The ugly truth still remains... The more a girl is bleeped by a guy she loses her value.... I and my gf attend different schools.... Each time she comes around I don't let her stay more than 3 days or even 2! Causes I wanna miss her when she's gone

Donmichaelz:
ask your mom where she was yesterday night, and ur oda sister, d fat ugly one, u have a poor sense of reasoning, u got Dat from ur dad I understand, but how could u be so stupid, ur mom wasnt dis stupid,..ur family is poo,ur future is poo all u people do is screw,bi*tch mother bi*tch daughters ,,go fu*ck a money u Shameless She goat ,from ur family tree down ,thunder fire una ,quote me again ,,,,,,Looser, and I will throw ur whole family in d lagoon,

lmao is this the hell you threatened me
Michael o !

now its my family lool... I'm not brought to insult people's parents..I understand family's love

. you sound bitter like someone denied of family love, so I don't blame you
you people know the useless worthless good for nothing mad son you would grow up to be..and throwing you to the dogs is the best Bet..who wants to be associated to a dumb a.s.s like you who wants to throw someone Into the lagoon via the internet... how st.upid does that even sound to you..
menh whomever sent you to school wasted the money! you are a waste product!


now waiting for you to throw my family into that lagoon, lool some people can be so st.upid sha

shadowgwalker:
they said I should ignore you
a good advice from an intelligent Nairalander.

loool
good for that bird of a feather hypocrite naira land.. just learn to shut the feck up if talks like this are going around..you are worse in the category..

quivah:

loool
good for that bird of a feather hypocrite naira land.. just learn to shut the feck up if talks like this are going around..you are worse in the category..

Calm your nerves ni..... Just chillax

Rapmoney:
I don't post topics randomly on NL except it is something someone else wrote that I want to share with others.

If you go through my threads, you will see a thread I created in the Education section. The thread highlights the faults of young men cohabiting with girls! You will see it is a two-way thing

Many folks in here think I am being critical of women but that's wrong. In as much as none of us is a saint, it doesn't mean we shouldn't point out a societal ill when we see one which is doing no good to our cultural system!

I am not sure you answered frosbel's question.

don't make your thread a gender bashing one

cohabiting is very bad in fact, it is more like see finish.

but to heap the blame on the female is so wrong. what of the male. can't he resist efforts not to allow his gf cohabit with him because more often than not, things will happen which one party might regret.

your thread reeks of serious bias and hypocrisy, no offense. going through it would be a total waste of time.

ps- despite all this bashing, many women still get married every other day. who marries them, men abi ghosts.

I am out. no time for toxic comments.

Rapmoney:
I often wonder where Nigerian youths copied this nonsense from because even students in universities in America, Asia and Europe do not engage in this trashy act as we do over here!!! Yet, we still call them agents of immorality?

I just feel, deep within my heart, that girls who cohabit or cohabited in the university do not desrve any dime as bride price paid on them! They should just follow their would-be husband to his house, free of charge and continue where they stopped in school!

A girl cohabits with a guy for 4 to 5 years in school; this means the dude would bleep her through out those years (free of charge o!), she would perform wifely duties for him...cooking, cleaning, washing, providing emotional wifely support, etc (free of charge too o!). Now, what's still left in such a body? If she can bleep a dude for years without any dime paid on her, coupled with the numerous wifely duties, then what's the need of paying a dime on her as diary or bride price? If that bloke that bleeped her for years didn't pay a dime on her where families would meet, eat and drink and pray, why should I pay a dime on her head? Worse of it is that this dude enjoyed all what he enjoyed free of charge! Now, why should I be requested to pay for same? Common, that's not fair! What's sauce for the goose is also sauce for the gander!!!

From Delsu to Lasu, from Uniben to OOU, from Uniport to Unical, from UniAbuja to Esut...it is the same story! Any girl who cohabits with a dude in school who has never paid a dime on her has lost her feminine value! She doesn't deserve anything paid on her!!!

.

Gbam!!!! True talk my brother I believe you. Hope you didn't try to and she refused? Then you get all pioused about this ish?

tomhank:


Calm your nerves ni..... Just chillax

you know i saw your post and I just shook my head. but you've given me the opportunity to talk by quoting me..so don't get heat up..just wanna make you see the picture...

your gf who comes to spend 3days, get intimate (if you are having s.ex)with you as many times as possible, now multiply by the number of days you've been dating.. probability she's dating some one else in school is there, now she stays close with that one ..and get intimate as many times as possible.. the probability that she wasn't a v when you met her is there... And you don't know the no of guys/times they've been intimate.. could you tell me the different between her and the ones the op is condemning? aint they all being used
is she any better?! if you eventually break up, she carries her left over to another guys who ramped her till she finally meet the unlucky dude who pay the bride price..while you also get the same category of valueless girl to marry(who knows this one might be among those the op is condemning).. and you pay the bride price

please what's the end point? you guys all get dem And pay the price..
but if you were logical enough , then you should point to the right path..that people are having se.x as many times as possible irrespective of cohabitation.. but guys here seem to think cohabitation is the evil, just get the se.x(no of time doesn't matter) and its cool..

I don't support cohabitation but Im wise enough to see that people are getting Intimate as many times as possible outside cohabitation..
and you know where you guys are seeing it wrong? according to op, only university cohabitations are wrong!.. lol those outside of university is no big deal..and the parties involved are saint..

lockupman:

To me o, any girl that has been bleeped more than 5 times outside wedlock don't deserve any bride price.

but a man who has slept with over 5 women deserves a virgin for a wife.

ladies, una don see am.

Teespice:


but a man who has slept with over 5 women deserves a virgin for a wife.

ladies, una don see am.

ask him to tell men how they will know the number of times their gfs have been banged..So they will know if she deserves the price or not...loool

funniest thing, he will pay the price of a woman who has been intimate more than 10 times without a blink

Soulprovider:
no we wont make any profit by minding our own business, why do u tink pastors preach 2 the masses when they have their own lives to worry about, motivation speakers talk and write books tellin people how to set their lives. The world will be a better place if friends wud 'stop minding their businesses' and talk friends engaging in such acts. Minding our own businesses make us selfish, not dat we shld always poke nose into every matter, bt sometimes in order not to promote such acts, its necessary

Thanks for your post. Same thing I have been trying to make them understand. When u point out a socio-cultural ill in the society, it becomes u not minding ur business! That's why Nigerians hardly learn!

Rapmoney:
...She doesn't deserve anything paid on her!!!

one word.... D0PE!!!

ideykwum:
So, because it's her body, we should turn our backs on societal ills and say nothing? Fine, let's let drug addicts do their thing, afterall it's their body!!!

you clearly closed your eyes when u got to the part i said so long they are not hurting anyone else, but then i cant be held responsible for what you decide not to comprehend.

Nwachiizu:


What more harm can such a person be doing... She is doing harm to the person she cohabits with, to her family at home, to her loved ones, to her husband to be... The list can be endless

how exactly is she harming them? when her future husband is exploring other women who will he be harming?

quivah:

you know i saw your post and I just shook my head. but you've given me the opportunity to talk by quoting me..so don't get heat up..just wanna make you see the picture...

your gf who comes to spend 3days, get intimate with you as many times as possible, now multiply by the number of days you've been dating.. probability shes dating some one else in school is there, now she stays close with that one ..and get intimate as many times as possible.. the probability that she wasn't a v when you met her is there... And you don't know the no of guys/times they've been intimate.. could you tell me the different between her and the ones the op is condemning? aint they all being used
is she any better?! if you eventually break up, she carries her left over to another guys who ramped her till she finally meet the unlucky dude who pay the bride price..while you also get the same category of valueless girl to marry(who knows this one might be among those the op is condemning).. and you pay the bride price

please what's the end point? you guys all get dem And pay the price..
but if you were logical enough , then you should point to the right path..that people are having se.x as many times as possible irrespective of cohabitation.. but guys here seem to think cohabitation is the evil, just get the se.x(no of time doesn't matter) and its cool..

I don't support cohabitation but Im wise enough to see that people are getting Intimate as many times as possible outside cohabitation..
and you know where you guys are seeing it wrong? according to op, only university cohabitations are wrong!.. lol those outside of university is no big deal..and the parties involved are saint..

(If you wont get angry for quoting you). You've made sane points,you're 100% correct,however, the more evil cohabition does is that the lady performs allllllll the functions of a wife. Its bad enough that we engage in pre marital intimacy,but salt is added to injury when she stoops low to perform the said functions without the right things done first. I hope I didn't overstep my bound!

What a people! I'm yet wondering why some people resorted to insulting the OP! His case is so on point.

Any lady that has done or is doing this despicable act of cohabiting with a guy while in the University doesn't deserve a dime on her head as bride price. ....

Quote me and receive the beating we gave APC last Saturday in Rivers state!

Moana:
how exactly is she harming them? when her future husband is exploring other women who will he be harming?

she's harming them by belittling herself. By done the right thing at the wrong time

Chaiii...you very right!...

Aystarz:


Awon omo irankiran!

Ah Bros e I didn't say that o

takoi:
There is no doubt that you are sex starved and that no girl will ever agree to visit talk less of cohabiting with you.
Rubbish!!!!

U must be in dat train. Someone is saying d truth, u are here condemning him. Tell what is wrong with his statement.

There we go again, we the guys/men are the major perpetrators of these abnormalities. We play on the emotions of these beautiful species (females), we instigate several random request such as cohabitation; most times, out of love, fondness and trust they do as we wish regardless of how obscene the request seem. Verily, 90% of these said cohabitations are instigated by guys/men, then afterwards we come here to condemn. Cohabitation is morally wrong but not illegal. Most females end up finding themselves in these situations because they think with their emotions rather than their heads. On the other hand, guys instigate it b'cos as such points, they think with their manhoods and not their heads.

Everyone, one way or the other contributes to everything going wrong. Cohabitation is immoral because it goes against certain ethics and norms but not only the ladies are to be condemned for the act, although I agree that they are worst done by it. Guys are greatly responsible, either by instigation or by agreeing upon it when as the head of a relationship he should be to able to coordinate his affairs responsibly, duly and fairly.

Please folks, do not judge anyone because he that sineth not, let him cast the first stone. These females are emotionally and mentality incapable of not falling into this cohabitation thingy, but if you and I as men, can prevent it, then it can redressed and we can help these beautiful species restore some of their lost pride.

Cheers

quivah:

ask him to tell men how they will know the number of times their gfs have been banged..So they will know if she deserves the price or not...loool

funniest thing, he will pay the price of a woman who has been intimate more than 10 times without a blink

don't mind them.

hypocritical lots.

Blebleswag:
Same they wil do to ur sisters, cos she's bn jumpin 4rm peter2james, fryingpan2pot etc.
Or if u dnt hav sisters, then to ur girl child/children

look at u. U are a girl.!! I read very well what d OP has said. Something dat should be condemned among youngsters. Go and read d Bible, it is dere. Y should someone pay a bride price when she has completely given herself up to be used by one nonsense boy. It applies to every female whether she is my sister, cousin or niece. Girls should better use deir brain ooo.

takoi:
There is no doubt that you are sex starved and that no girl will ever agree to visit talk less of cohabiting with you.
Rubbish!!!!

The truth is as bitter as MAMA F.K. BITTERS so deal with it..why will another guy bang a gurl to remnants only for d supposed real hubby to pay bride price for another mans vomit.

There is no guy that is sex starved or else he decides to starve himself off sex so ur point of calling OP sex starved is void cos sex is so easy, cheap to get and as worthless as white crayon..if wielders and fabricators can bang girls for 200naira in ogun state then what more..an iron fabricator even had a 3some with 2 friends after buying them food and drink infact they co-habited with the iron fabricator till his contract was over in ogun state..constant 3 somes for 6months..

Elbisco:
(If you wont get angry for quoting you). You've made sane points,you're 100% correct,however, the more evil cohabition does is that the lady performs allllllll the functions of a wife. Its bad enough that we engage in pre marital intimacy,but salt is added to injury when she stoops low to perform the said functions without the right things done first. I hope I didn't overstep my bound!

lol no na.. I only get angry at posts that are angry..
yes you are right about the wifely duties and my first post on this thread condemned that.. I totally hate it.. cohabitation too is bad, but it doesn't change the fact that people engage in se.x more often than not even as singles .
if we want to regain our level of morality back, then premarital se.x should be the topic as a whole..where we condemn the act by both se.xes. if that is condemned, the degree to which cohabitation is at, will drop.. cause obviously guys cohabit basically for se.x while girls for the monetary benefits.

javaprogs:
There we go again, we the guys/men are the major perpetrators of these abnormalities. We play on the emotions of these beautiful species (females), we instigate several random request such as cohabitation; most times, out of love, fondness and trust they do as we wish regardless of how obscene the request seem. Verily, 90% of these said cohabitations are instigated by guys/men, then afterwards we come here to condemn. Cohabitation is morally wrong but not illegal. Most females end up finding themselves in these situations because they think with their emotions rather than their heads. On the other hand, guys instigate it b'cos as such points, they think with their manhoods and not their heads.

Everyone, one way or the other contributes to everything going wrong. Cohabitation is immoral because it goes against certain ethics and norms but not only the ladies are to be condemned for the act, although I agree that they are worst done by it. Guys are greatly responsible, either by instigation or by agreeing upon it when as the head of a relationship he should be to able to coordinate his affairs responsibly, duly and fairly.

Please folks, do not judge anyone because he that sineth not, let him cast the first stone. These females are emotionally and mentality incapable of not falling into this cohabitation thingy, but if you and I as men, can prevent it, then it can redressed and we can help these beautiful species restore some of their lost pride.

Cheers

d question is,,,,are d girls ROBOTS Have u not heard about girls who preferred to die Dan been raped. How much more someone instigating and asking for Cohabitation

aflyingbird:
I don't agree with cohabitation of any sort and have never done it nor will I ever do it. But to say a person loses their value because of it, really? If that's the extent if your education then I pity you. Some idi000ts here, even the females, are agreeing with the op. Too much ignorance and mediocre education is ruining Nigeria!

Yes u are losing ur value, its not about education, its about our moral values and believes..No parent will be happy that a man is constantly slamming there daughter for free without paying the bride price.

Rapmoney:
I see u lack common sense!

I know d truth hurts my dear! Take heart. Buha ha haha haha, can't stop laughing.

Elbisco:
she's harming them by belittling herself. By done the right thing at the wrong time

so by meeting her sexual needs she is belittling herself, does the same apply when a guy meets his sexual needs?

shadowgwalker:
true talk @ op...
I think they got no value, most of them finally rush into marriage coded and finally crash it down.

kaî!! imagine when you get kids and one man that fyiok the Mother in the past school days comes out boastfully (maybe to revenge broken heart) and starts giving the child gist on how she fyioks in her school days... ewww!!!

dats d dignity alot of girls don't watch out for. Dese guys will say it boldly outside. I know some girls and women about deir sexual exploits. Not dat i slept with dem but people around me, telling vivid account how dey went about laying dem. I always show contempt for such ladies. What ladies don't know is....guys move on and u are at a lose

pretty050:
Why should the woman take all the blame. They are both living a sin. "Wall mongers and adulterous (fornicators in this case)God will judge "

even if both are to be blame, if d woman no open her legs, how will d guy entre d place It takes two to tango. A guy can demand and d girl can say no....simple

My dear, write English! Comprehension is a sum-total of impressions derivable from your submission, and I chose to react to a segment of it! Honestly, Buhari should revive our educational system, a lot of charlatans are being churned out!

Is it conceivable that such an act would hurt no one? Get real!! It's Monday morning and I'm don't want irritants!

Moana:
you clearly closed your eyes when u got to the part i said so long they are not hurting anyone else, but then i cant be held responsible for what you decide not to comprehend.

bukatyne:


You mind them?

On one hand, they say women feel they are doing men a favor: sex is mutually enjoyed.

On the other hand, a woman depreciates when she has sex... a man does not

It is well

A key that can open several padlocks is a master key but a padlock that can be opened by any and every key is Useless..