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His Wife Always Ran away when ever they Exchange words (For Married people) by obiksam(m): 4:21pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
House please kindly advice. My friend married since 2011 and when ever they fight his wife will ran away she is from delta onitcha ugbo and my friend is from umuahia. He was doing well later lost his job and decided to relocate back home. According to him that she have ran out up too 6 times. That first was 2011 December when she was pregnant of there first child that she ran to her village and spent up 3 weeks,second time was 2012 June after her mother left for omogo she ran out with there just 3 months old baby to owerri but for the intervention of his dad she came back. The third was 2013 when she was 8 months pregnant of there second child that she ran to lagos leaving there duaghter with him and spent 1 full month and later came back. The fouth was on june 2014 that she forcefull left there 6 months baby boy and ran to Gods no where and later came back after 2 weeks. The fifth was on 31december and that she came back on 14th January. As of yesterday I visited him he just told me that her wife has ran away again leaving her children with him since 9th of April. When I asked he said that they exchanged words so he jokingly ask there 3yr duaghter to spike her wife which she did and her wife turned beat her and then slap him so he gave her back the following day she left. I also ask what was her parents reaction all this while he said nothing. that they even encourage and accommodate her when ever she ran to them that to the extend the father told him that he ask her to go to lagos and stay with her sister . From what he said that he have spent alot of money going to bring her back even have gone to native and churchs seeking for peacfull marrage no way,even his mother,sibling and family member now look down on him. Please what should he do he said that he will not go for her again. 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Always Ran away when ever they Exchange words (For Married people) by LewisO: 4:21pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
I will advise him to divorce that woman without hesitating, she's possessed by an evil spirit or maybe she's seeing something elsewhere, she's not a wife material. *In Passenger's voice* Let her go. 6 Likes |
Re: His Wife Always Ran away when ever they Exchange words (For Married people) by agarawu23(m): 4:23pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
op, ask your friend what's really the cause of every day fighting? the lady must be a runaway hero because I see no reason why she should leave home for so long. marriage is not for kids so if you are not matured enuf just remain single. op, ask your friend if she didn't marry the gal from a club and why will her parents accommodate her after running from her husband seems the family are not in support of the Union. and let's be sincere at times money solve a lot issue in matrimonial homes. tell your friend to get a job modify your topic ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: His Wife Always Ran away when ever they Exchange words (For Married people) by Skryptchex(m): 4:26pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
Reading 3 ![]() wait sef.... "his wife has been ran" ![]() ![]() 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Wife Always Ran away when ever they Exchange words (For Married people) by AfricanApple(f): 4:28pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
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Re: His Wife Always Ran away when ever they Exchange words (For Married people) by alexissanchez: 4:30pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
[size=14pt] runs and grabs my dictionary ![]() his wife has been ran?? ![]() 6 Likes |
Re: His Wife Always Ran away when ever they Exchange words (For Married people) by Nobody: 4:32pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
I will comment when I understand. 6 Likes
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Re: His Wife Always Ran away when ever they Exchange words (For Married people) by yomi007k(m): 4:32pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
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Re: His Wife Always Ran away when ever they Exchange words (For Married people) by djeezy(m): 4:34pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
For married people and you brought it to romance section. Firstly, I think this happened to you and not your friend. How come you know all those dates when she ran away? Secondly, she could be running away due to the cruel treated metted out to her in consequent thereof of the quarrel/fight. Was she battered constantly to the extent she is impelled to flight? Is the marriage leading to an irretrievable breakdown that she could no longer live in the same house with her husband? Well if your friend has not been cruel to her or in extreme cases battering her at home, the running away may be unlikely don't you think? Finally if your friend's story happens to be true and he has done everything to bring her back to no avail. It's a pretty good sign she is tired of the marriage and wants dissolution of marriage. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Wife Always Ran away when ever they Exchange words (For Married people) by AnyibestDede(m): 4:34pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
Ur friend is a woman wrapper, he should 4get abt dat woman before she get missing 4ever and her family ll come down heavily on him. 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Always Ran away when ever they Exchange words (For Married people) by ronald4lif(m): 4:35pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
It is because each time she comes back after leaving the home the man embrace her. He shouldn't let her back to his home until she's pleaded heavily and reassure him she won't leave again at any slightest issue, which is reconciliable. Her parent's should also be witnessed and they also have to assure him they won't encourage or accommodate her in their home anymore whenever she runs to them. Your friend should start learning how to adopt living a new life without her. He should hire a nanny to look after their little kids. He should never plead for her coming back, perhaps she thinks he can't live without her. The only problem here is the kids though. And I think he should also look inward to see if there's anything he's doing wrong that makes his wife leave all the time. 3 Likes |
Re: His Wife Always Ran away when ever they Exchange words (For Married people) by obiksam(m): 4:48pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
agarawu23:We are very close friend he meet her on his cousins wedding, her wife in person, is a close friend and class mate of his cousins wife in school of midwifry asaba that's how they meet. as for the accommodation stuff?they guy say him tire ooh. Thanks but what do u think the guy should do forget her? his with his two kids and his mother is helping out. but the guy said he is not going any where he was a harden headed guy those days in ImT but later repented and got a good job. now his saying that her wife have cost him his job |
Re: His Wife Always Ran away when ever they Exchange words (For Married people) by agarawu23(m): 4:51pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
obiksam:if I am in the guy shoe, I will let her go finally if she won't desist from her runaway habit. and ask him to do DNA test for his kids 2 Likes |
Re: His Wife Always Ran away when ever they Exchange words (For Married people) by Briee(f): 5:07pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
agarawu23: That lady may be going through a lot of emotional issues, according to the op the friend asked their 3yr old to spank her mum and the lady reacted and packed out of the house, right ? That shows that the husband doesn't respect her feelings.. Op tell your friend to stop what he's doing that is making her to stay away from him. 12 Likes |
Re: His Wife Always Ran away when ever they Exchange words (For Married people) by agarawu23(m): 5:09pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
Briee:but she have been in the act even before having babies 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Always Ran away when ever they Exchange words (For Married people) by Briee(f): 5:15pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
agarawu23: Can you imagine the guy telling her she's the cause of his downfall. some men blame their wives for no reason . Op stay away from this couples , you know too much about them and you are supporting the guy in your write up. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Wife Always Ran away when ever they Exchange words (For Married people) by Nobody: 5:21pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
obiksam: So your wife go run comot for house for about 6 months. She go come back. You go come carry her back abi? Abeg I won know the brand of weed you and your wife dey smoke 2 Likes |
Re: His Wife Always Ran away when ever they Exchange words (For Married people) by asadike(f): 5:50pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
3 things are involved here. 1st,she has a lover somewhere or 2, she is using that as a way to get back at him or 3. She is taking too much from d man and needs solace somewhere else. In view of this, I think u are both wrong and need to see a marriage counsellor if you can't talk things over. How can u ask your 3yr old to spank your wife? What are u teaching her? What does communication look like between u and your wife? You guys are not just married, your wife should be your best friend, playmate, lover, confidante and your sweetness. You guys should confide in each other. If she comes back, Pls get a church leader to talk to her or even a functional umuada. Pls, I know am not married yet but I don't believe in divorce,your kids deserve to be taken care of by both of u. Try and find out d root cause of your problem and settle amicably. I wish u d best. 3 Likes |
Re: His Wife Always Ran away when ever they Exchange words (For Married people) by Welrez(m): 6:24pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
All those grammar nazis who have nothing to say other than to tease the grammar of a man who is in need of advice, pls be polite for once. If you have nothing to say, pls keep mum and move to other threads. 5 Likes |
Re: His Wife Always Ran away when ever they Exchange words (For Married people) by demmy0325(m): 6:33pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
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Re: His Wife Always Ran away when ever they Exchange words (For Married people) by LewisO: 7:29pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
Welrez:Don't mind them. They think is easy to type that long epistle on phone without making mistakes, the point is what the message is all about. The guy's mistakes are very easy to know, he didn't observe it. 4 Likes |
Re: His Wife Always Ran away when ever they Exchange words (For Married people) by Briee(f): 7:51pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
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Re: His Wife Always Ran away when ever they Exchange words (For Married people) by LewisO: 8:24pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
Briee:Why will u say that? I knew u were the one when saw this moniker at the first place earlier when u first commented on this thread. |
Re: His Wife Always Ran away when ever they Exchange words (For Married people) by agarawu23(m): 8:25pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
obiksam:with these further explanations, tell your friend to let her go joooor 2 Likes |
Re: His Wife Always Ran away when ever they Exchange words (For Married people) by AnyibestDede(m): 8:33pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
I want to commend u 4 standing by ur friend. If ur friend loves himself and the kids, he should pls 4get abt d woman and move on. God dey! 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Always Ran away when ever they Exchange words (For Married people) by LewisO: 8:34pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
obiksam:Like i told u before that woman is possessed, i don't know if that woman has added something to his drink that still making him to keep such wH0re called a wife in his matrimonial home. That man needs to get back to his senses and plan to have a peaceful marriage life with a wife that suits him. Spiritually that woman is not a wife given by God to him, he should free her so that she won't infect the man with her possessed spirits. 2 Likes |
Re: His Wife Always Ran away when ever they Exchange words (For Married people) by KanwuliaJara: 8:38pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
Can't read this terribly-written narrative! Reason? NO PATIENCE! ![]() 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Always Ran away when ever they Exchange words (For Married people) by klark3: 9:56pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
Briee:Why are u supporting d woman? The op is not supporting d man, he's saying d truth. Leaving her home frequently on account of frivolous disagreement bespeaks she is seeing someone else. |
Re: His Wife Always Ran away when ever they Exchange words (For Married people) by Briee(f): 1:00am On Apr 13, 2015 |
obiksam:Wow! Jesus wept. Thanks for the further explanation, my elder brother's ex wife was behaving like this but he couldn't let go cos of their two kids,he left her and remarried after 2yrs. I'm sorry for my initial post. 2 Likes |
Re: His Wife Always Ran away when ever they Exchange words (For Married people) by ireneidiva(f): 1:25am On Apr 13, 2015 |
LewisO:Don't call someone's wife a LovePeddler. |
Re: His Wife Always Ran away when ever they Exchange words (For Married people) by LewisO: 1:29am On Apr 13, 2015 |
ireneidiva:She deserve to be called that, coz she behave like one. Her manner is irritating. 1 Like |
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