Chai,i feel ur pain man,dat gul u were hoping could be at least ur platonic gal fwend jst ended up cohabiting with a guy dat didnt even woo her despite u taking her out on countles occasion,u evn bought a galaxy for her yet she kept rejecting u,nw she bleeps dis guy free of charge and even pays most of his bills with d cash she got 4rm u wen u were avishing dat dough on her jst to make ha say yes to u..try get ova it bro,ehmm gimme ur contact,i can hook u up wit one fine babe 4rm owerri free of charge

Joavid:
Op is so funny.

Funny?


It won't be funny when the guy bleeping you free of charge dumps you after finishing all the goodies that was meant for your husband.


Abi, u think men are daft? Siddon there....I go just advise u to go book space for Mountain of Fire.

did any of them ask you to marry them.

abeg park well joor.


its not your business. thirsty kkonji filled nigga.

Lol,
Una Dey Abuse Sha.
Even With The Epistle, Who Wan Do Am Go Do Am,
If U Wana Marry A Tear Rubber Wife, Remain One.
Lol.

Hypocrites everywhere.

Rapmoney:
It is a disgraceful act sister. I wonder how the would-be husband would feel when he finds out that amongst the guests, there's a dude that bleeped his wife for years and he is asked to pay dowry on her!

I am trying to imagine same for a guy, whose wife finds out among the guests, there's a girl he has bleeped for years!

Only miserable people like the OP are so concerned with the way other people choose to live their lives.

The trouble with the world is that the stup1d are cocksure and the intelligent are full of doubt-Bertrand Russell

This is a very wonderful writeup, though am very much guilty because i bleep her almost everyday in school but i have made up my mind to marry her anyway, so i don't feel that much guilty.

Takim107:
As if he doesn't cohabit, I pray you marry the last person you cohabited with. If you cannot say amen come kiss my fine black ass and shut the F up

u re a very spoilt and nastry girl, u dont have any home training at all, sorry for the unfortunate man that will end up with disaster woman like, his home is sorry...

What are you really saying? I have been trying to sift through your arguments and I must confess they are pretty shallow! What has education got to do with morality? Are you aware that there is something known as moral education? Education is a process of acquiring knowledge, skills, tools and techniques in any field of endeavour!

I am not necessarily supporting the OP, but I think your argument is lame! Western moral leakages are linked more to a selective de-linking from religious believes occasioned by their moral compass!!


This moral compass is affected by their environmental influences and what societal norms dictate. No matter how educated you are in Nigeria, why not try grab a fellow girl and start kissing her in front of Federal Palace Hotel or some public place Our current moral norms (cause it is dynamic) currently frowns at several things acceptable abroad because of African ideals etc. So don't come in here and start forming educated! You can say you are more broad minded and have watered down views on morality (compared to the Nigerian index) but don't come here to use Western views to label people!!!


To cap it, let me educate you know: there is a tendency to lose physical and emotional value when you co-habit for extended periods! The abortions, the emotional lacerations and altering of world view!! If you have had abortions that were life-threatening or led to loss of internal organs, my dear, you've lost value!!! I remember a colleague at work that had a missed-abortion during co-habitation and flooded the office toilet with blood! She had to take time-off from work and I heard she bled for over a month! Today, she is married to another guy, and they are having problems having a baby! Is she of the same value as she was before the co-habitation? Your guess is as good as mine!!

aflyingbird:
I don't agree with cohabitation of any sort and have never done it nor will I ever do it. But to say a person loses their value because of it, really? If that's the extent if your education then I pity you. Some idi000ts here, even the females, are agreeing with the op. Too much ignorance and mediocre education is ruining Nigeria!

swaggzo:


YOU SHOULDN'T EVEN BE POSTING SUCH A THING AT THIS STAGE OF YOUR LIFE.

POINT ME ONE OF YOUR FAM MEMBER OR SIBLING WHO'S A SAINT. . AND I POINT OUT 50 ANIMALS THAT ARE.


SOME LADIES COHABIT WITH THEIR GUY UNTIL THEY EVEN GET MARRIED.

ITS THEIR BUSINESS. NOBODY SHOULD BE BOTHERED WHERE ITS TAKING THEM TO AS LONG AS THEY ARE ADULTS AND ARE OLD ENOUGH TO DECIDE WHAT THEY WANT WITH THEIR LIVES!

Except that it mostly fails them. And they end up where they don't want. In a world where people love and care about each other it's only fair to make them understand where they are getting it wrong so the rule of "its their business" doesn't apply in such cases. I M SURE AS HELL YOU CAN'T ADVICE YOUR DAUGHTER IN THIS MANNER, why make the impression

Epe Ijebu

Blebleswag:
Same they wil do to ur sisters, cos she's bn jumpin 4rm peter2james, fryingpan2pot etc.
Or if u dnt hav sisters, then to ur girl child/children

Edusouls:
u re a very spoilt and nastry girl, u dont have any home training at all, sorry for the unfortunate man that will end up with disaster woman like, his home is sorry...

She is not spoilt, she is just telling u the gospel truth

Ironi:


Truth is, chances are as we speak somebody is bleeping your future wife unless you marry a virgin. I know it can be painful to look at it that way and to know that some dude is shagging your future wife. Even more painful if he has a big dick, hehehehehe.

Before I married I held the same view just like you and vowed to marry a virgin because I couldn't bring myself to accept that my wife had been facked by other men.

But what are the chances that I was going to get a virgin to marry? Not very high.

Stopped worrying myself and also went out there and bleeped other people's future wife too. A few virgins were on the list.

With my wife I just don't even go there and don't try to pry into her past. Lucky to get a decent woman though.

You should get a virgin as a wife if it bothers you that much, but they don't come that way anymore after certain age so my advise is, start early and catch them young and unspoiled as wives otherwise forget it.

On the other hand if it would make you feel any better, go out there and bleep other people's future wives too as they are bleeping yours by now.

I think you got it wrong! Nobody is talking about virgins, we are talking about cohabiting which depicts our girls as people with little or no value!

Pls what is " bleeping".. Is it another from mama peace?

wallflower:
So it's better for them to have sex with 10 different men before marriage than just one? abegi go and sit down, leave people to live their lives as they see fit.
Is your life so boring and devoid of meaning that you would try to live other peoples own?.

and when u give birth to your daughter may u give her the free hand and freedom to live like a LovePeddler,claim it by saying amen..monkey..

takoi:
There is no doubt that you are sex starved and that no girl will ever agree to visit talk less of cohabiting with you.
Rubbish!!!!

Its like u r guilty of cohabiting wt girl thats why u feel ds post offensive & ur fellow brothers in d crime r busy hitting "like 2 ur angry comment.

takoi:
There is no doubt that you are sex starved and that no girl will ever agree to visit talk less of cohabiting with you.
Rubbish!!!!

dnt insult him for talking d truth

Which of my posts did you read? You might want to reread them again because you didn't comprehend a damn thing. I said I am against cohabitation but I don't believe the value of those who are not or those who practice it decreases simply because they do. That is my argument. Get it? Mor0n, you're going off about shiiit that has nothing to do with what I said and I'm the one forming educated? Get outta here!

ideykwum:
What are you really saying? I have been trying to sift through your arguments and I must confess they are pretty shallow! What has education got to do with morality? Are you aware that there is something known as moral education? Education is a process of acquiring knowledge, skills, tools and techniques in any field of endeavour!

I am not necessarily supporting the OP, but I think your argument is lame! Western moral leakages are linked more to a selective de-linking from religious believes occasioned by their moral compass!!


This moral compass is affected by their environmental influences and what societal norms dictate. No matter how educated you are in Nigeria, why not try grab a fellow girl and start kissing her in front of Federal Palace Hotel or some public place Our current moral norms (cause it is dynamic) currently frowns at several things acceptable abroad because of African ideals etc. So don't come in here and start forming educated! You can say you are more broad minded and have watered down views on morality (compared to the Nigerian index) but don't come here to use Western views to label people!!!

Blebleswag:
Same they wil do to ur sisters, cos she's bn jumpin 4rm peter2james, fryingpan2pot etc.
Or if u dnt hav sisters, then to ur girl child/children

mumu

takoi:
There is no doubt that you are sex starved and that no girl will ever agree to visit talk less of cohabiting with you.
Rubbish!!!!

It's a pity uv lost ur morals,pls were do u come frm and where does such culture exist

Rapmoney:
By their fruits...

don't mind them,the kind of prostitu.tion on the campus is worst than the one on the streets of nigeria,most of these girls know nigeria more than policemen and women,travelling frm lagos to kano,benue to abj,enugu to minna,lagos to sokoto etc,just to go and sell pornyy.
It is very pathetic

Edusouls:
and when u give birth to your daughter may u give her the free hand and freedom to live like a LovePeddler,claim it by saying amen..monkey..

Why are you so bitter my guy? What has gone so wrong with your life that the only way you can find fulfillment is by hate? Please reevaluate yourself and see a psychologist.

streetzdreamz:
Sometimes back a guy opened a thread here bout ladies and their fish brains,the guy was obviously right,@rapmoney thumbs up man!! Ladies here been screaming bloody murder,and d guys guilty of such acts r doing dsame!heck!!I hate dis co-inhabiting gibberish of a thing all in d name of love,at the end of d four-6yrs relationship of steady bleeping their sorry ass gets dumped,or dey get pregnant,later they'l come up here ranting all guys are dsame,most of em have even lost count of d nomba of guys dey'v bleeped,and an unfortunate guy will later see a flower "howbeit withered" in a family,come wit his folks,prostrates,bring goods,pay d bride price and later walk down d aisle,tar!!pple see me as a strange guy for seeing most ladies as disgusting beings,they really are disgusting!!

Thanks! I am glad people like you are still on this forum

pretty050:
Why should the woman take all the blame. They are both living a sin. "Wall mongers and adulterous (fornicators in this case)God will judge "

If there was to be something called 'bride groom' price, then thatz when they cud equally be judged...but u sef check am nw,hw person go pay 4 second hand pus5y wey anoda nigger phuckkk steady for 5 years

Rapmoney:
I often wonder where Nigerian youths copied this nonsense from because even students in universities in America, Asia and Europe do not engage in this trashy act as we do over here!!! Yet, we still call them agents of immorality?

I just feel, deep within my heart, that girls who cohabit or cohabited in the university do not desrve any dime as bride price paid on them! They should just follow their would-be husband to his house, free of charge and continue where they stopped in school!

A girl cohabits with a guy for 4 to 5 years in school; this means the dude would bleep her through out those years (free of charge o!), she would perform wifely duties for him...cooking, cleaning, washing, providing emotional wifely support, etc (free of charge too o!). Now, what's still left in such a body? If she can bleep a dude for years without any dime paid on her, coupled with the numerous wifely duties, then what's the need of paying a dime on her as diary or bride price? If that bloke that bleeped her for years didn't pay a dime on her where families would meet, eat and drink and pray, why should I pay a dime on her head? Worse of it is that this dude enjoyed all what he enjoyed free of charge! Now, why should I be requested to pay for same? Common, that's not fair! What's sauce for the goose is also sauce for the gander!!!

From Delsu to Lasu, from Uniben to OOU, from Uniport to Unical, from UniAbuja to Esut...it is the same story! Any girl who cohabits with a dude in school who has never paid a dime on her has lost her feminine value! She doesn't deserve anything paid on her!!!

my menh, you're damn on point. Eksu is there joint. In ekiti state uni..... Most of the girls don't even have hustles. They call it #coupleslive.

kelechi50:
It's a pity uv lost ur morals,pls were do u come frm and where does such culture exist

these are the calibre of guys that patronised these campus asshawo,dnt gve hm your attentiong

Dexema:

Sex dosent diminish a womans value buh dat dosent mean she should Bleep away her life like a slut,the main problem I have with cohabiting is the “wifely duties“,lack of privacy,and even the emotional attachment years after they breakup (which most eventually do). Plus here in Africa therz a lot tied to an unmarried female living totally with a man,(even outside university settings) not to talk of countless abortions dt might hav come along the way. I believe a woman is special and should have some level of self esteem + she should be able to go to reasonable lengths to keep it,for me as a Guy I have little regard for ladies who do such.
JMO

as I have little regard for men who do such too.

Btw you just contradicted yourself. You said it doesn't diminish a woman's value yet went ahead to give me all the reasons why it diminishes her value.

remirez07:
my menh, you're damn on point. Eksu is there joint. In ekiti state uni..... Most of the girls don't even have hustles. They call it #coupleslive.

In Delsu, it is in vogue like never before

shadowgwalker:
true talk @ op...
I think they got no value, most of them finally rush into marriage coded and finally crash it down.

kaî!! imagine when you get kids and one man that fyiok the Mother in the past school days comes out boastfully (maybe to revenge broken heart) and starts giving the child gist on how she fyioks in her school days... ewww!!!

are u a virgin and if married did u enter ur husbands house a virgin and without kissing other guys