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Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by ebosse(m): 11:32pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
quivah: Are You living in Pluto or on another planet? Or U just find it hard to accept reality? Double standards, hypocrisy , racism, tribalism ; we dont need to accept them and give them room to grow but we must acknowledge the fact that they exist and find a way to live with them why searching for an appropriate solution. When a girl gets pregnant its doesn't reflect on the dude?? Or are U proposing he b chained to the girl for a period of 9months so he would equally be shamed in like/close manner as the girl.... Both be apprehended This is like saying a girl should be apprehended because she promised to go see a guy if he send her money for transportation but refused to after getting the cash... In fact it should be the other way around , ppl should be apprehended for being stuuupid!!!!! The ones you call foolish are actually proving to be smart.. Like the example I gave.. You and every1 call the dude all sort of names which can't render any sort of damage internally or externally Y the girl bear the burden of raising a child alone... Now tell me again who's the foolish one in the story Be Smart !!!!!"" 5 Likes |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Nobody: 11:33pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
takoi: I don't actually see this post as judgement. I see it as FACT. I don't mind being a girl but this is fact. Say No to FREE HOSTING! 1 Like |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by SeverusSnape(m): 11:33pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
frosbel:My brother, I'm not a Christian. I'm irreligious... |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Nobody: 11:34pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
pretty050: Well that's because it's the woman's decision to live with the guy. A guy wouldn't force you to live with him and squander his money,girls make those choices and are to blame. QED! 1 Like |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Nobody: 11:36pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
SeverusSnape: Lol. So in your irreligious mind , a man can jerk off in an addictive manner but be given a pass because it was not the real thing. I presume you were also consumed with lust while indulging in this destructive habit ?? Could you not have waited till marriage ? 1 Like |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Rapmoney(m): 11:37pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
frosbel:I don't think u know the meaning of a misogynist! The problem with most Nigerians is that they are always blind to the truth! All those stuffs you brought from the Bible are just nothing but irrelevant!!! We are talking about a social and cultural ill in the society and there you are, telling us stories. Sorry, u just missed the point! 1 Like |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by ebosse(m): 11:37pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
emmatok: That na because they no wan accept reality!!!... If I b girl Y I go allow one bobo shine my Congo anyhow come give me belle sef join , in the end come refuse to accept the pikin talkless of to marry me?.... When I know say na only curse the bobo go receive Y my life don scatter Kpatakpata |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by U90INDIVERSIT(m): 11:38pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
classicB:, In fact, a prize for ya.........pls contact me at victorugbor@yahoo.com or leave contact....preferably email |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Nobody: 11:38pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
Optimall: Freaking wow !! So the guy had no decision to make in the matter , she just decided to move in by force ? 1 Like |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Nobody: 11:39pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
ebosse: I wonder! 2 Likes |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Donmichaelz(m): 11:42pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
quivah:ask your mom where she was yesterday night, and ur oda sister, d fat ugly one, u have a poor sense of reasoning, u got Dat from ur dad I understand, but how could u be so stupid, ur mom wasnt dis stupid,..ur family is poo,ur future is poo all u people do is screw,bi*tch mother bi*tch daughters ,,go fu*ck a money u Shameless She goat ,from ur family tree down ,thunder fire una ,quote me again ,,,,,,Looser, and I will throw ur whole family in d lagoon, |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by SeverusSnape(m): 11:42pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
frosbel:Jerking off is normal, Okay?... Almost everyone Indulges in it, and mind you, I'm not addicted to it; Just once in a while. |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by sistar007(m): 11:42pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
Rapmoney: That's why married men go after young girls when dey discover the hidden secrets 1 Like |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Nobody: 11:42pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
frosbel: Frankly speaking it is more deteriorating to womanhood,so why should I care what the guy have to say as long as my safety is at stake. A guy wouldn't force you to live with him. And even if he does,you can still accept it or reject. live with someone who isn't married to me,in the name of saving up or losing big which? To sum it up,the ball still lies in the gals court! 4 Likes |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Nobody: 11:43pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
Rapmoney: Never said I support such behaviour ! It is obviously wrong.. And yes you are right , it is more socially and culturally acceptable for a man to mess around than a woman and indeed the brunt of the aftermath is always on the woman. My point is , a guy who slept around or lived with a girl or perhaps girls is as bad as the girl who did the same thing and has no fibre of moral authority or high ground to judge only the woman. Therefore they are both unfit for marriage , right ? Do you agree ? Waiting .... 1 Like |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Nobody: 11:45pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
Optimall: In other words the man is abdicated from all responsibility of cohabiting with or sleeping continuously with the girl /girls. |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by adellam16(f): 11:46pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
KevinDein:Amen |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Nobody: 11:46pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
SeverusSnape: I disagree . It' a filthy habit !! |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Nobody: 11:48pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
frosbel: As a female it's strictly a guys business what he chooses to do. As for me,I do what I can do to survive but risk my life? Hell No! |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by SeverusSnape(m): 11:50pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
frosbel:No, It's not. Find out... Make research |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Nobody: 11:57pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
Optimall: Many men have also risked their lives and are now dead , 6 feet below the ground because of HIV. In the UK many men are suffering or even committed suicide because they are rightly made to pay for any babies that are the result of pre-marital sex and trust me it is normally a substantial amount. And we have not even talked about hepatitis C , gonorrhoea or syphilis etc. Why should any sane women who has kept herself pure want to marry such a wreck ?? My point is that the OP's conclusion is not exclusive to women , it is also applicable to men, period. |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Nobody: 11:58pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
SeverusSnape: So jerking off or playing with your thing while thinking about a woman is a decent act that one can indulge in with no consequences ? |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Nobody: 11:58pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
quivah:they said I should ignore you a good advice from an intelligent Nairalander. |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Sike(m): 11:59pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
This is true. I support it! 1 Like |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Nobody: 12:00am On Apr 13, 2015 |
frosbel: Of course it includes men,that's why you as a man is very concerned about men. And I as a woman very concerned about women. Try and understand. I'm not saying it's good for men to do so same as women but since everyone has their own lives and ways of living,I'm strictly speaking of myself,once again try and understand. |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by SeverusSnape(m): 12:00am On Apr 13, 2015 |
frosbel:Yes Sir... |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Nobody: 12:01am On Apr 13, 2015 |
frosbel: It's indecent. It's bad xter |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Nobody: 12:01am On Apr 13, 2015 |
aflyingbird:Yoruba Girl!you nor dey tire ni?! |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Rapmoney(m): 12:01am On Apr 13, 2015 |
frosbel:I don't post topics randomly on NL except it is something someone else wrote that I want to share with others. If you go through my threads, you will see a thread I created in the Education section. The thread highlights the faults of young men cohabiting with girls! You will see it is a two-way thing Many folks in here think I am being critical of women but that's wrong. In as much as none of us is a saint, it doesn't mean we shouldn't point out a societal ill when we see one which is doing no good to our cultural system! 1 Like |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Nobody: 12:01am On Apr 13, 2015 |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by SeverusSnape(m): 12:03am On Apr 13, 2015 |
Optimall:Truths... |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Nobody: 12:03am On Apr 13, 2015 |
Optimall: Okay , perfect - I understand. Thank You. 1 Like 1 Share |
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