a B? that can give it back

Cherlene:



Good afternoon

I am joyful to read your comment. You are
without doubt blessed with a beautiful wife and family.

I Pray God flourish your UNION even more In Jesus name, amen.

Cherlene

Thank you. Amen. God will grant you a partner you deserve.

childofGod09:

Thank you. Amen. God will grant you a partner you deserve.

IJN, amen. Thank you too!

Cherlene

GoodFaith:


"Some like you said" go to Nigeria get marry and become unhappy
Guess what? Nigeria culture and food will not create happiness for any man
Men shouldn't be looking for women like their mom
Men should look for a women that will be their ride and die
I understand that follower Nigerians will be telling you to marry a Nigerian
All women are different,
Look for a woman that will love you, support your goals and dream, share majority of your values- respectful, considerate
There are different between Nigerian women from Nigeria and the little girls or teenage and girl born oversea
Hopeful the "women with bad manner" don't teach their kids their bad manner

Stop making sense nko! I wants to fight!!

white girls heads are easy to wash nufin else

I've made friends with a few Nigerian guys on this website. They are handsome, intelligent, and caring. When I asked why they are single their reply all 5 of them was because Nigerian women expect money and I am just starting up in life. Maybe the Nigerian women could take this constructive criticism from your men and maybe change a little. We are the next generation let's do things differently.

Not all Nigerian men are handsome and intelligent.

What's constructive about bashing a whole group of women because they couldn't attract quality few womwn

Women needs to stop feeding into that I like you because the last chick was XYZ bullshit.

.

I tire oo

Nubian113:
I've made friends with a few Nigerian guys on this website. They are handsome, intelligent, and caring. When I asked why they are single their reply all 5 of them was because Nigerian women expect money and I am just starting up in life. Maybe the Nigerian women could take this constructive criticism from your men and maybe change a little. We are the next generation let's do things differently.

i have noticed southafrican wo men have so much interest in naija men just like the o.p who is southafrican
why are you researching about nigerian men? jj

Nubian113:
I've made friends with a few Nigerian guys on this website. They are handsome, intelligent, and caring. When I asked why they are single their reply all 5 of them was because Nigerian women expect money and I am just starting up in life. Maybe the Nigerian women could take this constructive criticism from your men and maybe change a little. We are the next generation let's do things differently.

if all 5 are saying the same thing, maybe you should factor in gayness or multiple moniker as a possible cause.

una no dey like to hear warning.

gba to je pe ogbologbo leyin na.

tpiadotcom:



if all 5 are saying the same thing, maybe you should factor in gayness or multiple moniker as a possible cause.

una no dey like to hear warning.

gba to je pe ogbologbo leyin na.

Yes...old food are always the most accepted when those who received wisdom don't use it!

E kaaro bawo ni o arakunrin.

esosuo:

Mrschima forget all that mata if it is not constructed well now the house go fall pass lik dis oh ,dis shud be lik an eye opening trend because some of dis girls may not know their misdid and dat ignorance brings it on.other gud girls

Abeg..free me jor!

MrsChima:


Yes...old food are always the most accepted when those who received wisdom don't use it!

E kaaro bawo ni o arakunrin.

n'elu nke ụtụtụ gị

tpiadotcom:



n'elu nke ụtụtụ gị

Lol. All is well and soon change will come.

MrsChima:


Lol. All is well and soon change will come.

......abeg madam u wey don marry! Wetin u sabi about the modern naija man? Me chi onu there jare!

funlord:
......abeg madam u wey don marry! Wetin u sabi about the modern naija man? Me chi onu there jare!

I am a wife of a Nigerian man and mother of Nigerian children so I can give wahala concerning Naija men oo

.

esosuo:

Mrschima.ur own dey ur body too sha, blik say u just lik disagreeing and looking everytin naija man talk about naija woman as oppression ,better help us spread the fact so the change sing starts having effect soon oh

Let me have my fun abi!

.

This thread has just proven the useless, crude nature of a large percentage of Nigerian men.

teasel:
This thread has just proved the useless, crude nature of a large percentage of Nigerian men.

Take it or leave it u can't beat the masses dear ,you don't talk because u. Just want to talk you shud b able to give us reasons to tink otherwise,ur comment here just proved us right ,telling. When one tin is been said by more than 4 pipo u.shud try to look closely and work on the issue than blame men

esosuo:

Take it or leave it u can't beat the masses dear ,you don't talk because u. Just want to talk you shud b able to give us reasons to tink otherwise,ur comment here just proved us right ,telling. When one tin is been said by more than 4 pipo u.shud try to look closely and work on the issue than blame men

Lmao! Reasons to think otherwise? Who the hell cares what you think?

If you were asking me to give you reasons why most Nigerian males can't answer a question as simple as the op's without showing their usual crude behaviour, then, just maybe, I wouldn't mind giving that to you.

teasel:



Lmao! Reasons to think otherwise? Who the hell cares what you think?

If you were asking me to give you reasons why most Nigerian males can't answer a question as simple as the op's without showing their usual crude behaviour, then, just maybe, I wouldn't mind given that to you.

nothing personal but still the guys gave their points in clear language not because they hate the nigeria ladies but because a fault not well told will never be corrected ,still u shud try to read well to see wat brought about the comparison before u conclude on an expanded issue

teasel:



Lmao! Reasons to think otherwise. Who the hell cares what you think?

If you were asking me to give you reasons why most Nigerian males can't answer a question as simple as the op's without showing their usual crude behaviour, then, just maybe, I wouldn't mind given that to you.

Please, do not take it personal ! Instead of blaming Nigerian guys for sharing their frustration on this thread, offer constructive arguments!
1. Did you attend a real university in Nigeria? When I say real, I mean government owned universities , not the upgraded "boarding schools" run by private and religious bodies! When you see the girls on campus, how many of them that you know, can actually boast of their parents been responsible for their extravagant lifestyle?
2. Do you have a brother? If the answer is yes, ask him gently to tell you his "financial experience" with girls! Tell him to tell you what he knows about the current demand of girls from his friends! For your information , men are the greatest gossips on earth!
3. Can you tell us truthfully what you bought for your bf during the last Valentine day, in comparison to what you got! From personal experience and swapped stories from most guys, even if you take a typical Nigerian girl for shopping in Dubai as a valentine day gift , wallahi, she will still buy you a boxer shorts and singlets! Guys, na lie I dey talk?
4. So taking many factors into consideration , don't blame most guys for sharing their experiences. It's not women bashing but a simple explanation of their view about the highly monetised senses of most girls nowadays. They want to dress like Tonto Dike, live like Diezanne Madueke, have powerful friends like Okonjo Iweala, throw fabulous parties like Mrs Shagaya, and be on the cover page of magazines like Mrs Alakija, but they are not ready to bend their back to pay the price, exercise patience and enjoy the fruit of their sweat! So sad, but infinitely true!

All this ranting instead of saying no?

Juvante:


Please, do not take it personal ! Instead of blaming Nigerian guys for sharing their frustration on this thread, offer constructive arguments!
1. Did you attend a real university in Nigeria? When I say real, I mean government owned universities , not the upgraded "boarding schools" run by private and religious bodies! When you see the girls on campus, how many of them that you know, can actually boast of their parents been responsible for their extravagant lifestyle?
2. Do you have a brother? If the answer is yes, ask him gently to tell you his "financial experience" with girls! Tell him to tell you what he knows about the current demand of girls from his friends! For your information , men are the greatest gossips on earth!
3. Can you tell us truthfully what you bought for your bf during the last Valentine day, in comparison to what you got! From personal experience and swapped stories from most guys, even if you take a typical Nigerian girl for shopping in Dubai as a valentine day gift , wallahi, she will still buy you a boxer shorts and singlets! Guys, na lie I dey talk?
4. So taking many factors into consideration , don't blame most guys for sharing their experiences. It's not women bashing but a simple explanation of their view about the highly monetised senses of most girls nowadays. They want to dress like Tonto Dike, live like Diezanne Madueke, have powerful friends like Okonjo Iweala, throw fabulous parties like Mrs Shagaya, and be on the cover page of magazines like Mrs Alakija, but they are not ready to bend their back to pay the price, exercise patience and enjoy the fruit of their sweat! So sad, but infinitely true!

. What is wrong in wanting a good life? That is my reason for working hard even as a student. I have read ur comments so far and as those ladies are saying not all girls, I will say the same thing NOT ALL GIRLS! Why can't u accept that? What is wrong with one being different? And mind u am in a federal university as well.

Juvante:
Please, do not take it personal ! Instead of blaming Nigerian guys for sharing their frustration on this thread, offer constructive arguments!

Sharing frustration? Lol! The fact that most of you can't 'share your frustration' without insults shows how primitive many Nigerian guys are.

1. Did you attend a real university in Nigeria? When I say real, I mean government owned universities , not the upgraded "boarding schools" run by private and religious bodies! When you see the girls on campus, how many of them that you know, can actually boast of their parents been responsible for their extravagant lifestyle?

I don't attend university in Nigeria. I know many girls who are in various universities in Nigeria. Their parents take care of them yet many of them still work hard and save because they want to further their eductaion abroad. I don't make friends with prostitutes.

2. Do you have a brother? If the answer is yes, ask him gently to tell you his "financial experience" with girls! Tell him to tell you what he knows about the current demand of girls from his friends! For your information , men are the greatest gossips on earth!

Yes, I have brothers. One of my elder brothers got married last summer to a Nigerian woman. Beautiful and intelligent. I love her. Another will be getting married this summer to a non-Nigerian woman. I love her too. My brothers don't move with ill bred people(both males and females) so they have never experienced any of these so called demands. Neither have their friends.

3. Can you tell us truthfully what you bought for your bf during the last Valentine day, in comparison to what you got! From personal experience and swapped stories from most guys, even if you take a typical Nigerian girl for shopping in Dubai as a valentine day gift , wallahi, she will still buy you a boxer shorts and singlets! Guys, na lie I dey talk?

What I bought for my boyfriend is none of your business. What I got? The fact that he doesn't have the mentality of the 'typical' Nigerian guy is more than enough for me. A guy who can afford to take a girl to Dubai for Valentine's day (though we all know most Nigerian guys can't afford this) will not date a girl that'll give him singlet and boxers. This is a fact.

4. So taking many factors into consideration , don't blame most guys for sharing their experiences. It's not women bashing but a simple explanation of their view about the highly monetised senses of most girls nowadays. They want to dress like Tonto Dike, live like Diezanne Madueke, have powerful friends like Okonjo Iweala, throw fabulous parties like Mrs Shagaya, and be on the cover page of magazines like Mrs Alakija, but they are not ready to bend their back to pay the price, exercise patience and enjoy the fruit of their sweat! So sad, but infinitely true!

Story
Stop moving with prostitutes and ill-bred girls.
But then, you're what you attract.
We all know what the 'typical' Nigerian guy is like: dirty with intense body odour, primitive, animalistic, and abusive in every way possible.
As I said, you're what you attract.

Cherlene:


IJN, amen. Thank you too!

Cherlene

What business do u have with naija men??
And why are u so concerned about finding out y they love foreign ladies

Or do u want a nigerian to marry u??

liquidmetall:









What business do u have with naija men??
And why are u so concerned about finding out y they love foreign ladies

Or do u want a nigerian to marry u??

nigeria is the topic on the lips of people who get to know how cool we are ,every foreigner hu gets to know about nairaland falls in love with everytin naija ,the languages and food ,so intrest in naija men is not out of place cos we coolest on earth

teasel:

Sharing frustration? Lol! The fact that most of you can't 'share your frustration' without insults shows how primitive many Nigerian guys are.


I don't attend university in Nigeria. I know many girls who are in various universities in Nigeria. Their parents take care of them yet many of them still work hard and save because they want to further their eductaion abroad. I don't make friends with prostitutes.


Yes, I have brothers. One of my elder brothers got married last summer to a Nigerian woman. Beautiful and intelligent. I love her. Another will be getting married this summer to a non-Nigerian woman. I love her too. My brothers don't move with ill bred people(both males and females) so they have never experienced any of these so called demands. Neither have their friends.


What I bought for my boyfriend is none of your business. What I got? The fact that he doesn't have the mentality of the 'typical' Nigerian guy is more than enough for me. A guy who can afford to take a girl to Dubai for Valentine's day (though we all know most Nigerian guys can't afford this) will not date a girl that'll give him singlet and boxers. This is a fact.


Story
Stop moving with prostitutes and ill-bred girls.
But then, you're what you attract.
We all know what the 'typical' Nigerian guy is like: dirty with intense body odour, primitive, animalistic, and abusive in every way possible.
As I said, you're what you attract.

I can't help but laugh at your piece!
It is a classic example of the reason why Nigerians are asked to write TOEFL exam, though we are native speakers of the English language. Captain Blood will always say this maxim- " reading is not comprehension! In your haste , did you notice the inverted commas sandwiching several words?
1. I was RIGHT! You don't understand the reality of the pressure on the modern day Nigerian girls, and it's simple. You don't school in Nigeria! Can you tell me just one job that an undergraduate lady will do in Nigeria that will enable her to save up to 2.1 million naira after four years on campus? That is the minimum that is expected from her if she is going to school abroad in the Schengen zone because of tuition free schools. Let's not talk about the UK , US or Canada! Talking of prostitutes, I will never discriminate or insult anyone for his or her choice of life! A lady sleeps with men, goes for regular medical checkup and is paid for her "job", and another lady sleeps with her boyfriend and have several one night stands and flings in the name of love and sexual attraction. The poser is this- can you tell me the difference between them, or the smarter of the two?
2. Let me give you a simple advice when it comes to men. You can not tell the depth of the heart of a man , except he is on his deathbed! You say you know your brothers but I tell you that you are wrong! It is easier for a man to discuss his past relationships with his ex than to tell his sister about it! You can take it to the bank! That was the reason why I said you should ask "gently". Have you ever attended a night club with any of your brothers' friends? Can you swear on your life that your brothers have never been to a strippers joint? Don't ever in your life, believe that you know the full history of a man, until he is dead! You will be shocked by the tales that e will hear about him! Boys will always be boys !
3. You are not a guy. So you don't know where the shoe hurts! It was a rhetorical question to the guys and I bet you that the answer is unanimous and the vsilence is so loud and deafening !
4. As for prostitutes,it is the oldest profession worldwide! Have you ever wondered why in countries with the world's Highest GDP, there are prostitutes? HaVe you ever been to Amsterdam ? You will be shocked! I don't pontificate or insult people about their choice because I don't know the journey that brought them to that point!
As for me, I am with a lovely lady who will make Juliet green with envy, and I am contented with her! You might think that you know it all, but I assure you that you are far from the daily realities of life here in Nigeria! As for ill breeding, I know the son of a billionaire convicted of armed robbery, and his father died from the shock! You think been able to speak Queen's English and been political correct, is a sign of a well bred lady? When you are challenged by the vissitude of life, and it seems like the weight of the world is on your shoulders , tempted on the crossroad of life changing decisions, then, you will understand the meaning of the word, prostitute and an ill bred girl!

teasel:

Sharing frustration? Lol! The fact that most of you can't 'share your frustration' without insults shows how primitive many Nigerian guys are.


I don't attend university in Nigeria. I know many girls who are in various universities in Nigeria. Their parents take care of them yet many of them still work hard and save because they want to further their eductaion abroad. I don't make friends with prostitutes.


Yes, I have brothers. One of my elder brothers got married last summer to a Nigerian woman. Beautiful and intelligent. I love her. Another will be getting married this summer to a non-Nigerian woman. I love her too. My brothers don't move with ill bred people(both males and females) so they have never experienced any of these so called demands. Neither have their friends.


What I bought for my boyfriend is none of your business. What I got? The fact that he doesn't have the mentality of the 'typical' Nigerian guy is more than enough for me. A guy who can afford to take a girl to Dubai for Valentine's day (though we all know most Nigerian guys can't afford this) will not date a girl that'll give him singlet and boxers. This is a fact.


Story
Stop moving with prostitutes and ill-bred girls.
But then, you're what you attract.
We all know what the 'typical' Nigerian guy is like: dirty with intense body odour, primitive, animalistic, and abusive in every way possible.
As I said, you're what you attract.

I can't help but laugh at your piece!
It is a classic example of the reason why Nigerians are asked to write TOEFL exam, though we are native speakers of the English language. Captain Blood will always say this maxim- " reading is not comprehension! In your haste , did you notice the inverted commas sandwiching several words?
1. I was RIGHT! You don't understand the reality of the pressure on the modern day Nigerian girls, and it's simple. You don't school in Nigeria! Can you tell me just one job that an undergraduate lady will do in Nigeria that will enable her to save up to 2.1 million naira after four years on campus? That is the minimum that is expected from her if she is going to school abroad in the Schengen zone because of tuition free schools. Let's not talk about the UK , US or Canada! Talking of prostitutes, I will never discriminate or insult anyone for his or her choice of life! A lady sleeps with men, goes for regular medical checkup and is paid for her "job", and another lady sleeps with her boyfriend and have several one night stands and flings in the name of love and sexual attraction. The poser is this- can you tell me the difference between them, or the smarter of the two?
2. Let me give you a simple advice when it comes to men. You can not tell the depth of the heart of a man , except he is on his deathbed! You say you know your brothers but I tell you that you are wrong! It is easier for a man to discuss his past relationships with his ex than to tell his sister about it! You can take it to the bank! That was the reason why I said you should ask "gently". Have you ever attended a night club with any of your brothers' friends? Can you swear on your life that your brothers have never been to a strippers joint? Don't ever in your life, believe that you know the full history of a man, until he is dead! You will be shocked by the tales that e will hear about him! Boys will always be boys !
3. You are not a guy. So you don't know where the shoe hurts! It was a rhetorical question to the guys and I bet you that the answer is unanimous and the vsilence is so loud and deafening !
4. As for prostitutes,it is the oldest profession worldwide! Have you ever wondered why in countries with the world's Highest GDP, there are prostitutes? HaVe you ever been to Amsterdam ? You will be shocked! I don't pontificate or insult people about their choice because I don't know the journey that brought them to that point!
As for me, I am with a lovely lady who will make Juliet green with envy, and I am contented with her! You might think that you know it all, but I assure you that you are far from the daily realities of life here in Nigeria! As for ill breeding, I know the son of a billionaire convicted of armed robbery, and his father died from the shock! You think been able to speak Queen's English and been political correct, is a sign of a well bred lady? When you are challenged by the vissitude of life, and it seems like the weight of the world is on your shoulders , tempted on the crossroad of life changing decisions, then, you will understand the meaning of the word, prostitute and an ill bred girl! Auf wiedersehen!