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Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Emmalot121(m): 12:04am On Apr 13, 2015 |
Kay17:Cry me a river. |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Barbie11(f): 12:05am On Apr 13, 2015 |
Uniben is jst d height....70% of uniben girls cohabit |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Nobody: 12:06am On Apr 13, 2015 |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Nobody: 12:08am On Apr 13, 2015 |
Rapmoney: Looks like we agree on most points. My argument is specifically on the conclusion you reached and it's bias against women. If a guy has kept Himself clean he has every right to refuse a girl as wife who has not kept herself clean. Conversely , if a guy has not kept himself clean but insists on finding a girl who has kept herself pure, he is a hypocrite par excellence and deserves what he gets. 8 Likes |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by SeverusSnape(m): 12:08am On Apr 13, 2015 |
Optimall:I give up! |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Nobody: 12:10am On Apr 13, 2015 |
frosbel: Seconded! 2 Likes |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Nobody: 12:11am On Apr 13, 2015 |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Nobody: 12:16am On Apr 13, 2015 |
Naah. I still live with my parents. Never cohabitated, not interested in doing such. U90INDIVERSIT: 1 Like |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Nobody: 12:17am On Apr 13, 2015 |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by lockupman(m): 12:36am On Apr 13, 2015 |
To me o, any girl that has been bleeped more than 5 times outside wedlock don't deserve any bride price. Rapmoney: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by sammied(m): 12:40am On Apr 13, 2015 |
As I read some people's comment here....especially ladies... I just weep for my generation....gone are the days wen people value their body....no wonder marriages this days are in plenty shambles compared to the years back. How many undergraduate ladies/guys will be proud to tell or show their parents that cohabiting is the kind of life they live?.... if as a single lady/guy you spend years living with different guys/ladies with high percentage of no marriage....why should the guy/lady you eventually marry respect you? is trust which is the bedrock of marriage magical? is this not one of the major reason for cheats in marriage? after all the years of constant practice with different guys/ladies.....you think one person will automatically satisfy you? won't you be consciously/unconsciously be comparing the present with the past in bed? Well...as long as the earth remains.....Seed time n harvest will never ceased. you reap wot you sow! As a side note: nobody should refers to my sisters oooo.....the ones I have never cohabited. Train up a child in the way he should go.....wen he's grown....he will never depart. Nothing beats good home training and personal moral values. to the ladies: LADIES RESPECT YOUR BODY! ABEG , THINK OF THE MAN YOU WILL EVENTUALLY MARRY! PITY HIM biko..... 6 Likes |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by lockupman(m): 12:47am On Apr 13, 2015 |
OP implies that such babes who cohabited with their guy and still got married to same, deserves a bride price. Same applies to the babe marrying such kind of a guy who has done same to another girl before (black pot marry black kettle); bride price is allowed. But such babe marrying an innocent guy doesn't deserve bride price. swaggzo: |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Nobody: 1:01am On Apr 13, 2015 |
SeverusSnape:why even get married in the first place? |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Nicklaus(m): 1:17am On Apr 13, 2015 |
swaggzo:WoW! You ll make an Excellent DaDdY of the century.. Too bad the innocent girl already has a DICK for a father. With what I saw hear, you are not going to play any good part in the poor girls life so WTF are you guiding 3 Likes |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by swaggzo(m): 1:20am On Apr 13, 2015 |
Nicklaus: YOU CANNOT EVEN SPELL. GO HOME. . YOU'RE DRUNK. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Nicklaus(m): 1:24am On Apr 13, 2015 |
swaggzo:lols I'm an abstainer. I made a mistake at hear InSTDF (here) big deal ? |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by swaggzo(m): 1:30am On Apr 13, 2015 |
Nicklaus: YOU CAN AS WELL ABSTAIN FROM QUOTING ME A NEXT TIME. 1 Like |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Phemzeal(f): 1:44am On Apr 13, 2015 |
Is this OP a learner?? 1 Like |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Nicklaus(m): 1:49am On Apr 13, 2015 |
swaggzo:just as u ve made ur own blunder "A" Post more of those $hit And u ll get more of mine I QUOTE ! 1 Like |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by CAMNEWTON4PRES: 2:02am On Apr 13, 2015 |
I agree Well said op |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Norenal(f): 3:30am On Apr 13, 2015 |
I have no Prob with your post cuz if most girls(or all) had made their ways along Christ n ethical values this would not be a topic. I agree dat cohabitation with a guy/gal dat z not Ur husband/wife z a SIN n not morally right. But pple will say we r judging others but d truth z dat DZ ain't judging but helping to return our lost values. If d society had frown @ dis act 4RM d onset it wud prolly had curb it. Yea a WOMAN looses Her value as a VIRTOUS woman when she let's herself bkum a plaything in a guys hands, But what can I say the Western Elites r telling US dat we r stupid n dumb 4 thinking so n its so painful dat so many persons r just foolishly n blindly following d ways d devil wants us to go. I WOULD RATHER remain DUMB TO UPHOLD THE TEACHINGS of the BIBLE(not by my powers tho but by HIS grace) than b WISE in d sight of this world. For d Wisdom of man z foolishness to d Almighty 5 Likes |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by nationwide1(m): 5:22am On Apr 13, 2015 |
swaggzo:My brother, the fact that everyone is behaving in a certain way or doing a particular thing doesn't make it right if the act is a wrong one. No matter the number of people doing a particular thing, a wrong act remains same. The sad fact is that most of those guys don't end up marrying them so another man takes the load. Op has a point. Don't crucify him if you're affected. You may say the boys lure the girls into it but the girls have the right to resist it. There's a saying which goes thus, 'when the animal runs a bad run, the hunter shoots a bad gun'. 1 Like |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by sacora(f): 5:26am On Apr 13, 2015 |
Rapmoney:I doubt it!!!! 1 Like |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by sacora(f): 5:28am On Apr 13, 2015 |
Blebleswag:guilt z eatin u up? |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by nonsosam4109: 5:28am On Apr 13, 2015 |
That is totally not acceptable... I won't be happy to hear that my own child is engaged in such... |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Nobody: 6:16am On Apr 13, 2015 |
Norenal: Lol..sounds like a Jehovah's witness. |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Nobody: 6:18am On Apr 13, 2015 |
nationwide1: Correct! |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Norenal(f): 6:32am On Apr 13, 2015 |
Optimall: Well U wrong. Any Prob with dat? |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by martinmiller: 6:36am On Apr 13, 2015 |
pretty050:Lol,,,you forget that the said dude might not get married to her afta varies f bleeping styles for year's.....anyway ladies can be funny with or without cohabitation |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by garriboy(m): 6:50am On Apr 13, 2015 |
Gracyel:First off, no one is comparing anyone to u. 2ndly u don't knw me dat well to say I don't see women beyond wats btw their legs. If u must know I have a very wonderful girlfriend whom I intend to propose to very soon and I have four sisters, hence I naturally value the "female folk". But u shld stop decieving urself in thinking dat men and women are d same wen it comes to dese tins. The number of men who won't date a girl becos she has had so many men in her life is much more than the number of girls who would say they won't date a man who has had so many women in his life. Dis is fact, but u can either ask ur fellow "female folks" or remain in ur self deceit. Good morning 1 Like |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Nobody: 6:52am On Apr 13, 2015 |
swaggzo:no we wont make any profit by minding our own business, why do u tink pastors preach 2 the masses when they have their own lives to worry about, motivation speakers talk and write books tellin people how to set their lives. The world will be a better place if friends wud 'stop minding their businesses' and talk friends engaging in such acts. Minding our own businesses make us selfish, not dat we shld always poke nose into every matter, bt sometimes in order not to promote such acts, its necessary 1 Like |
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Nobody: 6:53am On Apr 13, 2015 |
Norenal: I don't think there's,do you? I think you made a great point. |
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