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Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Nobody: 8:14pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
Blebleswag: You really need to think about what the op said 1 Like |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by PLEXPLEX(m): 8:15pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
Blebleswag: Do u understand the post at all or u re guilty of same? |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by 50calibre(m): 8:16pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
Well as much as I would have loved to disagree with the OP, I think he's got some valid points that can't just be ignored. Since Nigerian women are traded like livestock, it is only fair that a woman is delivered to you in pristine condition. I'm not too familiar with the co-habitation thing, I didn't experience it, neither does it sound like something I could have agreed to. I think in most cases, co-habitation is a mutual arrangement between two parties (boy & girl) each bringing something to the table. I can understand the struggles of a student in a country like Nigeria where most are forced to fend for themselves in different ways. Sadly, after years of wear & tear, one can't expect an astute businessman like me to shell out a fortune on some high mileage puss*y. 1 Like |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by streetzdreamz(m): 8:16pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
Rapmoney:u wc bro. 1 Like |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Misogynist2014(m): 8:17pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
pretty050:I still don't understand the involvement of men in this. Do women pay groom price? 1 Like |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by ideykwum: 8:17pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
That you are doing it doesn't make it right! No matter the excuse!! Why should you be paying for accommodation for a lady you aren't married to? Is that what your upbringing taught you? I'd flog my younger bro (yes, I'm older than you!) if I hear he did such!! You are not responsible for her until you marry her, and despite your high hopes, the odds of marrying that girl are pretty slim! You can quote me on that!!! It's all water down the drain! You can assist a woman, contribute occasionally, but never accept total financial obligation except you are married, she is a relative or your ward! Grow some sense! martyns303: 1 Like |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Anaskie(m): 8:18pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
Rapmoney:I wish I had a million likes to give you. Very well said bro. 4 Likes |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Nobody: 8:18pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
U r just a mor0n..did u bother to reflect on wat d op said?I hope and pray ur future wife is cohabiting nw..and I hope u ll hear about that after saying ' I DO' esonuu: |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Toktee(m): 8:21pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
PLEXPLEX:hahahaha,what do you expect,she maybe into it or she just flashed back. 1 Like |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Edusouls(m): 8:22pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
see all this trash you people are saying here let me tell you people, any girl that was sent to school to study and her parents pays fees for that,she goes to cohabit with a guy in the campus throught out the years, playing the role of a complete wife, and after that they part ways,as usual, that girl IS A DISGRACE TO WOMANHOOD WORLDWIDE, a shame to her parents, a total bad egg to the upcoming ones, and a complete LovePeddler to men.. SHE IS WORSE THAN A PROSTITIUTE.because she is shameless,valueless,myopic and very foolish....simple and short.. 1 Like |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by raficki87(m): 8:22pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
SeverusSnape:but u fccck her,she cooks for u, she's there for you emotionally,sometimes washes for u,sucks ur dckk. My question is this does she lose her value when u don't marry her(shtt happens) and what is ur point exactly (if ur non cohabiting gf does the above) of u supporting the op 2 Likes |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Nobody: 8:23pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
swaggzo: Stop saying that! Some people do it out of ignorance or naivety. What is wrong is wrong. Somebody may take correction from this thread and amend her/his ways. People should be bothered cos some of these young girls end up getting pregnant and undergoing abortions severally, with it's attending complications. Let me ask you, would you be proud if your sister or daughter is cohabiting with a man? 1 Like |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Donmichaelz(m): 8:23pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
quivah:just because u were a bit*tch and screw men Any how doesn't mean all girls are like u,u said I might marry a w*hore, toy no 1 ,is Dat wat those guys called u or make u feel, Co's d word w*hore is an understatment to wat I call people like u,,,,u used ur 4 or 5 years in school screwing men and now u pouring ur frustrating life on anoda,, d next time u wanna do these, check d username, Co's Donmichaelz is allegic to bullshit, in ur case even jesus blood cant wash ur sh*it ,,,here is an advice ,quote me again and insult me,and u will know what hell is , good day and wish u a Happy life screwing ur future ![]() ![]() |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by PLEXPLEX(m): 8:23pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
takoi: Y r u talking about pride price? The important issue here to me is y should any lady behave like that & still want to get married at the end of the day? For me, such a lady should not even get a husband |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by ideykwum: 8:23pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
If you're spending more than 30,000 on feeding in a month as students, then someone is being extravagant! Maybe she is cooking to impress you! Cut your cloth according to your cloth, not your size! martyns303: |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by femummy(f): 8:23pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
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Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Nobody: 8:24pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
takoi: This is one of the most emotional and diversionary post I've read here in a very long time! |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by prettyJoy22(f): 8:24pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
takoi:But he's saying the truth,why you dey vex nah ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Mrbigman1(m): 8:25pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
Blebleswag: Justification of okpoism Who knows how long dey ve fvcked u? Ur own don enter extra year plus postgraduate studies. Get a life sisi |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by lipstick2(f): 8:25pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
Rapmoney: I don't think any school have a case of cohabitation like u have in ekpoma,at a point it became a trend that starts from ur jambite/jambito day till graduation. The girl just moves into the boys house ,na so,wife duty starts They bath togeda Eat Party Night reading Lectures togeda etc. We had a case of this dude and his babe,them love so tay,them come dey win best couple everywhere. The boy can beat the girl but babe no send,we go dey psyche the girl to leave,she no wan go,guy beat am broke her teeth,she still dey. In the guys 400 level anoda babe show for area,na so guy leave this former babe begin follow this new one,even when pple go tell say ur guy is cheating,she no believe,until guy graduate a year after we hear say im marry the new girl. The Chic faint na. Such relationship dey end for school gate.Worse b saychics no dey learn.They even cohabit inside private hostels like 1004 etc. No nid for bride price true true.If u can live those number of years being serviced for free,u can as well follow any man u fancy home without a kobo paid on u. This is definitely not a western orientation. People shd call a spade a spade,its not proper,just like having 'Baby mama'is not proper. 1 Like |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Misterdhee1(m): 8:25pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
wallflower:U r Enormously wrong. The problem in this world is that many of us see bad things as normalcy. We see others as being others, when truly the lifestyle of others one way or the other av a direct impact on everyone of us.. No one is holy though, but what is wrong will ever remain wrong. Let's us not try nd make them look monumentous!! |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Nobody: 8:25pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
I'd rather not judge, some of them supposed "sinners" would still get open check for bride price. Nature is that confusing. Not that what they do is benign, it isn't. But wouldn't you rather focus on taming your own moral weaknesses as a man, I believe you have some. Albeit, u didn't name the punishment for the male co-habitants ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Rapmoney(m): 8:26pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
Anaskie:Thanks man! |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Eureka123(f): 8:26pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
Edusouls: SMH 2 Likes |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by fareedah86: 8:29pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
So what happens to the guy? The mistake most guys make is they believe or rather think because they are men,they won't suffer the consequences of their actions. You lie. God cannot be mocked. Why do u think men are losing their place in the home as the head nowadays? God dsnt leave one and judge the other. They would both suffer the consequences. I have a life example. Note: grace is available and anyone no matter how deep you have gotten into sin, God's love is always there. Sme prostitutes had the best society weddings and sme virgins wernt even celebrated. It's all abt grace. If we dnt fall,there wld be no need for mercy and grace from God. Dnt judge,life exceeds all that and bfre God blesses one he dsnt look @ all those things. Sure your sis and all d unmarried females who passed through higher institution are virgins? Understand what life is before u sitdown to post some things. 5 Likes |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Eureka123(f): 8:30pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
slap1: Remained blessed. ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by ideykwum: 8:30pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
If you can't comprehend my point, then you are truly dense! I didn't say you supported cohabitation! I dealt with your crap about education and loss of values associated with co-habitation, and tried to show you that your allusion is wrong!! Now, I would have liked to counter your calling me a slowpoke with and equitable reply, but I won't. I'm confident that in the quiet of the night, when we all take stock, you'd discover who the slowpoke is! aflyingbird: |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by PLEXPLEX(m): 8:32pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
swaggzo: RUBBISH TALK THAT LL LAND U INTO HELL. WHO TOLD U ITS UR BODY? |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by rumomonga(m): 8:33pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
martyns303: Free d nigglet, His monicker shud have been rottenbrain 2 Likes |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by ideykwum: 8:34pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
My dear, that's what I was trying to tell the "educated" Miss aflyingbird, and she showed her true education by abusing me! Yes, it has no meter, but the wear and tear does show...in the long run! classicB: |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Sunbellar: 8:35pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
takoi:Guilty conscience! Deal with it! |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by fareedah86: 8:35pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
PLEXPLEX: Wonder what you would have done if you were god... 2 Likes |
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